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Rilya (they/them) 21yo | Pathologic / Hamlet / The Witcher |  Filthy Daniil Dankovsky kinnie | Art blog: @myotistar. (My previous blog is @rilya-dewilder)

I think disabled people deserve high income for free forever with no strings attached and I’m not kidding

disabled people deserve basics. but we also deserve to go on vacation. we deserve splurging on a $50 video game every once in a while. we deserve nice meals and nice clothes and nice things. we deserve a nice candle. and fancy soap.

disabled ppl deserve to be comforted by human impulses like the rest of y’all

lol remember when people were getting pissy about my idea of ‘nice things’ and ‘disposable income’ because it was just describing their everyday life and that’s not glamorous

meanwhile I wrote this post living on my best friends couch living out of a suitcase lol

Gaybian Sunset Meadow Flag

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Sort of edited my original gay-lesbian/gaybian flag with some color change, addition of flag stripe meaning, and updated language to be more clear and inclusive in explanation.

Explanation:

A gay-lesbian/gaybian/lesbigay flag for abro genderfluid/multigender people. Someone's attraction changes with or is influenced by their genderfluidity/multiple genders. One's orientation shifts between or is both lesbian/sapphic & gay/vincian.

Other trans/nonbinary, mspec, & aspec abros/multigender people and anyone that feel like this fits them in some way are welcome to use this as well!

Flag meaning text:

Maroon/reddish purple - Multitudes; as in multiple genders, ways of identifying/defining one's self, and if one has a system with headmates that have different/shifting orientations, plurality.

Dark red - Diversity; as in the diversity of identity across the world, time, and each individual uniqueness in how they describe themselves. Acknowledging the variation in identity across all races, cultures, ethnicities, and religions.

Orange - Resilience; as in our strength to recover from and push against societal norms, expectations, and understanding. It also symbolizes our flexibility to explore our identity in different ways and being comfortable with ourselves despite disapproval/opposition towards us.

White - Complexity; as in embracing that you or others may never fully understand one's complicated selfhood. Embracing the weird, the incomprehensible, the contradictory nature of the universe.

Light green - Harmony; as in being at peace and being confident with who you are. Many different parts of who you are arranged into a unified, but distinct self.

Teal - Inclusivity; as in being against bigotry, exclusionism, and assimilation. Understanding that we know ourselves better than anyone and letting others exist as who they are as well. Welcoming all good-faith identification, xenogenders, cultural genders, and more.

Dark blue-green - Fluidity; as in the fluidity of one's identity and of the mind. Keeping one's mind open to change, new concepts, and always willing to learn or correcting one's knowledge in the face of new information.

Here's the older version:

Side note/disclaimer: You do not have to use this flag nor any other label/micro label if it is similar to another label/identity you are already comfortable with. Labels are not prescribed, we decide what is best for ourselves and what we vibe with.

Flag is free to use & share!