You know one thing I’m doing differently that has helped make this breakup so much easier than my past breakups?
Blocking my ex on everything so I can never see his name and be tempted to look at what he’s posting. Also going 100% no contact, period.
Idk why I always did that before. I mean I do know… I was hoping to see him post something about hurting or feeling like they made a mistake for leaving me or something… But that literally never happens. You’ll always see the worst shit possible lol which is that THEY LEGIT DO NOT CARE and you think about it for the rest of forever and hurt so much harder and longer…
You think hitting them up semi-regularly on some friendly ship will make them wanna stay in your life or that it will remind them why they fell in love with you and that they’ll wanna get back together. You might even think having them as a friend is better than nothing.
Dont… Its literally torture and they’re probably only responding because they dont wanna hurt your feelings more. Just leave them alone. Erase all physical memory of them from your life. At least remove it from your line of vision lol. You’re just prolonging the hurt by not doing so.