you don't have to care what they say

anonymous asked:

Why do you draw Toby's hair so curly? He doesn't really look a lot like the original Toby...

Some reason why other Muns change their Muse. To make them stand out from the others! While I do make a few changes (curlier hair, different mouth scar, doesn’t have stubble most of the time, ect), I also try to make him look like the original as much as possible.

Idk I just kinda like doing my own thing with him, ya know?

Now for his personality… Yeah he’s not much like the original lol he’s pretty bland comparatively.  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Oh well

- Mun

anonymous asked:

why do u hate people who dislike JeanPArnasse

I. Don’t. Hate. people who dislike ships that I like. 

What I don’t like is when they bash people for shipping certain characters together.
I hate some Les Mis ships but do I go around bashing them? No. I don’t. 

Have your ships but stop shitting on everyone else if they like something you don’t. 

When you watch the episode and you see Bonnie suffering so much that you realize that people really FAILED her.

Bonnie was always the one who sacrificed herself and when you see what she’s able to do to bring Enzo back to his side, and also that Elena is the first thing Damon think about, it shows what we all suspected:

Bonnie is not respected, it’s above happiness, dear Bonenzo, Bamon, and other ship fans. It’s FUCKING RESPECT.

Caroline LET MESSAGES. NO trying to see her so-called best friend. I’m VERY SORRY, Stefan can wait! You are a fucking vampire erase the memories with the help of all later!

Damon hears Bonnie “ Leave me alone “, I’m sorry, this is precisely the moment when you don’t leave someone ALONE!

Caroline CALLED her mother? Someone who ABANDONED her ? who is a vampire when she supposed to be here for her? What is your fucking logic? Stefan is right, you only think about your fucking marriage!

DON’T MARRY HER STEFAN!

Also, I seriously want to see Bonnie slap Stefan. Or Damon. Or someone for fuck’s sake, she deserves a slap! WHen she almost killed Elena, she was under the expression influence but for once… MAKE THEM PAY. STEAL THE CAMARO. LEVE THIS SHIT HOLE. I DON’T EVEN CARE ABOUT BAMON ANYMORE CAUSE DAMON FAILED YOU!

Let Elena burn in her fucking coffin and move on!

Ps: Kai is back, it’s probably the time to have payback.

PS2: Abby is a vampire. So why the hell can she do magic etc? Did I miss something?

started replaying the last of us the other day and suddenly started wondering what kind of game we’d have gotten if tess hadn’t been bitten

Kitten Play

I know for a fact that I am a kitten… Well a big baby feline I should say because I am not a normal house cat. I’ll tell you that much at least. I have something that has been on my mind for quite awhile and it has to do with kitten play. 

I just want to be able to understand why all of the kitten play tag is about Little’s (which I have nothing against I am one as well) or controversy. Seriously why? The rest of the pet play tags don’t have this stuff. This might be because many people in kitten play are just following the trend or maybe some people are just so ignorant that they don’t know the difference.

I don’t mean to sound like a bitch. Or maybe I do. It’s too late at night for me to decide right now, but all I want to do is be able to look at the kitten play tag and see KITTEN PLAY STUFF! I DON’T WANT TO NOR SHOULD I HAVE TO SEE EVERYTHING, BUT KITTEN PLAY! 

I looked at it just now and found minors stating that kitten play is in the sigil tag. I am a witch as well, so why the hell is there kitten play in the sigil tag! Like seriously MINORS can be WITCHES too! Why are you sharing this KINK with them! You can’t blame them for seeing it! You are sharing it with them! 

SO PLEASE TAG YOUR SHIT APPROPRIATELY AND STOP TAGGING LITTLE WITH KITTEN AND EVERYTHING ELSE! QUIT BEING SO WHINY AND GROW THE FUCK UP! I AM SICK OF HAVING TO GO TO OTHER PET PLAY TAGS TO SEE PET PLAY SHIT! I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO REBLOG FROM MY OWN PET PLAY SIDE! 

don't listen - part 3

‘Do you have a Snapchat?’


‘Yeah, why.’


‘Add me.’


‘I already follow your story.’


‘I have a personal one. My assistant runs that one.’


‘You have an assistant?’


‘Yeah, Lin. She takes care of all the things I don’t care enough about.’


‘Does she run your instagram too?’


‘Yep. And twitter.’


‘That explains a lot.’


‘Does it?’


‘Yeah, it’s all so happy. It just doesn’t seem like you?’


‘Are you saying I don’t seem like a 23 year old girl?’


‘That is exactly what I’m saying.’


‘Hahah. That makes sense. It’s all a little bit annoying, isn’t it?


‘Only a little bit.’


‘She’s new and young and excitable and happy all the time. It drives me nuts.’


‘Well, that sounds terrible.’


Mo Guan Shan wondered, not for the first time, if his sarcasm was obvious over text.


‘She’s a little bit of a pain sometimes, but her heart’s in the right place. Plus, she cares about all of this SO much and does everything for me, so I tell her I love it and let her do whatever she wants.’


‘That’s really nice of you.’


‘You’ll understand when you meet her.’


This is the first time He Tian had mentioned them actually seeing each other again.


‘I’m looking forward to it.’


‘How long are you going to be in the city?’


‘We’re here through the end of the month.’


‘I’ll be back home on thursday. Maybe we could hang out?’


‘I’d love to.’


-


He Tian’s european tour was two months long.


Mo Guan Shan had sent his first text on day 6.


At first they would exchange a text or every two days or so.


After three weeks, they were talking every day.


Despite their conflicting schedules and time zones, they kept up a nearly constant stream of conversation.


He Tian seemed to sleep very little so there were only eight or nine hours total when one of them was unavailable.


Mo Guan Shan was content with texting, where he didn’t need to worry about his appearance, but He Tian liked to use facetime, and had recommended, not very tactfully, that Mo Guan Shan should get used to it.


‘I have shit to do, I can’t put everything down to pick up my phone.’


‘I’m sorry, we don’t have to-’


‘Whoa, whoa, whoa.’ Came a voice from off to the side somewhere.


The phone was pulled from He Tian’s hand and turned around.


‘Lin, what the hell?’


Mo Guan Shan found himself face to face with the pretty, dark haired girl he recognized from some of He Tian’s snaps.


‘What he is trying to say, is that he prefers FaceTime or phone calls so he can set the phone down and still fuck around with whatever he was doing. He phrased it terribly because he’s an idiot.’


He Tian appeared over her shoulder.


‘This is why I need her.’


Mo Guan Shan laughed, relieved.


‘Can I have my phone back, please?’


‘No.’


‘Bitch.’


She smiled.


‘I’m Lin.’


‘I figured as much.’


‘I’ve heard a lot about you, Mo Guan Shan.’’


‘I’ve heard a lot about you too.’


‘Good things?’


‘Of course.’


As always, the conversation is ended by Jian Yi.


‘YO BITCHES, WE GO ON IN TEN!’


Lin sighed.


He Tian took the phone back.


‘Gotta go, i’ll call you later?’


Mo Guan Shan nodded as He Tian ended the call.


Barely two minutes later, He Tian’s name popped up again.


‘I thought you were supposed to- oh, hey.’


It Lin on the screen.


‘You want to come to the show?’


‘I don’t think I can make it there in…’ He checked his watch. ‘Seven minutes.’


‘Well…’ she waved the phone around a bit. ‘Well, this is about as close as you can get.’


‘I don’t understand.’


She smiled.


She really was very, very, pretty.


‘I’ll take you with me.’

Unfollow me if you police the use of the word “queer” by those it describes and/or don’t believe a-spec people as a class are included in that grouping

My hateful ignorant bullshit threshold is only so high, and the rancid orange peel masquerading as a president elect is using up most of it.

Don’t message me with your opinions, justifications, or defenses. I don’t care what you have to say. If I respond at all, it will be to insult you. Fair warning.

Even though I know awards show are all politics and the way people win are not based on merit but how well they can lobby and convince people to give them an award. I’m still upset because bastille are a band who have substance, depth, and care for their fans above all else. They work so hard and deserve to be appreciated by their peers and everyone else. It’s because of these reasons I can’t believe they lost and who they lost to for Best British Group.

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My favorite glitter peep bunny filter is back. Just in time too. I need it. I’m off to the gym and I love my new workout shirt. It’s got a cool cutout in back. Then I’ve promised the boy a seafood dinner tonight. He’s adorable but also a pain in the butt sometimes. I appreciate having a nine year old that says, please pick up mussels at the store, but also he’s a nine year old asking me to pick up mussels at the store. You see what I mean? Anyway, I’m a sucker for that kid so I’m getting them.

Hey MGS Fans!

Reblog this post with a link to a fanfiction you have enjoyed. Any pairing/rating, just throw those tags on as appropriate. Let’s show the writers of this fandom a little love for all their hard work and effort! 

My pick:

Map of the Mind by @mothbats (Rated M, some Liquid Mantis, Incomplete)

Fantastic character piece about Psycho Mantis with a lot of focus on his early years and the psychological issues that come with being a child with absurdly powerful psychic abilities. Lots of development between the relationship of Eli and himself. S+ read.

The only call you are going to get from me is a couple months from now. I’ll be sitting on the floor in a bar bathroom at 2 am, drunk, and someone will have just got done butchering a Fall Out Boy song. In that second I’ll miss being in love with you but that will be it.
—  I’m sorry you hurt me so much
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We’ve developed a code so that we can communicate with each other, even in front of the others, without them knowing what we are saying. When we turn our heads to the left, it means, “I love you more than anything in the world.” And when we turn our heads to the right, it means, “Watch out, we’re in danger.” We had to be very careful in the beginning not to mix up “I love you more than anything in the world” with “Watch out, we’re in danger.”
The Lobster | Yorgos Lanthimos, 2015

If you vote for Trump, you don’t support gays, poc or women. I don’t care for your reasoning.

If you say you support gay rights, and you vote for him, you’re a lier

If you say you support people of colour and their rights, you’re a lier

If you say you support gender equality and vote him, you’re a lier

No matter how much you justify yourself, you have voted for an unqualified, racist, homophobic, sexist idiot and in my opinion, if you vote for him, you are too.

how i know i am a truly next level insufferable nerd: whenever i see a seemingly ~nice~ jane austen novel quote about love or friendship or literary enthusiasm on, say, an internet graphic or a notecard or a throw pillow, i can’t just let it slide. i always have to complain about it. to cry out “CAROLINE JUST SAID THAT BECAUSE SHE WAS SO THIRSTY FOR DARCY, SHE DON’T CARE ABOUT READING” or “ISABELLA THORPE IS THE WORLD’S #1 HYPOCRITE, SHE OBVIOUSLY MEANS THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF THAT, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU, GET THOSE WORDS OFF YOUR THROW PILLOW UNLESS YOU WANT IT TO BE A THROW PILLOW OF LIES.

I think one of the kindest things you can do for yourself as an artist is to accept that you will make bad drawings sometimes and just…stop caring about it. It’s not like that bad sketch you drew was your one and only chance to ever draw the thing. It’s so much easier emotionally to just say “lol what is that?” delete it and start over than it is to spend the next six hours crying about it. Once you stop treating every single thing you draw as something precious and learn to just throw stuff away it takes so much stress away. One bad drawing doesn’t make you a bad artist, or a fraud. Even the best pro artists are gonna have moments where they draw things wrong. You’re going to make bad drawings so just go out there and make them so you can move on with your life. Chances are your second attempt will be better. 

this is pretty much what happened, right? careful reiji, zarc might take over yuya for a moment and kill you

I want to say that despite recent events, the majority of the fandom continues to show me just how kind and considerate it is. For every judgment there is four times the support. People who don’t care for Gabrinette still come to me saying they hope we’re okay and that judging people over a ship is unacceptable and that fiction should be regarded as just that: fiction. And the hate I’ve seen since has been easy to ignore overall because it’s overwhelmed by the support we’ve been getting otherwise.

Everyone has their interests, their ways of coping, their own ideas of what makes for an interesting story or dynamic, and the fact so many here are considerate of that keeps me here and keeps me from being as depressed and suicidal as other fandoms have done.

I try to be open about my own experiences with trauma and abuse (but not to the extent I let myself dwell on it too much) and encourage whatever coping methods are healthiest for each individual person. Mine tends to be exploring things similar to what I went through (and worse) through fiction, because I can only be entertained by sweet cute perfectly healthy things for so long because eventually I get bitter and hate it for being unrealistic in my own view of the world. I didn’t have anything truly sweet and healthy until I met @sinfulmarinette and even our relationship gets demonized at times (we have an age gap and openly practice many kinks/BDSM dynamics, including several of the most critiqued) despite the fact she’s the best thing that’s happened to me and I’m getting to a much better point in my life with her help. She helps me see the world with a more enthusiastic view and helps me when my demons are at their worst. But it took a lot, a LOT, of bad experiences and trauma to get there.

I have PTSD on top of several other issues and when the first accusation of pedophile and abuse apologist was thrown at me over this (it was an entire blog dedicated to calling me out for apparently being a pedophile who supports abuse just for shipping Gabrinette), she literally had to hold me in the shower and work me through a break down before helping me step by step toward getting to bed and coax me enough to manage sleep, because after the initial anger faded, my ability to stay strong and cope by myself dropped like a ton of bricks.

Not everyone had a healthy experience growing up and not everyone copes with unhealthy experiences by avoiding the subject matter altogether. I am deeply sorry to anyone who may see anything that involves subject matter that brings up bad memories if avoiding it entirely is how you cope best. My own triggers are far more obscure and deal with very particular parts of my experiences (like, say, gas cans, choking with intent to harm, and tickling) and I can never predict when they’ll actually trigger me or not. But going through fictional material of the overall types of experiences I have help me feel better (only if approached right, though. Or else I get ranty. You should see me when Twilight or 50 Shades gets brought up. I can get absolutely livid about what they did wrong and what they didn’t point out was bad behavior).

But my point is, even if your ability to cope relies on avoiding the subject matter altogether, please respect those who cope in the exact opposite way. We may have more in common than you think and relating us to our abusers by calling us names or insinuating that we’re supporting that behavior can be just as triggering to us as you seeing that material can be to you. Please be respectful and consider there may be more than what a lot of fandom culture claims is going on when someone ships a ‘problematic’ ship or likes a 'problematic’ character.

And even if someone enjoys it without any past trauma, they’re allowed to just enjoy something bad in a fictional setting, just like how so many enjoy murder mysteries or dark shows even without the bad experiences themselves and can even help those who have never gone through these things to understand and sympathize with those that have. Going to them and attacking them over what they ship, especially to the extent fandom can get sometimes, might even lead to their own form of trauma through bullying and gaslighting and that’s not something I think any of you really want to be the cause of. At least, I hope not.

Anyway, I’m essentially repeating the same things I’ve been saying to most I’ve talked to about this the past few days but I felt a full post was needed. If not for others than for my own health so I can fully get it off my chest. I’ve met so many kind people the past few days over this and despite the terrible reason those conversations got started over, I’m glad they happened. Thank you to everyone new I’ve talked to recently for helping me keep from getting too paranoid about talking to new people and expanding what I look at and explore in it. And thank you to those I knew before this who continued to support and keep me from letting it get to me too much. And thank you to those that I heard support from second hand as well. You may not know that your support was helpful, but it was.

I keep expecting this fandom to turn as hateful as the many before it and it continues to surprise me and renew my faith in humanity. You are all so wonderful. Thank you.

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T: How did you know? 
B: ‘Cause you’re Tori. You wouldn’t act like that unless someone was making you. 
T: Oh my God, you have no idea how happy I am that you know the truth! But… I didn’t tell you. I never told you I was faking… you guessed it!