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pandacupcakes!

@sky21limits

.....funny story
““But I’m just being honest!” That’s right. You are just being honest. You are not being compassionate, or considerate, or thoughtful, or loving, or polite, or even pleasant. Just. Honest. There are times when someone has to deliver an unpleasant truth. There may even be times when that person is the “just being honest” fanatic. But so much more often, unvarnished honesty is unnecessary, unkind, and unwarranted, and a little thought put into the delivery of the message would go such a long way toward making it valuable and constructive feedback rather than a shattering blow that can only be forgiven, not forgotten.”

Most people who insist on being “brutally honest” enjoy the brutality much more than the honesty.

Bolded for emphasis.

(via dogslug)

I learned this lesson the hard way from a former friend. Ouch. (via composerose)

if I had a nickel for every time seth green played the nice boyfriend of the bookish, nerdy girl who fights supernatural beings with her group of friends (called the scooby gang) led by her pretty but badass best friend (played by sarah michelle gellar) before she eventually came out as a lesbian, I'd have two nickels.

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Which isn’t a lot but it’s weird it happened twice….