you cannot change what you are only what you do

Hi guys! Here’s a little masterpost of quotes from children’s books that you can use in your bullet journal, or anywhere else you feel like!


  • “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
  • “The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched, they are felt with the heart.”
  • “You become responsible forever for what you’ve tamed.” 
  • “You - you alone will have the stars as no one else has them…In one of the stars I shall be living. In one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing, when you look at the sky at night…You - only you - will have stars that can laugh.”
  • “Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them”
  • “A rock pile ceases to be a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral.” 


  • “If I am a princess in rags and tatters, I can be a princess inside. It would be easy to be a princess if I were dressed in cloth of gold, but it is a great deal more of a triumph to be one all the time when no one knows it.”
  • “When you will not fly into a passion people know you are stronger than they are, because you are strong enough to hold in your rage, and they are not, and they say stupid things they wish they hadn’t said afterward. “
  • “There’s nothing so strong as rage, except what makes you hold it in–that’s stronger. It’s a good thing not to answer your enemies.”
  • “If nature has made you for a giver, your hands are born open, and so is your heart; and though there may be times when your hands are empty, your heart is always full, and you can give things out of that–warm things, kind things, sweet things–help and comfort and laughter–and sometimes gay, kind laughter is the best help of all.”
  • “Somehow, something always happens just before things get to the very worst. It is as if Magic did it. If I could only just remember that always. The worse thing never quite comes.”
  • “But I suppose there might be good in things, even if we don’t see it.”
  • “You don’t forget, but you bear it better.” 


  • “I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.”
  • “It’s wicked to throw away so many good gifts because you can’t have the one you want.”
  • “Love is a great beautifier.” 
  • “Watch and pray, dear, never get tired of trying, and never think it is impossible to conquer your fault.”
  • “I want to do something splendid…something heroic or wonderful that won’t be forgotten after I’m dead. I don’t know what, but I’m on the watch for it and mean to astonish you all someday.” 
  • “Conceit spoils the finest genius.” 
  • “Be comforted, dear soul! There is always light behind the clouds.”
  • “Life and love are very precious when both are in full bloom.”
  • “The only chivalry worth having is that which is the readiest to to pay deference to the old, protect the feeble, and serve womankind, regardless of rank, age, or color.”
  • “Books are always good company if you have the right sort.”
  • “The humblest tasks get beautified if loving hands do them.”
  • “Now and then, in this workaday world, things do happen in the delightful storybook fashion, and what a comfort that is.”


  • “So Matilda’s strong young mind continued to grow, nurtured by the voices of all those authors who had sent their books out into the world like ships on the sea. These books gave Matilda a hopeful and comforting message: You are not alone.” 
  • “Never do anything by halves if you want to get away with it. Be outrageous. Go the whole hog. Make sure everything you do is so completely crazy it’s unbelievable…” 
  • “I have found it impossible to talk to anyone about my problems. I couldn’t face the embarrassment, and anyway I lack the courage. Any courage I had was knocked out of me when I was young. But now, all of sudden I have a sort of desperate wish to tell everything to somebody.”
  • “I’ve always said to myself that if a little pocket calculator can do it why shouldn’t I?”
  • “There is little point in teaching anything backwards. The whole object of life, Headmistress, is to go forwards.”
  • “I’m afraid men are not always quite as clever as they think they are.”


  • “So many things are possible just as long as you don’t know they’re impossible.”
  • “Have you ever heard the wonderful silence just before the dawn? Or the quiet and calm just as a storm ends? Or perhaps you know the silence when you haven’t the answer to a question you’ve been asked, or the hush of a country road at night, or the expectant pause of a room full of people when someone is just about to speak, or, most beautiful of all, the moment after the door closes and you’re alone in the whole house? Each one is different, you know, and all very beautiful if you listen carefully.”
  • “Time is a gift, given to you, given to give you the time you need, the time you need to have the time of your life. ”
  • “You must never feel badly about making mistakes … as long as you take the trouble to learn from them. For you often learn more by being wrong for the right reasons than you do by being right for the wrong reasons.”
  • “The most important reason for going from one place to another is to see what’s in between.”
  • “What you can do is often simply a matter of what you will do.”
  • “What you learn today, for no reason at all, will help you discover all the wonderful secrets of tomorrow.”
  • “Whatever we learn has a purpose and whatever we do affects everything and everyone else, if even in the tiniest way.”


  • “You cannot change what you are, only what you do.”
  • “We are all subject to the fates. But we must act as if we are not, or die of despair.”
  • “Every opportunity will come again.”

anonymous asked:

pretty sure the followers are started to change ya. really wish you would act how you used to...

I’m getting a lot of complaints about me and my content lately saying that I’m turning into Marzia, that I’m not like I used to be and that I’m not what you want me to be, which I think is really unfair.

I’m trying my best to make content that I like, am comfortable making and that I think you guys will also appreciate.
I accept constructive criticism that can help me grow and learn wholeheartedly because I know how important it is to listen to your audience and take their viewpoints into account, but saying “you are not what you used to be” is not helpful. I cannot be what you want me to be 100% of the time and I’m not going to stay the same forever, just like you guys aren’t going to stay the same forever.

We are all people and we all change as we grow. If you don’t like it then I can only say I’m sorry…

That being said, if you really feel like I am changing for the worse then please tell me why, so that I can reflect on those things and hopefully do something about them.

HOW DID I DO IT?🤷🏼‍♀️ Seriously. There is no secret. None at all. I changed my diet, started working out and changed my MINDSET.👊🏼

The only limitations we have are the ones we set for ourselves. There is nothing that you cannot achieve once you commit your mind to it. Yes, I am physically very different between these two photos, but what you can’t see is how much my mindset has changed. If you told me a year ago that I would think the way I do now, I wouldn’t believe you. 🙌🏻

On that note, it does not matter what anyone says or tries to make you believe - as long as you believe in yourself you can do anything!💭

If you plant the seed that you won’t be able to do something, then, of course, you won’t be able to. But if you plant the seed that you CAN … then you WILL. Keep replacing the negativity in your head with positivity and watch it grow and multiply!🌻

And please, stop asking for a secret or quick fix. This is real life, it is forever. It is not a race and there are no secrets to leading a healthy and fulfilling life.💖

IG : jovanafit

1. It’s never too late to start over.

2. Do not become small for those who refuse to grow.

3. Click the send button. You typed it out for a reason.

4. Don’t forget to remind people how much they mean to you.

5. Don’t ruin something great because you think you don’t deserve it.

6. You don’t destroy the people you love.

7. Sometimes you have to keep on missing them until you wake up to find that you just don’t anymore.

8. Mental health comes before school, always.

9. Act like you trust people, but don’t.

10. There is nothing more beautiful than being desperate, and nothing more risky than pretending not to care.

11. Your first kiss will come when it’s time. It’s worth the wait.

12. Always remember how lucky you are to have yourself.

13. Nostalgia, whether you’re thinking of something good or bad, always leaves you a little emptier afterwards.

14. Feeling beautiful has nothing to do with what you look like.

15. Pour your heart into everything you do and watch every aspect of your life change one by one.

16. You’ll need other people and you’ll need to be that person for someone else, a living, screaming invitation to believe in better things.

17. Make yourself painfully aware of the characteristic and cookie-cutter personas you put on and others put on. Being the “cool girl” doesn’t mean smoking and letting guys walk all over you, and reading and writing doesn’t make you nerdy. Those associations have been taught by movies. Don’t feel like you need to fit into 1 persona.

18. Radiate confidence, even if it’s fake. One day it won’t be, and you’ll be untouchable.

19. One day you’ll realize I was the fresh air before your last breath.

20. Live in such a way that if anyone spoke badly of you, no one would believe it.

21. Take a second and look around. Remember where you are, who you’re with. You’ll look back on this moment and see the little things ended up being the big things.

22. Respect is a minimum.

23. We lose ourselves in the things we love. We find ourselves there, too.

24. Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer.

25. You cannot change what you refuse to confront.

26. Nobody really knows what they want, not until it’s right in front of them.

27. Someone can be gone yet more present than anyone else.

28. You’ll never truly cherish the people in your life if you keep hoping for those that hurt you to come back to you.

29. Life doesn’t get better, you do.

30. Value yourself. The only people who appreciate doormats are people with dirty shoes.

31. If you don’t end up smiling while kissing someone, you’re probably kissing the wrong person.

—  emmuuhhhhh, 31 Things I Learned Coming Into 2016 Part 3

So at least on my dash, nobody ever drags the xxTPs, so I'mma do it really fast bc y'all really piss me off from time to time.

Like would it kill you to NOT critique rules from time to time trying to find all the damn loopholes? Like pls can u not. LIKE SURPRISINGLY JUST BC SOMETHING DOESN’T MAKE SENSE TO YOU DOESN’T MEAN IT’S NOT SENSIBLE IN THE LONG RUN?? Like is it so hard to realize that if you take into account EVERY SINGLE tiny ass thing you guys pick out, nothing would ever get done???

Rules, laws, procedures, etc, they’re there to make things easier. And like?? Honestly fuck you, ExTPs? Stop blatantly doing the loophole thing that the rules don’t cover just because you can. Y'all are so damn full of acting like a dick while not coming up with PROPER SOLUTIONS. And you, IxTPs? Just stop. You may not outwardly defy the untold laws, but you still don’t come up with solutions like the shut in you are.

Keep to your own crap and leave laws alone.

How to get the most out of life

1. See each day as a fresh start and a new beginning.

2. Don’t be a copy of anybody else – enjoy discovering and being your true self.

3. Be proactive, take control and look for opportunities. You’ve only got one life so make sure you stay in control.

4. Don’t focus on the obstacles or things you cannot change. Just ask yourself “What next? or else “What can I do instead?”

5. Appreciate your limits and then set clear boundaries. You need to care for yourself to be the best “you” you can be.

6. Decide on your values and what matters most to you. Then live in a way that’s consistent with those values.

7. Don’t put life on hold as the months turn into years … and there’s always the chance that some important doors will close.

8. Set goals for yourself – then plan the steps to take you there.

9. Learn from other people that you value as role models – but ignore the naysayers and the hypercritical.

10. Let go of the past, and old hurts and grievances. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, or to see a counsellor.

rosietales  asked:

I have so many emotions about Thom. My poor Cadash romanced him my first playthrough and he broke my heart. I never finished the playthrough and put the game down for almost a year. Not sure this was the right blog for this but just.... sharing. Sorry! -runs away-

I have no excuse for what I did and I’m not trying to find one. I never meant for any harm to come to you, My Lady, but I know in my heart I failed at that as well. I’m known to disappoint, I’m sorry. 

I know it’s worth nothing now, what’s done it’s done and I cannot change the past, I can only try to amend it. I know I do not deserve you, or your affections. I never did. So I won’t beg that you remain at my side. 

You might have met me in a sea of lies but my feelings for you were always true. And it is because of your memory that I will always strive to be a better man. I am trying. I will always keep trying. 

Yours truly - Thom Rainier. 

Across the Divide

TITLE: Across The Divide

CHAPTER NO./ONE SHOT: Chapter Seventeen

AUTHOR: wolfpawn

ORIGINAL IMAGINE: Imagine Loki sneaking out of the palace as a youth to see the city and countryside, while out one day, he accidentally gets in trouble for something, but a young girl deals with the situation, allowing him to be left alone and his true identity be kept secret. She is a poor girl who is only in the city to sell goods with her father, so she does not realise it is Loki, even though she sees his face. They form a friendship as she shows him around the city, and tells him the date she comes to the city every month for a particular market.

RATING: Teen and Up

Loki sat looking at Ariella, a faint smile on his lips. Her face was starting to not seem so sharp and her skin was no longer a grey pallor. It had taken ten days, and exhausting effort by the healers, but finally, Eir could say that all of Ariella’s infections were becoming less of an issue, her body was accepting the food and somehow still fighting the terrible state it was in. She had not woken up, nor did Eir suspect she would for some time, she still had the tube in her mouth but the food, not that Loki could call it that, it seemed to be nothing more than light brown sludge, but the portions were slightly bigger.

When Eir entered the room again, she sighed. “There is a world outside of the room, young prince. She will not awaken today, go get some fresh air.”

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→ hi guys! i decided to create a giant masterpost of quotes that you can use in your bujos, planners, notes, stickies, and anything else you can think of! this post was hugely inspired by @studysection‘s post that can be found here. it was a giant inspiration to me & i tried to make sure not to copy any of the quotes alex used to keep it original! hope you all enjoy ☁️ 

  • “It is not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.” – Lou Holtz
  • “Anything is possible if you’ve got enough nerve.” – JK Rowling 
  • “When you can’t find the sunshine, be the sunshine.” – Unknown
  • “When you think, you become.” – Buddha 
  • “If the opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” – Milton Berle
  • “We cannot help everyone, but everyone can help someone.” – Ronald Reagan
  • “You must do the things you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
  • “No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world.” – Robin Williams
  • “Love only dies when growth stops.” – Pearl S. Buck
  • “Let your mind alone, and see what happens.” – Virgil Thompson
  • “Life is always a bit rocky when you’re a gem.” – Unknown
  • “It always seems impossible until it is done.” – Nelson Mandela 
  • “Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” – Arthur Ashe
  • “Aim for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll hit a star.” – W. Clement Stone
  • “Do not ever compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.” – Jon Acuff
  • “What is done with love, is done well.” – Vincent Van Gogh
  • “You get in life only what you have the courage to ask for.” – Oprah Winfrey
  • “Always know that you can start late, look different, be uncertain, and still succeed.” – Unknown
  • “What’s comin’ will come, and we’ll meet it when it does.” – Rubeus Hagrid, Harry Potter
  • “A plan is not always needed. Sometimes you just need to breathe, let it go, and trust the universe.” – Unknown 
  • “Kindness is the noblest weapon to conquer with.” – Thomas Fuller
  • “The very idea that you’re too kind, too sensitive, too emotional, too enthusiastic, too loving is just batshit preposterous.” – Meredith Maple
  • “Normality is a paved road; it’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow.” – Vincent Van Gough
  • “Never lose your sense of wonder.” – Lee Ann Womack
  • “There is peaceful. There is wild. I am both at the same time.” – sum
  • “None of us want to be in calm waters all our lives.” – Jane Austen 
  • “Courage, dear heart.” – C.S. Lewis
  • “Que sera sera; whatever will be, will be.” – Unknown
  • “We either make ourselves miserable or make ourselves strong. The work is the same.” – Carlos Castenada 
  • “Choose kindness. Laugh often.” – Unknown
  • “Quiet people have the loudest minds.” – Stephen King
  • “Tell the negative committee that meets inside your head to sit down and shut up.” – Ann Bradford 
  • “You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” – Christopher Robin, Winnie the Pooh
  • “Embrace reality, even if it burns you.” – Pierre Bergé 
  • “Never cut what you can unite.” – Robert Frost
  • “The worst thing you could do is tame the chaos inside you. That’s like being told not to feel when you’re thrown in the fire.” – r.m. drake
  • “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the ocean in a single drop.” – Unknown
“The Golden Compass” sentence starters
  • “You cannot change what you are, only what you do.”
  • “That is the duty of the old, to be anxious on the behalf of the young. And the duty of the young is to scorn the anxiety of the old.”
  • “You are so young, too young to understand this, but I shall tell you anyway and you’ll understand it later.”
  • “When a little boy is growing, he thinks he is immortal.”
  • “Each time becomes more painful, until finally your heart is broken.”
  • “You speak of destiny as if it was fixed.”  
  • “We are all subject to the fates.  But we must act as if we are not, or die of despair.”  
  • “When he’d sworn at her and been sworn at in return, they became great friends.”  
  • “All good things pass away.”
  • “Human beings can’t see anything without wanting to destroy it.”
  • “I’m going to destroy it.”
  • “Death is going to die.”
  • “Being a practiced liar doesn’t mean you have a powerful imagination. Many good liars have no imagination at all; it’s that which gives their lies such wide-eyed conviction.”  
  • “Death will sweep through all the worlds; it will be the triumph of despair, forever.”
  • “When you live for many hundreds of years, you know that every opportunity will come again.”  
  • “If a coin comes down heads, that means that the possibility of its coming down tails has collapsed. Until that moment the two possibilities were equal.”
  • “If there is war to be fought, we don’t consider cost one of the factors in deciding whether or not it is right to fight.”
  • “ What would it matter if you did?”  
  • “When you choose one way out of many, all the ways you don’t take are snuffed out like candles, as if they’d never existed.”
  • “One moment several things are possible, the next moment only one happens, and the rest don’t exist.”
  • “We feel cold, but we don’t mind it.”
  • “Men pass in front of our eyes like butterflies, creatures of a brief season.  We love them; they are brave, proud, beautiful, and clever; and they die almost at once”  
  • “It doesn’t work like that.”
  • “What’s happening is that the Shadows are responding to the attention you pay them.”  
  • “I didn’t have anything in mind, and you well know it.”
Courting A Fairy (Loki X Fairy!Reader)

Character: Loki X Fairy!Reader, Avengers X Fairy!Reader

Universe: Marvel, Avengers

Warnings: Getting injured, a bit of blood.


Request: Could you write one where the reader is a fairy and was lost on Asgard? Thor and Loki (because I want good guy Loki) bring her to earth because she never saw humans before. The avengers thought she was too adorable and didn’t want her to leave so she agrees to stay. Wanda takes an extra liking to her and ‘steals’ her constantly. Reader and Loki end up falling for each other

Originally posted by maryxglz

Asgard had a lot things in it. A rainbow road, literal gods, Mythical weapons, fairies… wait, fairies?

Yep. And you’re one of them. You had wings that turned F/C when they hit the light. You were clearly shorter than the gods, and your wings made it evident of your race. However your race were known for being shy and the Gods themselves were sure you died out. At least until Thor and Loki found you.

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All the acowar quotes together

“Princess of Carrion” - the name of the first part

“My goal was bigger than revenge. My purpose greater than personal retribution.” - Feyre

“I repeated their names silently, over and over into the darkness. Rhysand. Mor. Cassian. Amren. Azriel. Elain. Nesta.”

“We deserve to be happy… And I will fight with everything I have to ensure it.”

“You belong to all of us, and we belong to you.”

“But this is war. We don’t have the luxury of good ideas - only picking between the bad ones.” - Cassian

“We’re all broken… In our own ways - in places no one might see.”

“Words had become as foreign and hard to reach as stars.”

“I am yours, and you are mine” - Rhys

“I’ve missed you every moment,” (on snapchat)

“Only you can decide what breaks you, Cursebreaker. Only you.”

“You do not fear… You do not falter. You do not yield.”

“It is a new world, and we must decide how we are to end this old one and begin it anew.”

“A nightmare, I’d told Tamlin. I was the nightmare.”

“Remember that you are a wolf. And you cannot be caged”

“It’s a rare person o face who they truly are and not run from it - not be broken by it”

“One life may change the world”

“What we think to be our greatest weakness can sometimes be our biggest strength.” - Az

“Light can be found in even the darkest of hells.”

“Only I could allow the bad to break me. Only I could own it, embrace it.” - Feyre

From the backcover

“A bright, pretty lie, bursting with pale pink blooms and fat beams of sunshine.
I’d begun it yesterday, and idle study of the rose garden lurking beyond the open windows of the studio. Though the tangle of thorns and satiny leaves, the brighter green of the hills rolled away into the distance.
Incessant, unrelenting spring.
If I’d painted this glimpse into the court the way my guy had urged me, it would have been flesh-shredding thorns, flowers that choked off the sunlight for any plants smaller than them, and rolling hills stained red.
But each brushtroke on the wide canvas was calculated; each dab and swirl of blending colors meant to portray not just idyllic apring, but a sunny disposition as well. Not too happy, but glady, finally healing from horrors I carefully divulged.
I supposed that in the past weeks, I had crafted my demeanor as intricately as one of these paiting. I supposed that if I had also chosen to show myself as I tryly wished, I would have been adorner with flesh-shredding talons, and hands that choked the life out of those now in my company. I would have left the gilded halls stained red.
But not yet.”

From the ToG page on facebook, for a interview

“Not yet, I told myself with every brushstroke, with every move I’d made these weeks. Swift revenge helped no one and nothing but my own, roiling rage.
Even if every time I spoke to them, I heard Elain’s sobbing as she was forced into the Cauldron. Even if every time I looked at them, I saw Nesta fling that finger at the King of Hybern in a death-promise. Even if every time I scented them, my nostrils were again full of the tang of Cassian’s blood as it pooled on the dark stones of that bone-castle.
The paintbrush snapped between my fingers. I’d cleaved it in two, the pale handle damaged beyond repair. Cursing under my breath, I glanced to the windows, the doors.
This place was too full of watching eyes to risk throwing it in the rubbish bin. I cast my mind around me like a net, trawling for any others near enough to witness, to be spying. I found none.
I held my hands before me, one half of the brush in each palm.
For a moment, I let myself see past the glamour that concealed the tattoo on my right hand and forearm. The markings of my true heart. My true title.
High Lady of the Night Court.
Half a thought had the broken paintbrush going up in flames. The fire did not burn me, even as it devoured wood and brush and paint. When it was nothing but smoke and ash, I invited in a wind that swept them from my palms and out the open windows. For good measure, I summoned a breeze from the garden to snake through the room, wiping away any lingering tendril of smoke, filling it with the musty, suffocating smell of roses.
Perhaps when my task here was done, I’d burn this manor to the ground, too.
Starting with those roses.”

3-74  asked:

I'm going through a really bad heartbreak right now and I noticed that you recently went through one too, and you seem to be doing very well. I think I loved him but I am too young to really know what that is. He left for college and I'm still in high school and it seemed easier on him to just break us and burn down the house. But I like him so much and I want to be with him more than anything. Do you have any advice to help ease how much this hurts?

this is an old message, and i’ve only felt comfortable enough to answer it now. heart break is long, it’s miserable and it’s lonely, but it’s temporary. to have your heart broken is to have learned something, about who you are, what you want in the future, and what you want to avoid in the future. when you leave someone or someone leaves you, your entire daily routine becomes dismantled. regardless of whether it ended good or bad, that subconscious safety net you had in your relationship is now gone, and it definitely leaves you feeling empty. while heartbreak is something that is anything but enjoyable to experience, it’s a mandatory learning process. to move on is to learn how to love yourself and your everyday life alone again. through my heart break, i found amazing friends that i will infinitely love to the end of the universe and back again. i discovered my passion for learning in school and working hard for good grades. i learned that it’s ok to wear revealing clothes for the purpose of feeling sexy (not for the purpose of looking appealing to boys) and that it’s okay to get too drunk sometimes and make mistakes. i learned that you will have good days and you will have bad days and you will have days when you miss them so much that you don’t want to get out of bed but on those days you have all the reasons and more to remember how strong you are all on your own. you’ll want to crack and cave and call them pouring your heart out about how you wish things could have been different but you have to remind yourself that good things come to and end to open up doors for something even better. at first, everything will remind you of them. a scent, a song, certain colors, your favorite shirt, when you wear your hair their favorite way, a quote, when you sleep in bed with someone new for the first time and they don’t quite hold you the right way yet, or when you stumble across an old picture and it’s like someone kicked you in the stomach and pushed you down when you tried to get back up again. those things will happen, they are inevitable and painful but they will pass, and you will survive it. heartbreak has a way of making you feel like the world is ending all at once and you will never experience the feeling of being appreciated or needed ever again but you can’t let those thoughts hold you back. you can’t torture yourself with “what if i had done this differently” or “what if i had just tried a little harder”, because that won’t bring them back, and it won’t change anything. you are only doing yourself a disservice by going day by day wondering what things could have been. you are enough on your own, and you don’t need anyone to complete you. when someone else comes along who is willing and able to treat you how you deserve to be treated, and you are ready to let them in, let them. people come and go, you cannot go through relationships hoping and praying that they’ll stay because not everyone is meant to. if there is anything anyone takes from this, i hope you know that it will be ok. everything is always ok.


A common question I see being asked on this site is wondering why pedophiles and MAPs have their own community and a source of acceptance and warmth.

I do have to agree. Why? Why do people who not only feel this way about children, but are proud of their lack of inaction, need a community of support for their feelings?

What marks the difference between a pedophile and someone who suffers intrusive thoughts about harming children?

In my opinion, there is only one difference: the desire for CHANGE. 

If you are attracted to minors (ages 0 to 17), you should be actively seeking help, and distancing yourself from what ails you.

Remove yourself from the vicinity of children. Do not consume child pornography (lolicon, shota, etc.). Get help.

There is no real reason for an adult to lust after a child. There is no reason that you cannot lust after someone in your appropriate age group.

I am 29. If I have met someone that I felt I could really commit to, and found out that they were no older than 25, I took a step back. And yes, this HAS happened on occasion, here online. Anything more than a four to five year difference in age automatically puts the power dynamic in my favor. I am older, and young people so desperately want to be seen as mature. 

As the adult, it is YOUR responsibility to eliminate the chance for this to happen. You are responsible for saying no. 

anonymous asked:

Starco shippers are so immature and rude. How the hell can you affiliate yourself with that?

Woah, buddy…. easy there. First of all, don’t really appreciate the rude entrance, but I’ll answer your question anyway.

1. I will ship what I want.

I, first and foremost, am a multishipper. I just have a strong preference for Starco. It’s cute, fun, light, and harmless. Not to mention, I’ve liked it for ages, even before the show’s premier; I’m not one to jump ship so easily. I don’t care about people’s opinion on the ship. Star Vs. the Forces of Evil is just one show of many, many others. It does no harm. It will not change the world. It is a children’s cartoon on Disney XD that too many of you guys get wrapped up in. Speaking of which, a new point.

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Prince of Egypt sentence meme

❝ Come on. Where’s your sense of fun ? ❞
❝ Why do the gods torment me with such reckless, destructive, blasphemous people ? ❞
❝ I seek to build an empire, and your only thought is to amuse yourself by tearing it down. ❞
❝ Have I taught you nothing ? ❞
❝ Hmm. Responsible. Do you know the meaning of that word ? ❞
❝ One weak link can break the chain of a mighty dynasty. ❞
❝ You must not allow yourself to be lead astray. ❞
❝ All he/she cares about is your approval. I’m sure he/she will live up to your expectations. They only need the opportunity. ❞
❝ Single-handedly, you will bring the greatest kingdom on Earth to ruin ! ❞
❝ Why is it that every time you start something, I’m the one who ends up in trouble ? ❞
❝ Don’t worry. Nobody will even notice us coming in. ❞
❝ I won’t be given to anyone ! Especially an arrogant, pampered brat ! ❞
❝ I am showing you all the respect you deserve — none ! ❞
❝ Ask the man that you call ‘father’. ❞
❝ Sometimes, for the greater good, sacrifices must be made. ❞
❝ Oh, they were only slaves. ❞
❝ We can take care of that. I will make it so it never happened. ❞
❝ Nothing you say can change what I’ve done. 
❝ All I’ve ever known to be true is a lie. ❞
❝ I’m trying to get the funny man out of the well. ❞
❝ That’s why they say that she’ll never get married. ❞
❝ It seems you do not know what is worthy of honour. ❞
❝ What on earth are you dressed as ? ❞
❝ I cannot change what you see. ❞
❝ His hands bore the blood of thousands of children. ❞
❝ So, how does it feel when you get struck to the ground ? ❞
❝ Still gnawing away at that bone, are we ? ❞
❝ Abandon this futile mission. I’ve indulged you long enough. ❞
❝ There is one thing they cannot take away from you: your faith. ❞
❝ You were always getting me into trouble ! But then, you were always there to — get me out of trouble again. ❞
❝ No kingdom should be made on the backs of slaves. ❞
❝ I will not be dictated to ! I will not be threatened ! ❞
❝ Let go of your contempt for life before it destroys everything you hold dear. ❞

anonymous asked:

u shouldnt ship paperhat its abusive and ur basically supporting abusive relationships

Actually if you’ve read what I’ve reblogged and what other people have said it’s not as bad as you think. I do not see it being abusive. And please do not come into my blog telling me what I can and cannot do. I can ship PaperHat if I desire. I have never reblogged anything that indicates that the ship is abusive. Only cuddling and comfort. I kindly ask you to also not tell me what I’m supporting. I am actually against any kind of abuse!! And besides.. it’s fiction and you can change what you want in a fictional setting as I have said before in my rant. If you don’t like what I reblog or post just block me.