Do you think it's fair to start a relationship with someone if you're depressed?
Hi, This is a very interesting concept. I realize that at the inception of a budding (or potential) relationship with someone, it is best practice to showcase your most refined and flawless self. You want to the person of interest to think you’re perfect, you want them to like you. People are inherently flawed, however. The nuance between individuals makes us exactly that; individual. One’s allergy to peanuts, phobia of heights, reluctance to anything spicy (me af), susceptibility to depression, everything about us makes us who we are. When gauging the morality of a decision, especially when it’s not exclusively your emotions being weighed in the equation, I’m not so sure I have enough information to answer the question you’re asking. What I do believe is true in life, is love is the most beautiful thing we as humans do, make and feel. Without love, life would be utterly meaningless. We need it for purpose. We need it for passion. Love makes colors more vibrant, sounds more euphonious, food more delicious. We as humans have been able to manufacture a great many things, like clothes to keep us warm and drugs to make us “happy”, but something we cannot develop in a laboratory is love. It is something we cannot buy, it is something we cannot cheat. True love is the most precious and authentic display we can gift this world. So, do I think it’s fair or unfair to start a relationship with someone if you’re depressed? I think it’s selfish to deny yourself and the world the opportunity to love. Be honest with your partner. Relationships take work, but love is in fact the most beautiful thing in this life. xoxo, Cwote
THIS IS MY HUGE THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAS MADE THIS POSSIBLE —
like honestly, you guys are incredible ?? i owe you all so much for making me feel so welcomed & loved in such a short span of time ! i’ve only been up for a few months & i’m already loving you guys so much. i have made some really close friends already, who deserve a lil’ special THANK YOU of their own. so without further ado, here is a huge thank you to these cocoNUTS
ace, man, where do i even begin ?? we’ve been through it all…the thick, the thin & basically everything in - between. it’s just been the two of us together for literal YEARS now - it’s nuts but in a wonderful way. you never cease to make me smile & feel giddy & happy, you are honestly the brightest & sweetest ray of sunshine & incredibly talented in everything you do. & i will never thank you enough for all you’ve done for me : when i needed a shoulder to cry on, when i needed someone to rant with, when i have bizarre rarepair ships that border on the edge of crack & seriousness, & when i simply want to relax. i’m keeping this short for the sake of things, but honestly i cannot express how much you have meant to me & will always mean to me through words alone, & i’m proud to call you my girlfriend ♥ ♥ ♥
MONIE MONIE MONIE !! i am so glad that i approached you on anon that one day shyly introducing myself as “a new maui” bc honestly? that started the budding of a beautiful friendship between us & i’m always glad that i did befriend you, because you’ve ended up meaning a hell of a lot to me. your mo.a.na is amazing & you bring your own beautiful take on her to the table, but you are equally amazing as your own memey self. i’m so glad i was able to find you & click with you, because you really DO mean a lot to me & i’ll never take you for granted !!
BL U E !! you’re an amazing person to talk to & your portrayals are always so flawless ?? thank you for bringing to life kubo & allowing me to cry about these two demigod brothers with you ! i’m so glad i’ve been able to form a friendship with you & given ma.ui such a meaningful relationship. i hope to continue to get to know you better & breaking our hearts with these lovely boys !!
& now onto the rest of my mutuals & beloved followers, who i am eternally grateful for, below the cut. pardon if i missed anyone ! ( in no particular order )
free rper tip: i once was in a group rp where all characters were singers. one day they had a studio session, and we all had to send in a para of how it went. in my para i wrote in my character struggling with some of the notes, and him having to shift some things. when the admin got back to me they were all “no one ever actually made their character do bad in the studio”, and mind you: i didn’t make him do bad, i just didn’t make him do perfect.
so the tip is: your character is not flawless. your character is capable of error.
even in their field of work, something they have done their whole life, something they are an expert in, even a spencer reid kind of type is capable of making mistakes. don’t make your character perfect and flawless, because no actual person is. singers like patti lupone still take singing lessons, your favorite actor probably still takes acting lessons, your favorite artist still has to have an eraser nearby when drawing.
and for the admins: don’t tell a player that they made their character “do bad” unless it’s explictly bad. don’t tell a player that they made their character fuck up unless they explictly fucked up. don’t be a dick about your members’ characters.
Honestly??? You're so beautiful???? Like your face??? 10/10. Your clothes? Impeccable. Your hair? Flawless. Honestly you're the most beautiful person on this planet and don't let nobody tell you otherwise 😘💝
What the fuck this is so nice????? Thank you???? 💖💖💖💖
summary- the boy who risked it all for you cant seem to stay away. fallenangel!jungkook
a/n- ahh idk if this is what you wanted, but i like it? also, i ended up choosing little kookie because you were right- he fits it so well. anyway, hope you enjoy! (also, if you want, listen to thisif you want. i had it on repeat while i wrote this)
Fallen angels speak.
Smoke swirled around the room, the smell putrid and making the air stale. You choked on the aroma, desperately wishing for a breath of fresh air. Honestly, you didn’t know what made you decide to come here in the first place. It was dirty, and dangerous, and nobody would hesitate to kill you. But you needed the money.
You took a seat between two men, one big and mean-looking, the other lean and young. The mean one gave you a nasty glance and made a comment about how little girls shouldn’t be here. You didn’t respond.
Adrien kept repeating this thought in his head as he transformed into his alter ego, Chat Noir.
Now clad in his black leather cat themed hero costume, he left from his bedroom window and went to meet Ladybug for their nightly patrol of the city.
Adrien knew today was the day he would finally, truly convey his feelings to Ladybug. No flirty glances, no cheesy puns, no lame pick up lines, just his true feelings out in the air.
He dashed from rooftop to rooftop, slowly gaining more confidence to finally say his feelings. He eventually spotted his partner waiting on a roof just next to the louvre.
“About time you arrived Kitty.” His red clad partner said with a small smile.
He quickly landed on his feet (Somehow), and walked over to the beautiful heroine.
“My apologies, You know I hate to leave my lady waiting for me.” Chat noir flirted, mentally slapping himself. He thought he would avoid this today.
Ladybug laughed a bit.
“I am well aware. Luckily for you, I happen to have just arrived a minute before, so I was not waiting to long.” Ladybug informed her cat partner. “So where would you like to start our patrol this evening?”
Chat noir was relieved to hear the news. He was also very glad to hear that he would get to choose the patrol route tonight. Perhaps this would be a Purr-fect opportunity.
“How about we begin our patrol on the north side of the city.” Chat noir suggested, secretly knowing that the north side was filled with great shops and cafes that were open at this time. Perfect for setting up what he had in store.
“Sounds like a plan, Lead the way.” Ladybug playfully ordered as she motioned for that cat to lead.
“As you wish my lady.”
Through the course of the patrol, Chat noir had managed to convince Ladybug to try some of the shops and foods on the north side of the city. While she refused to let him pay for her. He did manage to get them some hot chocolate without her protesting.
The two heroes ended up sitting on a roof looking over most of the city. Hot chocolate in hand.
“Another wondrous patrol if I do say so myself.” Chat noir chimed as he took a sip of his hot cocoa.
“Yes, every Cafe and store in the north side has been protected from any villains.” Ladybug joked.
Chat noir chuckled at his lady’s quip. He loved hearing her more humorous banter.
While she was reluctant to go with Chat noir’s suggestions, they turned out to be very fun. Heroes can take breaks on occasion, plus there was no news of any crimes that evening so there was no harm in taking a night off.
“Perhaps next time we can protect the boutiques on the south side of the city.” Ladybug laughed as she sipped her chocolate drink.
Chat noir felt his pulse race as her laugh rang in his ears. She was in a great mood, there was no crime, no distractions, this was the moment he was waiting for.
“My lady.” Chat noir stated loudly. Ladybug turned to the cat, looking slightly perplexed at the cat’s sudden voice raise.
“Yes Chat?” Ladybug asked, her blue eyes looking right into his emerald green eyes.
The cat hero gulped his nerves down as he spoke.
“We have known each other for a while now. We have had some good, no, Great times. Times that I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world.” Chat noir began.
Ladybug looked at the cat, her eyes staring intently on him, wondering what he was getting at.
“We joke and banter while beating down the bad guys. I flirt with you, you casually deflect it. I make a cheesy pun, you cringe internally. Our partnership works.” Chat noir said as his nerves start building up as he grows closer to saying what he has been dying to say.
“We work great together. I love being around you, fighting crime, patrolling the city. I couldn’t imagine having a more incredible partner. So what I am about to say might change all of that and…”
“Chat, what are you trying to say?” Ladybug inquired, beginning to get concerned.
“I Love you, My Lady! I love everything about you. From your personality, to your flair, to your flawless beauty. Being around you makes my pulse quicken a billion times faster. I know i come off as a flirt, but when I am with you I mean every word of it.” Chat noir proclaimed, a mix of horror and Relief as he finally revealed his true feelings for his partner.
Ladybug stood in front of him in complete silence. Her face was unreadable as she looked at the ground. Chat noir looked at the woman he loved, his palms sweating as he waited for her to say something.
“How…” ladybug muttered from her breathe.
“What?” Chat noir asked not hearing what she said.
“How can you say you love me? You are in love with the hero. This persona, it is just a mask! In real life I am nothing like how I am as a hero. In real life I am a klutz, I am always stressed out. I mostly stutter my words when I speak. If you could see who I am without this mask, you would not have these feelings.” Ladybug exploded. Her tone calmed down as she finished, she was quickly ready to apologize for what she just said.
“The mask doesn’t make you different. The mask is more freeing than anything else in this world.” Chat noir explained. “Trust me when I say, that I know the real you. Because the real you is my partner in crime, the woman I love.”
Ladybug looked at the cat like he had just at the peel of a banana instead of the fruit.
“That doesn’t make any sense. The mask hides who we truly are. Are you saying that your true self is your hero identity?” Ladybug questioned, her confusion and frustration more apparent, until she saw the cat’s trademark grin fade from his face.
“This hero Identity is the most real I have ever been in my life. My secret identity, is the me that my life has shaped me to be. From my responsibilities, from my dad, and everything else, the supposed mild-manner, super polite, soft spoken, normal self is the real mask.” Chat noir ranted. His eyes filled with a gloom that Ladybug had never once seen from her cheerfully flirty partner.
Ladybug observed as her partner showed a side of himself that she had never seen. Something really hurt and vulnerable.
Chat noir took a deep breathe to calm himself.
“So trust me when I say. The you wearing the mask is just as real, if not more real than the you without it.” Chat noir finished. His smile now appearing back on his face.
Ladybug walked over to the cat hero, she hugged him tightly.
Chat noir was stunned for a moment, but returned the hug.
“While I don’t know, if what you said is true for me. I am sure that it is true for you. Truth be told, if this is the real you, he isn’t too bad.” Ladybug whispered. “I can’t return your feelings right now. Maybe one day, when we both see our ‘other masks’. We can truly see if you can love the real me. Sound fair?”
Chat noir felt tears stream down his face. His smile still apparent.
Hey, I'm sorry to bug you about this, but you seem to know a lot about it so.. How can I make a transgender/gender fluid/transsexual character and have them realistic, and accurate? I'm having a real hard time with it, but I don't want to give up on it either. Again, I'm sorry to bother you with this, but it'd be a big help if you'd answer it.. And Thank you!
Request: Hello. I
just went to comic con.And I was wondering if you could do a
Bucky/SebastianStan x reader. Where the Avengers or the actors cosplay as their
characters(It’s your choice.And no one knows it’s them.They just think they are
really good cosplayers)go to comic con for fun(Tonys/RDJs idea).The reader
cosplays as female Bucky.She sees The real Bucky(not knowing its really him)and
asks for a picture with him.Bucky finds her really attractive.You can make up
love your work❤❤
A/N: Fem!Reader. I’ve never been to a con, but I’m going in
March to my first, so I may rewrite this later when I find out what one is
really like or do another one. I’m not sure, yet. Open for a part two if anyone
Kim Jongdae had a heart of gold, but not the guts to follow it.
“Why are your weird friends staring at us?” Luhan mumbles, leaning down to speak close to your ear. You jump and blush. “Chanyeol’s unsettling.” You punch the taller on the arm hard.
“Be nice, Luhan.” Yixing scolds, patting the older boy on the head. “We promised we’d be nice.”
“And we will be.” Jongdae finishes, “so don’t worry about it, Luhan. They’re probably just watching in case we do anything mean to _____, anyway.” The smallest sends you an equally small smile and wraps an arm around your shoulder and you blush an even darker shade of pink and turn away, hoping he doesn’t see.