Hi! I know this doesn't have anything to do with BTS but I don't know who I should tell this and reading Mr. Min I thought maybe you had an answer. My boyfriend and I have agreed that he can call me slut and whore during sex and I'm okay with that(+)
(+) but the other day we were together with some of his male friends and I hugged one of them (in a friendly way). It was all normal until he brought it up and told me ‘You are not a slut only in bed afterall’ in a very aggressive way. I don’t (+)
(+) know if I should call him out or tell him it hurt me because he’s been acting normal again since then. Thanks if you answer this 🙇
Okay, I usually don’t answer most of the asks about people’s personal relationships that I get but I really want to address this. There is a huge difference between agreeing to use demeaning names during sex and using them outside of that. Just because you consented to being called a slut in bed doesn’t mean that he has any more right to call you that outside of the bedroom than before. He is absolutely in the wrong here and you should call him out. Let him know how it made you feel and express that you don’t appreciate it. He should value you and understand that you are absolutely entitled to friendships with men and hugs are in no way cheating or immoral in any way.