you're all perfect people

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Don’t forget Gorillaz fans, Jamie Hewlett exist! He made all you’re favorite band members come to life in the music videos, shorts, ect! He continues drawing them countless times and works day and night to give you new content with the band members! So please appreciate him!!! ❤❤❤

How To Have a Positive Fandom Experience (it is possible)

1. Not every post requires a reaction. Seriously. I see people exhausting themselves writing responses to a post they don’t agree with when in reality the ONE nice thing about tumblr is if you don’t agree with an opinion you can scroll…. right…. past it. You can hide it from appearing on your dash again. You can blacklist its tags, block the person, etc. Take advantages of the positives of this website and it will already be a much better experience for you.

2. Not every comment requires a reaction. Same thing above goes for all those comments people put on your posts JUST TO GET A REACTION OUT OF YOU. Do you know how many times a post of mine has made it’s way to a different fandom. I look through my notifs and suddenly just see “BELLAMY BLAKE SUX DIK.” Just. Block them.

3. Not every message requires a response. Again, no ones holding a gun to your head saying “you need to respond to every anon sent to you.” I see people responding to anon hate and I just think why the hell would you do that? You’ll NEVER see me respond to anon hate. I can’t think of anything funnier then knowing someone out there got heated enough just over my presence on the internet to type up an angry message, hide behind anon, and now is sitting there waiting for my response. Meanwhile i’ll have read all of 3 words in their message before blocking their IP from ever messaging me again. And they’ll just keep sitting there and checking back waiting for a response they’ll never get while I keep posting shit like “BLARKE IS GONNA FUCK”

4. Unfollow, break mutuals, block people. You’re ALLOWED to do that. I break mutuals all the time and I unfollow people really easily. There’s a reason I’m never following over 90 blogs. I’m not saying that to be cocky, I’m telling yall to drop the mentality that “oh I can’t unfollow this person because we used to talk and they’re kinda big in the fandom and I don’t wanna start shit” and that ever since I dropped that, I do not see drama on my dash. I see my other mutuals referring to the drama, but I never see it because I’ll have already unfollowed the person. IF THEY WERE PROBLEMATIC ONCE,,, THEY’LL BE PROBLEMATIC AGAIN. 

5. This “Discourse” Trend. isn’t. cute. Take it from someone who used to constantly get involved in that shit. You think it makes you “one of the blarke fam.” It doesn’t okay, it makes you one of the assholes. No one wants to be friends with that person who’s constantly angry about something. I understand calling out problematic things (that absolutely should happen) but when every single one of your posts is just you being angry, you making a problem out of every little thing, you bringing down others with you, you getting involved where you shouldn’t be, you fighting people, you writing posts shading someone else’s post, you bringing up old and DEAD shipwars (seriously why are yall still posting l.exa hate, LET IT GO)… you’re not only ruining the experience for yourself but for every single person who follows you and who sees those posts. YOU are contributing to the “fandom drama” and YOU are the reason so many of the newbies in the fandom get involved in discoursing so fast. And guess what? no one feels fucking sorry for you when you’re the one taking a break from tumblr every week because we all know you bring it on yourself.

**To the newbies in the fandom: I know you see it a lot, I know you think this is the only way to be involved in the blarke fam, I know you think it’ll get you a lot of followers and more known in the fandom. Trust me when I say you do not wanna go down that path. It’s not at all fun and there’s a reason the blogs who do this are the ones who want to quit the show, the fandom, tumblr. TRUST ME, I ALMOST QUIT LAST SUMMER, I WAS THAT BITCH. You wanna be more involved? message people, write positive posts, get involved with shit like bellarke fam selfie night. Stay away from the discoursing.

*Doesn’t apply to social justice issues, those should very much be talked about. But stfu about it if you’re straight and white please. And stop speaking over the lgbt poc in the fandom,,,in attempt to get notes and followers*

6. Stop being bullies. You might think you’re “edgy” and a badass bitch for writing a post shading someone, or for being part of a group that gangs up on that one person in the fandom. You’re not edgy, you’re not That Bitch, you’re just A Bitch. You’re the bully that you never got to be in highschool. That’s really all I have to say about that,,,just don’t be a dick ??

7. And finally. Be the positive presence. Be that blog people can come to for a laugh when they’re having a bad day (making people laugh feels a lot nicer then getting people angry, down, etc.) Be the person people feel comfortable enough messaging you. Be the person who drops KIND anons in the ask box of someone you feel maybe doesn’t always receive a lot of love. ***Reach out when someone makes a post about having a terrible day/being in a down mood/struggling with life or mental illnesses.*** Comment and reblog peoples selfies and hype eachother up. Be the person who points out positives of an episode and who can make someone feel better when they’re feeling disappointed. IGNORE THE NEGATIVE ANONS (seriously no one wants to see “bellarke is never gonna happen” on their dash. If we did, we’d be following people from a different fandom.) Ignore the drama, ignore the discourse, ignore the downers in the fandom.

You never know what someones going through outside of tumblr. For a lot of people logging on here is the only distraction they get from what’s going on in their real life. Think about that before putting something negative on someone dash, or before sending a mean anon, or before joining a group to shade That One Person.

Harry Potter was brave, selfless, and kind but he was also impulsive, un observant, and stubborn and put himself in harms way for others without thinking of the consequences

Ron Weasley was incredibly loyal and would give up anything for those he cared about but he was also insecure and judgmental and petty in some situations

Hermione Granger was clever as anyone and had the determination to get things she thought important out there for everyone to see but she was bad at admitting her wrongdoings due to a strong fear of failure and often came off as rude because she felt the need to show others she was right

Sirius Black was strong willed and would put himself in dangerous situations for anyone he thought deserved it but he was damaged and spiteful and when angry would spit out hurtful things to simply win an argument

Remus Lupin was caring and accepting and always made time for those who needed it but he was self loathing and felt he was undeserving of others care and love resulting in him often pushing others away so they wouldn’t get too close

Molly Weasley was giving, generous, and would do anything for her children, blood or not, but she was prejudiced and often said things in the protection of others that were rude and hurtful

Albus Dumbledore was kind and warm and was there as a reminder of protection but he was cold when he needed to be and would give up anything for the greater good of the world

Draco Malfoy was determined and strong but he was spiteful and pompous and he was a scared boy caught in a bad situation that he handled even worse

Neville Longbottom was kind and thoughtful but he was self doubting and unsure of himself causing him to act feeble at times

Ginny Weasley was confident and passionate but she cared too much and thought things out too little often putting herself in danger for other’s wellbeing

Every character that we all love and care for has downfalls just like every one of us do but that doesn’t stop us from loving them and seeing the good through the bad. Just because you have parts of you that aren’t so pretty doesn’t mean nobody can look past them and love you besides them, we do it everyday with these characters. Nobody writes books about perfect people for a reason

My mom - a middle school teacher - sent this to me this morning. She told me she’s going to post it on her door and all over her classroom. A lot of her coworkers are also joining in with her to post this letter in their classes.

What’s even better, is she sourced it at the bottom

anonymous asked:

(Wolverine fic.) "I wish I was attractive like her." "Kara, you are." "No I'm not." "Trust me Kara, you're attractive." "Y/N, you're just saying that to make me feel good." "Kara, the human race has grown more attractive over time. If we lived back in my time, men would be trying to court you left and right." "Court me?" "They'd want to marry you. Why? Because compared to people back then, you're smoking hot." "Thanks." "Why do you think I'm so nervous to talk to people? You're all hot."

Originally posted by dailysupergirl

“God, she’s perfect,” Kara sighed at the magazine cover.  You glanced up at her from across the dentist’s waiting room and frowned.  “I wish I was attractive like her.”

“Kara, you are.”

“No, I’m not,” the blonde snorted.  You sat up in your chair and rolled your eyes.

“Trust me, you’re attractive.”

“Y/N, you’re just saying that to make me feel good.”

“Okay listen, the human race has grown more attractive over time.  If we lived back in my time, men would be trying to court you left and right.”

“Court me?” she arched an eyebrow skeptically.

“They’d be begging to marry you because compared to people back then, you’re incredibly attractive.  Your incredibly attractive by today’s standards too, by the way.”

The Kryptonite looked down at her lap and blushed.  A fidgety hand came up to straighten her glasses and tuck golden strands of hair behind her ear.

“Thanks.”

“Why do you think I’m so nervous to talk to people?  You’re all hot.”

Just a little advice

Don’t look for attention. It doesn’t matter when you have the few people you need. You don’t need to be anyone else than you. Be yourself, be proud of you, be a freaking weirdo if you want to and be PROUD of it. Really, don’t search for attention you don’t need. ALSO, let me tell you, you have flaws and you´re not perfect, you will never be and THAT’S TOTALLY OKAY. Push yourself and be a perfectionist, TRY YOUR BEST ALWAYS but don’t worry or get angry or discouraged when something doesn’t go perfect or as you wanted. Rejoice when something goes as you expected, enjoy it, but don’t hang up sad or upset when it doesn’t happen. You don’t need to impress anyone more than yourself. BE HAPPY, PLEASE. Do the things you love, try to care less about other’s opinions about you and care about your own opinion. And please, please, SMILE.

CALLOUT POST FOR THE BEST PEOPLE EVER

@techheads / @bachi-n-scotch / @2askpip-dot6 / @martyslittleusedblog / @dominic-the-waiter / @galaxythebat / @sally-stage-play / @easyedd / @beachcitybeats / @askcupheadthings / @littlemugblue / @themugofreason / @endy-dragon

All of these people????? Every single one???? They’re the BEST

Frickin!!!!!!!! Love these guys!!!!!!

I am BLESSED by them I am HONOURED to know them because guess what?????? They’re all just PERFECT

They’re all just such wonderful people and!!!!!!!!! I love them so much!!!!!!

AKA a festive appreciation list of my favourite beautiful mutuals that never leave me out of things to reblog and brighten up my dashboard daily (and will also hopefully forgive the shocking excuse of a banner I have) I love and appreciate all of you

A-D

@agentsofsheild @ahslydias @ailaikmonti @alisonfields @allisonargrrnt 

@allisons-malia @allydi-a @allydiasparrish @alphaclarke @argentless @argnthunter @arkstation @arlamontgomery @arrystarrk @ariasxmas 

@aprohdites @banshee-cheekbones @banshee-stilinski @barneswalds @barryoftheallens 

@beautyinfiction @bellamiyblake   @bellamyblqke @bellamybutts @bellamyheartsclarke 

@bellamyscllarke @bellarke-olicity @bellsblakers @bellslarkes @betasbark 

@bilesbilinksi @bisexualscottsmccall @bitchcankeepasecret @blakemccall 

@bleusargnet @blvesriley @bobbimmorse @bobbimorxmas @bobs-morley 

@borryallun @bravenheart @bringmeamerrychristmas @can-i-lahey-by-your-side @capdamn 

@carolineforbvs @charlesdilawrentis @christmassyfitzsimmons @christmastydia @clarkent 

@clurke @coffeeequaltolife @communitythings @coyotesqueen @crankbridebrenda 

@daenarystorms @daeneyrstargaryen @daigehale @deaconhills @deanwinchcster 

@delinguents @derekshvle @dereksnowflakes @desmondhumes @dropshipp 

@dylanslydia

E-H

@eichenlydiamartin @everbellarke @eveskeating @felicityqueenotp @felicitysmoak 

@finndaumeron @fitzjema @fitzskimmuns @flareteresa @fyeahstilinskis

 @ggrinted @ghostdrives @ghostofliarspast @gladerlydia @goldenlydia 

@grifffins @grmescarl @grontward @grounderstiles @halecupcakes 

@hennigsdiana @herondiale @hollandhaynes @hugsbellarke @huntressblake 

@hustlepuff @hwells

I-L

@ianmitchells @idkliamdunbar @illuminatedlahey @isaaclayeh @isauclaheys 

@jacks-falahees @jasperjordan @jchnmurqhy @jemcvrstairs @jessicajonvs 

@jessiicajoans @johnmurphysass @jordarparrish @joshutchersno @jscajones 

@justa-captainswanshipper @kai–parker @keegscavanaugh @kendricksnowflake @killianjonesz 

@kiraslightning @klousmikaelson @ladystarkov @laurel-castilos @laurrahollis 

@layden @leopoldffitz @liamduxbar @linzzmorgcn @llydiastiles 

@lordclara @lostwinchestersouls @lovelyelenas @lucienscastle @lydiamartinisbetterthanyou 

@lydiamartinsel @lydiamartinskie @lydiamrtun @lydiasfears @lydiastilinks 

@lydsweston @lydixmartiin @lysdias

M-P

@mallcolmducasse @marrish-trash @martym @mazonhewitt @mchaleinski 

@merrycitysmoak @michaelscofield @miikaela @mikaelsonsreign @modernfarnily 

@mythicalbellamy @mythicalpll @myyahart @neverfindmegone @noahcezrny 

@noahcznys @noahsczherny @nogitsexy @obrein @obriensbae 

@obriensholland @obrienslydia @octaviha @okteivas @onlythegoodieyoung 

@peggycarthr @pllslays

Q-T

@queens-clarke @qveensfelicitys @raekenscody @rayvenreayes @reginamillsr 

@ridingbellamyblake @rileygadner @rileymlnkus @romerohaydns @ronvnlynnch 

@royalstefan @sammysmyweakspot @santasslahey @saratancredi @sarrgentblue 

@sassybarry @sassyblake @scallisonsmistletoe @scottmccaall @scsttmccall 

@scxsaac @sexybellarke @shutupmxrphy @sithbellamy @sitles @skaikrubell 

@skvegrant @skyezward @skypeoplle @smileorgotojailstilinksi @snowballstiles 

@snowblaikes @sourwolfsam @sowrwolf @spacewakler @spencerhastiengs 

@sprayeberry @staliasfated @stefansplaidshirt @stefasalvatore @stilesnky 

@stilesreindeer @stilesscreams @stilessdylan @stydiaobviously @stydiasgold 

@stydiaspoby @stydiasxmas @stydiuhs @styvdia @stveroger-s 

@subjectalby @sunheda @swanspirate @swanvalkyrie @talesofmidgard 

@the-banshee-spark @thealphalife @thelightreflects @therealspacewalker @theteenstiles 

@thesourwolfs @thiaqueen @tinykhaleesi @tobyrivers @tonhiddlestom 

@trigedakrubellamy @tvler-posey @twigmw @tylerposeysgirl @tylrpozey

U-Z

@vibraneium @voidalqha @voidtate @volldemorts @wandamavximoff 

@wcnhedas @wellsjaaha @werewolfhunterbansheehuman @wherecoyote @wifiandbow 

@wolfedhale @wollfsmoon @wrxnkingston @yeahstydia @yukimurua 

@-somerhalder

6

To anyone who believes their cosplays aren’t “good enough”,
Trust me, I know it may seem difficult, but the truth is, it just takes time! Cosplays improve as you grow with them, and soon enough, you’ll be proud of yourself, and you’ll be so glad that you never gave up! I mean, it took me three years to get where I am now, and I’ve improved a lot, so you can too! Don’t ever lose hope, because someday, you’re going to be everything you’ve dreamed of!! I want to remind you that you’re beautiful in every way and you’re capable of everything you set your mind to!! I wish you all the best of luck my friends! ❤️

Please excuse my awesome editing skills lol. I literally just used a text box and put this thing together under 5 minutes. (^: ikik, I’m talented.

So as you can see, 3k also known as 3,000 amazing people follow me… And I feel super honor for it. It’s already 3k+! I seriously try my best to give content, but I use a school laptop. They tend to block websites from us, so I can’t give my full effort, which sucks because I want to give my full effort on this blog. I really wish I can afford my own laptop and start creating gifs, edits, vines, etc. but I don’t have money to. /tears/ I also won’t be as active during the Summer because the school is taking away laptops very soon and I’ll only have my phone to manage it. But as soon as I get a laptop, I’m gonna give my full out meme supremo self onto this blog again. (I mean I probably will be active, but it’ll be a bit different)

SO NOW ON TO THE FOLLOW FOREVER! <3 These people are lovely and sweet, you should follow them if you haven’t already. Some may be inactive, but what the heck, why not follow them? 

my secondary account: @sstephaniexo 

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Okay, looking at the lolilo tag in the aftermath of AFTERMATH, a lot of people seem to be thinking of Balthazar as like perfect or not having any flaws but… i disagree. a lot.

I think the responsibility that Balth feels for peter is a Major Flaw. That is not healthy. that is so not how to have a friendship. ultimately Peter is responsible for himself, and while it’s okay to care about friends, it’s really not a good thing that Balth feels guilty about and personally responsible for Peter.

Let’s also not forget that Balth is non-confrontational to a fault and doesn’t sit down and talk things out and actually address problems.

Now this is not me hating on Balth at all, I love him as a character and I think he’s a very interesting character, but he’s certainly Not Perfect. In fact, one might argue that the point of LLL is that Nobody is Perfect.

I know that people often fall into dichotomous thinking that there is “Good” and “Bad” characters, or people, or whatever. But I’d like to encourage people to consider that stories, the world, characters, other people, etc. are a lot more complex than just “Good” or “Bad”.

As always, all dichotomies are false dichotomies. Putting someone (even a character) on a pedestal is one of the worst things you can do to them because they will inevitably fail to live to your expectations of them.

So here, late for everything, is my 2015, birthday and 1.5k follower follow forever. Here is a mix of blogs I couldn’t survive without, blogs I just love to see on my dash but don’t talk to much and blogs I admire from afar. You’re all wonderful and thank you for making my tumblr experience so great. Being part of this fandom is amazing and don’t forget – keep the magic alive! :-)
I’ve probably missed someone so before we start: BLOGROLL

Networks:

themerlinfamily - merlingraphicandgifmakers - warlockandking - onceandfuturenetwork

Extra-special, wonderful people:

Rie (nooowestayandgetcaught), Alex (babyintrenchcoat), Lupe (colinmorgain), Carola (landofmerlin), Kate (ontheshoresofavalon​), Christina (prince-pratdragon)

Amazing blogs:

a-f

agentpegqy, andatimeofmagic, angelcolby, arthur-penclragon, bahst, bisexualmerlin, bradleyjizzames, brolinbutts, brolin-truelove, camelotsclotpoles, clotpolesonly, colinmorfan, colinmorgasms, cuddlebucky, cutiemerlin, dameragnelle, deanpendragon, dstomanderson, emrysangelus, faymcwrath, fy-merlinxarthur

g-m

gepardikinonkissa, gwenpendrragon, iceicebradley, imagine-pendragons, johnmurqhy, knight-gwaine, knightmordred, merlinsbluebutterfly, merlination, merlinermys, merlins-earmuffs, merlin-gifs morgeana, morganalefaey, mordredd, mykingdomscome

n-z

ofkingsandlionhearts, peggxcarter, pendhragon, permanentmochakisses, pratarthur, pratleyjames, princessspendragon, pxndrys, sermerlins, sirgvvaine, thedolma, vaevictxs, youareemrys