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Shamelessly Unladylike

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The Angry Hairy Lesbian Feminist they've warned you about.

If companies really want my LGBT money, what they ought to do is invest in "masculine" clothes made to fit female forms and "feminine" clothes made to fit male forms.

Im a gender-nonconforming woman. I don't want a binder and shapewear or whatever to help me conform to men's clothing, I want women's "men's" clothing!

I imagine there's gotta be some gender-nonconforming men out there that would prefer dresses, skirts, blouses, whatever, made for their body type instead of having to cram hot sweaty foam around their hips and breasts to help them conform to women's clothing. Men who want men's "women's" clothing.

But gender nonconformity that's done without trying to fit into the other sex's mold isn't popular or profitable...

It's concerning that this is now an LGB and women's issue now, but I really encourage people to begin purchasing USB drives or external hard drives and saving digital research on things such as gay & lesbian history, screenshots of tweets that might be important, homosexual and bisexual research, women's history, radical feminist books or PDFs, and really just anything that is at risk of being "corrected" by gender ideology or made inaccessible by academic publishers.

We need to save these things in a hard copy format as opposed to just using internet archive or taking Sci-hub for granted, because these organizations are experiencing heavy lawsuits. Additionally, it's becoming common for LGB and gender nonconformity history and research to be "rewritten" by gender ideologists. Actually, this is even true for past research and history on transvestism and transsexualism, too, in addition to things such as sex dysphoria, etc.

I bought three 64GB USBs for just $25. If you can't afford an external hardrive, buy some different colored USBs and start building your own library. We need to preserve this information and decentralize it as much as possible. It's worrisome enough that we rely on digital archives this much just generally, especially with the advent of AI and government and corporate attempts to eliminate data privacy and control.

This is a women's rights issue and an LGB issue now.

My partner in mechanic school is a confident stud in her mid-30s. We work beautifully together. We giggle when we work on engines together, having to stick our fingers into cylinders, waiting for top dead center, and both of us obviously reminded of something else. Laughing when we have our matching pink safety glasses on, asking the other for the pair of dykes. Both of us with deft fingers, she normally works on the top (bad knees), me on bottom (good knees), she checks the manual and I remember to where everything is, she tells me when there's grease on my face and I make sure her locs aren't getting dirty. We play music or joke around the whole time. We take our time and get high scores. We have pride in ourselves and our work. We learn a lot and have fun.

And surrounding our little bubble is hundreds of men, staring, judging, coming over with their tools to sabotage or make comments. It literally feels like the wolves are always at the door. But we have each other's backs.

Being in a nearly all-male environment made me realize a few things. The few women in the hangar fiercely look out for each other. It could be because we're women who chose to defy expectations of our sex and we know how hard it is. I haven't felt women working as a defiant collective like this before, and outside of the hangar where I'm not so outnumbered, I've noticed women don't defend one another as deeply. And I think that's a shame.

Women side with men more than we have to. My life has gotten so much better since I started valuing my relationships with women much more than men. My alliance will always lie with women. Men will never protect you. Only we will protect each other. Life gets easier, brighter, when there's more women (and fewer men) in it. Stop listening to what men are telling you. You know in your heart that men will always value their fellow men over you. Do yourself and your sisters a favor and start valuing your fellow women.

“Many discussions on misogyny… fail to name men as the beneficiaries of harm against women… As concerning as it is to note how many women are willing to risk their own death on the operating table in the interest of achieving a desired appearance, we should never forget it is the surgeon who is willing to risk killing them.”

- Detransition: Beyond Before and After, Max Robinson

Anonymous asked:

Do you have any favorite examples of bizarre sexual dimorphism in nature?

sure do!

the blanket octopus is a wonderous creature. reaching about two meters in length, the females glide majestically through the tropical south seas, trailing two huge vibrant coattail cloaks of fused tentacle webbing behind them!

they use their brightly-colored cloak as an intimidation factor, tricking predator and prey alike into thinking that they're MUCH bigger than they actually are! look at this, would you mess with this?? I would not mess with this.

the males, on the other tentacle arm, are about an inch long.

*squeaky toy noise*

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I wish it were more acceptable for girls and women to just call feminine beauty rituals degrading.

like i cant believe how much i used to jump around that word growing up. No, I'm not gonna wear a swimsuit that's designed to show my entire ass, only looks good when im completely bald down there or otherwise forces me to constantly monitor my behavior or my literal gentials will spill out of it because it's "just not my style". I find it literally degrading. I feel like an animal.

Wonder Woman with top surgery,,,,

Amazonians (not the DC ones), were said to have removed their right breast so they could use bows easier. So I thought of Diana just straight up having full top surgery, and I imagine it wouldnt be uncommon in Themiscyra to have that as well

There is no actual evidence of the caucasus mountains and asian steppes peoples that inspired the myths of the amazons ever having practiced breast removal. This idea came from the greeks, who considered these peoples barbarians with a strange and savage culture.

Also having boobs does not get in the way of shooting a bow and whoever came up with this idea never shot a bow.

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“The most oppressed man finds a being to oppress, his wife: she is the proletarian of the proletarian.”

Flora Tristan, “The Emancipation of Woman, or the Testament of the Pariah” (1843)

Anonymous asked:

Vc vai pro show da taylor swift?

Cara eu vou te dizer que nunca ouvi uma música na Taylor Swift na vida.

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you heard it here first folks, women aren't allowed to ask basic questions or advocate for our rights because.... Uhhhhh...... THERES GONNA BE AN APOCALYPSE OK?!? so just shut up about it :)

"As in post-disaster contexts, the reasoning given varies (cultural sensitivities; including women would delay the negotiations; women can be included after an agreement has been reached) but they boil down to the same line that has been used to fob off women for centuries: we'll get to you after the revolution. It's a rational that is the clearly a function of sexism, a symptom of the world that believes women's lives are less important than 'human' lives, where 'human' means male."

- Caroline Criado-Perez "Invisible Women"

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—Andrea Dworkin

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Honestly the reasons that I’ve started studying coding and computer science are feminist. Constant survaillance has become such a staple of our lives in general, but women especially these days are encouraged to “always look camera ready.” And the size and scope of “secret” pornography shot via hidden camera, spying on webcam, hacking into a phone. I don’t know about anyone else who grew up in the 2000s, but at my schools we had several girls a year who got suspended for a nude photo of her leaked around school (usually sent to friends by a boyfriend or ex).

Women and especially teenage girls are vulnerable in this technical society in a way that I think a lot of men and even a lot of women overlook.

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Gonna add to this soon about the rise of AI porn and wondering how far I may’ve gotten in preventing it where I could have, had I chosen to keep studying computer science back in 2017 instead of working in the healthcare field up until recently

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My worry is that laws like this are just now being written and introduced instead of having been planned as safeguards in advance, because coomers gonna coom. I mean, I saw something like this coming 6 years ago, didn’t want to but we’re in the worst timeline or something

“Morelle’s office said in a release Friday that technological progress has allowed for rapid growth of deepfakes, with a 2019 report finding 96 percent of deepfake videos online were pornographic and exclusively targeted women. ”

96%

“The release notes that a reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act signed by President Biden last year allows those affected by the nonconsensual disclosure of intimate images to sue for civil penalties in court but did not create those protections for those affected by deepfakes. The bill, titled the ‘Preventing Deepfakes of Intimate Images Act,’ would make sharing digitally altered intimate images a crime, give victims a way to take action to seek relief and maintain their anonymity in the cases. It would also clarify that an individual agreeing to the image being created does not establish their consent for the image being shared.”

Just last year Biden did that, wasn’t on the books officially enough before. The internet is moving way faster than our government can keep up with in general but porn especially has always been way out of their league and they’ve let too much fly for too long.

On the revolutionary concept of women in practical clothing

Although there was more than a symbolic connection between the suffocating confinements of women’s long skirts and the suffocating restrictions that defined women’s roles, the dress-reform movement of the 1850s became an excruciating personal torment and a political mortification to the American heroines of women’s rights.

 Among the pioneers [of the “rational dress movement”] were Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucy Stone, the Grimke sisters and the self-effacing Quaker organizer Susan B. Anthony, who later recalled this time in her life as “a mental crucifixion.”

[…] Elizabeth Smith Miller, the daughter of abolitionist Gerrit Smith, [created “the short dress”] which she had originally stitched up for working in the garden. [It] had a somewhat Turkish look. The lower part consisted of a pair of ankle-length pantaloons with an overskirt that came to the knees. To the knees! No trailing skirts to get caught underfoot, stepped on, ripped or soiled. No undulating petticoats to gather up and hold with dainty grace while turning a corner or sitting down, in order to avoid a mishap. On a visit to Seneca Falls, Lizzie Miller gave Lizzie Stanton a practical demonstration. She showed her cousin how confidently she could walk up a flight of stairs with a baby in her arm and an oil lamp balanced in her other hand, without fear of tripping. Mrs. Stanton, who already had four of her seven children, was instantly converted.

With the bounding enthusiasm for which she was famous, she applied the scissors and needle to her own long skirts and began to evangelize among her many friends in suffrage and abolition, offering to make a present of the short dress to Susan Anthony, a promising new ally from the temperance movement. […] Stanton wrote to her cousin. “We can have no peace in travelling unless we cut off the great national petticoat … Stand firm.”

There were many exhortations from one feminist to another in the years 1851 and 1852 to stand firm. Wrote Ida Husted Harper, “… the press howled in derision, the pulpit hurled its anathemas and the rabble took up the refrain. On the streets of the larger cities the women were followed by mobs of men and boys, who jeered and yelled and did not hesitate to express their disapproval by throwing sticks and stones.” Many a votes-for-women rally turned into a circus when an unruly mob invaded the hall to gawk at the [short dress]. What began as a personal convenience had turned into a painful political principle, the right of a woman to wear comfortable clothes. In December 1852 while visiting with Mrs. Stanton, Susan B. took the plunge, shortening her skirts and cutting her hair to make a total statement. “Well, at last I am in short skirt and trousers!” she anxiously wrote to Lucy Stone. She was the last of the great suffragists to adopt the style. 

Within one year, she would be among the last to still wear it.”

- Susan Brownmiller, Femininity

This is the “short dress” that women, well-known activists and organisers who were at the front of a massive social revolution, had to withstand physical and verbal harassment and public humiliation to wear:

I don’t think men have become any less committed to enforcing decorous object status on women, what with stilettos and 2-inch long fake nails, and clothes that can’t be moved in without constant re-adjustment or restriction. 

The best I can say is they’ve lost some of the power they had to force their way. And for that, we thank these women.