I'm crying a lot about this fact. My hips its bones. It will not go away ever. It will stay. It will always let me look girly. I don't know what to do.
There is something you can do. You may not be able to change the structure but you can work on techniques to minimise and disguise the appearance. Wear clothes that minimise hips and dont accentuate them. Straight leg for example over skinny fit. Avoiding cotton material can also help as it can cling. Something looser fitting wont cling to them and thereby help to hide it. Straight cuts are best. Patterns can also help distract the eye rather than highlight it
There are tips in articles like these that might help
You can just google like ‘clothing to hide hips’ and specify men if you want
Some guys do have wider hips. Not all are the inverted triangle shape of wide shoulders narrow hips. Some are the exact opposite (and in some it is bone structure not excess weight)
Aside from clothing, a useful thing to do is create an illusion of them being smaller. Bulk up your shoulders and upper body and your waist area will appear narrower in comparison, creating the inverted triangle appearance. This obviously involves a lot of work and that sort of training isnt for everyone. Its something to consider though if you wanted to go that route
When it comes to something you have little option in being able to change, you can look at ways to work with what you have. Look at what you can do to help it rather than focussing on what you cant change. You are not the only one and its not necessarily a feminine feature. Try some things out and you should be able to find something that at least makes you feel a bit better about it. It may not help any but you probably see yourself as worse than others do. We can be overly aware of anything that bothers us while others dont see it