(Sorry if I make your dash ugly!)

“Are you wearing a mask?”
“When are you getting your face fixed?”
“Look at that girl! She looks so weird…”

These are the three most common reactions to my appearance.

My name is Kali, I am 18, I am a Korean-American, and I… look different.

I was born with a medical condition that (clearly) affects my face. Essentially my lymphatic system can’t properly circulate fluid so the excess fluid builds up in my face. It is difficult to remove because the tumor-like masses can interfere with my nervous and circulatory systems. Sure, I’ve had many, many surgeries done, but there is very little chance I will ever look “normal”.

They say to never judge a book by its cover. I always tried to live by that mantra. I went to a summer math program when I was 14 and was assigned a roommate. The moment I walked into the dorm room, she spoke to one of our counselors and requested a roommate change.

I never cried so hard in my life.

A book is more than its cover. I’m a Starbucks addict. I play three instruments. I write poetry. And you wouldn’t know that by looking at my face.

A person in more than his or her face. I’ve struggled to fit in at college for this reason- that people still feel hesitant to talk to me because of my appearance. They say rude things behind my back. I had grown up with the same people from elementary school through high school, so people were used to me. I hoped people would learn to accept me in college, but I haven’t found that yet.

You can’t exactly tell Stanford students that they’re stupid, can you?

I guess the reason I’m posting this is to introduce myself, and to tell my story. I don’t want to be an inspiration. I’m not a hero. I’ve simply learned to accept myself.

Someday I hope others here do, too.

My name is Kali, I am 18, I am a Korean-American, and I… am more than my appearance.

Sometimes one of the most frustrating things about being a girl working in comics is seeing so many cries of “why aren’t there more girls in this industry? The big two don’t know how to create content for girls! Where are the female writers and artists???”
And it’s like… “what about all of these ladies I know actively working? Are you buying their books? Are you actively seeking them out?” They EXIST and Marvel and DC hire them, not because they’re ladies, but because they are TALENTED and have good stories to tell. Support them! SHOW the publishers what you want with sales numbers, not just angry tumblr posts.

Heathers: The Musical starters
  • "I believe I'm a good person."
  • "I think there's good in everyone, but.."
  • "I'd be honored if you'd let me be your friend."
  • "Can't we be seventeen?"
  • "If no one loves me now, maybe somebody will.."
  • "I am damaged, far too damaged."
  • "Fine! We're damaged!"
  • "But that does not make us wise."
  • "Hold me tighter, even closer.."
  • "We'll make it beautiful."
  • "And you know, this could be beautiful."
  • "Mascara, maybe some lip gloss, and we're on our way."
  • "For a greasy little nobody, you do have good bone structure."
  • "Get this girl some blush!"
  • "Let's make her beautiful!"
  • "Whine! Whine! Whine all night!"
  • "You could fly with eagles."
  • "Keep on testing me, and end up like her!"
  • "Are we gonna have a problem?"
  • "You have a bone to pick?"
  • "You've come so far, why now?"
  • "Why are you pulling on my dick?!"
  • "I'd normally slap your face off, and everyone here could watch!"
  • "I'm feeling nice, here's some advice, listen up biatch!"
  • "I like looking hot."
  • "You can join the team, or you can bitch and moan."
  • "The demon queen of high school has decreed it."
  • "Sorry, but I really had to wake you."
  • "I've decided I must ride you till I break you."
  • "His solution is a lie!"
  • "No one here deserves to die."
  • "I wanted someone strong who could protect me."
  • "Can't hide from me, I'm a dead girl walking!"
  • "It's one more dance, and then farewell."
  • "Here's an option that I like."
  • "I could change my name, and ride up to Seattle."
  • "What's her final statement, to a cold, uncaring planet?"
  • "Believe it or not, I knew about fear."
  • "I knew the way loneliness had stung."
  • "I am more than just a source of hand jobs."
  • "Well, fuck me gently with a chainsaw!"
  • "You can live the dream, or you can die alone!"
  • "This is the loveliest suicide note I've ever read."
  • "We all misjudged Heather Chandler."
  • "The only way to give up her power was death."
  • "Why when you see guys fight, it looks so horrible yet..feels so right?"
  • "I should watch this crap, that's not who I am."
  • "But with this kid...damn.."
  • "Hey, miss/mister no-name kid."
  • "Say, who might you be?"
  • "Would you fight for me?"
  • "Could you be seen with me, and still act proud?"
  • "If some night you're free.."
  • "No sleep tonight for you."
  • "Don't talk mean like that!"
  • "Stupid childproof caps!"
  • "I wish we met before, they convinced you life is war."
  • "I wish your mom had been a little stronger."
  • "I wish your mom had stayed a little longer."
  • "Listen up folks, war is over."
  • "Brand new sheriff's come to town."
  • "We are done, with acting evil."
  • "We're all damaged."
  • "Are you free tonight?"
  • "I can't promise no more Heathers."
  • "Are there any happy endings?"
  • "But I know, I know, life can be beautiful."
  • "You hope, you dream, you pray, and you get your way!"
  • "Ask me how it feels, looking like hell on wheels!"
  • "It's a beautiful frickin' day!"
  • "This is an excellent forgery. Who are you?"
  • "I crave a boon."
  • "And there's the Heathers, they float above it all."
  • "I would give anything to be like that."
  • "All is forgiven, baby!"
  • "You chucked me out like I was a trash!"
  • "What if high school went away instead?"
  • "Those assholes are the key!"
  • "They're keeping you away from me!"
  • "I was meant to be yours!"
  • "Don't give up on me now."
  • "Please don't..leave me alone."
  • "You cut open my heart, can't just leave me to bleed!"
  • "Can we not fight anymore?"
  • "Sure you're scared, I've been there."
  • "I can set you free!"
  • "Get dressed, you're my date to the pep rally, tonight!"

anonymous asked:

how do you think a Slytherin boy and a Hufflepuff girl would get along romantically?

Ah, nice question! I think they’d be a good couple. The Slytherin would be ambitious, and the Hufflepuff hard working: together they could take over the world if you wanted to. I think the Slytherin would be protective over the Hufflepuff as well, in case they end up being too nice for their own good. 

And now I shall refer you to the post that came into my head as soon as I read this message: (x).

She’s the girl who looks down when you stare at her for a little too long, and turns away if you catch her looking. She’s the girl whose hair gets a little knotted, and whose smile isn’t always real. She’s the girl who cries herself to sleep sometimes and cares a little too much about what you say. But she’s the same girl who laughs at all of your jokes - funny or not; the one who will love you with every inch of flesh inside of her. She’s the girl who will watch the stars with you at night, and ask how your day was when you come home. She’s the kind of girl who you’ll find asleep with a book in her hand at 3 a.m., or the kind who leaves your sweatshirts smelling sweeter than before.

She’s the kind of girl who will give you her heart; so please handle with care.

—  Julie Martinez
I’m not the one to rant but...

I’m getting really sick and tired of this one bitch on Moon Guard and Wyrmrest Accord. I’ve stopped talking to this girl four years back because of all the bullshit and drama shes put me through. It all started because… I didn’t want my paladin to be with her. Pretty fucking pathetic if you ask me. I’m sorry I didn’t want to have my toon with you because you were fucking psychotic. But seriously the girl needs to get over herself and stop having my name in her mouth. So Since she goes around calling me a creep, cheater and all those things. I fuck up her chances on joining in on any known guilds. She was recently in Blackbriar on Dessarilla so I told a friend of mine who is allies with their guild. He told the GMs and the Officers of what this girl is capable of, luckily she was kicked on her own because of a dispute.

Sharilidra is known to cause drama because of your toon not wanting to be with hers, or for you having a girlfriend and you’re role playing with another person that isn’t your girlfriend. Yes…she has done this to me.

She found out my phone number, my real name, my birthday, where I fucking lived (which country state/province) she found that out, my email address. I never told this girl anything about me, my name to her? Was Fellamor or Fell. It wasn’t my real name, it wasn’t my other toon names, it was just Fell or Fellamor. THAT IS IT.

This girl will try her best to get you to pity her, to reel you into her drama fest. She will talk about how her ex boyfriend used a pole stick to fuck her. That she has cancer and that she’s in the hospital. She has an incurable disease and is hospitalized. She’s in the hospital due to an accident. As far as I know, you’re not allowed any laptops in a hospital. Not for the patients anyways. But she’ll tell you all these things just so you’d feel bad for her. Don’t fall for it, it’s not going to get you any wheres. She’ll still find ways to find things wrong about you. She hates females, she’s threatened by them. If you’re a female, she will threat you like the plague. If you’re a male, she’s all up on you trying to get onto your pixel dick. Until she finds out you have a RP partner and/or you have a real life girlfriend.

Don’t engage in her, don’t bring her into your guilds. Blacklist her if you have to, do anything you can to just stay clear of her. I promise you, nothing will come of it. There are countless people on Moon Guard and Wyrmrest Accord who can tell you about her and they will all tell you the same thing. To stay the fuck away from her.

Her known toon names: 

Sharilidra - Airidessa, Selria, Arilia, Caralea, Liliana, Sinaire, Nymoona, Dessarilla, Naruvir

anonymous asked:

Hey Bucky. First off I'm an asexual girl and there's these boys who keep texting me and trying to get into a relationship. If you saw a boy harassing a girl, would you punch where it hurts USING YOU METAL ARM? Thanks.. if so, we should hang out sometime.

Totally. I don’t understand why they keep asking you. Aren’t there gentlemen these days? To all of you jerks out there, men and women, let me tell you something: no means no.