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Raenna

@slelet-ncliquefag

supernovas created the iron in your veins
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it is quiet you say something that you regret almost immediately i make you feel that regret with my silence you trip over your words  trying to think of an apology but you stop yourself people shouldn’t apologize  when things don’t work out i never believed in fate or the power of the universe but broken hearts are too much to blame on two people or three or four love sometimes just walks out the door and that is not anybody’s fault it is okay i forgive you for not saying what you could have said i am thankful that you didn’t because if you did i might have stayed and who knows how long we would have waited before putting on the next band-aid.

We were already falling apart darling (via ink-trails)

I’ve seen a few posts going around with advice on how to persuade a guy to use a condom if he doesn’t want to, or saying things like “if the choice is a condom or no sex, he’ll pick the sex”. Well, I’m here to tell you all that if a guy is that indifferent towards your physical safety and comfort, you should absolutely not have sex with him at all. I’m tired of always being asked to cajole and wheedle men into treating women decently. I don’t want advice that tells me that if I don’t want to have sex with a guy, I should try to bargain him down to a less invasive sex act. I don’t want advice that tells me I need to find ways to deal with men who don’t care. I want advice that tells me how to say no to these kinds of guys, because no matter how much you beg and negotiate, they’ll still be trash. I should have my boundaries respected.