Your life is completely useless to society and when you die you’ll be a forgotten simply shoved into the void of people that don’t matter. Speaking of things that don’t matter, your opinion. Just like you, can’t you see how irrelevant it is to come onto a blog dedicated to a certain ship and cause pointless drama over ships. Get a life while you still can anon.
So I have this really good friend. I've known her for about 4 years and were super close and tell each other everything. She knows that I'm aro and is super supportive. I just recently found out what qpr's are and it sounds a lot like us.... but I'm not sure if I really want to tell her about this, I feel like she might get uncomfortable. Because all the stuff we've been doing has just been considered friendship to me (like cuddles, hugging, going out, etc)
You never have to label a relationship as something, even if it does technically fit the definition of a QPR. If you’re comfortable continuing to label your relationship as a really good friendship, then you can. The most important thing is that you found this amazing person.
If you do kind of want to label your relationship as a QPR, you can always bring up qprs theoretically without pointing out that they remind you of your relationship and see how she feels about them. Of course, you know her better than I do, so if you think she’ll connect the dots to “oh this sounds like our relationship” and then get uncomfortable with it then I suppose maybe you won’t want to do this either.
However, qprs don’t have to signify anything more than just a really good friendship (and if you do decide to bring qprs up, you can mention this). They can signify all sorts of things, and in the end its really just a label that is comforting to a lot of people but definitely does not have to be used.
Marissa Alexander, the Jacksonville, Florida, woman jailed in 2012 over a warning shot she fired to defend herself from an attack by her abusive husband, was freed from house arrest Friday.
According to the anti-violence initiative Survived and Punished, Alexander has completed two years of court-ordered home confinement, after she served nearly three years in state prison on weapons and assault charges.
In 2014, following an appeal of her conviction in a jury trial, Alexander accepted a plea deal to avoid a potential 60 years behind bars. Read more.
How to adult on a budget for the lazy and new adulting people (by a not-so-adulty-adult)
learn how to cut your own hair. If it’s something easy like an undercut or just trimming your ends every month, you’ll look clean and put together without shelling out $20 every month. (my hair cutting stuff cost like $20 total)
if you have to go to a laundromat, make your own detergent. Or just in general. It’s about $15 for everything you’ll need and it’ll make you a solid 6-10 batches depending on how many soap bars you get. 1 bar ivory soap or fels-naptha (ivory works just fine tbh. Cheaper and easier to find) Grate that shit. 1 cup borax and 1 cup washing powder. Mix that shit. 1 tablespoon in the wash. Boom. Add essential oils if you so choose.
On the topic of laundry, throw all your clothes in the same load. Use the cold-cold setting and you can put those red shirts in with your whites with no bleeding whatsoever. (read those tags tho. unless it needs special care, most shirts/pants/socks/underwear can all be thrown together)
When money is tight for food, rice, 2 pounds of chicken, some kind of stock or bouillon cubes, and frozen veggies make about 2-3 different meals.
Keep a few bouillon cubes handy tbh. Cook rice in it. Make soup. They’re so much cheaper than stock itself.
Coconut oil for everything from actual oil to chapstick to cracked skin.
Baby powder makes a fairly good dry shampoo. Put it on your roots, scrub around, brush out. Boom.
Make scripts for all phone calls you ever have to make to make them go smoother. (bills, doctors, work, etc)
Fill 1 side of the sink with water to do your dishes and then rinse with the smallest amount of water possible so you dont end up using a lot of water.
Gasbuddy.com helps you find the cheapest gas near you!
Aldi has great cheap groceries
If you live alone or with 1 roommate, you don’t really need more than 12 megabyte internet speed. By yourself? Don’t get more than 6 tbh. You won’t need it.
Freeze all meats and veggies! Let’s be honest. You wont be eating carrots every day or that ground beef often enough for it to not go bad, Throw it in the freezer.
Dollar store cleaning supplies save the world. Everything there besides liquid soap is basically just as good. (glass cleaner, bleach, magic erasers, so on and so forth)
Dollar stores in general. Most things there will do in a pinch. (earbuds and most electronic/battery powered things are a no-no however)
Nail polish remover gets hair dye stains. Hydrogen peroxide gets up blood. Milk for ink. Chalk for oil.
Once you finish using a pot or pan, put hot water in it until you’re ready to clean it. Stuff will just wipe off.
Maybe your life isn’t the easiest, but a life is a life. If we focus on the bad things in our life then we begin to hyper focus on only that. So if we are always thinking about the bad things, how do we appreciate the good? We can’t.