you have many options in life

anonymous asked:

I just astral traveled to see my girlfriend who is on a different continent. She was already asleep when I got there so I just held her. But a few minutes later I started hearing Our Song and had two visions that included us growing old and living a happy life together. I really want to believe these visions (especially since it feels like my spirit companion/guide may have sent them) but I also don't want to get too hopeful in case something happens and my hopes get dashed. Opinions???

i believe the future has many paths and many options, and that seeing it confirms that it is a possible path in your future, but it’s also something you need to work towards to make it happen. 

One of the most challenging things about speaking to my white friends about my story, and stories of other minorities, is that they don’t know what to say or how to react. I know many of them are genuinely interested. They want to listen and learn. But it feels dishearteningly one-sided. 

And it’s not entirely their fault.

I am better able to imagine their realities because growing up in America, I was exposed to so many stories that tell me what it’s like to live in the suburbs your whole life. What it’s like to not have to really question if you’ll make it through college. What it’s like to have more options of places to go and travel to over the holidays or breaks. And even what it’s like not to even notice there are hardly any people of color in all the tv shows you know and enjoy.

I grew up on your stories.

Of course, this is not to say I know exactly what it’s like to be a white person or that I do not recognize there are multiple experiences within whiteness. That’s just it, however. White people have more than one story about them in the media. We as minorities too often just have racial archetypes played by different actors to change things up. More alarmingly, too often it’s even non-PoC representing our stories.

What I am saying is I am more capable of imagining a white person’s life than they are able to imagine my own.

There have been so many painful moments of dry silence after I tell someone a little more about my reality. They simply do not know what to say because they have never been given the opportunity to imagine stories like my own. I am at once like you and still so, so different.

To my white friends and even fellow PoC: Know it is hard to share what it’s like to be minority me. Know that as alienating as it can be to have someone look away from you hoping to change the subject to something they can more easily understand, it means so much that you do not walk away or bring up something else. Know that I will forever appreciate you trying to ask more questions, making an effort to understand. Even if your question is, “I don’t know what to say: what would you hope people would ask you in response to this?”, I will be gracious. Please do not stop at “I cannot imagine what that’s like because I am not you”. Try a little harder and make it easier for me and others to make our stories just as possible to believe in as yours.

Above all, know that it might still hurt even when you try. That does not mean I will stop trying myself. We have a lot of work to do.

anonymous asked:

Is it possible to have a planet without a certain kind of environment? Like a world without tundra or deserts?

In a word: Absolutely!

In many, many more words (and a picture):

You have several options here. The first and most obvious one is simply this: Do whatever the hell you want. If you want your world to have never seen snow, then go for it! No rainforests? Be my guest!

But since you’re asking about possibilities, I’m assuming you want something more scientific than that. And I’m always happy to oblige. 

Let’s establish something that is important to keep in mind when discussing fictional non-Earth worlds:

We know how Earth works and how it supports life. We know how other real single-biome planets work that do not support life. But we can’t know everything about things we haven’t discovered. Since our life is the only kind we know, it might be possible that somewhere out there, a planet that we cannot imagine living on actually does manage to support life. Extra-terrestrial life could potentially work in a variety of different ways, as could ecosystems and atmospheres and all other planetary components. 

This can be less flexible if you’re talking about sticking humans onto other worlds. We know that humans need certain things to live (water, oxygen, etc.), so if you’re taking humans as we know them, then you’ll need to write a world that is prepared to support them. 

So…how would you write a biome out of a world in order to support life as we know it?

There are several ways you can do this, as long as you remember that the key to any ecosystem is balance. Part of the problem with single-biome worlds supporting life is that they don’t offer any type of balance. Not enough plant life means not enough oxygen, too much flora with too little fauna might mean too much oxygen. So if you nix a specific biome (let’s say we kill off the hottest biomes, deserts and rainforests), then you need to make sure you give a sufficient placeholder. (i.e. If you erase a rainforest and replace it with nothing but dirt, then you have eliminated a potentially vital source of oxygen from the planet, thus upsetting the balance.)

Wait, so how do you kill off the equator-biomes of Earth?

Let’s imagine a planet:

The axis doesn’t tilt. This does several things, but it would most prominently:
  - eliminate seasons
  - isolate climates/environments/biomes

Here, you’ve got a planet that’s probably much farther from it’s sun than Earth is from Sol. Or it is orbiting a much cooler star. Either way, you’ve got to deal with the fact that the sun will always be hitting each part of the planet with the exact same intensity. You can place it closer, if you want, and have an uninhabitable equator and people only living on the poles, where the sun doesn’t shine so intensely (but you NEVER have nights!). 

And there, you’ve given yourself an environment that could possibly kiss hot climates good-bye. This offers a chance for global balance (though individual cities and countries might not feel that balance). You can place water anywhere you like, just remember that it’s basically required. 

How you decide to balance the eco-system of your world is up to you, but just based on the basic elements of how Earth’s biomes are created, how seasons and climates affect one another and change over time, you can do a lot to manipulate the characteristics of a new world.

And also notice that in this physical planet/climate/biome manipulation, we’ve created some really interesting culture possibilities just by default. 

Gosh darn it, but worldbuilding is fun. 

YOI Week: Day Seven

Match Made By Phichit

Pairings: Katsuki Yuuri/Victor Nikiforov, Ji Guang-Hong/Leo de la Iglesia, Michele Crispino/Emil Nekola, Mila Babicheva/Sara Crispino, Yuri Plisetsky/Otabek Altin, Phichit Chulanont/Seung-gil Lee

Rating: T

Word Count: 4,116

Summary: Five times Phichit plays matchmaker for his friends and the one time they play matchmaker for him.

*Option A. I was actually just going for doing whatever I wanted on this day, but it ended up being an AU. Great how that turned out! This has been a fun seven days. I had a blast exploring so many different characters (anyone notice I focused on a different person(s) each day?) and worlds. I hope you all enjoyed them and that you enjoy this one!

Keep reading

I also love Relativity because, like, with the way that Stan and Ford’s lives play with both Greek tragedy and the type of hopelessness you find in a lot of Serious Literature (until the glorious, beautiful ending, but I’ve ranted about that elsewhere) there’s this sense that their mistakes and their misery were inevitable.

And they’re not. And I love having an AU that shows that. So many of their problems trace back to their home life and the way it enforced a type of toxic masculinity that prevented them from developing the skills that would have let them work through their problems without everything blowing up. Give them a good environment and good authority figures who encourage communication and expressing emotions and actually value them as people and you change everything.

VERY IMPORTANT MESSAGE FROM OUR OLDER BROTHERS THE HATHORS CHANNELED BY TOM KENYON

You are at a pivotal point in the fulcrum of consciousness. Your earth is about to undergo a purification the likes of which have not been seen for 26,000 years. The timelines of this would have been sooner were it not for the intervention of beings in many realms and the efforts of what you call light workers, which we view as “life sustainers.”

There is a highly catalytic energy coming from deep space, which is striking the Great Central Sun (of your galaxy) and the Sun of your solar system. Your Sun is experiencing immense changes in its magnetic field, and this is, in turn, affecting the magnetic field of your Earth. This is altering many dynamic systems on your planet including, but not limited to, the oceanic conveyer belt. This deep-space energy that is affecting both the Sun and your Earth is essentially an energy of accelerating self-awareness and spiritual evolution. The universe (or at least this part of it) is waking up to itself in new and different ways. And this process of increased self-awareness is speeding things up, so to speak. It is important to realize that what looks like a disturbance at one level of consciousness can be seen as a catalyst at another level.

Whether life is allowed to continue on this planet or not, will be decided collectively through a reaction to the choices you make as humanity. If the collective is able to receive these energies from deep space and make an evolutionary and spiritual leap, the disturbance of the electromagnetic fields, specifically the magnetic poles, will not affect the conveyer belt the way that it is now. Think of yourself as living on a giant gyroscope. The slightest movement of a gyroscope creates tremendous movement in the rings of the gyroscope, the stabilizing rings. So the gyroscope of Earth is fluctuating, but this fluctuation can be expressed as physical manifestation, or as elevations of consciousness. But if the collective consciousness of this Earth does not elevate quick enough, then the gyroscope will simply transfer the energy to the physical dimension, specifically the magnetic poles and the magnetic field, which, in turn, affects the conveyer belt. If the conveyer stops, life, as you know it, will become very difficult or end altogether, quickly. We would say to you that you are very close to this point.

As to weather, expect increasingly turbulent storms of greater strength and amplitude. We wish to convey to you a clear understanding that these storms are an out-picturing of the violence, the misdirected energy, and the imbalance of human consciousness. If, somehow, enough individual consciousnesses within the collective are able to elevate themselves into the fifth or higher dimensions of consciousness, the energies from deep space will be integrated through the process of elevation.

If, collectively, you are not able to attain this, these energies will affect the physical aspect of Earth’s gyroscope, to use that metaphor. And life as you know it and have experienced it will be very difficult due to climatic and Earth changes. You are about to see a tremendous increase in geothermal activity, including volcanoes and earthquakes. You are already seeing a tremendous increase in tornadoes and this will only escalate. The hurricanes that will be coming in the next year and the years to follow will make previous hurricanes seem like a gentle breeze.

So let us summarize the first idea we wish to convey. The impulse for increased consciousness is flowing from deep space, striking your Sun, and affecting the subtle energies of your earth. If humanity is able to rise to a level of spiritual mastery these affects will be decreased, transmuted, and become a source for further elevation.

If humanity is not able to attain this, then the physical act of purification must take place—simply because energy cannot be destroyed. We are not alarmists. This message is not intended to create distress, but rather to create awareness of the need for taking care of yourself and your loved ones in specific ways.

There are two areas of action we suggest. The first has to do with spiritual preparation and the second has to do with physical survival. From the standpoint of yourselves as souls, it is immaterial whether your present embodiment continues or not. Spiritual preparation means to prepare for the possibility of your death through a recommitment to your life—to living and choosing what is essential for ever-increasing experiences of appreciation and joy. It sounds odd, but following your deepest sense of joy will lead you to be in the places where you will most likely survive, should the Earth go into a period of purification.

Spiritual preparation also includes clearing away the obstructions between you and your own psychic knowing, and being willing to move in an instant’s notice, and a willingness to move even if those around you insist on remaining where they are. Should the Earth go into its travail of purification, you must be prepared to follow your own inner knowing, for that is the only compass you will have, both literally and figuratively. In terms of physical survival, at the very least, you will need to obtain and store food and emergency supplies, including water and warm clothing, even if you live currently in a mild to tropical environment. Get to know your friends and neighbors, for it may require a level of cooperation you are not used to, in order to physically survive the purification. Even if outright catastrophe is averted, there will be a radical increase in aberrant weather and possible challenges to food production.

Finally we would say to begin a discipline of connecting with your spiritual aspect, in whatever ways you find most effective. You will want to strengthen these connections, for if the Earth enters into travail, there will be much chaos and many voices from those in distress and in confusion, and you will need to have access to your innermost self—to the small silent voice within—to tell you where to go and what to do, and sometimes that may mean going nowhere and doing nothing.

For those living within the US, know that you are being lied to, both politically and economically. It is not our focus to discuss these issues facing you. Anyone interested in such things can find the information. Let us just say that it is quite possible that the US economy will falter within the next year or two. Simple logic and common sense are your allies here. Preparing for a possible economic downturn means to become financially self-reliant. Should this occur, you will find that life gets much simpler. For one who has achieved a detachment from their monetary expectations, the devaluing of money will be a difficulty, to be sure, but not an emotional and spiritual catastrophe.

Build your house upon solid ground, not the shifting sands. And in this case, the shifting sands are your monetary system. The solid ground is your connection to your own God-Self, to the spiritual dimensions where you dwell, even as you live on Earth.

Finally we wish to say to you that as difficult as the challenges are, you are still the Masters of your destiny, although you slumber in forgetfulness. If you are to survive you must awaken. In our world we have a ritualistic object. It is made of the finest gold that has been culled from the ninth dimension. In this box there are three symbolic stones. We refer to this box as the Ark of Humanity, as a symbol for that which will carry you (humanity) into a new dimension.

The three stones represent the three within humanity. There are those who would rather kill and die than awaken to the truth of themselves as Creator Gods. They remain asleep, though dangerous, since they sleepwalk and appear to be like everyone else. These are the people of the first stone.

The second stone represents those who do not wish to be bothered; do not wish to change how they live life. They are not particularly violent, just numb.

The third stone represents those who are awakening and have awakened to themselves as Creator Gods, understanding that they are responsible for their aspect of Creation and who willingly accept the responsibility of living upward through joy and harmony in a world so full of conflict.

The Ark of Humanity holds all three stones, and if the Ark of Humanity is to carry the entire collective into the fifth dimension and beyond, it must carry all three stones. The task for collective transmutation rests upon the shoulders of those of the third stone. Even though you are late in the hour (so to speak), total catastrophe can be averted. Ironically
it has more to do with how the third stone of humanity chooses to live their life. If you succumb to the emotions of fear and horror, the Ark of Humanity will not be carried into the fifth dimension and beyond, because the purification will destroy most life on Earth. If this occurs, you will simply find that you will return to the spiritual realm according
to the level of your development and spiritual attainment.

So we speak not to the first or second stones, for they cannot hear us; although their eyes may see these words or their ears hear the words, they will not comprehend. This is for those of you of the third stone. You know who you are. For you will have been electrified by what you have just read.

We bow to you, the protectors and the guardians of the human spirit. We bow to you, sages and masters, for your spiritual courage to have incarnated upon this Earth at this time. Live more fully. Laugh more heartily. Forgive more completely. You are the Masters of your destiny. Be Happy.

The Hathors

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When you see a simblr (or anyone for that matter) literally asking for help and thinking of committing suicide it’s heartbreaking and It makes me feel so helpless, in the way all I can do is message them, but sometimes that’s all it takes to save someone’s life…

I saw a post on my dash earlier of a small sims blog Im following, and like so many others, this person is battling depression and is currently thinking of suicide as the only option…it literally stopped me in my tracks.

Some people would have just scrolled past it without even realising… but when it comes to a persons life and wellbeing we have to all support one another…

I left a reply on this persons post just telling them how they are loved and how they are worth so so much! As that’s all I could do… But as they are not replying I am almost in tears… and so worried.

I just want to let that person know or anyone else who is struggling with depression or any other mental health disorder, you are not alone!

You are loved and you are worth so much to so many people!

I know this post won’t make your problems disappear, although It would be lovely if it was that easy, but it may prevent someone committing suicide, this could be the sign that stops them.

I am always here to talk if any one needs too!! Please feel free to message me off or on anon about anything and I promise I will try and help you in anyway I can!!
❤️❤️❤️

ask-mirai-and-friends  asked:

Hak@Flamma: The arcanine bowed his head as a greeting. He knew about ninetales often being very proud folks. "Greetings! I just saw you sitting here all on your own. Excuse me the rude question, but how comes you're all alone here? Don't you have your family or partner to stay with you?" He noticed his rude words and quickly tried to explain. "Oh there's nothing wrong with preferring to be alone of course! But I for myself prefer the joyful family life."

“I’m alone here because I am alone. I have no partner, nor have I ever had one. My family… Well that’s a complicated matter and it would be best not to delve into it, at least for now. Suffice to say that they aren’t company I have access to. I don’t think I prefer to be alone, but I don’t have many options available. All my friends I’ve either been separated from or… outlived. It’s probably for the best I am alone.”

“No, It’s for the best.”


@ask-mirai-and-friends

I refuse to be an option. I refuse to be one of many. If you have hoes, don’t even bother. If you’re always caught up in some drama with some girls, don’t even bother. If you got hella baggage, don’t waste my time please. I’ve spent so long trying to get my life to a place where it’s 100% drama free and that lifestyle is so far from what I aspire to have, it’s not worth it.

I could have anyone in the world. I have so many options. I tell myself I don’t know what I want…but that’s a lie. I know what I want, but I know I can’t have it. And even if I did get it, what would I do? I tell myself I don’t know what I want, but that’s a lie…I want you.
—  Velicious09.tumblr

anonymous asked:

*claps hands loudly* tell!me!what!being!a!history!major!is!like!!!!!!

IT’S AWESOME!!!

I LOVE it so far! I’m only halfway through my first year of uni, but it’s looking pretty great, especially when you compare it to highschool. My favourite thing is the amount of options for courses? There are hundreds of different history classes to choose from, so you get to pick and choose exactly what you want to study, which is AWESOME!

However, i will warn you: essays will take over your life. SO. Many. Essays. It gets easier, but it never gets fun, but it’s just something you have to deal with. But if you really love history, it’s worth the pain!

We also get the added bonus of cackling at our friends in the science departments who have to stay for hours doing labs and stuff. muahaha.

and also when your friends who have been memorizing scientific names and doing calculations all day ask me what i did in class today, and i just get to say something like ‘oh, well, today we were learning about the prevalence of magic and witchcraft in 16th century england. no biggie.”

My focus is on modern european history (especially russian and germanic), and there’s always so many awesome subjects to choose from. Plus, there’s room for tons of electives, so i can take some fun easy a courses at the same time!

10/10 would recommend if you’re willing to deal with the overload of essays and the lowkey anxiety over what the hell you’re gonna do with your degree

Next Level Cleaning Tips (Part-1)

It’s easy to let the little things get ahead of you. We tend to focus on the obvious things: tidying, dusting, mopping, laundry, etc., but we neglect many of our everyday items. By the time you realize how bad it’s gotten, it feels like the only option is to replace it. Have no fear! These deep cleaning tips will restore your items and save you cash.

1. Clean your water bottle regularly.

All you need is bleach, baking soda, and a brush small enough to get into the nooks and crannies.

2. Refresh your cutting boards by soaking in a bleach solution.

3. Scrub away that caked on gunk.

You’ll need vinegar, baking soda, water, and a scouring pad for this.

4. Clean your oven the easy way.

5. Avoid the scrubbing with this easy method.

After you’re done using your electric grill, unplug it and place a few layers of wet paper towels across the griddle. Close it and let it steam until the grill is cool, then simply wipe off the mess!

anonymous asked:

Hi there! So I've been wanting to get tattoos for a long time now (I actually want to be a tattoo artist) but there are no vegan tattoo shops anywhere near me and they test the ink on animals... would it be non vegan of me to get a tattoo with ink tested on animals? It's not life or death or an absolute necessity, so I really don't know what I should do... I don't NEED the tattoos, but it would cost even more money to travel to the nearest vegan shop, and I've been wanting tattoos for years

You really have two options here to do this while staying within your vegan ethics. You could travel to an appropriate artist, many people do this to find the perfect person anyway, or to go to a tattoo convention. Otherwise you could try to find an artist who will let you bring your own ink once you’ve established what design you’ll use, as well as your own aftercare and transfer pads, all of which can be found in vegan versions. Honestly I think if you got it knowing that the ink isn’t vegan, and may even contain animal products, you’d always be reminded of it when you look at your tattoo. This is something you will have forever, so it really is worth taking your time to find the perfect artist to do it for you, even if that means waiting. 

Etiquette When Receiving Free Divination Readings

Free readings are one of the best parts of being in the witchy community. A diviner gets to hone their skills, and you get an answer from the universe on that little problem of yours. That being said, there is some basic etiquette involved, and having offered and received free readings many times myself, I figured it couldn’t hurt to make a little PSA. So here is a step-by-step on How To Not Piss Off Your Diviner ^_^

1) Preface by saying “If you are still doing free readings”. This gives the diviner the option to deny your request because they received more than expected, or you sent your message after they closed. 

2) Don’t tell them your life story, and asking for a general reading is fine! If your boyfriend Tim told his friend that he was worried about you talking to Steve but you were just asking about homework and it seems like Tim doesn’t want to make this work–Stop. “What can I do to improve my relationship?” is just fine.

Example Request: Hello! If you are still doing free readings, I would like one please. I’m up for a promotion at work, what can I do to make my skills shine? Thank you for your time!

3) Give them time. Divining is draining, it can take days to shuffle through a stack of asks, and tbh sometimes we don’t get to every single one. Life happens. If you need a prompt reading, consider paying for one. 

4) Give feedback. Let your diviner know if their reading helped you, or if it seemed to be a little off the mark. 

Example Feedback: Thanks so much for the reading! I think I know what the cards were talking about, I’ve been fighting with my Dad lately. I suppose I’ll have to try and talk to him. Thanks again!

5) Consider a tip, or becoming a repeat customer. Many who do free readings will gladly accept tips, and some read professionally as well. If you think their reading was good(meaning skilled, not necessarily good news), maybe go back to them next time you need some help and pay them for a more in-depth reading. 

6) Say please and thank you! They are giving their time a services to you, free of charge. Respect the craft and respect your diviner.

anonymous asked:

Why you telling girls to skip group dinners cause they don't want to eat there!? You should be telling them it's okay to have a night off from healthy eating and try her best to eat healthy but to live her life and have fun! That's not healthy to restrict her life like that!

Okay i only said it as one option, i gave two others too. And i said it because i know many people have bulimia, and if you ask me its better to skip it all than cry over the toilet for hours because a piece of cookie. Or if theyre in a starve-binge cycle, its not good to be around food and trigger a binge. I just want to give the best advice i can, but everyone know whats best for them and i think they can make their own decisions.

anonymous asked:

I miss your stories!!!

are we talking joshifer, everlark or japril?? haha so many options. because if it’s just japril you’re missing, im in the process of writing a multichapter!! thats whats taking me so long :P as of today i have 69 pages. so im getting there!!

if you miss everlark, well… im on a self-induced hiatus there because japril has completely taken over my life and i need my inspiration for everlark back… my return date is still TBA…

and joshifer… well, that ship has sailed. it was a good run but i won’t ever write them again. i do miss those times though!!! they were so pure!!

Why I believe a lot of gun enthusiasts are psychopaths.

First off, I believe in the right to own a gun. It’s in the constitution, we use them for hunting, and they’re a part of our society. What I don’t  believe in however, is solving all your problems with a gun. 

The most common scenario that’s brought up with guns are home defense. While that’s a reasonable argument, there are some huge flaws with it. In most states, there’s a law that states that you have a duty to retreat. You can’t just open fire on anyone that comes into your home unless you have absolutely no other options AND your life is on the line. There isn’t a single possession that you could possibly have that’s worth taking someone’s life over.

 There are so many stories of people who have gone into the wrong house by accident or were going to a friend’s house and got lost on the way or stuff similar to that and ended up being killed because of trigger-happy “gun enthusiasts” with no regards to human life.

Just because someone enters your home DOES NOT give you the right to put a bullet in their head. I wish they’d teach this in gun safety lessons.

Simply racking a gun or shouting out that you’ve called the police will make most intruders flee out of fear.

If they come at you with a weapon of some sort, your first instinct should be to run. jump out a window, go out a back-door, hide in your bathroom. stuff like that. Your next action if they’re still coming at you is to fire a warning shot if the situation allows you the time to do that. After that, if for some reason they’re still coming at you, and ONLY if you have absolutely no other options or any other way out, should you shoot to incapacitate, not kill. I wish they’d teach this stuff in gun training classes.

Remember, you’re bargaining with someone else’s life. If you kill someone then you have to live with that burden for the rest of your life. Think before you act.

anonymous asked:

I've been thinking of changing my first and middle name, Rylan Amanda, to Toby Alexander. And in my head that sounds awesome and I want to do it, but when I say it out loud or try to plan it out to tell my mom, it sounds horrible and I hate it. I don't know what to call myself or how to respond to my name anymore.

If you dont like how it sounds out loud maybe you should look into some other names and see what you like. Ask your parents for input. It can sometimes help to involve them in the process to show you care about what they think. Dont have to go with anything they say but you could try it anyway. Choosing a new name can be a difficult part of this. Its not something many people do so when it comes to it it can be hard to decide what to go with as it will represent you for the rest of your life unless you choose to change it again (which is always an option). Ask friends and whoever else you talk to for ideas and try things out with them, get them to call you it and see how it feels. That way you’re not tied to committing to it and can easily change it if you wanted to. Its not something you need to rush deciding on. Take as long as you need to figure it out. Go through as many names as you want to to find what is right. Look through baby name sites and write down all the ones you like and narrow it down from there. Theres no simple way to go about this. I’ve felt like changing mine and still kinda want to honestly but Im not going through it again. Dont change it legally until you’re sure about it. It doesnt have to be your legal name for people to call you it

anonymous asked:

I'm from a culture that is very traditional. Yet I came out to my aunt (dad's sister) She's upset because we are from a well respected family and my father has a big position in a business with ties to government. If word gets out about me it could really cause complete destruction of too many things and government and law won't take by side if a bigot decides something. I can only hide. It's wrong that things like this can happen but I can't stop high authority people from being bigots.

I get it and it really sucks. Would you ever be able to leave? To move somewhere else and have a secret life? I’m sure you don’t want to leave your family but I would hate for you to lose yourself. I hope you have other options because I know how painful it is to hide. Message me on @penguincommander if you ever need to talk.

- Nicole

“support bi women who are in m/f relationships” and “support lesbians who are made uncomfortable by seeing m/f” aren’t actually contradictory statements, why is this website so gdamn insistent that the only options are “tell bi women in m/f relationships they’re basically het women and disgusting and unwelcome in lgbt+ spaces” or “tell lesbians that not shipping m/f means they hate bi women” oooooh my god literally stop