you don't want to know what she is making

“Oh Mutt darling, don’t even worry about Tank!  He wouldn’t hurt a fly–would you, big boy?”
“BI”    
“….Unless it landed on me, of course, then he would absolutely destroy it.”
“B)”

Mutt has never been the shortest girl in the room before, but hey.  Number One is 6′3 without her heels. ((Limousines have a certain amount of high-society pretention about them, even limousines belonging to the Duke.  ;)  Thus the evening wear haha)) ((I gotta figure out names for them they can’t just literally go by their car names.  Can they?)) ((CAN THEY?? 8I))

You know what, I’m getting fuckign tired of this 

Lets come up with some hypothetical scenario. Say I wanted to make a gender bend, say I wanted to turn Lance Mcclain from a user of he/him pronouns, to a user of she/her pronouns. Lance as a boy, looks like this

So, I’m gonna genderbend this character, ready? The picture of Lance below is now Lance Mcclain but now they will be a girl

Are you surprised? Well I wouldn’t be surprised if you were, since common genderbends usually make that character into stereotypes for that gender

When you genderbend a character you are implying that

  • All people fit on the gender binary
  • All characters are cisgendered
  • Someone who uses she/her pronouns must look traditionally feminine while a user of he/him pronouns must look traditionally masculine
  • And when you Change Lance’s name to Laura or Lily or whatever the fuck, your implying that names have to change with your gender identity

So artists, your art is amazing and lovely and you have great skills! But when your idea of a gender-bend is turning a teen aged boy into a character with big boobs and an hourglass figure, guess what, that is harmful! 

I know making art is hard and it’s very time consuming and I’m greatful artists with such great skills wanna draw for our fandoms! Your amazing! But you have to know your media will spread and when someone who’s young sees that art and starts thinking that in order to be a girl you must look ‘feminine’, that affects how they view the world! And they take those stereotypes with them.

You want proof? You don’t believe me? I used to be that child! I was young and impressionable and I saw these amazing drawings and for a while I thought that in order for me to be a girl I had to look like those girls in the pictures! And when I looked at the girls section of the clothes store and I didn’t want to wear anything that was there, It did tremendous damage on my self confidence! 

EDIT:

I was going through reblogs and reading tags and @occultgoths brought to my attention that genderbends are also intersexist! Since the implication that in order to belong to a certain identity, you have to have a certain pair of genitals or ‘look like’ that certain identity is also harmful to intersex people! Thank you to that person for bringing this to my attention! 

TL;DR: GENDER-BENDS ARE HARMFUL! AND AWFULLY CISSEXIST AND TRANSPHOBIC! PLEASE STOP MAKING THEM! NO MATTER WHAT FANDOM YOU ARE IN!

- Your local demigirl

  • mom: let me know what stresses you out so I can help you with it. even if I'm contributing to it, just let me know.
  • me: okay, well, sometimes you yell at me and it makes me upset, because you always blame me for it and I'm not allowed to disagree with you or else it's all my fault.
  • mom: wELL EXCUSE ME YOU'RE SO UNGRATEFUL I GUESS I SHOULDN'T SAY ANYTHING TO ANYONE EVER AGAIN BECAUSE EVERYTIME I OPEN MY MOUTH I UPSET SOMEONE.
  • me: that's not what I'm saying.
  • mom: YES IT IS.
  • me: .....anyway
I DON'T WANT TO GROW UP!!!

frisk control yourself please 

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I was tagged by the lovely @sarahstreep7 because she is a doll to post 6 (?) selfies from the year? I really don’t know exactly what this is or the rules but here are 5 photos (I’m a rebel).

I tag anyone comfortable doing this. You’re lovely and I appreciate seeing your faces so much. But sometimes I worry that it can make some people uncomfortable, asking for photos of their faces so I won’t do that to you. But I want you, yes you, reading this right now - if you’re comfortable - to do this. And please tag me so I can see your gorgeous self. And before you wonder “does she mean me though?”. YES you. Do it.

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petrichorlore requested: éomer + fourth age of middle-earth

During the Fourth Age Éomer often fulfilled the Oath of Eorl and went with King Elessar far into the East and South of Middle-earth. He was known as Éomer Éadig, or “the Blessed”, because during his reign Rohan recovered from the hurts of the War and became a rich and fruitful land again.
In T.A. 3021 he wedded Princess Lothíriel, daughter of Prince Imrahil of Dol Amroth, whom he had met during his stay in Gondor and she bore him a son Elfwine the Fair.

I DON’T WANT TO WORK ON THIS ANYMORE so here is my version of the mural my Lavellan used to work out some of her issues. She basically attacked her bedroom wall with paint. Not fresco, because she does not have the skill or patience required for that. I’m pretty sure she gets over bad days by working on her family and/or lying on the floor painting foliage. Tiny happy flower, ignore the fact that you don’t know how to convince your boyfriend not to murder everyone you’ve ever known, tiny happy flower, ignore the desire to throw idiots off the battlements, tiny happy flower. Bob Ross therapy did not actually work for her, alas.

  • Cole: She almost says it sometimes. Katoh.
  • Cole: She tastes it in her mouth, sweet release a breath away, tongue tying it tenderly, like you tie her. But she doesn't. For you, and for her because it makes it mean more, a fuller feeling, a brighter burst.
  • Bull: Right. [coughs] And how does she feel about you saying this out loud in front of everyone?
  • Inquisitor: Bull and I are consenting adults, there's nothing wrong with what we choose to do in bed.
  • Cole: Not just in bed. Sometimes against a wall. Once on the war table.
  • Dorian: [laughs]

Young teacher, the subject
Of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly
Knows what she wants to be
Inside her there’s longing
This girl’s an open page
Book marking - she’s so close now
This girl is half his age

Her friends are so jealous
You know how bad girls get
Sometimes it’s not so easy
To be the teacher’s pet
Temptation, frustration
So bad it makes him cry
Wet bus stop, she’s waiting
His car is warm and dry

Loose talk in the classroom
To hurt they try and try
Strong words in the staffroom
The accusations fly
It’s no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by Nabokov

—  Police, Don’t stand so close to me
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C: What are you thinking? Do you know how many times a day I ask you that?
T: Sorry. What am I thinking…? I’m thinking that I’m utterly selfish, and I should–
C: Don’t do this; you had no idea, how could you have known?
T: And I should’ve said no to you, but I never say no. And it’s selfish because… because I just take everything, and I don’t know anything and– I don’t know what I want and how could I when all I ever do is say yes to everything? xx

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“I love her. I love Laura. Every word out of her mouth, every move she makes. I just… I love talking to her, you know. Just listening to her. I know it’s a joke. Cliché. 50-year-old married man in love with a 30-year-old. But I want to be with her. And I don’t care what it means and I don’t care what it costs. I don’t care. I love her.”

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  Aesthetic(s) for Mastermind Tsumugi Shirogane who regrets what she did! Wow, is this one of those rare times when Ibuki actually has enough pictures stocked to make two? Yes. If you want anything changed, please let Ibuki know!

- Mod Ibuki

Please tell me why you hate the rain, or why your mother strikes fear into you. Tell me where you shop, and what tattoos you want. Stay up with me, 3am or 6am, tell me what your favourite childhood shows were and why the number 26 gives you so much hope.
Explain to me why she broke your heart and why you thought it was okay to lose faith in the world. Explain to me the way you like it when the stars shine, and the way somebody can make you feel on a Monday morning.
Show me the desire you have to travel the world, and the lust you want to fulfil to fall asleep on somebody’s chest. Show me why you feel sad, and all the skull crushing things people have said.
Let me invest in you, and show you sometimes home can be two sweaty palms and a heart beat. Let me show you what fear looks like, and the terrifying but beautiful sides you have to yourself.
Just simply tell me about you, because you is all I could want.
—  I want you in every way there is to want a person.
Clean Speech
Taylor Swift
Clean Speech

You are your own definition of beautiful and worthwhile…that is what you are!…I think that we mistake our mistakes for damage and we think other people will judge us for them, but I want you to know that the way that I see mistakes, they don’t make you damaged…they make you CLEAN.

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This isn’t my audio…I found it on YouTube and thought that what she said is so true and important!  We all need to remember these things about ourselves and don’t ever let anyone make you believe differently!


Listen <3

Y’all hanging out in my parents’ tag have got to chill. All this depressing talk is only making you more upset.

She is fine. He is fine. And most importantly, I am fine. Can we all agree to mellow out a bit? Please?

Because if you don’t, I will find you all and fart in your faces. Trust me, you don’t want that.

(Yes, I, Goose Helbig-See, Ferocious Attack Dog, Chief of Security, Forty-Five Pounds of Muscle, Love, and Aggression, just told you to chill. That’s how you know I’m being serious AF. Well, that and the farting threat.)