your people should love you and you should love your people

transpb  asked:

ok ive gotten 4d 5d, 5a, 5e, and 6d so far and although it only brought me to tears the first time its got me close with every subsequent ones. also im pinkie kin and i thought dating myself in a sim would be weird but it was actually really charming and made me really happy and your characterisation was so good and perfect. also i love you. also im GAY

Hehe, that does sound like it’d be kind of an odd experience! But I’m very happy it worked out for you. And it means a lot to me that you enjoyed my characterization. Thank you so much!

SMOKE IN THE AIR (M) PROLOGUE

Kim Taehyung had always loved the small and simple things in life. He enjoyed taking broken things and trying to fix them. You suppose that’s why he always had his eye on you. Always took interest in you when nobody else ever did.

But, Kim Taehyung should have known that broken things don’t stay fixed for long when the glue that was used to pave them back together is taken away.

He should have known that people can’t fix people. And that leaving, was never a way to fix your problems - that leaving never did anyone anything good. 

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“Your soul is where I made my home.” -Fragments, Jaymes Young

–-Pairing: Taehyung/Reader
–-Word Count: 1,810
–-Warnings: Angst, Mature
–- PR. PRO. +tobecontinued




If you were asked your opinion on love, you would honest to God, not know how to answer. It’s not because you didn’t believe in it, that was out of the question. It was hard not to believe in it, when you witnessed it every day of your life, when you’re reminded of it everywhere you turn.

Out of all the different types of loves you have seen, out of all of the examples you’ve beheld, you had decided awhile back, that the love between your parent’s was your absolute favorite.

You liked it best between your parent’s because it was able to be perceived in the simplest of their actions.

The gleam in your father’s eye as he stares at your mother like she’s the only source of beauty in the world. Like she’s Picasso’s greatest masterpiece, the finest piece of artwork to ever be created.

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He taught me to embrace my differences and the things that make me special.

She taught me to never hide who you really are. 

He taught me you don’t have to be powerful to be strong and brave and that guilt doesn’t make you weak. 

She taught me it’s okay to fall in love even if people say otherwise but that you don’t need a relationship to be badass. 

He taught me you should always get to know people before judging them. 

He taught me popularity isn’t everything and you don’t get anything good from greed.

She taught me everyone has a dark side but you can defeat it if your heart is good.

She taught me its not bad to be honest and straight forward as long as you’re loving, caring and loyal.

He taught me anger doesn’t have to control you.

They taught me you should give people a second chance. 

They taught me you shouldn’t succumb to stereotypes. 

He taught me power doesn’t get you everything. 

He taught me your past doesn’t control your future. 

She taught me you can be independent at any age.

She taught me be confident.

He taught me more people may care about you than you think. 

He taught me good never comes from evil. 

She taught me revenge is never the best option.

He taught me people can change.

He taught me what you are doesn’t decide who you are.

He taught me you don’t have to have a child to be a dad. 

She taught me your family isn’t necessarily your blood. 

He taught me that even the most law abiding people have to break the rules sometimes. 

They taught me friendship is the best, most powerful weapon.

And people still tell me I should watch something more educational. 

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Okay… So… I looked through my inktober art tags and felt like sketching some people’s ocs again while trying to deal with life for the past few weeks haha… These pictures aren’t as accurate as they should be (I should snoop research more. I tried to keep them accurate. Some more accurate doodles will arrive in the future once I know more, hehe…). Since I know my phone camera is not so nice, I scanned them and this is the result: horrible. Either way, I think this is a good way to get back into drawing…

Also, I hate to bother them, really. But I must credit (and promote!) the owners of these wonderful ocs! (if you can’t read the names on the pictures, here they are in order):

@renza15 @throwaninkpot @icebats-universe @pinkkittehisajediknight @aceofstars16 @dragonanne @fair-and-finn @jupiterlandings @takeabreathandsmile @queenoftheskittleholics

Hi, I’m 19, queer and androgyne. I have this dream of having a poly relationship, of there being three or four of us and we all love each other and live together, and maybe raise a child together…but I’m a depressed, suicidal mess and I can’t imagine that even one person could ever love me, let alone multiple people. Should I give up on my daydream? Thank you for your help.

Short answer: no. Never. Absolutely not. You should not give up on your hope of a happy future with partners who love you. 

Your present situation is not your destination. 19 is very young. Few people have found true love, or loves, by the time they are 19. You have plenty of time to grow into a life and a self that are full of joy and fulfillment.

Also, remember that facts aren’t feelings. Feeling unlovable is not the same thing as being unlovable. Not being able to imagine a future doesn’t make that future impossible. Our perspectives are limited by our current landscape, but the reality of the future is not. Many, many people are living full, joyous lives that at one point they could never have pictured for themselves. 

You are not your feelings. Having messy feelings does not mean you are a mess. Whatever you’re struggling with does not define the core of your identity and your value as a person. You are a person, worthy of love, capable of growth and healing. You are not a mess.

Depression and suicidal thoughts are a mental health emergency, for which you need and deserve help. Know that you are not alone. This inability to imagine someone loving you and wanting to give up on the hope of a happy future are well-documented symptoms of mental health issues that have well-documented treatments as well.

Please check out my mental health resources here. If you’re not currently working with a therapist or mental healthcare professional, please start doing that. If you are, please talk to them about these fears you have and strategies for challenging them.

Know that the work you are doing now to heal means you are fighting for your future. You are laying the groundwork for future you to have awesome relationships and live an awesome life. Keep fighting for that future. You deserve it. You can make it. 

if your passions and talents hurt no one they should be accepted by the people around you. you deserve someone in your life who gets why you stayed up until one in the morning finishing that chapter, who shakes their head and says you should really get more sleep, but who asks how it went. you deserve friends that want to see your art and are proud of you for making it. you deserve being honored sometimes: “she’s the best at math,” “he’s our actor,” “they’re honestly freakishly good at knitting.” you deserve people who listen and remember what you love.

and be that person for others. when someone lights up about something only to stop themselves from talking, gently push them. promise them you’re listening. and listen. be the person who tells them it’s okay that the stuff they make is weird as long as they create. we live in a world where loving things is seen as weak. that it’s lame to enjoy things. but let people triple-text you about their headcanon theories. you’ll find that you’ve surrounded yourself with happy.

Soulmates [Chanyeol]

A/N: Thanks for your request, anon!

Request: #22 - soulmates - Chanyeol

You were one of the lucky ones, or at least that was what your parents told you. You didn’t know if you counted yourself as quite that lucky. Meeting your soulmate when you were young was something everybody dreamed of, and honestly you had been excited when it had first happened. It had been the beginning of middle school when you were stuck outside polishing soccer balls for practice.

“You can’t just work on one side or else it’ll become uneven.”

You had looked up, glanced down at your wrist to make sure that those were really the words inked there, and then stared at the boy in front of you.

Park Chanyeol was his name, and the words inked on his wrist read, “Why don’t you help me then?” Those just happened to be the exact words that flew out of your mouth, and that was that.

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Writing shouldn’t be something you do for people or for followers. Writing should be something you do for yourself. Writing should be that time when you can let yourself go and just write the stories that are in your mind. A time to let the voices in your head be free. Writing should be something you’re proud of. Getting feedback feels amazing, I know, but you should love and always embrace your work first. Love yourself first. Writing, blogging, or anything in life shouldn’t be for the fame or the followers. Yes. It’s cool to have people who support you but it’s not the point. For me, the point of having a blog & writing it’s about having fun, friends, somewhere where I can share.

In these scary, confusing, and awful times, let us all remember some of the numerous lessons from Courage the Cowardly Dog

Lesson 1

It’s alright to be scared pantsless on a regular basis.

Courage is NOT “the absence of fear,” it’s “acting in spite of fear,” beating back the evil, protecting those you love, and saving innocent victims from bad guys even if you’re completely, absolutely terrified.

Lesson 2

When you’re faced with something confusing, terrifying, and completely (sometimes literally) alien to you, your first impulse (after screaming and running around terrified) should be to go to your computer and learn more about it.

Lesson 3

The most beautiful things can come from the most ugly, strange, and unexpected of places. Do not be afraid or hostile to something or someone just because they’re “different.”


You should also remember that these “different” people have loved ones just like you.

Lesson 4

Sometimes, people will do horrible, terrible things to you for seemingly no reason, with no obvious answers in sight.

While there is no excusing their actions, there’s much to be said for finding out WHY they’re doing it and understanding their reasons behind it.

Sometimes, you might find out that you can help them and make everyone a whole lot happier.

Lesson 5

There will be times when you meet truly terrible, awful, horrific people; sometimes, these terrible people will be from a different race (or species) than you.

From that experience, You might develop the belief that EVERYONE who is that race/species is a terrible, awful, horrible, person, and deserves nothing but hate, contempt, and hostility from you.

Don’t do this.

One individual does not represent their whole race, their whole species, their whole group. In an imperfect world like ours, there’s always a bad apple in every bunch somewhere. On the flipside, however, there’s also some very good apples that will prove your negative beliefs wrong, and then some.

Lesson 6

Appearances can be VERY deceiving. Who you thought to be the “Good Guys” could be the “Bad Guys” all along…

… And who you thought to be the “Bad Guys” turn out to be not so Bad after all.

Lesson 7

You NEVER have to conform to other people’s expectations about what you should be, their definition of “Perfect.”

You are “Perfect” just the way you are, whatever your way is, and the world will be infinitely better for you being your particular brand of wonderful and sometimes weird.

And some days, you might forget that, and need a talking fish in a bathtub to remind you of it.

Lesson 8

ALWAYS be wary of the power of greed, jealousy, vanity, and so many other sins and vices. You never know WHAT you might free in your quest for more, more, and more–or what others might unleash, and you will have to deal with.


Lesson 9

Bullies were oftentimes bullied themselves.


While it’s DEFINITELY not true for everyone, sometimes the meanest, most cruel, and hateful people are hurting plenty inside.

We should all be doing our best to spread love, kindness, and break the cycles of abuse and hate that just spawn more hate and abuse.

Lesson 10

When horrible tragedies, terrible people, and forces outside of control take away the ones you love…

… You should always remember that there’s always going to be someone out there who will gladly love you in their stead.


There’s plenty more important lessons from this show. But this is all the time and the images I have for this post.

anonymous asked:

Kyuey, I'm so sorry for the negative anons you get for drawing trans!genji, you should just put a note on your blog to block you if they dislike it. I'm trans FtM and I love your genji because I see your comics more as McCree loving him and his body no matter what, you know? So thank you, your art is such a source of happiness for me!

I’m really glad to hear! I can understand why people is getting the idea that I might be fetishizing trans people. However, I feel like for some reason it is frown upon trans sexual activity, and I don’t understand why. It should be normalize that trans people have sex, so why is it bad to draw it? Trying to prevent reputation on trans people will limited awareness of trans people. In this case, are we suppose to act like trans people don’t have sex? Drawing sex of a trans person with their love one in a positive light isn’t fetishizing, or any thing bad in that matter. Anyway sorry for the side track, but I really appreciate your wonderful feedback and your supports of what I draw! ❤️ thanks again😊

I think, the most amazing thing about Skam is the fact that it gives a lot to think about, whether it is about whose opinion should matter to you the most, what friendship really means, what is it like to be young and why you matter as a person, whether people choose the way they are and why they rather die than being someone they are not, to what it means to feel alone, being sick but not being your sickness,what love really is and means, why you should be youself and get yourself out there, live your life instead of pretending to be alive, what religion really looks like and why we should respect everyone else’s believes.
And all that adressed to the people that need it the most, the young minds that will shape the world soon enough.

Cishet, or all a-spec?

If you call yourself a aphobe, it is not just the cishets.

If you call yourself an aphobe, even if you just joke about being  aphobic, you hurt all of us.

You say “Only cishets, I love all my LGBT ace/aro people”
But that is a lie.
When the ‘good’ -spec people speak up and say you make them hurt, this should make you think.

When LGBT ace and aros tell you that your words harm them, this should make you stop and question yourself and stop using such terms and posting such things.
If you really love your LGBT ace and aros, and not just the ones who keep their mouth shut or even walk with you.

When you are an aphobe you are against all aces and aros. But you tolerate those who are the ‘good’ kind of a-spec.
You do not love them, you do not protect them.
You proudly, jokingly hate part of what they are.

If they dare to speak up, it is so easy for you to kick them out, to hate them too, to harm them on purpose.
You do not love your LGBT a-spec people, only as long as they go along with what you say.
After that you are free to hate and harm those formerly good a-spec LGBT people.

You know of what that reminds me?

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It's Valentine's Day!

And you know what that means!

Yup! Reading everything from fluffy to smutty fanfics for the next 24 hours, like the loner you are.

…….yeah.

anonymous asked:

Hey lovely, just wanted your thoughts on the law of attraction? I've been trying it for like a year and you obviously have to have a positive mindset to attract the things you want but sometimes it can be exhausting pretending you have everything you want and visualizing that you're successful/happy. Idk how other people do it

Hey darling, 

I, whilst I believe you should keep it positive to make situations better for yourself and I do somewhat believe the attitude you give is what you get in return, that shit things happen to really good people who are positive and lovely. AND that things don’t work out as you may want them to all the time. And that you have a life path and destiny that is partially out of your control. That is my honest belief. 

So whilst I think you should keep it positive, also accept life for what it is: imperfect and unpredictable and not always exactly what you would hope for. It is how you PERSEVERE despite all that that counts. And your strength will get you where you need to be. 

If you just got success straight away, you wouldn’t be learning all these life lessons you are now as you are still working for that. And you will be much wiser if you have to fight a little longer for the things you want. 

Big love xxx

Perfect ✨

When will people learn to accept people the way they are? They should know better than to judge someone by their skin tone, sex, religion, their likes and dislikes, appearance and all that shit.
This ain’t how people should be acting like.
People are beautiful in all different forms and they are so fucking perfect in their own imperfect way.
We are fucking special.
We are so damn special.
It’s okay if your brown, black, paper white, tan, thin, overweight, you have scars all over your body, whether you are an atheist or follow a certain religion.
We are all lovely people and we should be spreading this love instead of all this hate we keep getting. We keep drowning in this hateful environment with people who keep quoting “ don’t judge a book by its cover” yet they fucking do. They think it’s okay to judge people as long as it isn’t them who are judged.
But no, it’s not okay.

Why do you talk to them? Why do you keep your friends? Why do you give them any attention? Why aren’t you giving me that attention? I don’t get it! I threw away everyone when we got together! I don’t contact anyone anymore, just you, you are my life, why am I not yours? Am I not enough? Am I too clingy? What is it?? Tell me!! What do I have to do to get your attention and your love?! I don’t get it, it hurts so much, I just want to be your everything… You said you love me but it feels so empty when you give so many other people your attention… It should be mine. You should be mine. I wish I could just kill them but I can’t erase that many people… Just throw it away already. Be mine. Nobody else should matter…

anonymous asked:

miroku-san, i dont know who i should start oshing between haruppi and sakura. i mean, i LOVE sakura, but i also feel very fond of haruppi too, and i read your tags the other day and how you said that for each new haruppi-oshi sakura always manages to gather other 3 fans, so im like... maybe i should choose haruppi? but then again, i also love sakura... idk my heart tells me something while my head tells me something else. what should i do?

Just because, in my opinion, Sakura has got more fans than Haruka, and just because the thing pisses me off not because it’s Sakura, but because I wish more and more people could see what I see in Haruka enough to start oshing her as all those people are oshing Sakura, it doesn’t mean you should choose Haruka over Sakura just because you feel bad for her. You should follow your heart over your mind. Sakura deserves every single fan she has. The more they increase, the happier I am for her. Even though it might not seem like that. Even though I get so fucking frustrated and mad only because I’d like to see my baby standing right next to her, not 3 steps behind. Miyawaki Sakura is an amazing, wonderful, gorgeous person and performer and idol, and she deserves every inch of success and popularity she is getting lately. So if you feel like going to her, and to become a Sakura-oshi, please, do. Follow your heart. ‘Cause a) you don’t deserve to force yourself to oshi a member while you’d rather oshi someone else (there’s no sense in that, you should do what you feel like doing), b) Haruka doesn’t deserve somebody who can’t fully appreciate her and who is oshing her only kind of “out of pity” (because that’s what it is, even if it sounds bad. “I choose her because she has got less fans than Sakura”, like…???) and c) Sakura doesn’t deserve to be treated like this. She works hard in order to make people like you fall for her. And if you like her, you should support her. Fully. 

If you instead feel like supporting both of them equally, that would be amazing and it would be a double win, really. But if you feel like choosing, and you’re having an hard time only because your heart is telling you “Sakura” while your mind is telling you “Haruka” ‘cause “she has got less fans”, then please do choose Sakura. You deserve to support someone you truly wanna support; Sakura deserves to be supported by you if she managed to impress you in some way; and Haruka deserves people who choose her for who she is, not out of a number or statistics. 

To all the people out there who ever looked in the mirror and thought that you aren’t pretty enough or skinny enough or that your clothes don’t make the cut, I just wanted to say you are so beautiful and you should never have to feel this way. Love yourself and your body no matter what people say because you are so beautiful. If you feel like something is holding you down or making you feel bad about yourself you should try to find the source of the problem. Maybe you surround yourself with the wrong kind of people. If you do and it feels wrong you should get some space and surround yourself with people who love and care for you. And trust me, even if it doesn’t feel like it there are so many people out there who love you for who you are. You shouldn’t feel like you should settle if it doesn’t feel right. If you are stressed out about school or work or if there is something else going on in your life that gives you anxiety then take a break and focus on other things for a while, even if this might mean cutting down on studying for a while it will probably be worth it in the long run if it gives you a chance to relax. Do things that make you smile even if it’s just small things like treating yourself with something new or watching your favourite youtuber.
Don’t be afraid to reward yourself if you worked hard or passed an exam. Find your motivation. It’s all gonna work out, trust me. And don’t forget to smile because with that smile of yours you’re gonna make it a long way