Oh yeah I’m with you there, I like the idea of him being a cute husband but because of the fact that there was zero build-up to make him being married convincing, but him being married also zapped away his entire personality. (I talked with my friend about this and they said it’s possible he just mellowed out since being married but,,,,someone’s personality shouldn’t change that much after getting married.) And now all his character arc is doing is him just being content with everything now and not voicing his own opinions on things ever. Like the whole thing with Sinister and Apoc being on Krakoa, those two are the last people on Earth he would trust and yet he’s said absolutely nothing on them being there. Maybe there was one (1) moment in Excalibur where he voiced concern, but that was bc it was centered around Anna. Once again. He has very good reason to not trust Apoc that doesn’t involve his romantic relationships and yet that’s the beginning and end of it. (I won’t give Excalibur too much credit bc then they had him being so protective over Anna that he just didn’t care about Betsy, Jubilee, or Julio- which is just hot garbage to me bc you’re gonna tell me he doesn’t care about his team, a team that consists of people he knows closely and trusts? I don’t buy it.)
Tbh this reminds me of a convo I had a bit ago where I basically went into how him being content with everything and being perfectly okay not doing anything involving the X-Men is actually build-up to him realizing he was just acting this way bc he wanted to be what Anna wanted of him even if it isn’t fulfilling anymore, and then it clicks that he isn’t happy seeing all his friends fling themselves into danger while he sits back and watches. Like did we forget why he joined X-Factor?? He joined X-Factor because he wanted to help people, yeah he’s not in the X-Men but he still wants to make a difference somehow. So it’s just so off to me that he would happily choose to just let others do that kind of thing while he does nothing. Like it goes against his entire established personality to me????
I wanna see him interact with his other friends, maybe struggle with his powers bc there’s no way he’s in total control without breaking a sweat from time to time (-stares at Remy’s death persona-), and y’know, maybe actually face his insecurities and learn that he actually isn’t 100% mentally okay despite the mask he puts on. (bc yeah, everyone seemed to forget he’s a people pleaser and goes the extra mile for people closest to him without really caring about his own wellbeing but whatever, not like that would be interesting to explore bc then it would highlight how little he thinks of himself. not an interesting character arc at all) But y’know, don’t know when we’ll actually get a decent writer for him but I’ll remain optimistic for now.