Hi! - A little about me: I'm a cis gender male, demisexual panromantic. What's a good way to explain to someone that I'm not "basically a straight person"? Because when I try to explain to them my romantic/sexual life choices they seem to ignore everything I say and just focus on me either not "looking gay enough" there for I must be straight or they just flat out laugh at me & tell me that being "panromantic" is not enough and that most men have "crushes" on men aka "bromances" - what do!? T_T
I´m sorry to hear you´re having to hear those awful things!
Idk why I thought of this but bare with me! Take an egg and next time someone says that to you CRUSH the egg and say “That´s how I feel about your gross heteronormativity” and leave
Now fun aside I´d distance myself from those people, they´re not good for you. There are other people out there who are more understanding and sweeter, surround yourself with them.