Do you have any pointers for nonbinary/genderqueer dysphoria?
I (as a fellow nonbinary) found it helpful to focus on specific things I get dysphoric about, and come up with 2-3 strategies to deal with it.
It also might depend on what causes the dysphoria. If it’s about your body, there are various ways to conceal parts you don’t want and simulate what you do. (You could send in another ask for help dealing with what causes body dysphoria.)
If it’s social, then it gets a bit more complicated. You could try changing the way you present, or having pins/patches/jewelry to express your gender and pronouns. Having a friend or social group for validation during bad days might help too.
Hey, Dad. I just came out to my group of friends as bisexual a few days ago, and none of them really see bisexuality as a real thing. One of them even had the nerve to tell me to just "pick" one gender to like and to stop being an attention whore (??). Ive known these people all my life and they've been with me for so long, it really hurt hearing them say that. What should I do??
To feel hurt and invalidated by that so called group of friends… can they really be your friends? In college, I had found myself coming out as a transman slowly to my close group of friends. Let me tell ya, Craig was really supportive,, but that brings back memories of an ex female friend who invalidated me, wrote me things about how much it hurt her. It stressed me out and I had no choice but to eventually stop talking to her for my own sanity. It’s a real hard thing to do, to ignore people like that and move on, friend or not. But you shouldn’t have to feel hurt by ‘friends.’ Bisexuality is very real, and I can assure you, you don’t need to pick ‘just one gender’ to date, because that doesn’t define you whatsoever. I want you to know, it’s okay to break away from people like that, and just stand your ground and question their little disbelief of a sexual orientation.
All my friends are naturally snall like thin and pretty it makes me feel like shit for being the fat one of the group :(
If all your friends had blonde hair while you had brown, would you feel weird? If you had brown eyes while they all had blue would you feel like you didn’t belong? What if they all had size 10 feet while you wore an 8? Chances are you wouldn’t feel too abnormal. So why does another physical trait that you don’t share with your friends make you feel like the odd man out? There’s no wrong way to have a body! 💕
34) How did you meet your best friend?
We were grouped together in sixth grade on the first day. It wasn’t like an instant click or anything, we became friends through other people, but that’s how we meet.
43) What was your first profile picture?
I think it was a drawing of myself that I did
52) Do you want to kiss anyone right now?
I mean I’m always down for kisses but not anyone specifically?
62) Who was your first ever best friend?
A girl named Peyton I think
no one ever talks about the part of adhd where everyone in your class has got their group of friends and you’re just there, mindlessly tagging along with anyone who is willing to put up with you for a few minutes. either you’re too loud or too quiet. if you’re lucky, it won’t affect you much. you’re a loner, so what? but then the moments come around where you find yourself yearning to be like the others. you’re not depressed, why would you be? you’re a child who just happens to be a little different. sure, you’re usually the last choice when it comes to groups and you’re rarely, if ever, invited to birthday parties but… it’s alright. everything is fine. or is it?
🌹 - You fascinate me 💙 - I want to be your friend 💚 - You’re one of my best friends 💖 - I have a crush on you 🍦 - Your blog is great 🍰 - I wish we were closer 🍩 - I wish you knew I existed 🎀 - You make me smile 💥 - I don’t like you 🍉 - I wanna talk to you more 🍒 - I wanna be in your friend group 🍓 - I wanna get to know you better
Summary: Peter saves you when Flash begins to get a little bit too handsy
–> “No, like…. It’s just, I can’t believe you’re actually wearing my clothes.” And “You can’t leave without letting me hug you first.” combined into one with Peter Parker please? Btw I love your writing!
A/N: fucking pissed cause tumblr deleted all of this and so now I’m writing it again
To say that Peter Parker had a crush on you was a complete understatement. The boy was head over heels in love with you. He thought he had it bad with Liz, but with you it was a whole other level. In fact, his infatuation with you was the sole reason he dragged Ned to this party with him.
Peter had over heard some fellow classmates talking in the hallway about how Flash was planning on asking you out tonight. And Peter simply couldn’t just stand by and let that happen.
His soft brown eyes scanned over the crowds of people hoping to find the one angel that stood out above all of them, but to his dismay all he saw were strangers.
Apparently Flash has many friends from other schools cause Peter only knew a handful of the kids that he could see.
“Do you see her anywhere, Ned?”
“No. Maybe we should split up. Cover more ground, you know?”
“Yeah, good idea.”
Ned headed off in one direction, and Peter in the other. Peter wondered off through the different crowds of people searching for the girl of his dreams.
He said a few hellos to some people he knew from the robotics club, the school band and the academic decathlon team.
He was just about to give up on finding you when he suddenly heard the beautiful sound of your laugh.
Peter jerked his head around and saw you leaning against a wall surrounded by a group of your friends, one of them which was obviously telling a funny story.
Peter admired the way your soft curls perfectly framed your face and how the crop top and high waisted jeans you were wearing hugged your body in all the best ways.
Peter felt his heart begin to beat rapidly when his eyes connected with yours from across the room. You gave him a soft smile and a small wave and Peter is still not quite sure how his brain got the message to the rest of his body to return the gesture.
But the beautiful moment was quickly cut short by Flash pushing through the wall of your friends and placing an arm above your head.
Peter didn’t have to be near to know what Flash was saying when he saw his mouth begin to move. He knew he was asking you out.
Peter heard his heart pounding in his ears as he watched the horrific scene unfold before him. It wasn’t until he saw you flip Flash off that he was able to breathe again.
But soon the relief disappeared once again as he watch Flash grab your wrist and pull you into his chest. Peter realized all your friends had scattered once Flash walked up and there was no one to come to your rescue.
Now, Peter knew you were a tough girl that could fend for herself, but he also knew how relentless Flash could be. And the thought of anything happening to you was enough to send him across the room in a matter of seconds until he was standing between you and Flash.
Peter felt your fingers grip the back of his shirt and it was the fear in them that caused the sanity in his brain to blur. Peter no longer cared if he used his Spidey strength to harm the ass hole that threatened the girl he loved.
Peter sent Flash flying across the room into a glass door that lead into his backyard.
Peter felt the eyes of everyone at the party on him. He knew everyone was wondering how the scrawny kid from gym class that could barely do a pull up managed to send a man flying across the room.
Peter was about to panic when he heard your soft voice pull him back to reality.
“Peter? Can we please get out of here?”
There was no hesitation. Peter had grabbed your hand and was leading you out of the house.
Once you two had safely exited, Peter began to lead you down the street.
“Where are we headed?”
“I-I can’t go home. Not like this.”
It was then that Peter saw the tears in your eyes which only angered him more. He pulled you into his side and wrapped his arm around your shoulders.
“We can go back to my apartment. It isn’t far, and May won’t mind if you stay over.”
Peter felt the girl nod and began to lead her in the direction of his home.
The two fell into a comfortable silence until you finally spoke up.
“Please don’t think I’m a baby for crying… I’m used to guys hitting on me and I’ve gotten quite good at shutting them down. I’m just not used to them beginning to get physical with me and it freighted me. Thank you, Peter, for saving me.”
The fear in the your voice when you spoke of Flash’s actions was almost enough to send Peter back into the house to end the bully for good.
“I’ll always protect you, Y/N. No matter what.”
Peter was too focused on getting the two home safely to notice the smile that crossed your face, but he did notice the way your small fingers gripped his shirt tighter.
After a short while of walking, you and Peter had finally reached his apartment.
Peter lead you quietly into his room, careful not to wake his aunt up.
Although he knew May wouldn’t mind the girl staying over, he also knew she would never stop teasing him about having a girl sleep in his room. Especially one as pretty as you.
Peter opened up one of his drawers and pulled out some clothes for you to change into.
“Here you go. I’ll sleep on the couch and you can take the be-”
“No! I um… sorry. Can you, um, sleep in here? With me?”
Peter didn’t think he’d ever hear such beautiful words leave someone’s mouth.
Peter nodded his head and turned around to give you privacy to change. He stared at his poster of the periodic table until he heard you clear your voice, signaling to him that he could turn around.
Peter felt his cheeks grow red as he looked over your attire.
His t-shirt hung loosely off your body and his sweatpants were bunched up at the bottom due to him being a few inches taller than you. You looked completely adorable.
You shifter your eyes to the floor under his intense gaze.
“Do I look bad or something?”
“No, like…. It’s just, I can’t believe you’re actually wearing my clothes.“
A smile grew across your face as Peter crossed the room and took your hand in his to lead you to his small twin sized bed.
Peter laid down on his back and pulled you to lay on top of him. You laid your head on his chest and Peter began to run his fingers through your hair.
The soothing gesture and the sound of his heart beat was enough to send you to sleep in a matter of minutes.
—The Next Morning—
You were pulled from your dreaming state as the sunlight crept in through Peter’s window.
You lifted your head up and couldn’t help but smile at how adorable Peter looked as he slept.
His brown curls were scattered in different directions. His soft pink lips were slightly parted and a soft blush was spread across his cheeks.
You reached your hand up to push a loose curl out of his face and Peter’s eyes began to flutter open at the soft touch.
A smile spread across his face as he leaned into your touch.
"Good morning, sleepy head.” You whispered.
“Good morning, beautiful.” Peter replied in his husky morning voice.
His eyes widened as he realized what he said but the soft giggle that escaped your lips calmed him in a matter of seconds.
“I should go. My parents are probably worried sick.”
Peter frowned at the loss of warmth as your body left his.
He watched as you picked up your clothes from the floor. You turned and gave him one last smile before your hand reach out to grab the door handle but his voice stopped you from opening it.
“You can’t leave without letting me hug you first.”
You bit your lip and turned around to see Peter already standing behind you smirking.
“I can do you one better.”
Confusion crossed his face as you gripped the front of his shirt and pulled his lips into yours.
The kiss lasted a few short seconds but they were the best seconds of his life.
Peter watched you walk out of his apartment with a goofy, lovestruck grin on his face.
Besides showing how we nurture and want to be nurtured, Ceres also deals with our highs and lows- the brilliant highs and dizzy joys of the times we have what we want, and the darker days when we completely lose our faith.
Wherever Ceres is placed [click here to find], that’s where you face the most intense issues, and experience the most intense happiness. The highs and lows come in a cyclical way:
Ceres in the First House Your personal appearance, your reputation, your persona, your profile - Typical manifestation of the highs: Enormous self-confidence about one’s unique personality - Typical manifestation of the lows: Severe identity crises
Ceres in the Second House Your money, your talents, your possessions, your self-esteem - Typical manifestation of the highs: Being capable of getting anything - Typical manifestation of the lows: Suddenly realizing nothing that was gained matters after all
Ceres in the Third House Your words and ideas, your life on the internet, your speech, writing - Typical manifestation of the highs: Being heard and respected for one’s mental capacities - Typical manifestation of the lows: Having one’s ideas completely rejected, ignored or ridiculed
Ceres in the Fourth House Your family, your hometown or country, your home, your roots - Typical manifestation of the highs: An incredible sense of belonging - Typical manifestation of the lows: Trying so hard to fit in but not being able to
Ceres in the Fifth House Your children, your lovers, your art, your leisure time - Typical manifestation of the highs: Feeling as if one’s creativity is at its peak and anything can be done - Typical manifestation of the lows: Feeling devoid of any artistic skills at all, feeling empty and not being able to tap into one’s imagination
Ceres in the Sixth House Your body, your working life, your housework, your duty and service - Typical manifestation of the highs: Being incredibly productive and efficient, full of energy - Typical manifestation of the lows: Not being able to get anything done, feeling ill and stressed out without concrete reasons
Ceres in the Seventh House Your former, current or potential partners, your enemies or rivals, justice - Typical manifestation of the highs: Being able to understand others completely, having others trust you fully - Typical manifestation of the lows: Feeling isolated and left alone, being ostracized, having the hunch that someone’s planning something against you
Ceres in the Eighth House Your financial or property agreements, secrets, sexual relationships - Typical manifestation of the highs: Having all your bills taken care of, being trusted enough to to manage other people’s resources - Typical manifestation of the lows: Having to borrow money but not being able to pay it back
Ceres in the Ninth House Your travel, foreign, educational or publishing agenda - Typical manifestation of the highs: Achieving a state of full understanding of the concepts you were studying/investigating/contemplating - Typical manifestation of the lows: Being stuck in a series of sticky situations & not being able to do anything to escape
Ceres in the Tenth House Your career, your reputation, social status - Typical manifestation of the highs: Getting a promotion, being publicly congratulated/praised for having done such a great job
Ceres in the Eleventh House Your friends, your groups, clubs, teams, societies or committees - Typical manifestation of the highs: Being able to contribute greatly to the causes you’ve been supporting - Typical manifestation of the lows: Being denied a saying in what happens in your group/association, being expelled from it
Ceres in the Twelfth House Your secrets, your unconscious mind, psychology, the psychic world - Typical manifestation of the highs: Understanding the self completely, interpreting your dreams, tapping into the unconscious - Typical manifestation of the lows: Feeling divided, feeling lost/broken and as if one’s identity has been shattered
Airmom, what does each sign represent while in their season? Everyone is saying that cancer season will help us to reevaluate our feelings and bring hidden feelings to the surface, for example. Thank you!
I took longer than I wanted to because I kept taking breaks dnwakjfnkqefne, but here you go!
Aries season: be impulsive if you want, dare yourself to do things, beginnings, let go of stopping yourself from things, let go of your inner-child
Taurus season: time to be stable and recover from Aries season, value everything you have (even the things you own), spend less time buying things, take a rest, the results of Aries will be shown, (Taurus in your chart shows where you should focus on in order to see results in your life)
Gemini season: time to balance your sides, whether it’d be your good side or your bad side, time to learn and to relate, find possibilities, where your Gemini is, is where you’re most likely to adapt to, it’s where you create the possibilities
Cancer season: time to reflect and let go, to protect everything that’s dear to you, a time to feel vulnerable and let go of the feelings you’ve tried avoiding, find your inner peace
Leo season: a time to create, project confidence where Leo rules, look for ways to create and build, find joy in everything, go towards life with an enthusiastic smile
Virgo season: time to analyze and be more critical, time to edit, fix, re-view, look at your responsibilities (the house Virgo is ruled), pause and think
Libra season: time to find balance in relationships, find harmony in everything in order to maintain harmony, become more involved with your friends or anyone you have a bond with, don’t hide yourself behind technology, see the pros and cons in everything, a time to create stronger bonds
Scorpio season: time to feel or experience transform in the house Scorpio rules, look at the meanings, a time to be more conscious of the deeper and meaningful things in life
Sagittarius season: a time to naturally visualize future possibilities, realizing that time is running, and that days are just passing by, a feeling and sense of survival
Capricorn season: time where you may try to build a wall for protection from being vulnerable and keeping in touch with environment, where we may have to give respect of each others privacy in order to recover from the year, time to learn and to grow, find boundaries
Aquarius season: where Aquarius rules is where we want to strong attack and break through barriers that limit creative expression, a strong sense of action, be different, be more aware of your friend group, make new ones, predict the future, find mysteries and solve them
Pisces season: may feel alienated, commit to your life to a dream, fantasy, idea, or illusion, don’t be afraid to daydream, embrace chaos
The house your Neptune is in will show you where you are confused, deceived, uncertain, or even disappointed. But it is also where you are inspired and dreamy, but these areas experience delusions or expectations that are big and unrealistic.
Neptune in 1st: You are artistic, idealistic, and have a giant imagination. You tend to be impractical or easily fooled. You are very sensitive to others and your environment, and your traits and personality tends to blend with others.
Neptune in 2nd: You have a strong sensitivity and are prone to vivid dreams. You dream big and can have unrealistic or confusing thoughts of money. You have confusion in that area, but it may also be an area you don’t tend to worry about. You can be too generous to others or with your finances.
Neptune in 3rd: You are good at visualizing and imagining, and may even have a clairvoyant ability. But you have trouble concentrating, especially on reading or studying. You are prone to procrastination and being flaky about details or facts. Your thoughts merge and flow together and can be very confusing or contradicting for you.
Neptune in 4th: You are caring and intuitive, but you have insecurity and confusion about your security. You are self sacrificing to your loved ones, but this could lead to feelings of guilt. Your memories or thoughts about your home or childhood may be foggy. You also may feel the want to live near the sea or water, since Neptune rules salt water.
Neptune in 5th: You love drama, and you may love theatre or being on the stage. You are entertaining and love to create. But you lose yourself in characters or in the roles you play. You have confusing love affairs and you are a hopeless romantic, with unrealistic expectations or ideals.
Neptune in 6th: You love to help and serve others, and like to do work that involves helping others, or animals. You don’t dwell on details and don’t pay attention to them. You are known to daydream. You have strange things or confusions involving the workplace, or encounter bad coworkers. You are sensitive to your workplace environment, you want it to be peaceful.
Neptune in 7th: You have strong ideals and expectations towards marriage and love. You see them as perfect, and see relationships through rose tinted glasses. You can be too self sacrificing for your relationships. Your partner may be artistic and sensitive, or be musically inclined.
Neptune in 8th: You are psychic and intuitive, and you are interested in deeper topics. You are likely to be interested in learning about death, sex, and finances. But you are confused or overwhelmed by those areas, these areas seem blurry and foggy. You are very sensitive to others or their secrets and inner thoughts.
Neptune in 9th: You are philosophical and drawn to religion and higher learning. You may also be interested in fine art. The areas of what is known and unknown is blurred for you, and you may believe in the oneness of life. You tend to travel or do things without much planning or effort, and go blindly.
Neptune in 10th: There is confusion surrounding your image or career. You like to succeed, but don’t typically like to be in the spotlight. Your career may involve art or humanitarian values, or even drama or theatre. Your public image is distorted and mysterious.
Neptune in 11th: The lines between your individuality and your friends or group is blurry. You attract artistic or sensitive friends. You accept friends and people readily, but they may end up deceiving you or not being who you originally thought they were. You have intuition about hopes and wishes. You have trouble being objective or deciding on goals.
Neptune in 12th: You are reflective and may have an unconscious psychic ability. You prefer to be alone and you have a strong inner sense of self. You have a hard time distinguishing what is real and what is your imagination or thoughts. You are compassionate and sensitive. You tend to use your imagination and dreams to escape.
you do a jimin fanfic or something?? Where she has a one night stands with
jimin and has feelings for him and in the morning she realise he is her new
Pairing: Jimin x Reader
Warnings: language, sex, drinking
Word Count: 4275(woops)
Authors Note: Some smut for Jimin (my first
bias before Jungkook snatched me lmao). I hope you enjoy it and that it was as
good as you asked for! I got a bit carried away lol, but I hope you like it nonetheless. Let me know if there are errors, feedback is
appreciated, and happy reading! ^^