Honestly I’m sick of going into any tag involving “problematic” ships and seeing massive amounts of hate from people. These ships are all FICTIONAL. As in NOT REAL so why are people causing actual harm by attacking/bullying people who enjoy these ships? Most people that ship problematic ships DO NOT ship them because of the problem!!! If a ship has abuse between the two involved, we don’t sit here and go “oh I ship it because it’s abusive”. We absolutely IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM condone abuse. in most cases we envision our ship as healthy and caring towards one another and don’t include the problem. Obviously we acknowledge that there is a problem but I don’t think people are getting the fact that THE PROBLEM IS NOT THE REASON WHY WE SHIP THE SHIP. personally, I couldn’t care less what you are shipping even if I’m not a fan of it I’m not going to attack you because I don’t agree with it.
So, things to remember;
1: these ships are most likely fictional
2: we acknowledge that there is problems with the ship
3: we don’t ship the ship because of the problem
4: we DO NOT condone the problem
5: we just wanna have a good time without being attacked. Let people enjoy things