Dorian, don't you think it would be better to adopt a child rather than got yourself pregnant? I don’t mean to sound like an ass, i'm just sorry that you're feeling so bad because of your dysphoria.
I’m sorry, because I understand this was meant as a ‘I don’t want you to be dysphoric!’ Thing, but this comes off as very rude. Our choice in how we had a child is absolutely no one else’s to have an opinion on. My venting about my dysphoria doesn’t make me any less happy about being pregnant. And for the record, I actually *wanted* to have the very unique experience of having a child this way. I wanted to feel those first strange flutters of life. I wanted to experience the back pain and the discomfort, and the reward of holding him the moment he’s born. The way I feel about my body is secondary compared to the excitement of bringing my son into the world.