you really need to stop now

Bouncing back after a binge

I don’t have all the answers but this is what I know seems to work for me like 85% of the time. It’s not perfect, but the odds are quite good, so obviously i have to share. 

1. You need to get out of your skull. 

Your thoughts and feelings after a binge can be absolutely toxic, suicidal and never-ending. I am not joking. It is enough to drive someone to the brink of their sanity. 

2. You need social interaction

You need to laugh out loud, bitch and just have an exchange with another human being that really brings you into the present moment on that you can stop living in your skull because it is a painful place to be right now. You need to get as far away as possible from self-hate and endless chatter in your brain.

So schedule to go out with friends, with family, spend time being not alone or alone in your own skull. Don’t let yourself be alone with your thoughts for too long to ruminate and go into dark places. 

3. Get rid of the binge food. 

You’ve probably bought a huge stash of binge foods .. chips, chocolates, maccas, whatever….. right? It’s time to throw it out or give it away. 

IF you think its a waste of money, it’s not. You already spent the money when you purchased it. It either goes in the waste or to your waist. 

I guarantee, everytime you see the binge food, you will be tempted to go and grab it and binge some more in a freaking heartbeat. Looking at it will cause emotional turmoil and unnecessary temptation.  You know you can’t eat it in moderation at this point, it’s literally all of nothing. Also, visually and psychologically, getting rid of all that trash is like clearing away all the negativity and toxicity out of your life and starting over a clean slate. 

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Gwendolyn rolled up another date want, and since Adrian was out at class, she picked Cherry, who’d been pretty heavily romancing her. They did the usual things Sims do on dates, but the “highlight” was a truly awful karaoke duet. Like, spectacularly awful. Seriously, I haven’t heard worse singing since I heard Katy Perry try to sing Queen’s “Don’t Stop Me Now.”

(I beg you, don’t click on that link if you value your eardrums. You’ve been warned. I mean, she’s singing in a completely different key than the band is playing in. Poor band. Pop singers whose “talent” lies mostly in their prettiness and who rely on Autotune to sound remotely decent really shouldn’t try to sing live without their Autotune crutch a song that even Freddie Mercury himself struggled with occasionally, since it’s an insanely hard song to sing… But, if you did click and need to repair your eardrums/restore your faith in humanity, here’s how it’s really done. Live, even.)

ANNOUNCEMENT

My sweet souls 💕

I’m back from my trip and I finally had the time to check my inbox properly. I don’t know how often I already said this, but fam you are so insane! My askbox is so stuffed, I have almost 100 requests to catch up on 💫 

This is the reason why I decided to currently close the askbox for any requests. If I don’t take some time now, I will never be able to manage all of this. However, you can still stop by for some talk or any questions you might have 💙

I’m super sorry and I apologize to everyone who wanted to submit something. Please keep it in your mind and submit it once I’m taking requests again. I really need time to make it up to you Sweethearts, I still have asks from around two weeks ago and I’m sure some of you are waiting for me to answer your asks. 

I’m really sorry that I’m not able to manage a proper time schedule! I never expected so much asks when I started, it’s so overwhelming. I still cry over each and every of your kind words ❤ I don’t know what I did to deserve you Sugarcubs 🙈 After all, it’s thanks to all of you that this blog is running! I’m literally doing the minor work here, it’s your ideas keeping boku no family alive 💖 and I cannot stop saying this, I love you all so much. Every like, comment, repost means so much to me. 

Again, I humbly apologize that I couldn’t get more work done over the past three days 😓 I’m trying my best to handle all of your asks from now on. 

Since I just came back from a 10hrs bus ride, I’m going to sleep now, recharging for you guys 🌌

Once I’m back with the living I’ll do the post about the Boku no Hero Academia Cafe I visited. Then I’ll finish the last Sinday hc before I start with the pile of regular asks and scenarios. Please bear with me 💗

Good morning/day/night wherever you are! 💫 Lots of love for you my wonderful, precious, beautiful souls 💕

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An afternoon date~

and a bonus

I really need some like, otayuri fluff in my life rn?? Like pls

•At the beach and Otabek cant swim so Yuri tries to teach him how to swim
•it turns into a giant mess tho because Yuri is apparently a really shitty teacher
•Otabek kisses his frustrations away and instead they make sand castles

•Otabek can draw?? What?? So Yuri lays down on the couch in the LEAST sexy pose and says “draw me like one of your french girls”
•Beka takes a whopping 5 minutes on it, coloring and all, and they laugh at it for 10 minutes
•Later when Yuri falls asleep during the movie at the other end of the couch, Otabek sneaks down and actually does a very nice portrait of Yuri asleep
•Yuri has them both framed in his apartment next to each other

•Yuri constantly buys shit for Beka because he has like no impluse control
•Guys this boy has like a $1,000 backpack okay dont talk to me
•Anyways one day he buys Beka this leather jacket that looks like it belongs in a Lady Gaga music video. Its a crop top jacket with studs and fringe EVERYWHERE and Yuri LOVES IT
•After mails it, like, a week later, Otabek posts a pic on instagram of him, leaning against his bike, in leather skinny jeans and the jacket with ray bands on and it goes like, viral over night. Yuri is s h o o k. Otabek texts him later like, “Oh, by the way, thanks for the jacket Babe”

Give me the boys being silly and stupid and in love p l e a s e

Harry Potter and His Complete Lack of Shower Etiquette.

Harry tossed his uniform over the back of the sofa as he flicked open the top few buttons of his shirt and entered the kitchen to get himself a long drink of water. He was hungry; Draco had already ordered Chinese. The take-out containers sat on the table, neatly arranged in the centre under a Stasis, with two plates, forks and the paper-wrapped chopsticks laid out ready. 

But it was a sudden craving for something cold and sweet that hit him and after pointlessly digging around in the freezer for a few seconds, he gave up and went looking for his boyfriend. He could hear the shower running now, as he walked further into the flat and the muffled humming that seemed strangely magnified as it echoed off the wet tiles. 

The bathroom door was ajar and Harry elbowed his way in. Draco was a long, blurred form in the tub behind the curtain, his hands in his hair as he lathered. He hummed the chorus of the song for a fifth time - he was pants at memorising the rest of the lyrics.

Snorting softly, Harry curled his fingers around a fistful of the damp curtain and pushed it aside with a careless, “Hey, are we out of–”

But his question was drowned out at Draco’s vague humming morphed into a severely high-pitched shriek as he turned around to face Harry, both hands flying down between his legs to cover his bits. Sweet smelling suds of shampoo ran down the sides of his face and his hair was sticking up in wet bunches. The shower was still running, pouring onto his shoulder and back, the steam rising around him like a cloud. His eyes were huge and round with shock and his mouth was open in a scream that went on and on. 

He was frankly completely adorable.

“Stop screaming.” Harry rolled his eyes. “For fuck’s sake, Draco, it’s just me. Are we out of ice cream? I saw a tub in there last week–”

“GET OUT!” Draco shrieked, lifting one hand to violently point a soapy finger towards the door, spattering Harry with streaks of apple scented water. “YOU ILL-MANNERED WRETCH! GET OUT!”

“Oh my god, I fucked you in here only this morning!” Harry reminded him incredulously. “I’ve seen you naked literally every single fucking day for over three yea–”

“HARRY, I WILL STAB YOU IN THE FUCKING EYE!” Draco bellowed, eyes bulging manically, hands curled into fists. “I HATE YOU! GET OUT! GET OUT!–”

“Fine!” Harry was already backing away. “Jesus Christ,” he muttered under his breath as he exited the bathroom, shutting the door firmly behind himself so that the continued screams of have you no sense of propriety whatsoever and how is it that I’ve ended up with a shamelessly indecent, completely uncouth piece of shit like you faded away to muffled screaming coupled with the steady gush of the shower.

Harry laughed for a whole ten minutes.

(Insp.)

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@cheshirerabit said: Shit, your teacher Bakugou idea is something I never considered but now think would be really cool. Cuz he would not stop being a hero but he wouldn’t half-ass being a teacher so it would be like how All Might attempted to hero and teach but could actually work. Plus, I’m all for Bakugou’s role model switching with time to Aizawa. 10/10 idea.

Anon said: OMG Fran now i want to see Teacher or Older Bakugou or or Bakugou with Aizawa

Bless both of you for giving me a reason to talk about this cause honestly I love this idea way more than striktly necessary - this!!! is how I like to think it would go down:

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 PERFORMANCE TEAM MESSAGES TO EACH OTHER ~

TO HOSHI

  • The8: Let’s work hard on exercising together. To show our fans a cool image kkk (even though you’re already cool!) Thank you for always listening well when I talk~ Having someone like hyung next to me is really great~ Let’s be together in the future too~
  • Jun: Cute and cool Hoshi Prince~ You know that I always love you right? ^_^ kkk I’ll work harder~ Together hwaiting ^o^
  • Dino: Aigoo Mr Hoshi~!! Brother! Hyung you know and think of my heart.. ^^ Like a real brother, our Soonyoung hyung, I love you ><

TO JUN

  • Dino: Our performance team flower boy Jun hyung~~>< Thank you for always being with us!! Even though I don’t say it often.. thank you and I love you^^ I’m being honest ^^
  • Hoshi: Jju-ni Jju-ni Always take care of your body and healthily carry out this round of activities >_< Because you’re here, it feels like performance team will not waver. Kind Jju-ni, thank you-ong ♥︎
  • The8: Together let’s hwaiting~ When hyung is tired, thank you for talking with me~ I will continue to listen well ^_^ Let’s do this together!!

TO THE8

  • Hoshi: Our The8, thanks to you we really gained strength and created pretty choreography. After coming to Korea, the way you adapted well is really pretty. Now, stop becoming so cool! Cool guy, let’s be together forever.
  • Dino: The8~!! Because hyung is here, our atmosphere has become even brighter >< Us 4 and 13, let’s be forever. Wo Ai Ni~ ♥︎
  • Jun: The8!! You have to eat more. More more more!! Because you’re doing a lot of dangerous stunts, you need to be careful of your health. Let’s go eat delicious Chinese food, gogogo

TO DINO

  • Jun: Dino~ Dino~ Our Dino-ya~ Dino who is always the most hardworking and has the most worries~ You already dance so well so always be confident. Together let’s hwaitingtingtingting!!
  • Hoshi: Our maknae~ >_< You being here is so reliable, but you don’t know it. Thank you for following your lacking hyung so well. From now on, let’s put in more effort and shock the world! Hwaiting ♥︎
  • The8: You’re really cool!! Don’t think so much~ Whenever you’re having a hard time, you must tell me~ Whatever happens, you have 12 hyungs by your side, so don’t be scared. Hwaiting!!

photo:  jiljil2_971107
trans: doogii-pd

[HIP HOP TEAM’S MESSAGES]

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YOI Future!Verse ABO AU, Visual Headcanon Web Charts #01

So I always wanted to make one of these. Turns out my headcanons for the most part are WAY too wordy for these things and uh, they’re a bit of a mess >.>;; BUT I hope nonetheless that they’re somewhat fun to read even if barely legible, it was fun to make ^ ^;

1. Super basic relationship chart of the core members of the lovely poly family in this AU.

2. “Adults Think,” the color of each adult indicates their feelings towards the person to whom the arrow is pointing.

3. “Kids Think,” the color of each OC kid indicates their feelings towards the person to whom the arrow is pointing.

There’s obviously a lot more to it than what could be crammed in the lil text boxes, but a gist and pretty much the first things that immediately popped into my mind regarding their interactions. 2 and 3 also mostly show their thoughts while the kids are younger, which will change a bit as they grow up, to be covered in a future post.

*Recommended you right click view image to see full size bc the text is tiny oops

Because the text is so illegible, text only versions of charts 2 and 3 beneath cut, all elaborated quite a bit because I’m so rambly oops:

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IF YOU ARE NEW TO THIS AU: It’s Yuuri-centric polyamory in an ABO setting, Yuuri’s married to four mates (Victor, Yurio, Phichit, Minami) and they have OC kids.

BASICS of this AU

INTRO to how ABO works in this AU

OTHER POSTS (comics + illustrations) in the Future!Verse ABO section of my YOI Masterpost.

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Please keep ship bashing out of the comments/tags. Don’t like, just skip <3 Thank you.

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PLEASE DO NOT REPOST, EDIT, OR OTHERWISE USE MY ART WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT PERMISSION. More detailed rules available on my Rules & FAQ Post.

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Ah Hogwarts, the beautiful castle on the beautiful hill, perfectly decorated for the spring dance. Students milling about- Why, I do believe I see Molly Prewett over there! Hello, Molly Prewett!

Don’t you look nice!

Are you ready to have a good time, Molly?

I’ll bet you are. And- My goodness, is that Arthur Weasley over by the punch bowl?

Why yes, Molly, he does look nice.

And are you going to ask Arthur to dance tonight, Molly?

That’s a little too scary for you, huh, Molly?

Well, would you like to dance with him, if he asked you to?

How are you going to get Arthur to ask you to dance, Molly?

Why, Molly Prewett, are you going to bust your best moves, in the hopes that Arthur will spot you across the dance floor, be overwhelmed by his love for you, and take you in his arms in a fit of passion?

Get it, girl.

…He doesn’t appear to be noticing, Molly.

Your flower just landed in the punch bowl, Molly. Now he’s trying to figure out where the flower came from.

It isn’t working, Molly. You may need to do more.

No good.

That one only really works when your partner is looking at you, Molly.

It’s safe to say that that’s not working for anybody, Molly.

You’ll not get a dance with Arthur Weasley if you do the twist, Molly. Be bold! Shake your groove thing!

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Quickly (Smut)

MASTERLIST

Request: Airplane sex and some fluff.  

Word count: 4,5745

Faint, slightly irritating rumbling sounds rang in my ears, slowly pulling me out of my otherwise heavy sleep and forced my sore eyes to blink a few times, before being able to open them fully. At first, everything seemed blurry and the noises surrounding me seemed rather unfamiliar. 

Slowly, waking up fully, I found myself laying in Shawn’s lap with my feet across the empty seat, I should have been sitting in. 

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The Wolf’s Domain

Words: 15, 795

Everyone writes about Werewolf!McCree, and I love it, but I tried my hand at Werewolf!Hanzo. It… got a bit out of hand.


Few ever branched into the wolf’s domain. It was not a place that wanderers could merely find themselves after a single missed turn or misread sign. This was the heart of the unsettled land, secluded, safe. People did not come here on their morning walks; beautiful as it was, it was simply not the place for man.

Few that wandered here possessed kind souls, not this distance from the beaten path through the forest. Those that meandered these grounds with a weapon in hand were only looking for trouble, and, most often, they would find it. The warnings posted at every entrance to the forest that bid travelers be wary were not decorations meant to be admired and forgotten. Those that freely disobeyed these warnings would come to regret their actions in time.


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that one scene is dear Evan Hansen where we all cry,,

Evan
Connor


I’m not doing this, I’m done

You can’t just stop now

There’s no way I can live with this anymore

What about my parents?

No more emails

How can you do this to them?

No more Connor project, no more orchard

After everything they’ve done for you…they need you.

need me for what, for me to keep lying to them?

That lie’s is the only thing that is keeping them together

That’s not- that’s not true.

Oh really? So they seemed like a pretty happy family when you met them?

I don’t wanna lie anymore!

What about Zoe?

Zoe said she just- she wants me.

Right.

Yes, yes- she likes me for who I am-

Except you didn’t happen to mention that everything you’ve told her, it’s all been one big fucking lie, did you? No you left that part out.

So then what.. Um.. What if I did her the truth.

She’ll hate you.

No, no, no- maybe she’d understand- Maybe everyone will understand.

Everyone will hate you

Not if I could just-not if I could just explain it

You’ll be right back to where you started

No. No, no, no, I’m done with this. stop

With no more friends, nobody, nothing. At all.

I’m ready to be done with it!

If you really believe that then why are you standing here talking to yourself? Again. You think you’re going to turn around, all of a sudden and start telling everyone the truth. You can’t even tell yourself the truth.

What are you talking about?

How’d you break your arm? How’d you break your arm, Evan?

I fell.

Really is that what happened?

Yes! I was just- I lost my grip and then I just.. I fell so..

Did you fall? Or did you let go? …you can get rid of me whenever you want. You can get rid of all of it; the Connor project, the orchard. But then all that you’re going to be left with…Is you. End of May or early June, this picture perfect afternoon we shared. Drive the winding country rode, grab a scoop at alamode and then, we’re there.

Something Just Like This

Summary: AU. This is the story of an ordinary couple with an extraordinary love.

Pairing: Bucky Barnes x reader

Word Count: 2,652 (without lyrics)

Warnings: language, fluff, sarcasm, pregnancy, mentions of bullying, illness, and death, song fic style

A/N: This is my oneshot submission for the poetic noble land mermaid @whothehellisbella and her Bella’s Cool Time Summer Jamz Mix Writing Challenge. My song prompt was Something Just Like This - The Chainsmokers, Coldplay. I hope you approve and enjoy!

Originally posted by duckybarness

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for the anon that wanted pics and gifs of pau behaving like a kid. i mean that’s him 99% of the time. he comes under the definition of ‘smol’ and ‘baby’ in the dictionary. also sorry for taking this long. 

we’ve got his weird way of twerking this looks like when a baby is first learning to walk and they sort of on their hands and feet and rock back and forth

this was just cute and i had to put it in. forget the jacket, hugging my mate is more important. 

aggressive angry child???

creepy stalker kid 

pumped up kid 

duck face kid 

having fun decorating christmas trees 

any post game celebration gif and videos 

baby photo bomb 

a boy’s best friend 

playing with his own bobble head 

and this 

these videos: 

1. paulo being an annoying fucker and not letting mira talk [x]

2. sleeping baby [x]

3.  the time he couldn’t tie his own shoelaces and needed sami to do it for him [x]

4. paulito singing [x]

5. being annoying af when he wins fifa [x]

6. Paulito singing [x] [x]

7. Dancing to trashy music  [x] (this was in the hallway in a hotel when they came on our down under. what would i have given to be in a room next to them and witness this live) 

8. being an extra awkward kid trying to get Iker’s attention [x

9. him just being a weirdo [x]

10. Finally finding playmates his acual age [x

11.  all posts where he’s losing ludo pretty much is a five-year-old kid having a mini tantrum. (He’s a sore loser) [x] [x]

12. Trolling mandzu (how he hasn’t been bashed in the face by mario baffles me. i ship these two sm) [x]

13. more mario trolling [x]

14. being a cute kid mucnhing on grapes [x]

15. claims to be a role model to children when he still is a child himself [x] (gif)

16. puppy snapchat filter looks so good on him (and anto too) [x]

Pic and gifs of paulo hanging out with other kids [x]

Bts reaction to their s/o touching their crotch by accident

Seokjin: He would start to joke around. “Jagi, I know that I’m really seductive and irresistible but please behave, we’re in public.”

Originally posted by jhopefluxo

Namjoon: Joonie would get worked up and don’t believe that it was just an accident. “Yeah sure it was ‘accidentally’. You can’t just stop now, babygirl.”

Originally posted by https-km

Yoongi: He’d start smirking and either ignore it or get horny, depends on his mood. “Do you know that you’re really naughty from time to time? I don’t care if it wasn’t intentionally I need you right now.”

Originally posted by nietcherry

Hoseok: Hobi would start laughing because he’s so surprised but also turn it into something dirty. “You know that I’m hard right now? Shall we fix this problem?”

Originally posted by vexedmikxyla

Taehyung: He’d get turned on the second he felt your hand. He smirks while loosening his belt. “You know if you already started why not making it properly?”

Originally posted by vthesecretoilet

Jimin: Jimin would start blushing when he gets a boner. “Listen y/n it’s not my fault that you have this kind of control over me. Let me show you how your body reacts to my touch.”

Originally posted by 9taefox

Jungkook: Kookie would be quite shy about it while still being turned on. “Are you sure this was accidentally? I mean if it wasn’t then we could maybe… go on?”

Originally posted by mybias-and-i


Hope you liked this reaction let me know, please request more (fluff, smut, angst whatever) 

i’m scared i’m never going to find happiness again.
Even after everything you put me through, i still love you because how can you hate someone you once loved? but you do it, you hate me,
so maybe you never did love me.
but oh how it felt like you did
Even after all this time, you’re all i think about
and i find myself wondering what it would be like if we worked out, if we were still together
but timing is everything
and i guess you got bored of me, so you left.
Even after you promised you wouldn’t, you did.
you decided one day you don’t love me and you left.
And i tried so hard to make you fall for me, but why would you?
i don’t have anything to offer, i’m nothing special.
So why would you fall for me?
Everyone’s telling me to move on and that you’re not good for me, and yes i know you’re not
but i don’t wanna move on
i don’t wanna love anyone but you
we’ve been through so much together & you ended it, just like that.
honestly some nights i think about taking my life if it means ending the pain, i can’t bear it.
And i’m not gonna text you on your new number because you’ll leave me on read, you always leave me on read.
At least when i message you on this, it’s not been opened, and i can allow myself to think that if you were to open it, you’d tell me that you still love me & that you never stopped, & that i’m still your everything, that you missed me more than anything & that you really want to make this work, that you’re not gonna let me go, not again.
Honestly? i’m nothing without you
the time we were together, i depended on you too much, that now that you’re gone, i’m not living, i’m just alive.
I’m barely breathing, i feel as if i’m dying without you.
I’ve felt most happy when i was with you.
The thought that you’ll come back for me stops me from moving on.
I just need you by me in life, even as friends.
—  itsfinebye,  i still love you, even though i shouldn’t
Buzzfeed Unsolved Starters

“I don’t think you can exercise spiders.”
“Oh see, NOW you’re acting like a detective, and not a jackass!”
“‘Dan’ just sounds like your neighbor who wants to borrow your lawn mower.”
“Here, I drew a picture of you with 3 butt cheeks. This drawing now exists in the world.”
“Since when has a skull ever actually shrunk in history?”
“This thought you’re having right now is not very spontaneous.”
“Too much fire here. What do I look like, a fireman?”
 "Cool guy. Coolest guy in history. Nice sunglasses. Wow! Bourbon’s great.“   
“Is it very European to burst into flames?”
“Are basketball players aliens?”
“How do we know his suit is black if it’s in a black in white photo? Maybe it was really navy blue.”
“I’m good, I’ll just sign up for karate.”
“Stop holding the pen like that, you look like an asshole.”
“I went to 8 churches today to get some holy water and i couldn’t get any, so now im going into a demon hole with no holy water!!”
“I’m 99.9% sure he’s never cut anyone’s head of in is time as a dentist.”
“Why you gotta go jumping off planes?”
“I don’t need to set my mom on fire for freedom!”
 "This piece of evidence was found on a Wikipedia page, therefore making it complete Horseshit.“
 "He’s a big dumb-dumb floating in the sky with his stupid trench coat blowing in the wind.”
 "There may very well be a hot dog vendor in Chicago who is a Bigfoot.“

I hardly see any posts out there about this so I guess I’ll be the one to do it. 

To all my beautiful followers with eczema, vitiligo, birthmarks, psoriasis, or any other skin condition-you are beautiful. 

For all my lovely guys, girls, and non binary friends going to prom this year and feeling self conscious as hell-I love you & you are beautiful. You slay in that dress or tux. I know it’s not easy but your skin condition does not define you.