you know what's not the worst

anonymous asked:

I quit my first study after 3 months because of a burnout. The next year I wanted to start easy again so I did a study beneath my level for a year. It didnt satisfy so I started uni after that year. Now when I tell people my age and that im in my third study, they give me this "ew youre dumb/lazy/undiciplined" look..I dont want to tell them about my burnout, cus thats really personal, but I feel really down when it happens. Im working really hard in uni but people always assume the worst, right?

I’ll be blunt here and say don’t let anyone make you feel inferior about your choices in education. They have no say in it. They don’t know what you’ve been through and, with my small understanding of your situation, your decisions were completed warranted. I’m sure each time you did serious thinking about it. I don’t think it’s a decision you’ll have made lightly. You shouldn’t feel like you have to justify your choices to anyone, no matter what they might be thinking. I’d agree people assume the worst. In a way, I feel it’s them trying to feel superior to you. I know in my journalism classes, people were dropping out/changing majors in the first few weeks of the semester and everyone sort of had a smug look as if they were generally smarter/more suited to the course because other people were leaving. When I changed majors and dropped the journalism class, I had a girl message me a question on Facebook about an assignment and then correct herself by saying “oh wait. you dropped out.” In the way she said it, it made me like I wasn’t good enough to stay in the course and she was judging me for that. To me, she assumed that it was “too hard” for me when in reality, I’d spent weeks debating whether it was really the career path I wanted. I think in this instance people assume a lot about you by your choices - generally that you’re not as smart as them. But honestly, I think if you’re able to make those really important decisions about your education/career, mental health, etc, you’re the better person. As I think now, it was 100% the best choice for me. No matter what that girl, or anyone in the course, thought. I’m sure you know deep down that everything you did was to benefit you and with that I think you shouldn’t be bothered by anyone else’s opinion xx

I wasn't going to do this

But I just can’t stay silent. I just can’t. I was popping on intending to post the rest of Fading Light because I had a couple of lovely anons ask for it. The first 2 things I saw on my dash were anon posts. One to @altaircolin and one to @cosmic-files-87 . Both very different content but both designed to hurt and belittle in different ways - and both very personal. There is something very wrong with a person who will attempt to find someone’s weak spot and attempt to target it. At best it is bullying and at worst it can cause untold damage to a persons self-esteem. We none of us know what is happening at any given time in someone’s life. Imagine if you were the final straw for that person? Imagine if your words tipped someone in to such a pit of self loathing that there was no climbing out? Pissed off snarky anons calling someone out on their Gillovny leanings is one thing, but making it a personal attack designed to wound on a very personal level is something else altogether. Perhaps if you had seen the effects off bullying firsthand you might reconsider what is appropriate and what isn’t. We all say things in the heat of the moment, words that we wish we could pull back, things said without thought for the consequences. But to WRITE those words, to imagine them, type them, read them back to yourself and then press ‘send’ is a PROCESS with stages that give us time to pause and to reflect and to delete. That is not 'spur of the moment’ that is pre-meditated and fucking WRONG on so many levels I can’t even begin. I was a victim of a 'clever’ anon this week and honestly I didn’t give a gnats bollock but I COULD have done. I could have had a supremely shit week, month or year. I could have been fighting depression or even suicidal thoughts and YOU could have been the finger that pulled the trigger and even if only YOU knew about the hateful words you wrote, you would have had to have lived with the knowledge that you contributed to the culmination of a downward spiral for someone. Every single day of your entire life and even if you tried to push it to the back of your mind, told yoursrlf it 'wasn’t your fault’ or 'he/she was clearly disturbed’ or even that they 'shouldn’t have been on social media if…..’ those justifications would forever have a hollow ring to them because you would KNOW. You would forever know what you did and even at your happiest, a voice would whisper in your head to remind you that once, just for shits and giggles, you decided to spread some hatred to a stranger….

Lion Bonding Theory

So far, we know is that Shiro and Pidge both have the stronger bonds with their lions, because of these scenes

It seems that a paladin and their lion’s bond grows stronger with this scene right? But what’s interesting is that in ep 2 when they had to do the “expert-level drill” that requires you to bond with your lion, the order of the “best to worst” (let’s just call it that) was Shiro, Pidge, Lance and Keith then Hunk. That’s the same order of who we’ve seen bond with their lions in this spirity way so far.

Ok, I know this is kind of a stretch, but I think that the next person to have a better bond with their lion is Lance or Keith (depending on who “won”) and finally Hunk, and that could go over the course of Shiro’s absence since the paladins are going to need to work together better without Shiro and that leaves openings for more lion-bonding. 

Thinks I wish someone told me when I was younger.

Work hard and what I really mean by that is REALLY hard. For all the times someone called you stupid, for the people that told you that there is no place for girls in STEM. For all the times you were good but just not good enough. That’s the worst feeling you can ever feel. When you know that you worked for something and gave your 99% and then you know that the thing that took the victory from you was this 1%. If you don’t want to be the best and you’re not giving your 100% why are you even trying?

anonymous asked:

could you write some Revali and Sidon headcanons with a s/o who is... really loud and active during sex? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) (I'm so sorry for this)

Why are you sorry?! The worst I’ve ever gotten is writing NSFW for a guy old enough to be my grandfather, which isn’t even that dirty. You’re good to go.

Loud and active s/o (Revali/Sidon) NSFW

Revali

  • Fucking delighted
  • It boosts his ego so much to know he’s doing well enough to get them that riled up due to his insecurties
  • “Hm k-keep this up and no one will have to wonder what we were doing last night!~”
  • Doesn’t even try to make them quieter, he loves it
  • Likes that they’re so energetic

Sidon

  • At first so worried he might have accidentally hurt them for them to be that loud
  • Is red when he finds out that it’s for very different reasons
    • Sexy reasons
  • After that is very enthusiastic to hear those noises
  • “So loud so soon? Don’t worry, we’re just getting started”
  • Does start looking for more private locations though

anonymous asked:

" i dont think they're that childish" yes! And Dinah was even mouthing the words.. guys, our girls aren't mean. Trust them a little. The more you try to prove that they hate Mila, the more you paint them in an ugly light.

I know its funny how some camila-haters indirectly make LAND look awful because they assume the worst of them. I refuse to believe shitty gossip because I have faith in all of the girls ultimately being good moral people who are above the bullshit, no matter what has happened. 

anonymous asked:

Ok for that "send me an mbti type" thing could you do esfp, infp and/or istj?

ESFP INFP ISTJ

ESFP

1. Have I met anyone of this type?

Yes, quite a few.

2. Do I have any Tumblr friends/faves of this type?

None at all, actually.

3. What type of relationship do/did we have and how well do/did we know each other?

I’ll select one ESFP I know. We met in the summer, on an action program/scheme. He was in my team for the four weeks. I know a lot about him - he had confessed his worst memories to me within two weeks. He was upset, and then told *me* he was sorry for bringing it up. He was very loud with other people, even vulgar (gave another dude a lapdance), but would say the sweetest things about his girlfriend when nobody else was around. Our friendship was based on escaping the socially draining atmosphere of the program. Most of the emotional interaction was one-sided, and he has shared that he is frustrated when he cannot read me. We attend the same college now - we will greet each other occasionally. He is draining to be around for long periods of time. He says he feels neglectful because his idea of friendship is regular contact. I tell him I don’t even see my best friend regularly.

4. First impressions?

Energetic and incredibly loud, very eager to listen and help and make everyone laugh. Unhealthy obsession with the Joker.

5. Positive impressions?

ESFPs are so bold to me. So full of life, unafraid of saying what they want and why. Will ask you if you’re a virgin very loudly in a very public place. Says aloud ‘Keep being an asshole!’ with a salute from across a road. Tries to out other people first but will often do so at their own expense.

6. Negative impressions?

Altruistic, self-sacrificing nature. They will help even those who have wronged them. They take the moral high ground and can sometimes cast aside the feelings of others, no matter how they try to consider them. Often too afraid to break away from the 'norm’ however, and can harm both themselves and others this way.

“You probably think I’m stupid. I think I’m stupid.”

7. Stuff I’ve always wanted to do with this type?

Go to the cinema, stuff ourselves full of overpriced unhealthy food. Meet in the street and grab some food together. Listen to you ramble about every single thing that has happened since we last saw each other and offer the advice you need, not what you want. Escape promptly because you’re great but far too touchy-feely for me.

One thing that will always annoy me with love live fans is when they act like you are personally attacking them when you say their best girl is your worst girl :T like I never said I hated her or insulted her or anything??? I just said she was my worst girl.. and like I didn’t even know she was your best girl so idk why you think I’m attacking you????? Like what the heck???? People call my best girls their worst girls and I don’t care :T idk why y'all have to take it so seriously

I had a first as a Mercy main tonight.

My team complained about my quad rezzes.

Twice.

This happened on two separate occasions in QP with two different teams I had been matched up with. In both situations we were attacking a control point and the enemy team would kill most of my team. I rezzed them. Then the enemy unleashed three ults on us and killed us all again.

“why would you rez that?!”

“WORST mercy ever!”

“WORST FUCKING REZ!!”

You wanna know why I rezzed that? Because I am Mercy. I decide who lives and who dies and I am the shadow puppeteer pulling the strings behind my team. I’m not just there to keep you alive. No no no. I use my rez to manipulate the course of the game.

What people think the rez is used for: bringing them back to life.

What the rez is actually used for: bringing them back from spawn instantly, syncing up our spawn times so we can group more quickly, tilting the favor in our team’s balance, baiting the enemy team to use their ults so we have more time and therefore more opportunities to push and capture the point - just to name a few things.

I used those quad rezzes because it was the right thing to do. It could only have two outcomes given the situations. Either A) We all get rezzed and come back at the same time and push back the enemy team to cap the point, or B) The enemy team takes the bait and uses their ults to kill us again because “Mercy just used her ult”. In both cases, the enemy team used up their ults killing us. My teams were too short-sighted to understand the value of this and moaned about my “terrible rez”. But guess what?? In the very next push - we all spawned at the same time and were already grouped up as a result, we pushed TOGETHER, and the enemy team didn’t have any ults to counter us. We capped the point potentially several minutes faster than if we had let them gradually use their ults, or worse - save them for our LAST push when we would have no time left to try again.

I wouldn’t have to manipulate like this if these teams would get their shit together on their own. I could save my rez for the better times like right after the enemy team used all their ults. Frankly, that’s how I prefer to use them. But if my team is getting themselves killed in regular team fights and dancing around the choke, I know how this match is going to play out. Too many times have I had to sit and heal incompetent teammates that wouldn’t even TRY to cap the point until the clock forced them to. And then it would be far too late because the defending team would have all their ults ready to shut us down at the last second. So yeah - sometimes I have to use my ult to FORCE my teammates to group up and to FORCE the enemy team to use up their ults so we have a chance at victory.

But what do I know? I’m the “worst Mercy ever”.

SAY YOU WON’T LET GO : {5 / ?} EXO ADDITION- PARK  CHAN YEOL

Theme: She’ll only make him unhappy, The more you hold on you can damage yourself, Love is Love : Feeling unhappy is one of the worst things to feel in love. To feel enough, never giving up, those fireworks inside of your stomach, to know that they would never leave you is the feeling of happiness. You thought that Chanyeol would never do what he decided to do. You thought it was all going to be alright in the end, but ever since they came into the picture all you feel is isolated, wounded, lost.
TYPE OF STORY : A, M, T/W
Trigger Warning: This story contains sensitive subjects for Cheating, Sexual Contact, Abuse ( A little bit ) , this will always be your POV or Channie’s POV  … Continue at your own risk.


Previous: “No, you know what, Kyungsoo? I’m gonna get through my relationship without him, I’m gonna get a great job without him, I’m gonna marry me an amazing husband and I’m having a whole bunch of kids. I’m gonna be a better mother than she will ever be. And I sure as hell don’t need him for that, ‘cause there ain’t a damn thing he can teach me about how to show my kids to treat someone right that they love!”I yelled.

“…How come I wasn’t good enough, Kyungsoo?”

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ok let’s have a discussion here. 

akashi’s fav food is listed as tofu soup and like. i’m sure there’s some really nice tofu soups out there but the one time i tried it (granted this was in china and my stepmum brought it back for me from god knows where when we were staying with her sister and the area her sister lived in did NOT look nice i was kind of scared tbh, so who fucking knows what it was that was in that soup) but holy jeesus it was the actual worst thing i’ve ever tasted and i’m sorry but i just can’t take akashi seriously after this experience

so pls tell me if you have tried nice tofu soup and reassure me that akashi is not like mayuzumi and does in fact have a decent sense of taste and also that maybe i shouldn’t stay with my stepmum’s sister again. or if i do, to not eat the food there. 

~Nix

you know how E rated games like pokemon and animal crossing have little text boxes you can fill in with names or phrases or answers to questions or letters or whatever? and you know how it detects if you put a bad word in the text box and it tells you to change it?

that means, somewhere in the code of the game, there’s a list of horrible, terrible, awful words that it checks to dictate whether or not what you’re saying is okay.

like, a small group of people got together at nintendo, one of the most family friendly companies in existence, and they brainstormed all of the worst possible words you could say. and that’s in the code of the game.

that’s hilarious to me.

the worst thing about bad cgi movies is that each one has to cram in a forced tearjerker scene ala every pixar movie ever without the rest of the movie having any hint of character or sentimentality, so you know something like boss baby or the emoji movie is going to have this weird out of place scene where the characters lose sight of their goals or end up hurting each other and they walk slowly to sad music before realizing something about themselves or about what they need to do to make things better, except instead of it being genuinely charming characters you relate to, its alec baldwin the dreamworks baby whose bare ass you’ve been forced to look at for at least 20 minutes prior

pidge: keith i have a gay problem and need the help of a gay who is more experienced

keith: ok. what is it?

pidge: i like this girl but there’s no way she likes me back and i dunno what to do about it

keith: nothing. absolutely nothing. you do nothing, and then you do your best to ignore it but it’s just eating at you and it’s so hard to pretend it’s not there so then you watch ten thousand heteronormative hallmark movies but eventually you start getting daydreams about how great your life would be if you actually were dating and how much fun you’d have doing the cheesiest coupley stuff and you aren’t even paying attention to the hallmark movies anymore they’re just lights and sounds in the background of your daydreams but we’re in space so you don’t even have the hallmark movies so you just go straight to the daydreams and you get this idea in your head that if you two date you’ll finally be a happy functional person and you won’t have any more problems ever and you know that’s not true but you still wanna believe it anyway and now the crush is getting bigger and bigger and you’re even more of a mess and you talk to your friend about it since he says he’s always there if you need someone to listen so you think that’ll help a little bit but it turns out it doesn’t because your friend is an asshole and says “well why don’t you just tell him?” but if i could tell him then this wouldn’t. be a problem, shiro!

keith: (breathing heavily)

pidge:

pidge:

pidge: actually i think i’m gonna go to lance

keith: …good plan.

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avatar the last airbender book one: water

You know what the worst part of being born over a hundred years ago is? I miss all the friends I used to hang out with. Before the war started, I used to always visit my friend Kuzon. The two of us, we’d get in and out of so much trouble together. He was one of the best friends I ever had, and he was from the Fire Nation just like you. If we knew each other back then, do you think we could have been friends too?

i think you’re a jerk
i think you’re the most beautiful person in the entire world but what you’re doing to me is so ugly
i think your hands are too steady holding the knives you keep plunging into my back
into my chest
i think you’re killing me slowly
i think you know it
i think you don’t care
i think you’re the best thing to ever happen to me
i think losing you is the worst thing to ever happen to me
i think you’re going to be okay
i think i will be too
or maybe i won't 
i think one day but not today
i think you love(d) me
i think i love you
i think i always will
—  i think i care too much about hurting your feelings to tell you what i really think
(cc, 2017)

speaking of which: using the word “violence” to describe property damage is intellectually dishonest at worst and just ignorant at best. you know what insurance is, right? you know insurance is real and exists? you know human lives and rights are objectively more important than property, which can be replaced?

come on. these discussions are exhausting. they’re circular, trite and based on you entirely misunderstanding how the world works on any level. or worse having a totally bizarre sense of empathy for a window or a sign