I’ve always wanted to write a piece about the small cheap things in our daily lives that are nevertheless perfect for us — the inexpensive brand of coffee or tea or honey or ink or…. that after much trial and error, you’ve found is the exact right type for you. Anything else just won’t do, or it comes in a very distant second. Or the cheap pen (my favorite roller ball pen costs 2 euro which I buy ten at a time when I find them), a hat, or rubber sandals you bought on vacation one summer just because the sandals you brought with you broke. But since then these have become your favorites. My favorite summer cap cost 3 euro at a French supermarket ten years ago. I thought I’d lost it once and went crazy looking for it. Those small, inexpensive wonderful things that magically fit us or our lifestyle perfectly. The cheap bracelet with the small anchor attached that you bought at a souvenir stand by the sea last summer. The old leather messenger bag bought for nothing at the flea market, the sunglasses you found in a diner on the way to wherever that day…
I hope you’re happy, you horrible, horrible, horrible woman!
You’re ruining this family! They were going to be so happy, but you just won’t let them!
Cecilia: “It’s always been Melody and I and we don’t need anyone else. I’m disappointed in her choice of partner. No one is good enough for her and I will continue to make her realise that. She’s lost her way, but now I have my chance to get her back on track to her true potential!”
YOI Future!Verse ABO AU, Visual Headcanon Web Charts #01
So I always wanted to make one of these. Turns out my headcanons for the most part are WAY too wordy for these things and uh, they’re a bit of a mess >.>;; BUT I hope nonetheless that they’re somewhat fun to read even if barely legible, it was fun to make ^ ^;
1. Super basic relationship chart of the core members of the lovely poly family in this AU.
2. “Adults Think,” the color of each adult indicates their feelings towards the person to whom the arrow is pointing.
3. “Kids Think,” the color of each OC kid indicates their feelings towards the person to whom the arrow is pointing.
There’s obviously a lot more to it than what could be crammed in the lil text boxes, but a gist and pretty much the first things that immediately popped into my mind regarding their interactions. 2 and 3 also mostly show their thoughts while the kids are younger, which will change a bit as they grow up, to be covered in a future post.
*Recommended you right click view image to see full size bc the text is tiny oops
Because the text is so illegible, text only versions of charts 2 and 3
beneath cut, all elaborated quite a bit because I’m so rambly oops:
IF YOU ARE NEW TO THIS AU: It’s Yuuri-centric polyamory in an ABO
setting, Yuuri’s married to four mates (Victor, Yurio, Phichit, Minami)
and they have OC kids.
You can have 1 or more styles combined, that depends on what you like or works for you. I tried to think of every style that i know.
The person who has this style is most probably that organized langblr who actually knows what they are doing. They have certain periods of time when they study and nothing can disturb their routine.
How to know if you have this style? Easy, do you know when you’re done with studying your language? If you just thought of a period of time and what you are doing in this period, you’re an ant.
How to become an ant learner: take an agenda and make a schedule, a very detailed one. You write down everything, from what you study to for how long and with what (duo, flashcards, notebooks etc.)
p.s. This learns take everything seriously, their notes are probably goals, perfection is written everywhere and they work hard, too hard maybe.
This is the entire opposite of the ant learners. Masters of procrastination, but somehow they know the language better than some ants?
How to know if you have this style? Ask yourself what plans you have tomorrow, if the answer is “sleeping” or “no idea”, congrats, you’re a sloth.
How to become a sloth learner: Hakuna Matata.
p.s. this kind of learners prefer to immerse themselves, they prefer watching movies, listening to music, looking at others how they explain and they observe everything, they don’t have notebooks, they are spontaneous. (that’s why they are awake at 3am playing on duo most probably.
This style is a combination of a sloth and an ant. They procrastinate like 20 hours and in the last 4 they can finish a duo tree, talk with Nth natives and finish Grey’s Anatomy in their target language.
How to know if you have this style? Ask yourself if you know what you’re doing tomorrow. If you said "studying” but you have no idea what or how, you just won the Bamboo Reward of the year.
How to become a panda learner: Procrastinate at a medium level, learn using both, textbooks and games, movies, comics (fun stuff).
p.s. they are hardcore, they will most probably procrastinate their sleep and then sleep for at least 12h straight! The same goes for languages, they do nothing for Nth years, and when they do, they get to be B1/B2 in a weekend.
Very similar to a panda, except that when they are studying, they are like an ant, they know what to do and when to do it, so let’s call this “fancy procrastinator style”.
How to know if you have this style? If you know what to do after a long procrastinating session, you just got cat ears.
How to become a cat learner: Keep procrastinating, but when you stop, always have a plan of what you’re gonna do.
p.s. This kind of learners prefer finishing a grammar book, a Duo tree and memorize a lot of vocab before talking/showing their skills to someone. They are B2-C1 when they 1st talk to someone using their target language.
They are the most energetic kind of learners, well, they and the ants. They have plans over plans, (that they don’t follow at all) they overwork themselves and are always up for games or talking.
How to know if you have this style? If i ask you now what you’re doing tomorrow for your target language, you answer me with “grammar” and the next day you watch Mulan in French you are a puppy. You will always do the opposite of what you planned.
How to become a puppy learner: what’s awesome at this kind of learners is that they aren’t afraid of mistakes, they know mistakes are the way to fluency. They will always do something for their target language(s), they are full of passion. Try to be organize and fail, don’t be ashamed of your mistakes and you will be a puppy in no time.
p.s. Their notes may not be goals, but their notebooks are like wikipedias, they are gold, full of details for every single thing related to their target language(s).
These learners are the most calm people you will ever meet. They don’t hurry. They know their stuff 100%, they enjoy the journey. Owls are those humans who know that quality is over quantity.
How to know if you have this style? If you know what language you want to learn, but you move with baby steps (owl steps in this case) towards that fluency, you are a tiny little adorable owl.
How to become an owl learner: all you gotta do is… don’t hurry, you make minimum of effort but you, and others, know how wll you know your languages, the grammar rules, your routine etc.
p.s. This kind of people have the same routine since forever, you can’t break it. Also, they learn from their mistakes, and by learn i mean they even have a sticky notes somewhere with every single mistake ever made.
This kind of people are so… normal? They are balanced, they do what they got to do. Theymay seem like they have nothing special at all.
How to know if you have this style? If i ask you about resources for Haitian Creol, Hawaiian, Quechua and you opened 3 google drive accounts saying that you have resources, you are kangaroo.
How to become a kangaroo learner: have resources for resources, this kind of learners are prepared for everything seriously.
p.s. they also like to try out every single thing out there for their target language(s), they will try everything in order to find something more useful
We all know/have that friend who likes quantity over quality, this is the monkey. They will try a lot of stuff thinking that they learn but they remember nothing.
How to know if you have this style? If you are asked what you did all day and you start saying Nth games, lessons, movies etc. and you are quiet when you’re asked again what you’ve learned, that’s a monkey trait.
How to become a monkey learner: Learn lessons without bothering to understand them 100%
p.s. now, this style is pretty useful for languages like japanese when it was proven that quantity over quality is better, just as a side note, monkey are full of excitment~ they will motivat you only bc they are right next to you.
This style is so tricky, they may seem to be monkeys because they spend a lot of time playing around with everything but they are actually more organized than you may think.
How to know if you have this style? You go through Nth games daily BUTthat’s because you try to master your topics so you do a lot of exercises for each lesson, you are quantity over quality in a quality over quantity style.
How to become a bunny learner: be anxious (joking here) So, to be a bunny is easy, all you gotta do is master everything in different ways, use games, then books, then go to videos, always change your learning style.
p.s. they may seem like they waste their time but they only want to be well prepared and avoid making many mistakes
This post is longer than i expected. Anyway, what kind of learner are you guys?:)