you know who lies a lot

anonymous asked:

I haven't gone to school for weeks now. I lost all motivation to complete this school year, which ends next month, and I have no friends either. Everything seems useless. I don't know what to do anymore.

take a break. i think you really need to figure out who you are, what you want in life, and how to go about finding happiness for yourself. take a leave of absence and use that time to rest, reflect, and restart.

i remember when i would walk back to my dorm room in tears after critique days because i felt so worthless compared to the rest of my peers. i doubted myself a lot and thought i had been lying to myself (and been lied to by others) about my potential and talent. but during my leave of absence, i realized i was the one creating all of these assumptions and labels, not anyone else. i realized that i had simply been lost, confused, and unprepared to jump right into college life 3,000 miles away from home. and at the time, i thought that was unacceptable. everyone else was coping and handling everything just fine, so why couldn’t i? was i not strong enough? was i incapable? was i not college material? no. i was just different. and that was okay.

i think you need to know and reassure yourself that it’s okay to be sad and stressed and unmotivated. but don’t think being in a slump means you’re stuck forever. you have all the power in the world to start over again, but only if YOU choose to. no one can force you to go to classes, make friends, or be inspired. only YOU can do that. and only YOU can make that happen when YOU realize you are worth it.

I hate the fact you always feel like you have to be going somewhere, like the end destination is to be finished, or to be happy. But the truth is a lot of us are completely lost, and we don’t know, and that is also a state of mind, to not know who you are and where you’re going.
—  Lykke Li
Dear pre-vet

Hi there. I am approaching the start of my final year of vet school and I want to help you. Throughout my vet school journey I’ve learned a lot and I would like to tell you what I wish someone told me when I was in your situation. As those who follow me may already know, I like lists so:

1. You will get into vet school. Period.
When you know what you want and you are willing to work for it, you will get it. Hard road? Yes. Will you fail? Most likely. Should you give up? Fuck no. Anyone who tells you otherwise are telling you the same lies they tell themselves to validate not going after their own dreams.

2. Enjoy the journey.
You are allowed to be happy and enjoy life before reaching your goals. It’s the getting there that makes the end goal all the more sweeter. So while you’re doing that extra subject to boost your marks to get into vet school try to enjoy it!

3. There is no real ‘right way’.
People have their own baggage as I alluded to in point 1, so asking for advice on how to get into vet school is great and all but everyone’s situation is different. It’s important to learn from other peoples experiences but don’t let that hold you back from making your own. Just because it may not be ‘conventional’ doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

4. Work on yourself and your own mental health.
Do not fall into the trap of, ‘oh well once I get into vet school then I won’t have to worry about grades anymore and everything will be fine’. No, there will be other things to stress about. Stress is a part of life so start learning to manage it now because as a vet you’ll also have to manage other peoples stress on top of your own.

5. Only compare yourself to the you of yesterday.
Getting stressed over class averages is a waste of time because at the end of the day all you can do is your best. People can also bullshit about how much they ‘didn’t study’ for the test but still got a good mark. Everyone’s study techniques are different and what constitutes as a lot of study if relative. Just do you. You’re great!

6. When you are not coping well with something, tell someone.
Even if you think it might be silly relative to all the other problems in the world, they are still your problems so they’re important. Anyone who tells you otherwise doesn’t have your best interests at heart and are not worth your time. So when you’re feeling a bit overwhelmed with study or panicking that you may not get into vet school this year, talk to someone about it.

7. BREAKS ARE IMPORTANT! DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR TAKING THEM!
If you are procrastinating a lot, you probably need a break. Take some time off and do something you enjoy. Afterwards your study will be far more efficient.

8. The hard work doesn’t stop when you get into vet school. I doubt it stops when you’re a vet.
This is what I want to leave you with because this also ties back to points 2 and 4. As I am sure you are aware with going into this industry, mental health is a big issue. As the new generation of vet students and vets coming through let’s try to lower these statistics. Do not try to ignore what you’re feeling because ‘once I get into vet school it’ll all be fine’ or try to ‘tough it out’, if you need help, seek help, there is no shame in that. 

Good luck with your studies, be gentle with yourself, be kind to others and always give it your all. The world is your oyster and may your journey of life be a long one.

Regards,

VA

xx

anonymous asked:

Please do Ken/VIXX! I love your writing. You are one of my favorite writers. Because not only do you get the characterizations spot on, in my opinion, you also put out the ideas in such a way that it feels more organic. I don't know how you do it, but they always make me happy.

omg thank you so much ;;;; that means a lot to me!!!

  • lifeguard! ken
  • who has totally shown up to work in a speedo before because his lifeguard trunks were in the wash and no one could make eye contact with him for the Entire day
  • wears the sunglasses + the white stripe of sunscreen on his nose
  • puka shell necklace
  • lied that he cold surf on his application. he cannot,,,,,,surf let alone stand on the board
  • you’re at the beach on your day off, just relaxing with a book to read and ken thinks you’re awfully cute and it’s obvious by the way he keeps walking back and forth where you’re sitting flexing his muscles and going “im a lifeguard, call me if you need some help, im SUPER strong and SUPER cool”
  • and you roll your eyes, but he’s pretty cute 
  • but then suddenly,,,,,,,,,you look up at the sky and there’s rain,,,dark clouds,,,,,and whAM you feel the wind blow past
  • and someones grabbed a megaphone and yelled for everyone to get off the beach - there’s been a hurricane warning
  • and you gather your things, but then your towel blows away toward the ocean
  • and you’re like whatever but then you see ken,,,,,chasing after it into the water 
  • and you’re like nO DONT !!!!!!! the waves look super huge but ken is going anyway
  • and you’re standing there as everyones running past in a hurry and ken literally gets into the water to grab your towel and then tries to run back but gets knocked down by the wind
  • and you’re like “oh my god he’s so dumb,,,” but you can’t leave him so you run forward and help him up and you’re both dashing to make it inside of the locker rooms
  • and you’re standing next to him and ken’s like “got your towel back! no need to thank-” and you’re like “YoU COULD HAVE BEEN SWEPT UP IN THE WAVES DID YOU EVEN THiNK”
  • and he’s like ,,,,,,, “yes, true, but i got your towel back even though it’s all wet but hey” and he winks 
  • and you understand that he has no sense of the danger he put himself in,,,,,but he did it for you,,,,,and somehow that’s dumb but endearing
  • and you’re like “when this hurricane is over,,,,,,,,,do you wanna like,,,,,,get some food or something”
  • and ken grins and is like “sure! my shifts probably over since no ones gonna wanna swim in a hurricane, do you like seafood?”
  • you looking at ken: how is someone so,,,,,,good looking but so,,,,,,,,,,childish
  • (it’s cute tho) 
Gemini and Sagittarius (Sun and Mercury)

The difference between Sagittarius and Gemini lies in a lot of different areas, but the main comes to honesty, bluntness, and the proclaimed “filter.” As I’m sure anyone who’s so much as come into contact with a Sagittarius Sun or Mercury, you’ll know that not only do they say EVERYTHING on their mind, but they also tend to have a mantra of honesty. Typically, they’re against manipulation (unless they can do it while keeping their morals). These people are also awfully blunt, and quite honestly, sometimes without want or merit. Their lack of filter, and the need for constant honesty, can bring more problems than you can guess. However, as a very lucky sign, this also brings many opportunities. Gemini, it’s opposition, isn’t the same way. Gemini’s, like most air signs, can be rather manipulative and are VERY good liars. These people have mastered all forms of communication, and tend to actually become better liars than they had ever anticipated. They began lying as children and, once realizing that they never got caught, it was a trait that followed them into adulthood. Gemini only gets blunt when asked, or once fed up. As Gemini’s main weapon would be their words, they only use negative phrases when they deem necessary - which usually means arguments. The main problem that comes between a Sagittarius Sun/Mercury and Gemini Sun/Mercury is how crazily opposite they are when it comes to communication. You can bet that Sagittarius will, at some point when dealing with Gemini, say:

Originally posted by dejesusbibi

Just stop

If the masses could stop trying to diagnose Trump with a mental disorder that would be cool because yeah he may have one, who knows. but I keep seeing people listing symptoms and saying they go with a certain mental disorder when they don’t. If you are not a psych Doctor and you are not treating him stop trying to diagnose him.

You can say he is Narcissistic without saying he has NPD. You can say he changes his mind on things a lot without saying he has Bipolar. You can say he seems to believe his own lies without saying he has schizophrenia.

And what does it prove saying he has a mental disorder?! From where I’m standing it make it sound like its a bad thing to have a mental disorder….it makes it sound like mental disorders = bad people. “Oh he is a horrible person, must be mentally ill”

That is not ok.

Jerome Valeska

// Here is this Jerome fic aka me being trash.

Warnings: Mentions of violence, abuse, murder, death (duh xp). Mentions of alcoholism, cheating(in a relationship). Possibly offensive term for a girl who sleeps around a lot. Jerome being cute. Jerome being innocent and fluffy. Murder.

Rating: Mid-fluff.

Need to know: Gotham background. You live with the circus (like Jerome, but a little different?)  Eeeyyy *finger guns* Also, in the beginning, (y/n) is around (y/n) is around 16-ish, and Jerome is around 18-ish. (y/n) isn’t necessarily “stable”, as she was lied to and mistreated (emotionally) as a kid, (by other kids who went to the circus making fun of her for living at a circus, if that makes sense) so yeah. Also her father cheating. Ye.

Please enjoy this lovely story, and send in requests! I’m also currently doing ships, so if you’d like, send one in! I’ve almost reached 100 followers, (which is crazy) so I was thinking of maybe doing a few special stories for that milestone if I even reach it. I’m not sure what I would do, but if you have suggestions, send them in? (Maybe I could do….*gasp* personalized stories? If you guys want??? Send in ideas, and if you like that idea, I will be posting if I reach 100, and you can send in your request.

(Update: I didn’t get to post this before 100 followers. So, ha! Thanks to everyone who follows! It makes me really happy that people like my stuff I make, and so if you have ideas please send them in! I’d be happy to do personalized story things, or just stories, ya know, stuff like that? I will be posting something explaining what personalized stories means in a few minutes to when this is posted. *screams* thanks for being so cool you guys! ) //

You sigh as you walk around the Circus. Your dad had gone to see Lila again-big surprise. He seemed to be seeing her more and more nowadays, and if your mother knew, she didn’t say anything about it. At least not when you were around. You didn’t know much about Lila, just that she slept around a lot, and was a very heavy drinker. Lila had a son. You didn’t know much about him though. You’d only seen him once in your life, and that was years ago, when your dad had first gotten with Lila. You were only five at the time, and you doubted he still looked like he did back then. There wasn’t much of a conversation, so you didn’t really get to know him. But sometimes, to this day, you wonder about him. But your mind goes completely blank when you reach Lila’s trailer, and you stare up at the door. Your father was cheating on your mom with this woman. You climb up the small steps, and throw the door open, ready to let out all the built-up anger, ask all your questions. When you first walk into the trailer, it’s very dimly lit, and you can barely see anything. But then you hear something. You can hear a woman’s face shouting, and the sound of breaking glass. You turn to the left and see Lila standing alone in the room. She turns around sloppily, and your gaze drops to the floor instantly.

A crumpled figure lies on the ground, his chest rising and falling quickly. You can see the wet gleam of blood covering his clothes, and the floor. His head turns to look at the door, and his eyes meet yours. Lila shouts incoherently before she picks something up, and raises her arm. With how small the trailer is, it doesn’t take you long to reach them. Before you know what exactly you’re doing, your body shields his from the oncoming bottle. The glass shatters against your skin painfully, and whatever liquid was in their mixes with your blood, and stings your cuts. The sharp stench of alcohol fills the room. You feel yourself standing up quickly, and you whip around. Your hand smacks across her face like a whip, and she stammers backwards.

You, don’t lay a hand on him!” You hiss, moving forward and pressing your index finger to her hand like a weapon. “Or else you’ll get what’s coming to you,” your voice calms down to a whisper, and you lean in closer. “Hear me?” Lila stares at you with astonishment in her eyes.

“You used to be such a good kid…why do you even care about my boy?” She asks, her eyes meeting yours. “Is there something here? Slut!” Lila shouts the last word at you, and reaches out to strike you. Jerome is up in an instant and knocks her over.

“Leave her alone!” You see him grab something under the couch, and swing it violently at her. She falls to the ground and he keeps swinging what you can now make out to be an axe. “Do the dishes, Jerome,” he says, mocking her voice. “Clean the kitchen! Go outside! Don’t come in here, Jerome. Why aren’t you doing your chores, Jerome?” He swings the axe again, although she is already clearly dead. “Do what I say, Jerome. I’m your mother, Jerome!” Before he can swing the weapon again, you grab his arm. He whips his head around to look at you, his chest rising and falling heavily.

“She’s dead.” You say, meeting his gaze. “We need to hide the body.” He stares down at you for a long time, and drops the axe. “I know someone who will help.” You say, turning to leave the trailer. Jerome grabs your arm and pulls you back to him. He kisses you softly, running his hands through your h/c hair.

“Are you okay, y/n?” He asks. You nod, and smile, looking down at the floor.

“Yeah. But…are you?” Jerome smiles and hugs you tightly.

“Now I am.” He mutters, and picks up the axe. “Let’s get started. You said you know someone who can help?”

//Hope you liked it.//

The way I always start composing is by working out what lies at a show’s heart. In Sherlock, for instance, there’s lots of action, but what’s actually at the core is this relationship between two men. The music always needs to give you access to the emotional aspect of the story.
— 

David Arnold, composer of music for Sherlock.

This. Man. Knows. He’s been composing this music, telling this story, for years…and has contradicted everything Mofftiss have said. I know who I believe.

  • Aaron: I just want the truth.
  • Rebecca: What are you doing here?
  • Aaron: You see, it's my birthday...
  • Rebecca: I know.
  • Aaron: And well, he's a terrible liar. Actually no, he's not, he's a really good liar. Well, what I mean is, he tells lots of lies.
  • Rebecca: I'm not with you.
  • Aaron: You know what I'm talking about. Robert.
  • Rebecca: Uh, not this again. Don't make a fool out of yourself.
  • Aaron: Why? Cos that's your job? Are you seeing him?
  • (cut)
  • Aaron: How long’s it been going on?
  • Rebecca: What?
  • Aaron: You and Robert.
  • Rebecca: That's not what this is.
  • Aaron: Just be honest with me, I can take it.
  • Rebecca: He's planning a surprise and I helped him.
  • Aaron: What are you on about?
  • Rebecca: I got a mate who did him a deal on a trip to Vegas. And before you ask, it's not for me and him, it's for you and him. Flying first class, limo from the airport, tickets to a show, the works. Happy now?
  • Aaron: Vegas? (Sigh) I just... I thought he didn't care about my birthday.
  • Rebecca: That was the plan.
  • Aaron: And now I've ruined it.
  • Rebecca: Only the surprise. Still get the holiday. And the man.
  • Aaron: Robert's not exactly big on the whole romantic gesture thing. This was a huge deal for him and now I've ruined it. Now I know.
  • Rebecca: Well not if he doesn't find out. I won't tell him if you don't.
  • Aaron: You'd do that for me?
  • Rebecca: Call it my gift. Since I didn't actually buy you anything.
Mulan Starters:
  • “You’re a spineless, pale, pathetic lot, and you haven’t got a clue."
  • “How ‘bout a girl who’s got a brain? Who always speaks her mind…?”
  • “My little baby, off to destroy people.”
  • “Dishonour! Dishonour on your whole family!”
  • “What do you mean you’re not lucky? You lied to me?”
  • “Why is my reflection someone I don’t know?”
  • “I’m gonna hit you so hard, it’ll make your ancestors dizzy.”
  • “No matter how the wind howls, the mountain cannot bow to it.”
  • “Yea, the only girl who’d love him is his mother.”
  • “Boy, was I a fool in school for cutting gym!”
  • “I’ll get that arrow, pretty boy, and I’ll do it with my shirt on.”
  • “I never want to see a naked man again.”
  • “Hey, don’t look at me, I ain’t biting no more butts!”
  • “Insubordinate ruffians! You owe me a new pair of slippers!”
  • “Ah, you ain’t worth my time, chicken boy.”
  • “I know my place! It is time you learned yours.”
  • “A life for a life. My debt is repaid.”
  • “Just because I look like a man doesn’t mean I have to smell like one.”
  • “How lucky can they be? They’re dead!”
  • “Who spit in her bean curd?”
  • “You missed! How could you miss? He was three feet from you!”

bobbing-birb  asked:

Where are you watching the episodes? I assume that you're watching them because you seem to know a lot about how the show's plot is developing that I am clueless on :')

I have seen nothing beyond Tangled Before Ever After and the commercials for the series that aired along with it. I’m just a li’l ol’ fan who is a mite bit obsessed and has spent the last six and a half (give or take) years of my life memorizing and picking apart every nuance of Tangled.

I’m a writer, and I’m good at getting into characters’ heads, and this makes it easy for me to see where everyone is coming from. If you notice, I tag all those analytical posts as “Speculation,” because that’s exactly what it is. I make a point of learning as much as I can about it as soon as it’s released to the public, and the rest of it comes from my own head. As soon as we knew the title “Tangled Before Ever After,” I made this blog so I could keep track of all the little nuances we learn.

I’m glad, however, that I’m coming across as so articulate and informed. :)

anonymous asked:

In regards to this /post/158011984076/which-skelebros-would-like-the-opposite-of-sweet I'm really surprised you didn't think ol' Edgelord would be a part of that (Or SF 'Rus)

No listen, surprisingly I really don’t think UF!Pap would actively go after someone who’s the same aesthetic as him. I’d think his preference lies towards the sweet as a contrast to him.

As for Russ, he’d go for the softest grunge babes rather than the heavy metal hotstuffs. Y’know, the lots of flannel, beanies, strange graphic tees mostly involving aliens. That kind. He also goes for lazy aesthetics: oversized sweaters, knee high socks, way too many succulents. 

“I detest who I was”.

I know there’s a lot of hate towards Mon El spreading after the last episode.
I read some anti Mon El posts and you know what? They don’t even bother me this time.
‘Cause even though he lied and he was terrible when he was the prince, and if I were Kara I’d probably more pissed than she is right now,
I AM SO FREAKING PROUD OF HIM.
He stood up to his parents, rejecting everything he was and they are, ‘cause now he’s a changed man, he realizes how bad his world was, how bad he was, and he wants to be different, better.
We barely need to defend him, he defended himself with that speech to his parents.

“I think a lot of the album is about my frustration on the second album and not being able to say what I wanted and speak my mind properly because I didn’t know yet, and that just takes time and it takes growing up to know who you really are and learn your opinions, and for me at the time I didn’t know that and I was thinking, ‘why can’t I, why can’t I say what I want, why can’t I make the right decisions,’ so now this album is about looking back and realizing there are no regrets, and some of it’s about the frustration, some of it’s very peaceful and it’s about change and knowing yourself.”

Min Yoongi

I posted the following on my Instagram fan account, and thought that I should share it here with you guys. I don’t have a lot of time on my hands, but I just needed to make my thoughts clear and I hope this somewhat can reach out to you guys.

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I don’t think many people understand the depth that lies beneath the star Suga we all know. We are all so blind by his fame, by the love that harbors beneath the sweet smiled boy who puts up that said smile to keep us happy. We disregard his hard work, pressure him and pester him to release his mix tape. He tells us to be patient, not to worry, and to focus on ourselves. With reluctance, we listen, yet we were all impatient.

No one knew what laid beneath the surface of Min Yoongi.

Yes, there’s a fierce and passionate Agust D beneath his skin and yes, there’s a boy who cares and adores everyone close to him. But through this mix tape, he opened up a side of him none of us knew existed. He became vulnerable, regardless of his fear and sadness, of his self-hate. He does all of this not only for himself, but for us. We take his hard work for granted, his effort falls at a loss in the times that we’re desperate for new content. And because of that, I sit here and listen to his music and feel.

Feel the struggle in his voice, remember every detail of the growl in his tone. I listen to what he has to say, with an open mind and an open heart. I recognize his hard work, his inner turmoil, his pain that’s been buried for years. I embrace his music.

Because Suga, Agust D, Min Yoongi deserves all of the love us fans can give him. Not many people are lucky enough to say their favorite artist has revealed a hidden side of himself, one he is terrified to show. And showering him with love and affection is what he needs.

To let him know, that through everything we will always be here.

No matter his struggle, fear, or hatred, we will always stand by him. We will forever love him, no matter the image he puts up or the smile he fakes. Beneath the Suga we have come to love, is Min Yoongi, and I love him just the same. Without this mix tape, I am afraid we would have never known how much he’s been through… but no more what ifs.

On that note, I will continue to dream for him and be in full bloom at the end of these hardships. As an eternal fan, and as someone who could relate to him more than I ever knew.

-Admin Gray

anonymous asked:

Thank you for making that internet support group post, you know a lot of people forget that Dan is very very self conscious about the videos he uploads and everyone hyped this video up so much for something they needed that they are just being kind of rude now that it wasn't what they expected. Like Dan did say the video he was going to make just didn't really fit how he was feeling at that moment. People really need to chill and be kinder.

OH god yeah. i def played into the hype bc its fun but i Always made sure to clarify it was all just fun u know?? isg is one of my favourite dan series?es? and im really happy he uploaded bc i was super sad 2day and he made me smile a lot :(( hes like a big warm hug

You are valid whether you’re pre-transition or post-transition. #TransPositivity

I remember one time when I was like six or something this girl asked me who my favourite Disney character was (this kid was like, obsessed) and I said Pinocchio and she’s like “why?”

and I’m like “because he wants to be a real boy and he lies a lot and so do I”

this is hilarious to look back at but there’s something to pick up from this. it’s the fact that I was really little and I didn’t know that as long as I felt like a boy, I was a real boy.

to all trans people out there: you don’t have to transition to be a “real boy” or a “real girl” or whatever gender you identify as. a comparison is how someone is sometimes sad but they pretend they’re not. does that make them any less sad? no, it doesn’t. 

just like how you being born in the wrong body doesn’t make you any less the gender you identify as. you be true to yourself and be proud no matter what you were told growing up or no matter what other people say. now go out there and love yourself because you damn well deserve it.

anonymous asked:

<2/2> also, sometimes i seem a bit cold on the outside, but this is really not true. im way too romantic and i know im naive when it comes to other ppl: i often think ppl will treat me w the same respect i treat them, but most of the time i end up disappointed. i loooove buying makeup, and i also enjoy cooking. i also find it v difficult to forgive ppl who have lied or hurt me or ppl i care about. thanks a lot for doing this!!

heres the rest xo

~

Natsu Dragneel

▪Once the male gets to know you, he’d be surprised at the romance he was experiencing not that he’s complaining

▪When talking, Natsu would find your naive nature to be cute; also something he could tease you about

▪Unlike others, Natsu would value the respect you own, just to show that he cares a lot more

▪As we all know how much the guy loves to eat, Natsu would be appreciative of the cooking you do for him

▪He wouldn’t blame you for finding the hard to find forgiveness in your heart; as it’s not abnormal

Originally posted by sarapyon

anonymous asked:

what tennis players do you like other than rafael nadal?

“other than Rafael Nadal” why am I being called out like this

I mostly like the usual suspects. After Rafa, the list goes: Murray, Federer, Monfils, Nishikori (this list is weird because that’s in order but I’ll root for Nishikori over Federer. It’s just the way it goes). I also have a lot of fond for the so-called Armada but couldn’t prove to you that it has anything to do with tennis, oop. 

I don’t watch a lot of WTA beyond AO, but I have a lot of respect for the Williams sisters and Li Na (retired), and the lowest key obsession with Steffi Graf (retired) and, as a result, Andre Agassi (retired).

You didn’t ask but everyone else got to talk about who they hated so here’s my hate list: Djokovic, Wawrinka (is this gonna get me in trouble?), Querrey (I didn’t know shit about him until he beat Rafa in Mexico and I found out he was a fucking Trump supporter but now he makes the list), Rosol, Stakhovsky… you know the ones. 

I am still really on the fence about Kyrgios but I love how much he loves Andy and Rafa, and he can be hella good. 

I also hear great things about Naomi Osaka but I can’t put her anywhere because I literally haven’t ever watched her play but she’s hilarious. 

Dimitrov seems good and nice enough but for some reason I never really root for him, or go out of my way to watch him play? Same with Thiem and A. Zverev. Honestly I don’t think I can be invested in more than a few people at once…