you are fine just the way you are

I feel like the entire The 100 fandom just needs a quicky reminder.

A lot of the characters on this show are supposed to be children!

This is easily forgotten because these characters are played by adults (which is a problem in media in and of itself but it’s the CW so what are you gonna do?). But it’s still important to remember:

Clarke is 18. Technically an adult but still very young to but running an entire group of people (that aren’t just other children). 

Octavia is 17 at most. 

Same goes for Jasper and Monty but I’d waver on the side of them being closer to 16. Same as Harper.

They are older teenagers capable of making their own decisions which means that they have to take responsibility for those decisions. It doesn’t excuse the shitty and problematic things that they do. 

What it does mean is that they are still learning. They are still growing into a whole person. They are going to make mistakes. Some of those mistakes, especially in these high stake situations, are going to have more intense consequences for them and others around them. But they are still in the process of learning who they are and the difference between right and wrong.

They are still learning.

anonymous asked:

Just so you know, the CrossxDream blog is being deleted in a few hours. If you haven't gotten the comic for your dub yet, you might want to do that before it's too late. Also, I don't know if you still want to do that dub, because the reason it's being deleted is because Jakei (the creator of Cross) doesn't want their character to be associated with certain ships anymore. Just thought i'de let you know. It's fine, of course, if you still want to do the dub anyway.

Yep I know but since I was already in bed there is no way for me to dub the comic…So I had a better idea. I call it EUAUC (its an acronym for something)


Okay, like … the fam and I were all talking about stuff like, we’re not. A rich family. We’re anything but. Dad makes a lotta money doin’ what he does (carpet installation), but he also has to put half of that money towards his helpers, Greg, Adam, Pat, ect., and he gives some to mom because just housekeeping alone is absolutely not gonna cut it. If dad didn’t work, we probably wouldn’t have enough money to make the rent, which isn’t a lot, btw.

Now, I’ve grown up with this policy: If it still works, keep it.

Our 21-year-old microwave finally kicked the bucket because a tree fell on the powerline. Again. It worked fine! Sure, it had it’s moments where you’d have to slam the door to get it to work, and spend about five minutes punching in the numbers before it’d finally kick on, but it worked! So we kept it. What’s the point of buying a new one if the one ya got still works?

We’ve had our refrigerator for God knows how long, and it runs fine! It leaks sometimes yeah, and an inch of ice tends to accumulate at the bottom of the freezer and you gotta beat it out with a hammer, but it still works!

Dad’s van. Hoo boy. The AC doesn’t work, the passenger door needs to be opened from the inside, it doesn’t start up sometimes and it takes a few (or a lot) of tries because it has a bad starter, the axle rod is bent so the steering wheel isn’t straight, it needs new brakes, but guess what? It still runs like a beast, so we keep it.

That’s just how my family is. If it works, ya keep it. No sense wasting money in buying a new one. The washer’s missing the knob, you gotta use pliers to turn the dial. The dishwasher doesn’t dry things very well. The TV stand is actually broken, so don’t move it the wrong way or it’ll collapse. We’re not made of money. 

If it works, you fucking keep it.

anonymous asked:

Can u do some headcanon for a time traveler reader ? like a 21yo from the time period you choose going into 2076 for some reason :3 Im curious (And if You Can do some 76xreader headcanon It would be gr8 :3 (sorry for my bad english ) )

You’re english is fine, I’m glad you sent this prompt in. I chose the 1990′s because honestly so much changed from 1990′s to 2010 people would probably panic from that let alone to 2076

  • You were brought here by Tracer
    • Her chrono accelerator was on the fritz and it dragged you from the nineties to 2076
    • Suddenly you went from everything from being awkward blocky devices to robots
      • Apparently they’re called omnics
    • Either way it’s such a culture shock you just hide in a room
    • Cowering until Soldier 76 finally crawls in after you
    • Letting you just cry as he rubs your back
  • Winston tries to find a way to send you back
    • Eventually fails at finding a safe way
    • You’re upset when you learn about this
    • Soldier 76 looks for you when he finds out
    • Lets you crawl into his chest and cry
  • Soldier 76 and you end up close because of thise
    • People start taking bets on when and who would break first and confess to the other
    • Popular bet is on you
  • It’s surprisingly Soldier 76
    • After confessing to you that he was Jack Morrison
      • And you had no idea who that was
    • It gave him such relief that he didn’t need to fight against a younger and better version of himself for your affection that he just blurts it ou
    • You press a kiss to his cheek and confess you feel the same is the shadiest

I was lured in by a sale getting 2 pairs of boots for $29.99 or something like that and didn’t wanna pass up that great of a deal. Well.. there is a TON of fine print and JustFab is sketchy as hell. Upon checkout you are forced to subscribe to membership.

 I forgot to click “Skip The Month” following so I got charged $40.00 out of my account. Now you can’t just unsubscribe online… that’d be too easy. You have to call them. If you forget to skip the month there is NO WAY you can get your money back. It just goes to store credit. 

Well.. now they have just about NO fashionable shoes and honestly, as someone who frequents Forever21 for shoes.. paying $40 for one pair of shoes isn’t at all a deal.. unless you’re paying for a brand. If you cancel the account you can’t spend the store credit $$ you have and essentially they get your money for NOTHING. 

So still waiting for a fashionable pair of shoes to show up I click “Skip The Month” and don’t call to quit the account yet. It “glitched” or something and said I was CHARGED AGAIN. In their fine print it also says they are not responsible for it.  So now JustFab has $80 of mine and no cute shoes currently.. 

So I go on and see that they have a sale going on.. 2 boots for the price of one.. So I scroll through literally every page of boots and find 2 that I wouldn’t mind wearing and go to check out and THE SALE DOESN’T WORK FOR STORE CREDIT. It’s either all $80 credit for 2 boots or spend $40 more from my debit card. I HATE this scam of a website. The shoes aren’t high quality. The shoes are only worth $20-30. The first deal was great but only if you make a call right away and CANCEL.

anonymous asked:

Hi, Sarah! I hope you're doing just fine. Do you know how I should deal with low self-esteem? There's this one person who's kinda good at everything that I'm not. We're friends but somehow she's avoiding me because I think I'm not interesting or smart enough. I'm always quiet in class and even among my other friends, I just feel awkward.

Hi there beautiful ♥ I’m doing fine, thank you <3 I hope you’re doing fine, as well!

Well, to start with, I think it’s really hard to love yourself when you’re constantly comparing yourself to someone you believe to be better, because it means you always fall short. You’ll look at their achievements and go “I don’t have that, so I must be not as good”, and that can be a destructive way of thinking. On the other hand, I recently heard a podcast by Gretchen Rubin wherein she said that when you realise whom you envy, you’ll learn more about yourself, because you’ll learn more about yourself. And I think that’s a healthier perspective. So what I would try to do is maybe look at it from that perspective. If you envy the fact that she can easily talk to people, maybe try and see if you can start by talking to someone about something simple. “I really hated that Maths test,” you could say. Or maybe “What did you do for that Science assignment?” That way, using small baby steps, you can work yourself up to be more talkative with people.

That said, if she’s starting to avoid you, I’d say have a chat with her. Ask her if she realises that she’s avoiding you, and if there’s something you did that caused that. If she’s rude about it, maybe you’re well shot of the friendship!

Finally, try and see the positive and unique sides to yourself. You are beautiful, and smart, and fantastic just the way you are and anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend. Maybe you’re not the loudest friend at the party, but you’re the friend they’ll call at three o’clock in the morning because it’s all gone sideways. We’re all different, and that’s good! xxx

anonymous asked:


hope this is okay :)

“Fuck the public.”

Jasmine knows something is wrong with Anthony the minute she walks back into the apartment, surprised that he’s even home from filming with it being early in the evening.

She immediately notices the way he just seems off. His normal cheery demeanor is replaced by one that is less happy, less his normal self. She drops her things and walks over to where he had been sitting on the sofa, the TV off as he had been going through his phone.

“Are you going to tell me what’s bothering you, or should I just let you mope around and you’ll feel better tomorrow?” Jasmine knew that there were days where Anthony just really needed to mope and he’d be fine the next day, but something was telling her that this wasn’t one of those days.

“So I was going through some comments on the insta I posted of the two of us,” Anthony begins, and Jasmine immediately knows where the conversation is headed. She’s been down the road a million times before, although none of what she says ever seems to ease his anxious mind into not worrying that she wasn’t telling the truth.

“So many people are saying that you could do better than me. And I know it’s ridiculous because I love you and I know you love me, but you know, they’re right. You could totally have someone who’s better looking than me and who can treat you better than I do,” Anthony rambles, Jasmine sighing as she shakes her head, reaching over to rest her hand on top of his.

“Fuck the public,” She states so abruptly that she manages to get Anthony to laugh, shaking his head as he did so. “I love you because you make me laugh, we have fun together, and I love spending time with you. You being hot is just an added bonus.” She doesn’t miss his eye roll that he gives her when she speaks, leaning over to kiss his cheek.

“The people in the comments are just jealous that we’re happy. There is no one else that I’d rather be with than you, okay? No one else in this world could make me want to leave you. I love you because you’re you, and no ones Instagram comment is going to make me change my mind,” She promises, Anthony nodding.

He turns to kiss her softly, Jasmine pulling away and resting their foreheads together. “Since you’re home early, maybe we eat dinner now and then have a little fun?” She suggests, Anthony smiling as he nods, slowly standing up and reaching his hand out for her to take.

Jasmine knows that Anthony worrying about this is inevitable and something that he can’t help, but it doesn’t stop her from making sure he knows just how much she loves him and how much she doesn’t want to be with anyone else, never wanting him to be upset over things people who didn’t know them were saying.

anonymous asked:

Student! Lance and Teacher! Pidge au

Ok anon “student” Lance and “teacher” Pidge.

Pidge: “ok so any questions?”

Lance: “yeah can you repeat that last part?”

Pidge: “which one?”

Lance: Basically everything after “lets start with step one.

Pidge: Are you serious?

Lance: see….why couldn’t you had just taught me the coke and mentos experiment…..This one seems so complicated.

Pidge: Lance it’s literally just a colloidal mixture of nanoscale magnetic particles in a solvent, reacts to magnetic field in an awesomely bizarre way.

Lance: yeah see all of that…. All of that just sounds really complicated.

Pidge: that’s what makes it so much fun!

Lance: mhm hm….Fine….teach me one more time. This time I promise I’ll pay attention.”

*I don’t condone student/teacher relationships so I went with a litterally Pidge teaches Lance a cool Chemistry experiment* thanks @swindle94 for some help again…


Who just messaged me about their awful day, I’m here and I’m listening.

If you would like to talk to someone, you can message me here, email me or if there’s another way you’d prefer to get in touch (anonymous is fine) let me know and I will be here. We can never speak again or talk as long as you need. Thank you for trusting me with your story.

There is probably nothing I can do or say to make today easier, but I can listen. Fill my inbox, whatever helps. Sending you all my love and strength.


No, they’re not official, just thought I’d share how I feel about this particular Axel model in particularly Chain of Memories and KH2.

Now, to me, there is an obvious difference between this model in the titles I previously mentioned and the model in the 358/2 days cinematic and dream drop distance (which I think is the better of the two….he looked more beautiful). The faces I can deal with just fine. It’s the eyes that were bothering me. Let me explain.

The eyes are pretty, don’t get me wrong. But the way they are designed in the model I am showing you felt off, like it was missing something. The green eyes are so bright that it blends with the sclera (white part of the eyeball). It’s better in specific lighting. In a dark setting, however, as you can see in chain of memories, looked a bit too creepy. You could argue that that is the whole point. But here’s the thing. The Axel in Chain of memories is not creepy. He’s mysterious, cruel, manipulating and charming (which is one of the reasons why he is such a lovable character). But he was never really creepy or scary, if you get what I mean.

Then, I noticed. There was no dark outline around the iris. I noticed this difference after adapting with the model in 358/2 days. So, I took the time to screenshot a few scenes I felt stood out and just draw the darker outline of the iris myself. Honestly, make me wish Square would take the time to edit this (hopefully in a patch). Because I thought it looked a LOT better when his eyes pop and not blended with the eyeball where you can only see the Phil and barely any green.

Of course, I understand that people have preferences. Some of you may prefer the eyes without the outline and that’s fine. Axel is still an awesome character I always look to when ok aging the games. Tell me though, what do you guys think?

On what she’s learned from her parents: It made me realize that you can’t judge anyone especially your parents for what they’ve done in their past, because people change. I’ve noticed some people get very enthralled with people bashing. Sometimes people can’t help themselves. But I find a way back out and not talk about other people. Even when people are so judgmental about what you wear or your weight, you just have to step away and be like, ‘I’m a normal, fine human being.’

Only Told The Moon
  • Only Told The Moon
  • Camila Cabello
  • Only Told The Moon - Single

Stay back, stay long, and you move on.
I stress, come close, move on, please don’t.

Hello how are you? How you been?
Lately I wonder how it feels to steal your kiss
Nothing much, just fine, I’m doing well
And you can read between the lines, but god, I fell.

I only told the moon, tonight up on the roof
I told her that I’m scared that all my thoughts, they look like you
I only told the moon, about the way you move
I asked her to please tell me if you tell things to her too.

Silence. Too loud. Say it, not now.

So how are you? How you been?
Lately I wonder how it feels to taste your lips
Nothing much, just fine, I’m doing well
And you can read between the lines, but God, I fell.

I only told the moon, tonight up on the roof
I told her that I’m scared that all my thoughts, they look like you
I only told the moon, about the way you move
I asked her to please tell me if you tell things to her too.

That I give it all to you, I give it all to you, I give it all to you
I only told the moon.

Aahhh and another loves song will play on the radio, you know.
Aahhh and I’ll wait for the moon to lean in close and say…

That he only told the moon, tonight up on the roof
He told me that he’s scared that all his thoughts they look like you
I only told the moon, about the way you move
I asked her to please tell me if you tell this to her too
That I give it all to you, I give it all to you, I give it all to you
He only told the moon.

He only told the moon.


…I wonder if that was actually a good decision to make there, Kuroo

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Okay, let me put this in the clearest terms possible:

Yuuri and Victor are not breaking up.

I know that no one can think rationally right now and everyone is panicking, but step away from the anime for a moment and look at the bigger picture.

What do the authors want to do by having Yuuri say “Let’s end this” and ending the episode right after that? Because this isn’t just Yuuri’s words - it’s the context in which they are said that matters.

They’re purposefully trying to make you feel a certain way. I think we all know what way. Remember the episode with Maccachin’s accident? Or shall I say: the episode that ended with Maccachin’s steamed buns incident that shook all of us but was resolved the next episode with everything being fine?

It’s their way of making sure you keep watching, and yeah, it’s absolutely shitty of them, but they love playing with our feelings, I mean that’s sort of their job.

What I’m saying is: The end of ep 11 will not impact the anime negatively as it is merely a trick of the authors to make sure you worry and return to watch next week. It hardly has anything to do with the actual story.

I mean, of course, Victor and Yuuri’s heart to heart will be absolutely relevant and important, but I wouldn’t get hung up on the “let’s end this” line if I were you. That’s what they want you to do. It’s not worth the stress. They’re not sinking this ship now - they know exactly what they’re doing.

Don’t let them play you. Believe in the power of Victuri.

Nonbinary people with specific limits on what is misgendering and what isn’t are excellent!

You’re excellent if she/her is fine, but being called ma’am makes you bristle!

You’re excellent if he/him is good, but ‘gentleman’ and ‘Mr.’ make you feel weird!

You’re excellent if they/them is your pronoun of choice, and you’re just fine being called ma’am, but miss isn’t something you’d touch with a ten foot pole!

You’re excellent if it’s the other way around! You’re excellent if your misgendering is specific!

no more apology texts. no more reckless highway speeding. no more scribbled poetry in the back of spanish class. there is nothing left to lose. there is nothing left for you.

you haven’t seen me since i dyed my hair and it’s nice to have something you didn’t get to ruin. i’m dressing different too and lipsticking my way out of the girl you tore apart. i can finally breathe easy. i can finally be grateful that i never really meant it when i kissed you.

look, it’s me without you. look, i’m doing just fine. look, goddamn it, i’m lighter than i’ve been in months. there are seven billion people on the planet. i don’t think you matter so much anymore.

  • Otabek: Just be yourself. Say something nice.
  • Yurio: Which one? I can't do both.
  • Otabek: ...
  • Otabek: *smiles* On the other hand, you're fine just the way you are.
Making plans with the Signs

“Hey Aries do you want to hang out?”

Aries: yo I was just thinking the same thing, there’s this house that just burn down and I want to go explore it! Come with me.

“Hey Taurus wanna hang out?”

Taurus: sure that’s fine, but can we stop by like chipotle or something?

“Hey Gemini can you hang out today?”

.009868 seconds later

Gemini: Sorry bud already hanging out with someone 😝😁

“Hey Cancer can you come over?”

Cancer: Ew why don’t you come over here? Never mind on my way

“Hey Leo! Let’s hang out this weekend.”

Leo: Nah sorry I’m gonna give you a made up excuse on why I can’t.

2 days later:

Leo: Hey lets hangout this weekend!

“Hey Virgo can you hang out?”

Virgo: heck yeah! We can do some yoga! 😱

“Hey libra, want chill?”

Libra: Sure 😉 What are we watching on Netflix? 💓

“Hey Scorpio, I know you’re mad at me but do you wanna hang out?”

Scorpio: *no response*

“Hey Sagitatious, wanna hang out soon?”

Sagitatious: Yeah, not today tho maybe like next week?

“Hey Capricorn, can you hang out today?”

10 hours later

Capricorn: sorry I’m busy

“Hey Aquarius! We should hang out!”

Aquarius: Ok! Let me feed my iguana first

“Pisces! We need to hang out soon”

Pisces: I know I miss you 😭😭

I hope you are doing okay with the fact that someone you loved so hard it made your heart break left you now, and there is no way they are coming back.
I hope you are okay with the fact that they took a piece of you away and nothing is ever going to bring it back.
I hope you are okay with the fact that you still love him but then again, he isn’t yours and he won’t ever be.
—  I hope you are doing just fine after he left you. 7:09