Agender asexual? Oh god saaaaame!! Same?! Same!! Sorry for screaming in ur inbox but the thing with hansol was just so amazing and i'm so thrilled and now u said that and i just! Idk i'm just... For the first time since i've realized that abt me, both the agender and the ace part, i dont hate myself for it and it's just kinda... nice? to see someone else come out and say smth even though idk you personally. Anyway, sorry for all this! Hope you have a great day!! ♡
Hey anon! It was really really amazing to hear Hansol say something, I was really happy for him, and - yeah! - I’m happy for you too anon, happy that you are feeling better about yourself and I really hope that continues I really do.
Even though I don’t know you personally either anon, I want you to know that you for sure aren’t alone out there, and even though I don’t talk about sexuality really very much on this blog at all, it’s something I have and do struggle with too in a variety of ways. This blog is a place where I can go where it doesn’t matter too much what gender / sexuality I am or am not - I’m just a BTS fan with a major set of Heart Eyes for Jin and I love that, but I also want to try to be more proud of who I am.
Never say sorry for writing to me anon, your message helped me too. I have been very wary of putting any labels on myself because I’m worried I’m not - worthy? wanted? enough? to claim them? and hearing that me saying something made you feel good really helps to make me feel ok with publicly claiming those things for myself, so for real thank you so much for this message. Lets both of us keep working on valuing ourselves for who we are < 3