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I don't see any reason to gas up anybody who's constantly mean and has a bad attitude half the time. Some of these girls (whit e.. girls..) round me at school doing hair and they always complaining! Bout doing hair!! And then ppl wanna compliment on how "good" they are but like if ur not gonna be nice or show that ur enjoying what ur doing for ppl then.. I don't wanna get my hair done by u

It's still kinda hard to engage in group conversations with ppl I don't know tooo well. Imma have days where I wanna talk and joke around but sometimes I have a hard time trying to talk cuz everyone else is talking and the conversations goes by so fast lol.. I tend to stay with myself cuz I don't feel like putting in a lot of effort only to be ignored half the time.

Be careful how comfortable you get with jokes that cut yourself down and emphasize the false concept that there’s no hope for your future and life is pointless. I get that talking about struggles is important and helps in not feeling alone. There has to be a line though, between “hey here’s something that’s rough so I’m gonna laugh about it” and cheering each other on as you hammer unhealthy concepts deeper into your mind. You are not worthless. You are not ugly. You are not trash. Good is absolutely possible in your future. Don’t forget that words have power. Be careful how much poison you throw in your own well.

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