you asked for pretty idk if this is

anonymous asked:

Do u plan on being open abt being trans w ur kid? Like will he know that u n Alex are trans? I'm having a kid soon and I can't decide whether I should tell them or not, I mean I'll tell them but idk if they should just know from when they're born or I'll tell them when they're older. I just wanted I ask what other trans parents are doing so please don't answer if you don't feel comfortable omg I get that it's personal

I mean, yes, absolutely? Being trans isn’t some dirty thing we need to hide from him. It’s important he knows. I’m very proud of who I am, it would be pretty impossible to hide from him with my activism and attending Pride. We go to a local LGBTQ meet-up every month too. It wouldn’t make sense to raise him with our transness as a ‘secret’. I want him to understand and be accepting of all LGBTQ people, both because that’s just general human decency and also because he could turn out to be one!

Who we are is massively important to us. I would never keep something like that from him. I want him to know as early as possible that families can be different.

I also wouldn’t want to wait till he was older to tell him because it implies it’s something ‘mature’, the way a lot of heterosexual people try to spin same gender relationships as something inherently sexual. And I wouldn’t want to accidentally make him mistrust us by waiting to drop a bombshell on him! It would definitely shake his trust in us to not find out until he was older. Imagine probably assuming your whole life that your fathers were cis gay men who adopted you and then suddenly they tell you they’re both trans and one of them gave birth to you! It would be a pretty huge shock and it just. Doesn’t need to be. So he’ll know as soon as he can grasp the basics of it.

anonymous asked:

hey idk if you were aware of this but you have a post talking about a-specs tagged as asexual and i wanted to let you know that its actually a short term for autism spectrum, not acearo spectrum! its okay to make mistakes yknow but i hope you understand better

hey anon, thanks for sending an ask and raising your concerns with me but i’m pretty sure i’m not the one whose mistaken. i’m fully aware of the argument surrounding the term ‘a-spec’ and i’ve read multiple posts about the issue that were written by autistic people (those who are aro/ace and those who aren’t) who have said that what you’re claiming isn’t true.

here are just two posts that i just pulled off of google:

http://smallswingshoes.tumblr.com/post/159116941514/rhodanum-baerritogod-aspec-is-for-autistic - a post where autistic people deny that a-spec was ever an autistic term

http://autistic-answers.tumblr.com/post/157485900522/feminismandmedia-geekandmisandry-if-people - and another post where an autistic person discusses the subject

and those are only two. there are many more that you can find by searching (or by checking the notes of these posts) where multiple autistic people are saying that a-spec has never been an autistm-specific term, so given these posts and the probably hundreds of posts on the same issue i’ve seen come across my dash on the subject (because it’s one that, again, i’ve seen discussed rather frequently) i’m inclined to believe that a-spec is an aro/ace term and not an autistic one. this is a conclusion i’ve reached based on not only what autistic people have said but also on the pattern of behavior that aphobes (who are primarily the ones making the claim about the term a-spec) have displayed in the past (and the present) where they’ve made countless other false claims/accusations in an effort to discredit aro/ace people and anyone who supports them.

for these reasons i will not delete the post and i will continue using a-spec to refer to people on the aromantic/asexual spectrum. if this is something you disagree with then you can feel free to unfollow me but that is where i stand.

killzeteetans  asked:

Okay so idk but I just felt like doing this. So I've seen that you don't want certain types of asks in your box and I feel it's bc of things that have/are happening in your life and I just want you to know lots of ppl love you, and you really are a nice, great person. And I've seen posts on you having problems with your name, and I really wish you can be able to have respect on the name you want. Since this is pretty long I'm gonna wrap it with I love you ❤💕

Good observation. Nothing more I could say about it. Also thank you very much for your nice words

anonymous asked:

Ooh! Ooh! I have a headcannon for Deku, Todoroki, and Bakugou! Okay so the s/o is jumping around in the rain and asks the boys to dance with them. Idk, is that a good one... But um, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Of course it’s a good one!! Thank you! <3

Izuku:

  • At first it’s pure concern that makes him run outside to see what they are doing
  • They’re outside???? But it’s raining???? THEY COULD GET SICK????
  • But then he sees how genuinely happy they are in the rain and shit yo he can’t ruin that good time!
  • He’ll join S/O pretty quickly for some adorable slow dancing, but afterwards he makes sure that they are warm and healthy
  • Also he’s terrible at dancing in the rain why would anyone ask him to do that.
  • It’s not even that slippery but there he goes down the street

Todoroki:

  • It takes a minute to explain to him what’s going on
  • He asks something like “But why would you enjoy being in the rain? What’s the point of just jumping around?”
  • S/O has to just grab Todo’s arm and drag him out into the rain.
  • The dork probably creates an umbrella out of ice because he too is concerned about well-being.
  • He’s great at slow-dancing and it’s shockingly romantic.
  • Also he could turn fallen rain into an ice rink and there’s a whole new headcanon

Bakugou:

  • He ain’t about that life
  • He’s got a reputation to uphold, dammit.
  • It would be a real struggle to even get him outside let alone dance.
  • He wouldn’t do too much open dancing and just watch S/O with some irritated comment even though he secretly enjoys it since they are having so much fun.
  • There may be a little dancing if they are in a secluded place but you bet your ass it’s as extra as he is. No partner dancing here folks.
  • Just imagine Bakugou break dancing in the rain (but horribly let’s be real here)

lilysflowershop  asked:

For the transformers ask meme (these are fun!), what about MTMTE Ratchet, Tailgate and Whirl? 😈😈😈

I know!!!  ^___^

Ratchet

looks: somewhat attractive | eh | not really my type | pretty | handsome | beautiful | stud | gorgeous | SWEET LORD MERCY

I mean, he’s pretty old, but…  XD

can you relate to this character on a personal level?: no | not really | somewhat | yes | they are me

We both care too much and are really bad at goodbyes.

would you date/be friends with this character in real life if they were real?: total bros | friends | best friends | date | become their steady boyfriend/ girlfriend | neither | i don’t know

Any man that would steal an escape pod and travel halfway across the galaxy to find the Bae is 10000% bf material!  XD


Tailgate

looks: somewhat attractive | eh | not really my type | pretty | handsome | beautiful | stud | gorgeous | SWEET LORD MERCY | the cutest thing that ever lived!!!  Omfg!

Added my own.  XD

can you relate to this character on a personal level?: no | not really | somewhat | yes | they are me

We both have that anxious, self doubt thing going on.  I just hide mine a little better.

would you date/be friends with this character in real life if they were real?: total bros | friends | best friends | date | become their steady boyfriend/ girlfriend | neither | i don’t know

Imagine all the movie/karaoke nights and hoverboard rides to be had!!!  ^___^ 


Whirl

looks: somewhat attractive | eh | not really my type | pretty | handsome | beautiful | stud | gorgeous | SWEET LORD MERCY

Not that I’d say it to his face or anything…  >___>

can you relate to this character on a personal level?: no | not really | somewhat | yes | they are me

He’s way too intense to be me.  XD 

would you date/be friends with this character in real life if they were real?: total bros | friends | best friends | date | become their steady boyfriend/ girlfriend | neither | i don’t know

Whirl really does need some more people that care about him in his life.  ;___;  But he’s best handled in small doses… 

anonymous asked:

I hope you don't mind me asking, you do your shadows so well and was wondering how you do them?! They set such an incredible dark mood, it makes your artwork instantly recognizable!! Thanks for your time <3

Im pretty shit at explaining things so i’ll use this for basic example. Firstly if you know how shadows work and stuff then it shouldnt be to hard. Otherwise go study that shit. 

So you got your flat colors down for the first step

Next lay down a dark tone set to multiply, idk about 70% i guess? up to you

Start adding some shadows set on another multiply, shadows can be however dark. 50-70%

The add your light source, i used color dodge in this one. Dont use super bright color or it will look like blinding light. (again if you know light/shadows shouldnt be to hard)

I add a touch more dark in the shadows for effect…or something like that. 

And there you have it, this maybe helpful lesson was brought to you by a potato, chur.

anonymous asked:

Hey i dunno if anyone has asked this yet, but does Hell's Studio AU Sammy ever become Ink monster Sammy? And how? And how does everyone handle being complemented? Thank you so much for this AU, its amazing

I actually got a similar question a while ago, but it was long before i had a design for sammy or an idea of how i’d like portray him and stuff so it kinda just got buried as asks piled up. It was something about something going wrong with the machine and Sammy getting turned into an ink guy or something. I liked the idea but never got around to answering it. IDK how it’d work but yknow… this seems to be the kind of au where pretty much anything can happen so who knows. maybe there was a short period of time where sammy had to be a searcher for bit seeing as he’s usually the one to get screwed over when the pipes burst.

anonymous asked:

Thanks to years of excessive vocal use, Black Hat has lots of permanent damage inside his throat. This causes his voice to be extremely hoarse, and makes it challenging to breath and/or swallow (this is also the reason he has a tendency to drool)

Awwww omg. If BH actually was silent for like. A week, he could probably heal his vocal chords and regain his smooth, original, velvety baritone.

But this is BH we’re talking about. Asking him to shut up would make him more likely to scream every word in a casual conversation for the rest of the day. Who cares if his throats hurts more than it did when he got the “evil flu”, it’s worth it if he can be petty.

(Plus it helps him keep his “edgy villain aesthetic,” he’s gotta keep the voice)

anonymous asked:

what is gorillaz i keep seeing it

it’s a virtual band (basically you treat the characters as if they were an actual band). Theyre set up in a universe where messed up stuff happens to them (and it kind of coincides w ours? idk) Anyway, there’s a book where you can read about all of those stuff? (forgot the name) and each character has their own book where you can find out more about them.

HTTYD ask meme
  • Making this ‘cause why not. Spread and share as you like!
  • 1. How would you handle living on Berk?
  • 2. How do you think you'd be different if you grew up on Berk?
  • 3. Yaks, chicken, or sheep?
  • 4. The chicken is not amused. What did you do wrong?
  • 5. Favorite dragon species?
  • 6. What type of dragon would you like to ride? Is that different from the dragon you'd most likely ride?
  • 7. How would your first flight on a dragon turn out?
  • 8. On a scale of Snotlout to Hiccup, how are your dragon riding skills?
  • 9. Would you get into trouble on Berk?
  • 10. Would you try Astrid's yaknog?
  • 11. Coolest dragon?
  • 12. Scariest dragon?
  • 13. Most unique dragon?
  • 14. Favorite dragon class?
  • 15. Suggest a new dragon species. What does it look like? What are its powers? etc.
  • 16. If YOU were a dragon, what would you be?
  • 17. Any underappreciated dragon species you want to give a callout to?
  • 18. What do you think Stoick does with all his wooden duck carvings?
  • 19. The dragon riders can visit anywhere in the world, any place in history. Where would you suggest they go?
  • 20. You, Hiccup, Snotlout, and Tuffnut are now roommates in an apartment. How well does this work out?
  • 21. You, Astrid, Heather, and Ruffnut are now roommates in an apartment. How well does this work out?
  • 22. What do you think the dragon riders are like as old women and men?
  • 23. Which character do you relate the most to?
  • 24. How well do your know your dragon stats?
  • 25. Who would you want to spend a day with? Who would be your best friend?
  • 26. How would you handle the twins' pranks? Loki'd!
  • 27. You and Snotlout are on patrol together. What happens?
  • 28. Which character would you get along with the least?
  • 29. Anyone on Berk you'd date? I hear Bucket is single...
  • 30. Axes, swords, hammers, bows and arrows, or maces?
  • 31. What would your house look like on Dragon's Edge?
  • 32. What is your favorite house on Dragon's Edge?
  • 33. What's your favorite island? (outside of Berk)
  • 34. Favorite villain?
  • 35. How would you handle being kidnapped by the Outcasts?
  • 36. Give the dragon riders superpowers. What can each of them do?
  • 37. Favorite track in the HTTYD or HTTYD 2 OST?
  • 38. Favorite ship?
  • 39. Favorite friendship?
  • 40. Favorite dragon-rider duo?
  • 41. Favorite secondary or background character?
  • 42. Suggest a new pairing. Why would it work?
  • 43. I want these two characters to spend more time together...
  • 44. Come up with a crack pairing.
  • 45. Have any HTTYD OCs?
  • 46. Suggest a new AU (or mention an AU you like).
  • 47. Suggest a new crossover (or mention one you like).
  • 48. List off your top three fandoms. Now combine them with HTTYD. What would the crossover be like?
  • 49. List off any three of your fandoms and combine them with HTTYD for the weirdest crossover you can think of.
  • 50. Do you think any of the dragon riders have children? Have any headcanons about the next generation?
  • 51. Favorite thing about your favorite character?
  • 52. Tell me a character and I'll give you a headcanon.
  • 53. Tell me a character and I'll give you a favorite quote.
  • 54. Tell me a show, movie, or movie short and I'll tell you a favorite scene.
  • 55. Have you read the books? If so, which book is your favorite?
  • 56. Suggest a DreamWorks Dragons episode plot.
  • 57. Who's an underappreciated character and why do you appreciate them?
  • 58. You have to give each of the dragon riders awards. What awards do you give everyone?
  • 59. Who has the best hairstyle?
  • 60. Should Hiccup, Fishlegs, Snotlout, and Tuffnut grow beards?
  • 61. Who has the best outfit?
  • 62. How would you react if Snotlout started hitting on you?
  • 63. How would you react if Ruffnut started hitting on you?
  • 64. Do you know all the lyrics in "For the Dancing and the Dreaming?"
  • 65. Let's be mean. How do you think each of the dragon riders will die?
  • 66. How did you enter the HTTYD fandom?
  • 67. When did you enter the HTTYD fandom?
  • 68. What made you fall in love with How to Train Your Dragon?
  • 69. What is something you didn't initially think about but grew to love about HTTYD?
  • 70. What is the BEST thing (to you) about HTTYD and its franchise?

today i had some time to think about why tyler and josh say ‘stay alive’. many people, when you are going through something hard, say 'stay strong’ but twenty one pilots says 'stay alive’ because its hard to be strong when you are hurting. all they are asking you is to keep living. they are saying that it is okay to be hurting and its okay to be upset and you don’t always have to be strong, they just want you to stay alive. they don’t want you to give up, and i think that’s pretty cool.

anonymous asked:

hey uhh i noticed you mentioned somthing about the antisemitism (and idk if you were even referring to hp specifically,) but as a jewish person, i haven't read the books in a while, but i've never noticed that?? and i was curious about where it shows up

snape, particularly, is essentially described as an antisemitic caricature - greasy hair, gross skin, “needs a shower”, long nose, the whole gross-stereotypes deal. it’s super awful but i can see why you missed it. also, goblins, man. goblins. greedy little men who run banks and, again, have long noses.

pretty awful stuff, yo.

anonymous asked:

Hi love! IDK if you will reply, but may I ask for some angsty Viktuuri fics? HIT ME WITH UR BEST SHOT 💜

YOU GUYS ARE KILLING ME WITH THIS ANGST… but I’m trash for angst so I’m not even mad. Get ready for lots pain and some amazing writing!


Victuuri Angst


Until My Feet Bleed and My Heart Aches by Reiya, Explicit, 147k (WIP)
Pretty sure everyone’s read this one… but if you haven’t, do! Rivals AU where Yuuri’s main goal, ever since he was a child, is to beat Victor and win the GPF. SO MUCH ANGST (like, so much) and deliciously hot, hot, hot! You might die from reading this… it’s that good. My personal favourite!

Submerge by cryingoverspilledvodka, Mature, 38k
The pining and angst is real in this one! Full of angry Yuuri and an equally frustrated Victor. Takes place after their first argument. Relationships aren’t easy, and Victor and Yuuri are no exception.

On My Love by RikoJasmine, Teen, 48k (WIP)
Time travel AU where Yuuri and Victor are happy aged and married, but an accident occurs and suddenly Yuuri wakes up back in Detroit, in a time before he had even met Victor. Yuuri competes against him again, a completely different skater this time. Amazing fic!

Between us by Vitavili, Mature, 169k
Love hurts. Love heals. Sometimes it’s really easy to love. Sometimes it feels like hell. You can forget to love yourself because you are too busy with loving someone else. Stunning fic with heavy angst but a happy ending.

Gods of Circumstance by Ritequette, Mature, 17k (WIP)
During his Free Program at the 2016 Barcelona Grand Prix Finals, Yuuri suffers a freak equipment malfunction and falls, hitting his head on the ice.
When he wakes up, he’s back at the 2015 Sochi GPF. Get ready for angst, angst, and more angst. Thumbs up!

Break the Cycle by SigmundFreud, Explicit, 26k
College AU where ex boyfriends Yuuri and Victor can’t stay away from each other. LOTS of mutual pining, arguments, miscommunication, and, of course, angst. Thumbs up!

and I feel life (for the very first time) by smudgesofink, Teen, 10k
In which Victor helps Yuuri with his skating, but Yuuri helps Victor find himself again. Oh, man, I was sobbing while reading this. Very angsty, indeed!

“let’s (not) end this” by YuuriVityaNyan (NarryEm), Not Rated, 1.7k
It’s as though Viktor’s world came crumbling down.  All that they have built up to in the last eight months: gone. Okay, this physically hurt me to read this… like it’s pure angst… that’s it…

the gentle light that strays and vanishes by nauti, Gen, 7.7k
Yuuri and Viktor go back in time eight weeks before the 2015 Sochi Grand Prix Final separately, only to find each other again. Angsty and sweet. Must read!

Never Enough by ireallyloveicecream, Mature, 35k
All Katsuki Yuuri wanted was skate on the same ice as rising star Viktor Nikforov. But when his dream comes true and they meet, his awe for him mutates into a cut-throat motivation for retaliation, sending the two of them into a rivalry that should’ve burned into the history of figure skating. Intense rivals AU!

Hold Me Tight by smudgesofink, Teen, 11k
To say that Victor is touchy-feely is the understatement of the century. So when Victor just stops touching Yuuri, without explanation, without reason, it makes for a painfully jarring experience. It’s all fluff… then goes straight into the depths of angst.. *cries*

but all they ever, by webbedfeet, Gen, 3.7k
Yuuri could do anything for Victor’s sake, even if what he had to say felt like ripping out his own heart and tearing it to pieces. He just never thought he could do the same to Victor’s heart. wHY DO I PUT MYSELF THROUGH SO MUCH PAIN????

First Fight by apollosoyuz, Gen, 2.4k
The first time they fought was loud and then quiet. In which Yuuri panics and blames Viktor, and Viktor doesn’t realize the impact his petty response will have on Yuuri until it’s too late. Fluffy ending!

Xiumin as your boyfriend

- headcanons that nobody asked for but everyone wants 11/10

The Beginnings:

  • He strikes me as the type of person to want to have a pretty steady bond with someone before dating them.
  • You two would likely start out as good if not flirty friends, but after some time he’d give in to his feelings and take you on a date.
  • It’d be something simple but cute, either Starbucks or a walk in the park and then going to a food-truck. Idk anything he thinks up on the spot that means you’d get to know each other better so probs not a movie.

After dating a while:

  • Somehow he’d know everything about you, since he’s such a trustworthy person you’d end up telling him new random little things about you most every day.
  • Speaking of trustworthy, you’d have only one Relationship Groundrule: no getting jealous unless there was something to be jealous about.
  • Meaning, he wouldn’t care who your friends are, you wouldn’t care who he’s hanging with, neither of you would ever be worried about the other cheating etc.
  • He’s just such an honest and sincere person I can’t imagine him ever not taking a relationship seriously and fucking behind your back.
  • For your first anniversary he’d take you somewhere special, maybe even splash out on a weekend away or something romantic.
  • He’d constantly feel guilty when he has to leave for tour or concerts, even if he would only be gone a couple days.
  • Even after you reassure him you don’t mind and that you’d soon see each other again, he’d pout and cuddle into you. He misses you and wants to be with you all the time.
  • This is a good time to mention; he is quite clingy.
  • Minseok would cherish and crave being with you. He’s not intense to be with like the beagle line thankfully, he’s gentle and relaxing to have around.
  • Doesn’t mean he doesn’t have his moments.
  • Every now and then he has a “mad 5 minutes” and he laughs and teases and pokes you, making a total bellend of himself tbh whilst you try and fail to keep a straight face.

Habits and other shit:

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I think about how Corrin’s kid can change into the Nohr Prince/ss class kinda often

anonymous asked:

Hey Joan. Can I ask you a weird question? If you were to make your own 'sides' what would they be like? Would you also have an anxiety, morality etc. or would you divide yourself completely differently? Have a lovely night :)

This is actual pretty interesting– or maybe it isn’t! Idk. I’ve been cowriting the Sanders Sides videos since the Valentine’s day episode, and that happened bc I was developing my own series which would’ve been kind of similar to what Sanders Sides has become. I remember watching the “Heart vs. Mind” episode and that’s when I realized that Sanders Sides was turning into something similar to the series that I was developing independently. After watching that episode, I called Thomas excited about the direction that the videos could potentially go in, and I asked him if I could help write them. He said yes, and I’ve been working with him on the series ever since.

The aspects of my personality were very different from Thomas’s. I also had more of them, but maybe Thomas will have more in the future. Who knows?