❞ Okay so after the last couple of days, there is something really bothering my; something that kind of baffles me a bit and something I feel like I really need to get off my chest. So here I go: IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, PLEASE JUST DON’T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. It’s a message I’ve seen spread in the rpc plenty of times yet still it seemed like it hasn’t really made it through to an astonishing amount people. I don’t know what the hype is around being mean. It might just be me, but this ‘mean aesthetic’ some of you all developed is truly scaring the crap out of me. Do you REALLY think it is cool to hurt people ?? To be mean FOR FUN ?? If there’ anything that makes me click that unfollow button in a heartbeat it’s mean rpt’s or rph’s or really, any blog in general ?? You people RUIN moods, RUIN lives and RUIN other people. And the funny
not reallything is that you probably don’t even realise it. Because ‘eyy it’s just the internet, don’t take it so serious ??’. Well news flash, darlings, some people DO take hate serious. Even if it’s sent by an anonymous chatter or a virtual bully – just because you can hide behind a greyface like the cowards you truly are, just because you can hide behind an alias or a group of stans who thrive on seeing others being made fun of or dragged or “”””exposed””””, doesn’t make you any less of a bully. You are the people that drive others to hate their life sometimes so bad that they don’t want to live it any longer, those who push others’ heads in toilets; those that make others feel like shit for no apparent reason. You are bullies. You aren’t more or less than those people we all claim to despise, just because it’s virtual. Once again, JUST BECAUSE YOU SIT BEHIND A SCREEN DOES NOT MAKE YOU ANY LESS OF A BULLY. So please, and I know this is a useless plea but I’m going to ask it anyway, don’t do it. Don’t send hate messages. Don’t make others feel bad for no apparent reason (or any reason at all ??). Don’t be a cyberbully. Stop making the rpc such a toxic place; stop draining all the positivism out of it. The amount of blogs I’ve stopped following only the last two days because of the negative vibes was… Ridiculous. A KIND WORD TRULY COSTS NOTHING – but still it can make a WORLD of difference to someone. You don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives, don’t risk making things even worse just for the hell of it. If you have a problem with someone, talk to them personally and off anon. Or just unfollow them. It is YOUR CHOICE who you follow and who you don’t follow. Not everyone gets along with everyone, but that still isn’t a reason to send that person that annoys you for some reason nasty hate messages on anon. Just live and let live, for one fucking more time I’m going to say this. DON’T HIDE BEHIND A GREY FACE AND SEND HATE – it doesn’t make you ‘cool’, it just makes you petty. And a bully. And a coward. And if that’s what you want to be, then I feel for you, and I truly think you have to search for some serious help. Go find another hobby, please. As for the people who are victims of anonymous hate – please, sweethearts, for the love of God, don’t let them get to you. Block their IP adresses which can be done by clicking the three dots on the anon message and click block. Turn off your anon for a while. It’s truly relieving, knowing that those cowards cannot slide into your box anymore and you won’t be waking up to hate. Because we both know they don’t have the guts to come from behind their little mask. If you get hate, just remove the message; don’t give it any attention. That’s all they want; they want to get a raise out of you. A reaction. Don’t grant them that little joy of seeing you get worked up. Just remove it. All of it. Time after time. Ad watch them bugger off because they see it’s useless. Because they’ll see you’re smarter than them, and more mature than them; that you are the bigger person. If they want to get you down, it only means you are above them – don’t let yourself drop to their level. Never. Just keep your head held high. Always. And I promise it’ll blow over eventually. Just NEVER GIVE IN TO HATE. Especially not anon hate. And with that, I said what I wanted to say. I will no longer take accept negativity on my dash, really… I hope no one does !! Xoxo
I don't have anything against opinions that differ from my own and I understand how the internet works, thank you. I do however have a problem with a community that perpetuates misogyny and violence against women, even if it's not intentional. I think it's clear when a relationship is abusive and I can say with absolute certainty that I will never belong to any community that directly or indirectly normalizes abuse. I still don't understand how anyone can.