If you’re ace and nonbinary, I want you to know that you’re allowed to identify however you want, and that you’re identity is your own to define.
If you’re aro and nonbinary, I want you to know that youre allowed to identity in whatever way makes you comfortable, and that you get to decided who you are.
If you’re aroace and nonbinary, I want you to know that your identity matters, and no one can tell you how you get to identify.
I love you.
I am an nb butch lesbian, but sometimes I get intrusive thoughts about being a trans boy. I don't feel or want to be a boy, but I do like looking like one and I would like to transition as transmasculine. Is this normal?
Sorry your question is just now being answered friend! (I’ve been thinking a lot about this question admittedly) I know several people that have had similar experiences; if that’s what you mean by is your experience “normals.” Heck yeah it is! Binaries are pretty deeply ingrained by us if we life here in modern western society. If someone is stepping out of a conforming to one binary gender means we want to step fully into the other binary gender right? Obvious not, but I feel like that is the thought process many of us battle with. As someone with DPD I know how much intrusive thoughts can pressure you to conform to normative ideas in order to gain approval.
To cut this rambling short; -non-boys can take t and have top surgery -Non-boys can wanna pass for men in public Your expression is not your gender. Wanting to express one way or another does not determine your gender! Good luck! I hope those intrusive thoughts leave you alone soon! -Mod t
prompt 62, "its okay to cry", for genji with a reader that cries very easily and is ashamed of it?
The tears fell on your shirt, leaving small stains on the fabric. You sobbed into your sleeve, trying to hide the tears - but it was no use. “It’s okay to cry.”, Genji said and put his hand on your shoulder to comfort you. “I have also cried in my past life.” “But you don’t cry three times a week!”,you mumbled and wiped your running nose with your shirt. “Sometimes it’s three times a day! I hate this.” He pulled you close, wrapping his arms around you. A weak sob escaped your lips and you burried your face in his chest to hide your tear-stained eyes. “It’s okay.”, he whispered, squeezing your body gently.
we are currently working on a MASTERLIST of trans/nb characters in the rpc. so reblog this to be added to it if your character is trans/nb!! please include: the character’s name, fandom,and gender. thank you :)
45 "had a nightmare and needed to make sure you were okay," with the shimada bros and mccree, before they're dating the reader. Like, really good friends, and then reader just kinda pops over visibly shaken and yeah. Ur blog is cool ily bye
Writing prompts are limited to one character so I’ll chose McCree~
“I had a nightmare about you and I just wanted to make sure you’re okay.”, you whispered, still trying to calm your trembling hands. “I’m sorry I woke you up.” “No, it’s fine. Was your dream really that bad?” You nodded. Jesse sighed and leaned against the door frame. “Wanna come in?” “Ah-!! No, no it’s alright!”, you mumbled embarassed and stared at your feet, blushing and sweating. “I’m going to bed! Uh- g’night!” A puzzled look followed you down the hallway and Jesse smiled. You sure were cute, all blushing and babbling…
“You’re safe now. I’ve got you.”
You felt your body being lifted from the ground, but your eyelids were to heavy to see what was going on. All you could remember was getting a hard hit on the head and then - nothing. “What happened…?” You recognized this man’s smell… Gabriel! “Gabe, what happened?” “Well, you got a little too close to Reinhardt when Ana boosted him.”, he replied and pulled you a little closer to his body. “You really need to be more careful around him!” “I’m sorry…”, you murmured and clasped his coat. Actually, it was really nice to be carried by Reaper.