you deserve so much better

little self care things ♡

open this if you don’t feel good today 💌


  • eat small fruit snacks
  • buy yourself a treat occasionally
  • make a cake in a mug
  • chew flavored sugar-free gum
  • put lemon in your water


  • listen to your favorite music
  • or just wear earphones to block things out
  • listen to white noise/ambient sounds


  • put on some sweet-scented lotion
  • spray a bit of your favorite perfume
  • make your favorite coffee or tea


  • look in the mirror and tell yourself you look good today
  • clean the clutter in your room + throw things away
  • close all the unused tabs
  • clean the dishes + do your laundry
  • delete unused apps
  • make your bed
  • fold your clothes tidily
  • organize your books and papers
  • turn down the brightness of your phone/computer at night
  • smile and be more polite at strangers
  • open up the curtains, let the light in
  • go outside often


  • hug people you love
  • cuddle your pet
  • read while lying in your bed
  • hug a soft toy


  • wash your face/use face wipes
  • dry shampoo if you’re too tired to shower
  • brush your teeth
  • exfoliate + moisturize your skin
  • change into clean clothes
  • brush your hair
  • put on some lip balm


  • do your favorite exercises
  • take a nap
  • take deep breaths with your stomach
  • take a warm shower
  • stand up and stretch your legs
  • put on some music and go for a walk outside
  • get at least 7 hours of sleep
  • drink lots of water


  • always make some time to do what you love
  • create art, writing and music for yourself, not anyone else
  • don’t feel embarrassed about your hobbies
  • be patient with yourself, progress takes time! don’t give up
  • hobby ideas: cooking, reading, drawing, painting, a sport, a new language, learn a musical instrument, collect things, photography, join a class or a club


  • put yourself first
  • spend less time around people who make you feel bad
  • write your thoughts in a journal
  • stand up for yourself
  • stop judging people
  • don’t dwell in the past
  • concentrate on what’s happening now
  • don’t try for people who don’t care
  • stop caring about what’s not important
  • be a friend to yourself, rather than a bully
  • learn to love your body
  • see the bigger picture
  • change self-destructive habits
  • appreciate the good
  • let things go
  • ask for help


  • make lists
  • focus on priorities
  • stop putting everything off
  • turn off your phone if you need to
  • take breaks
  • do one thing at a time
  • believe in yourself!


  • laugh a lot
  • get a plant and name it
  • buy flowers for yourself
  • be ok with being alone
  • go out with your friends
  • watch a movie

I hope you feel better soon. You deserve so much. Things will get better soon so keep going. ☁️ I love you

It’s hard to be me. It’s making me go insane.
—  Poets Love Her

Aries: There’s something inside you worth saving. I hope you see it. You are worth more then everything they are judging you by. I hope you can see that now.

Taurus:  You’ll grow from this. Change is scary. But you deserve something so much better than what you’ve got. So much better then what you’re willing to let yourself have. I hope you know that now. I hope you see everything I see in you.

Gemini: Let go. Let go of the past, because as much as it hurts, it’s worth it. Let go and walk away because you can’t build a city out of rubble and whats left. You just have to take the lessons learned.

Cancer: You’ve been fighting for so long. You’ve only got a little farther to go. You’re winning this war. You’re winning. You just have to keep at it for a bit longer. I know you’re so tired. But hang on. You can do it.

Leo:  Some things aren’t what you asked for, but it’s better. Something more magical and great then you could of ever imagined. I know it’s scary. But it’s magical at the same time. Trust me.

Virgo: Acknowledge how far you’ve come. Being an adult is scary. Being grown is hard. But you’re here. You’ve grown. You’ve become this beautiful amazing thing. You are so wonderful now. I am so proud.

Libra: They do not win. Let them tear this world apart. That is not winning. That is being petty and stupid. They are not worth your time effort or energy. YOu are better then them.

Scorpio:  You don’t need to be who you use to be when you look at those photos. You aren’t that person anymore and you should be proud of that. Most people couldn’t survive this.

Sagittarius:  Make something new. Build a playground on top of a cemetery so you could still hear laughter. Learn to love this place, even if it is still full of bad memories.

Capricorn:  You’ve got scars. Their still beautiful. You are still beautiful. Still stunning. Still magical. You are still wonderful despite all the trauma they’ve put you through.

Aquarius: Coming back isn’t defeat. You have not lost because you couldn’t do what you wanted. Everything happens for a reason, including you coming back. This by far isn’t the end, I hope you see that.

Pisces: You deserve a round of applause for all that you’ve done. You deserve a victory award. I know life doesn’t hand them out. But you still deserve it. You’ve done so much and I am so proud.

—  this weeks zodiac

‘My mom always said he was a firecracker, which just meant he was always getting speeding tickets and jumping on tables at family reunions and stuff. He always had so many ideas. He was so hyper.’ Adam and Gansey looked at each other. They had always had the sense that the Noah they knew was not the true Noah. It was just disconcerting to hear how much Noahness death had stripped. It was impossible to not wonder what Noah would have done with himself if he had lived.


female awesome meme; 5/10 ladies who deserve better: tris prior (the divergent series)
“sometimes it isn’t fighting that’s brave, it’s facing the death you know is coming”