anonymous asked:

Um, hey. I don't know how to say this without sounding rude so I'll apologise in advance. But you don't get to choose whether or not other people are triggered by your posts. They can't choose to not look at something if they haven't seen it yet - at least if it's not tagged. I'm glad that you're accepting your body (Which is beautiful btw) but you have to be aware of the damage that you could be doing by showing that. You've been in that hell - don't trap your followers in it. Thank you 🌹

listen dude i am not going to bring myself down by constantly being reminded to tag pictures of myself as self harm. it’s a personal subject to me, i don’t want to be reminded of it every time i try to literally live my life, i absolutely don’t want it showing up in fucking tags & search results, and that’s that.

i am TELLING YOU how it is:

im gonna post pictures of myself on my blog

for reasons i keep fucking explaining to yall i am not going to be tagging pictures of myself where my old scars are visible as “self harm” or “trigger warning”

thats it thats how it fucking is. if youre so high risk to yourself that seeing out of context scars is a threat to your wellbeing, you can click the ‘unfollow’ button and never see that ever again! thanks & if i get one more fucking ask like this im deleting i swear to god this is not the fucking topic yall

anonymous asked:

your arm is way more triggering than the one of your thiung, just, please? its more of the main thing than your thighs, im trying to ask nicely

so dont look at it. if i trigger you dont look at me dude. you can ask as nicely as u want, its still rude as shit to even bring it up. obvs a touchy subject. stop asking about it thanks

dear kpop fans

Before reading, please try to understand my frustration behind this post. And since I feel like I need to specify this before I get hate for having a bts url, as it has happened several times before, I AM AN EXO-L AND A CARAT.

  • YOUR IDOLS ARE NOT CHILDREN:  Ignorance should not be tolerated at all. Fans are treating idols like they aren’t grown ass adults who should know how to act as public figures. Using racist slurs, making fun of others with darker skin tones, or straight out discriminating, IS NOT OKAY. And don’t use the “it’s korean culture” excuse because that’s like saying americans can be ignorant/ discriminatory of east asians because that’s our culture.
  • FEMALE IDOLS ARE IDOLS TOO: Don’t ignore an entire side of music because you simply “aren’t into girls”, and I’ve seen that wording way too many times to count. Female idols are hard-working and deserve recognition, just like boy groups do. And don’t call them degrading names if they do a little hip shake while your bias is over there dry humping the floor. 
  • DON’T BASH AN IDOL FOR THEIR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: Picking on an idol for not having the typical “kpop idol body” is NOT ACCEPTABLE. Comments like that is what scars people and for idols, it is not any different. Encourage them to be healthy, not malnourished. 
  • BE RESPECTFUL TO OTHER GROUPS: I’ve seen way too many posts about ignorant fans telling groups to disband and people to kill themselves. It’s not okay to bring down another group of people, as it’s disrespectful, rude, and only making you look worse as a person. NO GROUP IS BETTER THAN ANOTHER. It doesn’t matter who you stan or who you don’t stan, you should not bash another group to make yours look better.
  •  DON’T ATTACK NEW FANS, EDUCATE THEM: I completely understand when people get offended by “broken english” type stuff cause it is really disrespectful, but you shouldn’t just insult someone or bully them off a platform for using “hearteu” or whatever. If they continue to say things after you politely explain it to them, then that’s a different story. 
  • YOUR BIAS IS NOT THE ONLY MEMBER OF THEIR GROUP: Appreciate other members and support them too! I understand that “loving all members equally” isn’t a realistic thing to do but don’t use them as beds!
  • IF THERE IS AN FAQ, READ IT: If a writing blog explicitly states “don’t ask for updates” then maybe uhhh DON’T ASK FOR UPDATES. Do yourself a favor and just read the faq before you ask questions, because if you ask them one of those, you’re wasting your time and the writer’s time since they just tell you to go read it.
  • YOU DO NOT OWN YOUR IDOL: Just like you want cute hugs and cuddles, your idol probably does too!! Try to understand that they are not Sims characters that you watch through a screen and get to dictate all their decisions. They have wants and needs too, just like all of you so support their relationships!!
bring your good times and your laughter

amy santiago is the youngest captain in nypd history, and a freakout of corresponding magnitude ensues (feat: mentions of peraltiago babies, husband of the year detective jake peralta, and a ref to kokomo). title from celebration. as always, i owe my life and all my worldly possessions to @jakelovesamy and @elsaclack. also on ao3

The door shuts behind Captain Amy Santiago (she’s been in official possession of that title for a full three hours, and she has every intention to use it on even her takeout orders, just to hear the sound). The click of the doorknob is louder than expected, and she pauses for a moment, hand hovering, to see if anyone outside noticed, but the chorus of “Celebration” is blasting so loudly that the blinds are rattling against the windows. She shuts them, suppressing a reflexive sigh at the thought of the confetti littering the bullpen - her bullpen - and focusing on the overwhelming joy of this moment.

She moves behind her desk, savoring the feel of the new, heavy medals against her shoulder and the hat resting atop her perfectly smooth bun (she’d spent at least an hour ensuring every hair was in place. It could’ve been half that time, but Rae and Ana, nothing short of tornadoes, had spun through their bathroom halfway through the preparations, already in their pajamas for the babysitter, to grab Amy by the bun and plant large toddler kisses on her forehead, leaving bumps in Amy’s ponytail that refused to settle). Her desk is nearly bare, with only two framed photos perched below her desktop. There hasn’t been time for case files to accumulate, for her detectives and beat cops to need signatures or approvals or second opinions. The thought of the work excites her and terrifies her simultaneously, and it’s only as she’s sitting at this desk, so similar to that of her mentor’s, two precincts over, that the gravity of her situation hits her.

She, Captain Amy Santiago, is the youngest captain in NYPD history.

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hello everyone!!! so today is thanksgiving which means i’m even more soft than usual!! because i am so thankful for all of you, i decided today would be the perfect day to finally make my first follow forever. i love you all so much and i’m so happy to have all of you as my mutuals!


@alittleofswift @allthedamntime @allthewtiches @angelharrie @anotherdrama @anotherdramadrama @askingyouthis @backasthorns @burninitdown @castlescrumbledovernight @cloudydayswift @coffee-midnight @colorsinautumn @couldbtrusted @dancinroundthekitchen @dec13th@dontbllameme @dreamimpossibleswift @eastsidedivebar @fifteeen @fifteenmp3 @fifth-harmony @firstmetme@flowermotifs​​


@glitteronthefloors @hairbleached @happyforswift @holygrcunds @hugeselenatorswiftie @iknowsplaces @ikywt @inadaydreams @isntcools @jaylorswift @lightheartedjoke @lovestory @noitsydney @notbeingmines @nowimyourdaisys @ncwyearsday  @onethingright @onnewyearsday @sademtytown @safeandsuond @shadesofruin @shakeitoff  @selenaslyrics @selena-taylor @straightlinedownx @stcrlghts @sunsetandvinee @sparksflys


@tamenow @tayloralbums @taylorr-13 @taylorswift @taylurh @tayswiftnation @teardropsonsmyguitar @teylors @thelasttime @theysayididsomethingbad @thiefthen @thislovesours @thotjuly9th @treachreous @triestoohard @trustsnobodys @tshifty @tswiftbecky @upbottleswithyou @villageisaglow @wildesttdream @youandmeforevermore @youfitinmypoem @youllbeeightynine @youngernows @yourbadreams

anonymous asked:

any cool aes//kpop blogs I should follow?

i follow a LOT of blogs but i’ll try to list some of my mutuals on top of my head 🤸🏻‍♀️

@teapical @starbrights @miyoungsgirl @chococofactory @3fairy @kevidnay @zcinab @nut4zyx @godbbh @xswing @soulgirlfriend @1ipsticks @lattemumu @kibumkim @02choi @soybun @toffee @mixedboy @baeksesposa @eaxct @micdropbyjin @pcys27 @sexofficer @cyberksoo @ksoosbitch @2equals2 @chenlezhong @04blush @eheart @rosebbh @kimk4i @wiiu @4odd @20km @rocklee @angelicincarnate @soyousgf @godnny @jonginsavedmylife @1ovely @heartnini @cherishyixing @jiminsfursuit @likeymp3 @romantical @bfchen @yoonjunghan @sullil @88swife @wlwsunmi @plu1e @exidlesbian @jhsbts @naruqo @gta-v @kangseulgis @giribouy @1kingsoo @princeksoo @unlovers @cherrybonbon @okboy @velvet1esbian @rojovelvets @1ovevelvet @1ovealone @7girlsday @nintnendo @pinklesbian @swimmingfool @ncttxt @joonfriend @partyt4lk @publicly