you're messing with the wrong people

Hey exclusionists.

When we’re telling you that something you said resembles TERF rhetoric, we aren’t calling you TERFs. We’re telling you that what you’re saying seems to have a foundation on similar things, and that spreading the same type of posts/sayings/whatever as TERFs use is dangerous because it normalizes the rhetoric and allows TERF ideals to slip passed people’s radars.

My reaction if someone were to tell me that something I said resembled TERF rhetoric?

“Oh crap! Sorry! I’ll delete/edit the post. Please let me know how I can do better in the future to keep from endangering trans people.”

Because my number one priority is to make sure I’m not helping to perpetuate or normalize TERF rhetoric. Screaming about how I’m not a TERF would do absolutely no good, and would just further push that using the same language as this horrible group of people is completely fine - which of course it’s not.

Do better.

time  for  a  rant  but   ——   you  know  what  really  pisses  me  off  ?  how  go.tha.m  (  and  the  fandom  lol  )  keeps  trying  to  play  sel.ina  off  as  the  bad  guy  when  it  comes  to  things  regarding  her  and  bru.ce  .  like  there’s  actually  an  interview  where  david  was  like  ‘  oh  yeah  he’s  starting  to  see  she’s  never  really  been  there  for  him  when  he  needed  her  blah  blah  blah  ’  and  ?  it’s  such  bullshit  .  if  anything  ,  it’s  quite  literally  the  opposite  .  more  than  once  ,  when  s.elin.a  has  gone  to  bru.ce  for  help  or  even  just  comfort  ,  he’s  either  completely  twisted  it  or  dismissed  it  .  and  yes  ,  i  get  he  had  other  things  going  on  and  all  that  but  also  that’s  not  the  point  right  now  .  literally  every  -  time  ?  b.ruc.e  has  needed  her  ,  she’s  been  there  .  she  looks  out  for  him  ,  warns  him  (  only  for  him  to  twist  it  on  her  )  ,  saves  his  ass  endlessly  ,  comforts  him  …  she  showed  up  the  moment  she  heard  about  al.fred  because  she  knows  how  much  he  means  to  br.uce  only  for  him  to  tell  her  she  doesn’t  actually  care  .  i  mean  alf.red  ,  gord.on  and  others  have  commented  on  how  insanely  loyal  she  is  to  him  …  so  like  honestly  ?  if  anything  ,  it’s  not  sel.ina  who  let  bru.ce  down  …  it’s  the  opposite  and  from  where  i’m  sitting  ,  that  really  feeds  a  lot  into  who  she  becomes  in  season  four  .  because  honestly  se.lina  is  so  done  with  everything  and  everyone  .  she  tried  to  be  that  girl  ,  have  that  life  ,  have  him  and  found  out  it  wasn’t  for  her  .  now  she’s  rightfully  fed  up  and  focusing  on  bettering  herself  but  oh  no  seli.na’s  a  bad  friend  /  girlfriend  /  whatever  .  no  .

anonymous asked:

What the actual fuck is wrong with you, you fucked up messed up piece of shit? Being happy over findings of severe illness in another person. Have some fucking compassion. You're a fucked up horrible person. Those findings you got so excited about made someone stay up nights worried about. Their parents crying. What the fuck is wrong with you huh? Be ashamed of yourself. People like you shouldn't be allowed anywhere near a fucking hospital. Disgusting.

If I ever wrote in a post I was happy over signs of severe illness in a patient, let me assure you I definitely did NOT feel how you think I did. I find medicine fascinating. Reading about  the pathophysiology of different diseases and their treatment interests me. When I come across a case or findings I have never seen before, I am intrigued and my curiosity is piqued. However, along with being intrigued, I also feel for the patient. I think about the effects of the disease on the body and the symptoms the patient is experiencing and I feel sorry for them. Then my mind goes to how the disease could be treated, how the patient could be made comfortable and am cheered by the fact that we can help alleviate the patient’s suffering.          

 Did I make them sick? No.  Am I somehow  obstructing their treatment? No. Do I want to help them? With all of my heart. Do I want to talk to them, take a good h&p, see their various lab results and read more about their case and it’s treatment? Yes.                                                                                                                                     

Being interested in reading a patient’s file or feeling lucky to observe an operation does not mean I wish more people would get sick. 

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BRIEMUND CELEBRATION WEEK 

a modern!au idea set in 2003, with lots of drama, snarky lines & a healthy taste of a cheesy christmas movie.

‘‘ all you need is love…or a good lawyer. ’’ AKA ‘ the fanfic i’ll never write ’ 

         a few months after the blockbuster “love actually” is released, TORMUND GIANTSBANE - an unemployed war veteran  - loses his wife Sheilla and his eldest daughter Ursulla in a tragic car accident. meanwhile, the heirs of the LANNISTER enterprises CERSEI and JAIME struggle to maintain their power over their father’s business: an empire of banks around europe.
         when sergeant EDDARD STARK & his wife CATELYN decide to leave for a second honeymoon in the states, JON SNOW - a law student who has recently married with YGRITTE GIANTSBANE ( TORMUND’s distant relative ) - leaves his younger half sister SANSA STARK under the care of the family  friend BRIENNE TARTH . BRIENNE is a headstrond officer who takes no shit from no one, albeit a bit harsh sometimes, she’s got a good heart and values justice above anything else. she is the daughter of SELWYN TARTH, the owner of the small jewelry store SAPPHIRE ISLAND, and is nominated as RENLY BARATHEON’s heir.
         RENLY is a playboy with a brilliant and creative mind that is not much accepted in his family business - BARATHEON BROTHERS, a successful winery owned by him and his older brothers ROBERT and STANNIS - even after he found out he had a terminal disease. although she was flattered by her friend’s offer, BRIENNE doesn’t want any of that - money, fame and fortune, she’d trade it all if it meant to have her bestfriend beside her for a few more years.
         BRIENNE’s world turns upside down when she receives the news that her father’s business  owes a ridiculously big amount of money to the LANNISTERS BANKS. to add up to her despair, she has a hard time catching a ginger guy who has been stealing markets for weeks now - which gave her colleagues yet another reason to laugh of her.
        knowing that the aquisition of the SAPPHIRE ISLAND would be an important mark to their rise for power, CERSEI sends her twin JAIME after BRIENNE, planning on seducing her and making her forget about the financial problems her father had, therefore making the mortgage process easier. desperate, TORMUND starts stealing money in order to pay for Munda’s stay in the hospital - his little girl might not have died in the accident, but she’d never walk again - he isn’t proud of what he’s doing, but his baby girl is the most important thing in the world. surprisingly enough, it takes a quite some time to the police to get him, but when they do - he can’t complain.
        once his eyes met with the beautiful amazon that got him in his cuffs, he couldn’t look back - there was a fire inside her, a sense of duty that was stronger than life. the cold blue sapphires she had as eyes told no secrets, but her pale, freckled, face was enough to tell him that she felt the connection as well.
       his life seemed a mess, but there was still hope - a hope that came in the form of the eccentric, talented, lawyer and JON’s professor, TYRION LANNISTER, the renegade son that refused to follow his father’s path.

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“ all you need is love… or a good lawyer ” is  a small summary of a real life: people falling in and out of love, some with the right people, some with the wrong. drama and comedy at the same time & in the middle of all this mess there’s our funny couple with a curious start - no sparks flying or anything like you’ve seen before.

space-boy-kellin  asked:

hey! if its not too much of a bother can i get something with mt sans and a trans guy s/o? maybe one that's kinda quiet and keep to themself, plays guitar, sings and is very insecure (also, i hope you're having a good day!)

Thank you, Kellin! I hope you’re having a wonderful day as well!!

-Big Fella-

Fella doesn’t really make a big deal out of you being trans, it’s who you are and he respects that. If he used the wrong pronouns before you told him, he’s going to mess up sometimes but he’s gonna do his best to stop. Fella will also one hundred percent make sure everyone else you’ve told uses the right pronouns too (he’s not about forcing you out to people you haven’t told yet, just be sure you tell him who those people are).

As for your other traits? Fella loves that you’re quiet and keep to yourself, because he’s basically the same way. He likes having quiet days where the two of you can just sit in the same room and enjoy each others presence without all of the social obligations. Fella also really, really, loves your singing voice. He sings a little himself, but not nearly as good as you, so sometimes when the silence is just too much, he’ll ask you to put on a little concert for him. If you get insecure, depending on what you prefer when that happens, he’ll either just hold you and reassure you that he’s there for a reason, and if you were as awful as you thought you were then he wouldn’t have bothered staying with ya, or he’ll hold you and he’ll list all of the great things he loves about you until you’re smiling for him again.

I trusted you, but you broke my trust.
I cared about you, but it was all just a game to you.
I loved you, but you just used me.
And now you’re nothing to me. You pulled the wrong strings, you messed with the wrong person.
When someone acts so cold heartedly as you have done to me, they are no longer wanted or needed in my life.
I do not need you. I never needed you. I do not need anyone. I never need anyone.
You’re just added to the list of another person who left me.
You’re not important to me anymore.
I can stop caring about people just as quickly as I start.
It means nothing too me.
Maybe I’m the cold hearted one…
—  Me (beautyfrompain-4)
The signs as Blurryface songs//Why
  • Aries: Not Today// Out of their mind, and believes everyone who tries to be nice to them or tries to start a relationship is also out of their mind. Would be willing to take anyone down, but soon changes their mind. Seems like they are all happy and upbeat, but they get sad and mad just as easily as they get happy. Wants to play hard to get. Doesn't like big massive changes in their life. "I look outside, and I see a whole world better off without me"
  • Taurus: Hometown// Doesn't know how to make themselves better, so they need someone else to show them how to. Let's things go easily, but doesn't know how to bring them back if needed. "I will let the wind go quietly"
  • Gemini: Heavydirtysoul// Admits that they believe their soul and personality is dirty and 'heavy', but they don't know how to fix that. They need someone to save them and their soul. Turns to many things whenever they are upset, from writing to drugs. The future makes them eager but also worried. "Death inspires me like a dog inspires a rabbit"
  • Cancer: Doubt// Needs someone to always be there for them, when they are afraid and lose hope for everything. Worries about losing someone important the whole song. Wants beautiful things to mean something to them again. "I hope you haven't left without me, please don't forget about me"
  • Leo: We Don't Believe What's On TV// Wants someone to be their plan B if things don't work out. Wants to care for this person and be 'saved' by them. Believes that everything they see is what they want to see. "I need to know that when I fall you'll still be here"
  • Virgo: Polarize// Wants help with organizing thoughts and problems. Just wants help for once, even if they aren't good at showing love and don't want people to see weakness in wanting someone else's help. Thinks they can always do better, and would if they were given a second chance. "Domingo en Diego, I think I lost my halo"
  • Libra: Tear In My Heart// This song is very upbeat, just like libra. Very romantic, and sweet. Often thinks of their significant other than themselves. Their heart is their 'armor'. "Sometimes you got to bleed to know, that you're alive and have a soul"
  • Scorpio: Fairly Local// States that they think they are evil and others think they are emotional. Later admits that they aren't evil, and knows that they are emotional. Shows the conflict between their mind and their true personality, and what others think of them and what they think of themselves. "Bulletproof in black like a funeral"
  • Sagittarius: Ride// Loves to fantasize and wants to be loyal. Sometimes over thinks, which brings them to a depressing state of mind. Knows things get hard sometimes, but it doesn't stop them one bit. Normally is very fast paced, but once everything piece together, they take their time to enjoy it. Gets asked plenty of questions, but finds it hard to answer them in the right way. "'I'd live for you,' and that's hard to do, even harder to say when you know it's not true"
  • Capricorn: The Judge// 'In charge' and has very high expectations. Knows that they are imperfect, but is perfect at being imperfect. Doubts other things that they don't know 100% about. Wants to make a change in someway and help someone. Kinda cold hearted but secretly wants to change that. "I'm a pro at imperfections and best friends with my doubt"
  • Aquarius: Lane Boy// Everything they hear is heartless, which shows that they find something wrong with everything, even if it's perfect. They don't trust people that are flawless, because there is probably something wrong with them. They know that their creativity and beauty is just 'currency' or just something someone else makes money off of. "If you get in between something I love and me, you're gonna feel the heat of my cavalry"
  • Pisces: Message Man// Knows that they are very different than what others think. Needs motivation to keep going, even if they don't believe in themselves. Doesn't want to hurt anyone by accident, so they like to warn people. "Please use discretion when you're messing with the message man"
Actual conversation with my parents (translated to English, the best way I could)
  • Me: you should take me to the cemetery one of these days, so I can relax a little bit
  • Mom: ....
  • Dad: *bursts out laughing*
  • Me: what's wrong with this? I don't get it!
  • Mom: YOU LIKE WEIRD THINGS! YOUR BRAIN IS ALL MESSED UP! YOU LIKE THE MOST IMPOSSIBLE THINGS EVER, HORROR STUFF, DARK THINGS, CEMETERIES, YOU'RE JUST WEIRD....
  • Me: so what?? I don't want to go downtown and see a bunch of people I hate walking back and forth. I want relax, and cemeteries are so calm and peaceful, and there are no living people bothering you with their bullshit!
  • Dad: *keeps laughing*
  • Me: whatever!

Timehop shattered me today. Usually it’s okay. Melancholy for the past, but still good. Today was not. Today hit me like a brick wall.

I’ve been talking to the most amazing guy for years now. We met on Omegle.
The year I graduated high school(2011!), a really big tumblr trend was to go on Omegle under the “tumblr” tag and try to find your friends/followers. It was hysterical. It was fun. I was on there so much it started leaking into my real life. My friend and I would have sleepovers and stay up until crazy hours, on Omegle just finding people to talk to. Obviously the cute ones would get more attention, and we’d have to skip a dick or 10(yes literal dicks), and on the rare occasion we’d get a guy’s number and text for 48 hours and then never again.
But one night, it was different. If I remember right, we were dicking around with stuffed animals. We’d hold them on screen and try to get people to interact with them without seeing what we looked like. Accents, whatever. And if they gave us the time of day we revealed our faces after a while. So we connect with this random babe. And he’s got the bluest eyes. And this swoopy brown hair. Squarish jawline. And he says he’s from England and we’re swooning because we’re American and foreign accents are delicious. He’s not talking though, just typing. We eventually show our faces. My friend gets bored and says we should skip him but I don’t want to. He’s so cute and the way he won’t speak is making him a mystery I’m dying to hear. I get his Skype so we can move on and promise to talk to him later. This guy is cute and all but we’ve only just met and I’m hosting a sleepover and my friend is bored. A bit later, I get a Skype message. I let the guy know we’re still on Omegle. What’s he still doing up? It’s like 6am there. He’s nuts. But he wants to Skype me. But I can’t. My friend is there. I can’t just take over the computer. Eventually my friend gets tired. So I close Omegle and Skype the England Boy. I’m begging him to say “love” in the accent I know he has. But he won’t do it. I’m 18 years old and teenage romance novels are my weakness and romcoms are everything and the way Gerard Butler calls his leading lady “love” is all I need in my life. My friend is falling asleep on the couch and I’m busy falling for the biggest fall of my life. We’re Skyping for four hours. He barely speaks. And then gloriously he says to me, “goodnight love,” and I’m dying from head to toe, it’s beautiful and this cute guy said it in his cute accent and even if he didn’t mean it, if he only said it because I begged and persuaded it out of him, it’s still got me in a puddle of emotions. It’s perfect. He’s great. I’ve got him on Skype. I can call him up whenever I want.
That was how it started. It was everything to me. I stayed up Skyping him when I should have been sleeping. I stayed on Skype with him for 6 hours 6 days a week. It was the summer before I went to college. He meant everything to me. He made me laugh. Die laughing. He was adorable and funny and charming and immature and sarcastic in all the right ways. He’s terrified of spiders. Sometimes, he sleep walks. He hates pineapple. He’s got a lesbian sister. More siblings. He’s never owned a car. He doesn’t have a license to drive. He’s getting a 7k inheritance when he turns 21. His dad’s an accountant. He had a brother who passed away. His girlfriend appears to be a massive uncaring bitch. He can do better. Dealing with my feelings and his girlfriend was a rough patch. She’d infuriate me so badly some nights. He’d Skype me from her house. It’s okay, she’s asleep. Why are you talking to me? You should be sleeping next to her. You can’t sleep? That happened more than once.
When he broke up with her I was so happy for him. So proud of him. He didn’t have to date me. Distance. Yuck. But now he could find someone to treat and be treated better. He never really did.
He’d watch American Football. Something I’m not sure he’d ever even thought about before me. He’d say he’d seen a Vikings game. Why would you watch that? We’re terrible. Football sucks.
He Skyped me through the single semester I went through college. He made a tumblr because I used it so much. We had matching links at one point. He Skyped me when I came home from college. I got a job, a good job but I still had time for him. I moved in with friends downtown. I got a new, good job. I was meeting people. I was partying. I was hooking up with people because I had all these feelings for a guy halfway across the world that were becoming hard to deal with outside our computer screen Skype world. It was easier to crash into guys who didn’t really care about me and wouldn’t notice I wasn’t exactly there for them emotionally 100%, even if I pretend or felt like it for fleeting moments in time. It had been three years since we first met. I started fading. I was working 40 hours a week. I hated my job. Loving him and not being with him was suddenly becoming painful. Not talking about it because it was painful and a useless conversation was even more painful. It wasn’t easy to accept anymore. It wasn’t easy to know that everyone around me wasn’t him. That no one could amount to him. That I could harbour so much feeling for a guy I’d never met. Would maybe never meet. These feelings were suffocating. I was drowning in something I couldn’t have. Couldn’t even touch. He was mad at me for becoming more and more unavailable. I tried to explain it. He was killing me. He couldn’t understand. He still wouldn’t.
We Snapchatted. Barely. I found a boy at home who wanted to hook up and also be a friend. Eventually it crashed into a million fucking pieces, but it helped me. At least, I thought it did. I tried so hard to make it work. If I couldn’t have England Boy, maybe this guy would date me. Maybe I’d finally be worthy of “girlfriend.” Well, I wasn’t. I lost the extended fling, and the guy halfway across the world was hurt that I was distant. Because he couldn’t understand. Because I couldn’t understand.

Now we never talk. I don’t remember the last time we had a video chat. Over 6 months ago? He’s back with his girlfriend who never cared enough. He’s got a life and he’s ignoring me.

It’s August 11th, 2015, and four years ago today, I met you. And our relationship killed me.

anonymous asked:

Ooh show us ur perspective piece!!!!

Hey!! I’m excited you’re interested but first off like lol bc I used the wrong word in that post of mine; I should have said point of view or smth else alsdkfsakf but ya!! I can show you!! Honestly, it’s not that exciting to look at but I’m going to explain the concept of it and actually, anon, thank you?? For this chance, I mean. Because the topic of this project is something not talked about often enough (which is exactly the reason it got assigned to us).

So to start off with, the piece was for a quick project we had to do for my class Art and Context. It’s meant to be a response to The Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada, which basically works to find out the truth and history of the residential schools we used to have.

So, Canada. The maple leaf country, the hockey country, the nice country, and oh how we’re always playing the nice card (or having it played on us); this country has a dark past, one of colonialism, and displacing and assimilating Indigenous peoples into western European culture (although this is probably obvious).

One form of assimilation was done through residential schools. This was a system (funded by the government and run by churches) to snatch up Indigenous children from their families and keep them at these boarding schools where the……staff, I guess, would mould them into an ideal western civilian. Over 130 existed, and more than 150k children were students.

These weren’t nice places. Children were kept away from their families and stripped of their cultural identity. Probably the first thing that happened when they arrived would be to have their hair cut and their clothes thrown out (and replaced). They were punished for speaking in their own languages or practicing their own cultures.

Aside from this cultural genocide, they weren’t……..even learning that much. As in, only half the day was spent in the classroom, before they were sent to do chores (cooking and cleaning) to keep the institution running at a low cost.

The children were abused here, physically, sexually, and, although not written explicitly in the articles we were given to read, most certainly mentally too.

The living conditions were inadequate and there are actually 3201 (poorly) recorded deaths of children at these schools. They died from illnesses, diseases, fires (bc these schools did not have proper fire escapes), failure of escape, and many unfortunately committed suicide. Although records suggest 3k, it’s estimated that the death toll is closer to 6k.

I don’t know how surprising or alarming these facts are to you, but when I was in elementary school, I very vaguely remember there being only one or two lessons that mentioned these schools. It was an understandable concept to me that the children would lose their culture since they were being barred access to it, but I don’t think my teacher ever mentioned actual deaths.

This aspect is what my piece aimed to prompt discussion from. I titled it It was more than a school…it was a burial ground. It’s meant to be a flip of the more common use of the phrase, which tends to frame things in a more positive light (ex. It was more than a school, it was a second home. I have instead turned the phrase into one with a negative connotation.)

Basically, these are headstones. The overall message is that sending Indigenous children to residential schools was causing the death of their cultures and resulted in many dead native languages. The last tombstone reading “LIVES” is a note to the viewer that the idea of “death” here is not metaphorical by any means. People died here; innocent children who wanted nothing to do with this place lost their lives at these schools. The simplicity of them is also intentional, bc these children would be buried at an unmarked grave, hidden away and forgotten.

ANYWAY I want to quickly apologize, bc your ask sounded so excited and I’ve given you this really long and rather bleak response, but this is undoubtedly a serious topic and!! It’s one that has been tossed under the rug and rarely mentioned until a few years ago. My prof said that this project is fairly new and when they first introduced it, students were embarrassed and upset at not knowing anything about this, about their country that they often take pride in.

Our country’s system failed us bc it is not a requirement that schools teach us about the people we owe our entire country to, but I do know that they’re working towards it being a mandatory class now. There is no way to rewrite the past, but at least we are finally working towards educating new generations about the history that has been brushed aside for far too long.

The signs as Stress
  • Signs as stresses
  • Aries: Having too much on your plate at once, spreading yourself too thin because you feel like you have to accomplish all your goals and be the best you can be all the time. Cut yourself a break and realize you have your whole life ahead of you. You don't have to be 100% on track every single day, sometimes just taking a day to chill even if it puts you behind a little can be therapeutic and make you even better when you get back to the grind.
  • Taurus: Others changing plans when you had the whole day planned out, things not going the way you want. Trying to control every situation may comfort you, but you can't possibly know what's going to happen all the time. Be more open to new experiences and remember, putting yourself outside your comfort zone can help you grow.
  • Gemini: Trying to figure out what you want to do with your life, deciding what you want to do as a career or where you want to end up in life. Nobody knows who they are the moment they're born. Life is about growing and learning and trying new things. You are a work in progress and the best thing you can do for yourself is what makes you happy now, in this moment. The future will be there when you're ready.
  • Cancer: Losing people close to you because of something you have done or said, being responsible for rift in your relationship with someone. Sometimes, you mess up. You say the wrong thing. If it was your fault, own up to it and try to move on. If you had to step away from a friendship because you felt like it was detrimental then keep your head up and know you deserve to be happy too. No one knows how other will react to what we say and do, you can only do your best to realize when you've messed up or if maybe the break was better for both of you. You may feel empty now but things will get better.
  • Leo: putting your all into someone and being let down, knowing that you are giving everything but they are only half-assing the relationship. You can try until you're blue in the face to help someone else and be there for them, but they don't owe you that in return. And you owe it to yourself to be around people who respect you and appreciate what you do. Don't get mad at them. If you're not being treated the way deserve, maybe you need to let them go and see if they realize on their own exactly what you're worth.
  • Virgo: not living up expectations, having the bar set too high by others and not achieving what they thought you could. Maybe you were super smart when you were young but now high school is much more challenging. Maybe you aren't getting perfect grades in college. Maybe your job is proving more difficult than you thought and now you have to try, every day, just to be average. The only bar you have to reach is the one you set for yourself. Don't get disillusioned by the things other people think you can do. If you are having a hard time, give yourself a break, step back, and set smaller goals for yourself. Take it one step at a time and remember that you can do it, maybe you you just have to work up to the top. It doesn't mean you aren't as smart or amazing or great as you were.
  • Libra: Not standing up for yourself, realizing you've been letting others walk all over you or take advantage of you. Sometimes you have to speak your mind, and sometimes you have to just let things happen. The hardest part is deciding which battle to fight. Never fighting, however, is only going to leave you stuck in whatever place others put you, following in the footsteps of a hundred other feet and feeling sorry for yourself. You have the right to challenge ideas you don't agree with and make your own destiny, even if if means you have to walk solo for a while. You are strong enough to March to your own drum. You are just as important as those around you, don't take the backseat.
  • Scorpio: losing control of your emotions, having a huge outburst and feeling attacked by those you love. Not everyone is out to get you! It's difficult to expose your inner thoughts to other people, not only because they can use it as a weapon against you, but because you feel like you are lesser and weak when you express yourself. But, if you keep everything inside until you explode on your friends, you only have yourself to blame when they won't put up with it anymore. Let a little out at a time, you don't have to dive in the water, but at least feel if it's warm before you lose your cool and hurt other people. Make an effort to be more open and I'm sure they will appreciate even a little budge.
  • Sagittarius: being stuck, for whatever reason, somewhere you dislike, feeling trapped or held down. For financial or other reasons, you may be stuck in a small town, a city you don't like, or a dead end job that makes you miserable. Keep. Up. The Hustle. You are destined for great things, but everyone faces setbacks. Learn a new skill, like crocheting or making something to make money on the side. Make connections with people who want to move forward too, End relationships with people who try to hold you back. Take every possible hand that reaches out to you and keep strong, you will be where you want to be someday. Don't take the little things for granted and keep your mind grounded and you can find your island in the sun.
  • Capricorn: running behind schedule or being late due to others, having someone not put in their share of work. People are people, and they make mistakes. Yes, it's annoying when your feel like you're the only one in the world who has it together, but one of these days when you fall behind pace, you'll appreciate the slack. Being constantly dragged down by others, however, isn't okay and if it becomes more than a minor inconvenience, maybe you need to switch up your role and put more pressure on others to succeed. (In a helpful way)
  • Aquarius: the weight if knowing you can't change things, knowing you are only one person and you can't alter the system no matter how broken. There are so many unfair situations, like a school system that loads you with so many tests you can hardly get by, or maybe your town is facing an apathy apocalypse where it seems no one cares about the environment, poverty, the ASSHOLE GOVERNOR (OHIO!) You see the big picture and that's a precious gift. The first step to changing anything is to recognize the problem, and if you stay passionate, you can change the world.
  • Pisces: getting older, the steady progression of time with an unclear future. Time moves forward, and that can make you feel as though you're being left behind. Everyone has this clear cut path and you feel like you're floating through, no particular goal or destination, a ghost wandering purposeless. At some point, every person has this existential worry that they will get older and still have not found their place. Just have some faith that one day, you will find what you love and things will come together. Life has a funny way of working out, even if you don't know it's plan just yet. Be patient and stay aware and present. Try not to get caught up in worrying and trying to imagine a perfect future. You are important and you will find happiness.
  • Check your Sun, Moon and Mars.
Psych Sentence Starters
  • "We may have a children of the corn situation happening here."
  • "You realize I carry a gun right?"
  • "I've heard it both ways."
  • "Don't be a rabid porcupine."
  • "I don't love you."
  • "Maybe when we get two gourds we can work that out."
  • "I'm never doing anything with you blindly again. I learned that at the mexican border, twice."
  • "You know how I zone out when other people talk."
  • "I got the tiny girl with the limp!"
  • "You don't have to prove you're a great criminal."
  • "Don't eat the chicken."
  • "The best way to convince someone you're not lying to them is to tell them you are!"
  • "I know, you know, that I'm not telling the truth."
  • "I left my cell phone in your car, along with a tuna sandwich. I really hope you found that."
  • "I was not hitting on your wife."
  • "Yours? That's funny I didn't see your name on it anywhere."
  • "I honestly have no response to that."
  • "Good help is hard to find I suppose."
  • "I can't be the fall guy in front of my hero!"
  • "I'm sorry sir, I didn't see you standing there. You know, being so stealth-like."
  • "Hear about Pluto? That's messed up, right?"
  • "There are over 400 stars in our galaxy! Maybe more, no one knows for sure."
  • "I'll be nice to you, just do me a favor, stop stealing the gum out of my locker."
  • "People are gonna miss me so much."
  • "You are gonna die, soon. Definitely before me if statistics prove correct! Which is so wrong, cause I'm practically asking for it!"
  • "Sorry I tried to kill you with a sword."
  • "You kiss him/her, you die."
  • "One minute you're witty, and sarcastic, and smart, and the next second your like a six year old looking for a popsicle."
  • "Dude, we already hung out with enough crazy white people with year."
  • "Just because you put syrup on somethin' don't make it pancakes."
  • "I feel like I've been incarcerated in a blueberry."
  • "You're supposed to not get arrested for murder!"
  • "Stay calm, I'm pretty sure ninety percent of gunshot wounds are psychological."
  • "What is the point of his face?!"
  • "I would like to use my out now!"
  • "I'm sorry this as far as I can take you."
  • "Why are you helping me, really?"
  • "Seriously, get out of the car."
  • "Hello, assface."
  • "I'll be damned, this is the second mexican standoff I've been in today."
  • "I'll quit when you're behind bars or dead. I don't really have a preference at this point."
  • "I'm just happy that you're safe."
  • "I'm just trying to help you, father."
  • "People need to know!"
  • "Doesn't anyone check for a pulse anymore?"
  • "I'm a sympathetic crier!"
  • "Why do you hurt me?"
  • "Only psychos answer ads on craigslist, you might as well have posted it on murder me this instant dot com!"
  • "How is it that I'm now being punished for being honest?!"
  • "If you killed him just tell me."
  • "Here's something stupid, I think I'm dying."
  • "How does that saying go again? Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice, won't get fooled again. Fool me a third time, and- the second time didn't really count because- damn didn't he look dead?"
  • "What would you do if that were Jesus' yogurt?"
  • "You want to walk my dog?"
  • "Security had to taze me."
  • "There is nothing funny about a three hole punch!"

I will never be able to grasp how people watch The L Word in it’s entirety and still manage to maintain this intense, virulent, obsessive hatred for Jenny Schecter. No one is saying you have to love her, but if that’s the way you respond to people like her, I’m going to need you to get extremely far away from me. 

In Case You're Waiting for Permission

• You’re allowed to be wrong
• You’re allowed to mess up
• You’re allowed learn life lessons more than once
• You’re allowed to give up on projects and hobbies that are longer interesting or require more energy than they’re worth
• You’re allowed to believe compliments you receive
• You’re allowed to lose touch with old friends
• You’re allowed to enjoy life, even when other people are struggling
• You’re allowed to feel tired, even after a good nights sleep
• You’re allowed to get excited about trivial things
• You’re allowed to feel proud of things you make, even if someone else could’ve done it better
• You’re allowed to change your mind
• You’re allowed to change it back

Life isn’t about being perfect
It’s about growing and improving from wherever you are today

  • Nepeta: *cares a lot about her ships*
  • Nepeta: *does stuff to try and make her ships come true*
  • Nepeta: *has herself and Karkat as her OTP*
  • Me: I wonder if she did stuff to try and make Karkat like her.
  • Nepeta "fan": HOW DARE YOU?! DON'T YOU REDUCE THIS FIERCE FEMALE HUNTER TO JUST HER "LITTLE CRUSH" YOU PIECE OF GARBAGE WHAT YOU'RE SUGGESTING IS 100% TOTALLY FALSE!!!

fun fact: literally every one of your faves is problematic BECAUSE NO ONE GOES THROUGH LIFE WITHOUT DOING SOMETHING WRONG

IT DOESN’T MAKE THEM EVIL IT JUST MAKES THEM A PERSON

so let people like who they like and chill out