yes it's just my personal stuff

(long post, sorry)

In spite of everything I love Harley Quinn but, damn, writers treat her so badly. I swear, the temptation to make her actually stupid must be terrible because it’s so often implied, or explicitly stated, that she slept her way through school. First of all, it does not work like that.  Second, she’s not a therapist or a psychologist, she’s a psychiatrist, she’s a fricking MD and a damn young one too. Managing pre-med and collegiate gymnastics that she relied on to keep her scholarship? Harley is fucked up, but she’s not the dumb blonde she plays. (also stop making her stacked, she’s a gymnast. she is 4’11” of pure muscle and is not top heavy)

If you want a good Harley backstory it’s simple. She’s ADHD but medicated and slightly robotic because of it. I want to take special care not to demonize meds but, rather, people’s disapproval of neurodivergence and a lack of focus on what is best for a patient rather than what is most convenient for others. So, maybe, around ten years old Harley is a hyperactive space cadet who’s brilliant at tests but sloppy at coursework, who would be a gymnastics prodigy if she could actually focus on technique and put in practice time instead of fooling around. Then the meds come and it’s actually really cool because she can do the things she needs to do instead of just wanting to do them, doing something else entirely, and getting in trouble. People are proud of her, she’s proud of herself. But now there are expectations. Family and teachers and coaches overschedule her, find worth only in her success and don’t care about her mental health at all as long as she’s performing and castigate her when she does fail. Fuck if you don’t internalize that. But she doesn’t look unhealthy and she’s doing amazing. She actually has to choose between the Olympic trials and continuing her grad studies. She probably has some issues with self-harm but it either doesn’t look like self-harm or is well covered up. 

When Arkham accepts her, fresh from her residency, it’s not a mistake. The woman is amazing. All they can see is a mountain of achievements rather than the seething ball of nerves, self-loathing, and imposter syndrome boiling just under the surface. That’s when Joker comes in. He’s got the Hannibal Lecter shtick down. Where everyone else sees an intelligent driven young woman he sees a frightened overwhelmed girl who is working her hardest to convince the world she’s anyone other than herself. Sending her into a nervous breakdown would be too easy so he doesn’t even bother. Instead he’s open with her, almost friendly. The other doctors are amazed, Harley is amazed, she’s not done anything particularly revolutionary but, for the first time in forever, it looks like the clown prince of crime is showing progress. He unravels her and it’s a challenge, she flinches back and gets very serious when he comes too close to the real Harley under the professional. Still, soon she’s questioning everything. She doesn’t even really like her co-workers. She hasn’t had a real friend in years. She’s forgotten how to have fun. Did she ever want this to be her life or did she just do it for other people? It starts so slowly that it looks, at first, like she’s getting better at self-care. Maybe something totally silly one weekend, a trampoline park where she can enjoy the way her toned body moves without stressing out over landings, a face painting booth at a street fair, some garishly colored downright tacky decoration that clashes with her sensible apartment. Suddenly she realizes how much she hates knowing the difference between cream and ecru. The beigeness of her life is repulsive. She hates the person she’s pretending to be even more that she hates herself which is really saying something.

After her weekend of freedom she would have called in sick if it wasn’t so suddenly important to see him. The relief she feels at talking to one of Gotham’s most infamous supercriminals is disturbing but it is relief and she’s been swallowing a slow-motion panic attack for hours. She admits, though she shouldn’t, that she took his advice about doing something fun and he teases her, what would straight-laced Doctor Quinzel do for fun? Did she realphabetize her sock drawer or buy a new clipboard? It’s not important to impress him, it’s really not. He’s dangerous, cruel, and he looks so proud when she admits that she bought a lamp shaped like a lawn flamingo. The only mistake, he says, is that she should have stolen it. She hopes the wicked thrill it gives her doesn’t show on her face. It does. She almost even laughs. He likes it when he can make her laugh and she likes it when he likes things.

It’s wrong and unprofessional, the relationship she develops, and she knows it but her whole life she’s been so high strung. Nothing she’s done has been for her, she’s not sure she knows how to really do selfish things anymore, but he knows the selfish things she needs to do. It feels good when she follows his advice even when it’s small things like the rainbow striped socks she wears concealed under her very bland slacks and sensible shoes. She’s so happy, almost giddy, and he loves her happiness, he loves her, he loves the real her that she’s had to beat down and hide for so long, the her that even she isn’t able to love. She is able to love him, though, and since he loves her she’s able to love herself for him, to protect and nurture something so important to him.

When the choice comes between her old self, the tedious endless labor of making the world proud, and Him, the spectacular man that brought color into her life, it’s not even a question. She kills Doctor Harleen Quinzel, she throws away the version of her that let herself burn just for medals and hollow accolades. She embraces Harley Quinn and it’s so much a part of her nature she can’t even see that she’s still living her life for someone else’s approval, except this time that person is a murderous clown. She hasn’t let her hair down, she’s just put it in pigtails instead of a bun.

I saw some pretty “draw your main in your clothes” pics floating around and I wanna join, lemme

McCree wearing stuff I had today. Ye, I’m a pretty colorful person 🍩 

anonymous asked:

Hey Dre! Waz up! I've been wondering, how did you and your boyfriend meet? I know this is waaaayyy up in your personal bubble, but I'm betting it's a cute story.

* OH ye, you bet! Git comfortable cuz this’s a helluva story.

* SO I stumbled inta this get-together- Dun even KNO how I got there, there was a whole fuckin’ BUNCHA people gettin’ sucked up inta dis spot outta no where, but- ANYway anyway… ‘s not da point, it just happened. Shit’s crazy sometimes.

* Dere I waz. I wandered t’ a big table. Buncha people. I was on somethin’ seeeerious. I had me a cake knife, BBQ sauce all ova my titties, an’ I was yellin’ sum crazy stuff, can’t even rememba, but I was scarin’ folks…

* ……………………….

* Oh w8, w8…. dat was….. Dat was uhhhhh sum fella’s babyshower. Dis ain’t th’ rite story.

* N e v e r m i n d d d d d d d d u h .

  • Lafayette: What? What's wrong?
  • Peggy: It's just... adults are boring.
  • Peggy: And I don’t wanna buy all this boring adult stuff and become boring adults.
  • Lafayette: Hey, listen to me.
  • Lafayette: Yes, we’re gonna buy a dish rack, and shower curtains, and a cutting board.
  • Lafayette: But if you think for one second I’m not also gonna get that marshmallow shooter, so that I can shoot you in the face when you’re asleep?
  • Lafayette: Then you’re the dumbest person I know.
  • Peggy: You’re gonna make me cry...

Yoshikage for my cat-loving friend

ppl in the liam kosta discourse: omg!! the game isn’t even out yet don’t complain about straight liam when you don’t even know yet!! they didn’t confirm it!! just cross your fingers and keep your hopes up!! stop complaining & let bioware do their thing jeez~

bioware: *releases video where liam confirms he’s not into dudes*

me:

anonymous asked:

How come you never make Asian sims or cc? As a Asian girl I find this VERY offensive. Fix it now or stop making cc!!!! Also you steal ideas from better Asian-cc creators, my friends TheSlyd, Maysims, Toksik, and Marigold. White ppl steal our ideas and then not make sims that represent us. Shameful. All asians if you reading, stop following these white thieves!!!!

First of all if you want to talk about this stuff at least have the decency to do it off anon. If I can sit here and talk about it publicly so everyone can judge what I say than you should do the same boo. 
I have a lot of respect for creators you named but to say I steal from them is beyond ridiculous I mean we don’t even make same type of cc and not to mention one of those creators you named mostly converts stuff from previous games so there’s not a lot of original content there.
Now lets talk about models, first of all I am not a sim maker and second I use the same sim 99% of the time to showcase my CC for both s3 and s4 cause those sims are kinda like my signature and everyone recognizes and associates them with me. Also what I’m about to say is not trowing shade at Toksik cause I love him and his work and I think everyone is allowed to express them self’s how ever they want trough this game, this is more to prove what type of a person you are. I find it very funny how you are giving me shit for this and you are praising him purely cause his an Asian simmer even tho you can find 0 Asian models on his tsr page as well.  And to prove you wrong again on rare occasions as my followers know I do like to create new sims for my personal use or simply just for fun and not all of those are white, like this guy right here. Now lets talk about CC yes I don’t make Asian themed CC and I’m sorry about that but its hard to create things that you are not familiar of especially if we talk about traditional stuff that I don’t know anything about. And considering what I just said there are so many ways that could go wrong.
Now back to you, raising awareness for lack of Asian representation in sims community is one thing but this is not the way to do it cause what you did is use this god cause as an excuse to simply be nasty to someone and that’s something I see a lot on the internet lately. As far as my Asian followers go if I did anything to offend any of you guys I am really sorry about it.

anonymous asked:

Do you think, if they survive the second apocalypse and the end of the show, that Clarke and Bellamy could ever have a family? How do you see each of them handling parenthood?

This has been sitting in my inbox forever, mostly because parenting and to have/to not have kids is a topic that risks alienating people and it is so difficult to talk about without someone feeling like you’re shitting on their choices and I have not had the brainpower recently to navigate it. However, @wellamyblake‘s awesomely morose headcanon on this subject (I loved it. I cried. I loved it some more and then yearned for fluff) has inspired me to put digit to keyboard at last.

This may border on fluff. You have been warned, but WE ALL NEED HAPPINESS RIGHT.

Disclaimers out the way first, because this stuff is important.  Women in all walks of life face so much pressure to have kids and it annoys me immensely that happy story endings for ladies almost always involve children somehow, even if a female protagonist has repeatedly said she doesn’t want to procreate (I’m looking at you Suzanne Collins). THAT SAID, it also annoys me immensely that parenting is repeatedly shat on as a lesser (i.e. feminine) choice more generally, as in bringing up other humans could not possibly compare to the Very Important Man Jobs that also make the world go round, and I wish that parenting and its associated joys and terrors were tackled more frequently in the media more generally.

You see the minefield we’re dealing with here.  (Sidebar: my feminism is undoubtedly not what you were after with this ask but I offer no apologies for delving into it.  THIS STUFF MATTERS.)

So what follows is just my read of Bellamy and Clarke and my own personal headcanon – no more valid than anyone else’s – and is inevitably coloured by my own experience as a parent.

OK, so the question at hand. Could I see Bellarke family? The short answer is YES PLZ, because my beautiful space babies have been through so much and I would dearly, dearly love for them to have a shot at family life after everything they’ve been through, and to reap the rewards thereof. Not actually in-show, mind you (JASON NO), but this is what my headcanon looks like.

I’m going to reference MJ throughout because her headcanon was so beautifully put together and I super agree with lots of it. Bellarke’s legacy will absolutely be cemented in the lives they’ve saved over and over again and I don’t think Bellarke kids would be relevant to their legacy per se. So too, Bellarke’s legacy will exist in the found family they have amongst the delinquents.

But honestly, I think that having a family would be something selfish, just for them and just about them as a couple, and that’s what I like about it so much after all the sacrifices they’ve made for their people.

Let’s rewind for a second. Why would Bellamy and Clarke even want kids?  Well so much of it for me is bound up in their respective childhoods. Bellamy’s family life was clearly very important to him.  He loves his sister. He loved his mother very much too. It is this love from which he derived so much of his strength in impossible conditions in the Ark, and later on the ground. In fact, Bellamy is basically made of familial love – the love for his actual family, his love for his found family, and his love for the various waifs and strays he picks up on the way (Charlotte and, *cough* Riley).  How awesome would it be for him to have a family on his own terms?  A family which he chose to have (rather than foisted upon him), with the woman he loves? The thought of it warms my tired, grizzled heart to a veritable furnace.

Need I mention this:

Originally posted by stiles-lydia

Clarke’s situation is slightly more complex, as biologically she would bear the initial brunt of parenthood, and let’s face it, Clarke is a person with Shit To Do. But in my headcanon, Clarke is tired of saving the world, ready to try something different even if it’s just for a little while, and take on a challenge of a different nature. And my girl NEVER shies away from a challenge if it’s something she wants. I get the impression that Clarke’s childhood was relatively happy, and I think Clarke, like many people, would like to recreate that childhood happiness for someone else with someone she loves.

Also this

Originally posted by alexmaggie

And just, drawing from my own experience, having a family together is about building a life together, and while achieving that through kids is not the right thing for everybody, I think Bellamy and Clarke’s depleted family connections and unique situation would drive them to create something new in their own image.

Now, MJ made the absolutely valid point that Bellamy and Clarke wouldn’t feel worthy of passing on their legacy via the gene pool, having had  hand in circa 1,600 deaths between them. This is 100% fair, but one thing about being a parent is this: you want better for your children than you had for yourself.  You want your children to be BETTER THAN YOU. You want to pass on the wisdom gained from the mistakes you’ve made so that they don’t make them.  And Bellamy and Clarke, who have made so many mistakes and had the courage to face them all, would have more than a little invested in passing on their wisdom to a second generation of Skaikru.

As for how they’d handle it. Well parenthood is and always has been about sacrifice, but (where it is a choice) it is also a selfish thing too – about bringing life into the world partly for your own benefit. And who knows more about sacrifice, or deserves more selfish pleasure than Bellarke? What’s more it has always struck me that Bellamy and Clarke are both naturally very affectionate people.  They enjoy lavishing love and affection on people and receiving in return. Again, own family, own terms.

And most importantly, Bellamy and Clarke have each other. They are a team. Bellamy may struggle with letting his impulses get the better of him, or expressing himself; Clarke may struggle with relating to those she loves, but between them they’ll muddle through because they always have and they always will.

(Before embarking on yet another sacrificial journey though, both Bellamy and Clarke deserve a long, long rest of several years, just them, spending lots of time together lounging in long grass, swimming in lakes and screwing in caves. Just have a look at the fanfic, OK? It’s all there.)

I warned you about the fluff. Now I’m embarrassed and I’m going to shove my face in a cushion until you all go away and stop looking at me.

anonymous asked:

Since you're talking about fanfic: how do you balance writing original and fic? I am prouder of my original stuff, but fic feels so much /easier/ to get into, and I never get a rejection from AO3, and it's hard to keep going with original work.

This is an excellent question.

Speaking personally, I use fanfic as a way to boost my confidence: to try out new ideas, to improve my writing, and - yes - to reassure myself that, at a base level, I’m capable of writing things that other people want to read. I also use it to remind myself that I’m capable of finishing things, which is often the scariest part of writing original stuff: the knowledge that you could just give up, put aside a difficult WIP in favour of a new story without anybody being the wiser, and repeat that cycle so often that you never, in fact, finish anything. 

Original fic is harder because, of necessity, it demands more from us. Particularly if your original stuff is SFF or any sort of genre work, you have to worldbuild the setting in a way that makes sense to new readers, instead of being able to trust, as you can with fanfic, that the audience already knows what you’re talking about. The same goes for describing characters and setting up relationships and backstory: particularly when it comes to secondary or antagonist characters, you can get away with doing precious little work in fanfic, because all you have to do is drop the character’s name, and the audience already has a preexisting set of assumptions about who they are, why they matter and what they mean to the protagonists. In original stories, you have to set all that up yourself.

But the joy of writing original stories is that you get to set the canon. You get to say, “Everyone Is Queer, Not Because I Headcanoned It Or Because I’m Addressing Ten Years Of Unconfirmed Subtext, But Because I Am The Queer God Of This Tiny Queer Universe And As I Make It, So Shall It Be.” You get to say, “Let There Be Dragons,” and then you get to decide what type of dragon without people wondering why you’re taking so much time away from characters and romance to describe them. You don’t have to say, “I love this, but I wish there were more ladies, and especially ladies who don’t suffer or die or pine for undeserving assholes,” because you can, instead, say, “Let There Be Awesome Ladies.” You get to say, “White People Are Not The Default.” You get to say whatever the hell you want.

And while you can certainly do some of that stuff in fanfic, too, playing in your own sandbox - creating your own story - means that, potentially, you’re making a brand new sandbox for other people to play in, too. If there were no original works, we’d have nothing to fanfic about, which would be a tragedy. So yes, it’s hard, but it’s also worthwhile. Fanfic is awesome for its own sake, but original stuff is, too - the trick is to find a way to balance them, so that each type of writing refreshes and supports you for producing the other.

Hope that helps!

top 10 songs atm

cause apparently i was tagged by @red-paladin and i need to do this lmao

this isn’t in order because i’m a chicken and i don’t wanna play favourites

minisimblr  asked:

Can you give us some advice during this tumultuous time? I have activated panic mode and stopped all updates. I think I am not gonna get Cats and Dogs until you confirm everything is fixed. Do you think we have to download everything again or just wait for the Sims 4 Studio Batch Fix to do the magic silently on our CC (I am fervently praying for this)?

I am not sure I am the best person to ask. I use very few mods (not even Command Centre) and most of the cc objects in my game are my own. I have been preparing for this for weeks so I am quite comfortable and not in panic mode. I just take it a bit at a time. 

Are you going to have to redownload stuff? Best bet is yes. I don’t know how much though since its not fully understood yet how much has been affected and how far-reaching the patch was (it was 2.59GB after all). We still have to wait for the release of C+D to really gauge that. Hopefully there will be batch fixes to solve the issue, but worst case scenario is there wont be and you will probably lose cc by creators who are no longer active. Its not the end of the world though. There really haven’t been that many breakages, or not as much as i was expecting (mainly mods but that always happens). I do feel that people are overreacting a little and it’s not like history hasn’t already taught us that a Pets update is bad (even if you never played TS3, all the older players have been saying it since C+D was announced).  I honestly don’t feel this is as bad as the toddler update right now but time will tell. 

All-in-all it’s really nothing worth getting panicked about. If you do feel like your game is unplayable without certain items or mods, it’s best to wait. If you can live without core mods and some cc, then its really not that bad. I doubt there will be a magic wand to fix all the issues, only time can do that. It really depends on how long you can wait and if you really need to. 

anonymous asked:

Have you ever drawn a character that isn't skinny?

yes 

not to sound like a anti-sjw type person cause im not lmao but

i always feel weird when people ask this question bc first, when youre asking me this, youre assuming i’ve never drawn any just bc i haven’t posted it on here, and second, i never see any other artists get told this and they hardly expand on their body types either, i dont really think its that deep and frankly, its just annoying, like i’m literally chubby myself. i dont feel like i owe anyone any body types esp my own ocs of my own creation. However with fanart and headcannon stuff i would. im just more of an OC person and noone gets to control that imo.

One of my friends and I have a quarterly cocktails-and-conversation (and window shopping) date at Nordstrom. (They make great cocktails!)

The other day we’re there and we’ve had our couple of cocktails and I’m busy chortling about a designer dress that NO LIE was the same cut/style as the $50 eShakti dress I was wearing ONLY THIS ONE COST ALMOST 2700 DOLLARS, and just as we’re about to leave, the eager store employee, who’s been circling around us like a bird of prey spotting a kill, runs over to us and says to me, “I just need to show you this coat! It would go perfectly with your dress!”

I, smiling in that pleasant oh man I only come for the cocktails I can’t afford anything else here way, follow him to the scary side of the store where they have all the crazy designer stuff, you know, in those little nooks?

And he pulls down this pink coat. A VALENTINO pink coat, and I’m internally oh honey but externally letting him slide the coat on me.

Like, okay. It was fine? (My friend knows sewing and was absolutely HORRIFIED that this coat had finished seams but was UNLINED.) I mean. It was a coat? The fabric was nice?

But I’m like, “Oh, too bad, it doesn’t fit quite right, but you’re right, it does match this dress! Thank you for showing it to me!” (Because you gotta be nice, right? This guy’s got a thankless job.)

We leave. And then realize we didn’t even look at the price tag. (An oversight, clearly.)

Me being me, I immediately start to Googling.

And guys.

Guys.

I HAD A COAT THAT RETAILS FOR $11000 USD (YES YOU’RE READING THAT RIGHT) over my three-seasons-ago eShakti sundress that has seen better days???

And I think that’s beautiful.   

anonymous asked:

UT/US/UF/SF Skelebros & Grillby with a S/O who acts more like their best friend then a romantic partner. Always roasting them or something like that, not because they don't love them, they just never got a good example, so this is how S/O shows them (while still obviously doing romzntic things, like dates and kisses and such)

Okay for the record, ideal relationship, honestly. Like if you’re more down for classic style romance or something else, that’s cool, but for me this is just YES.

UT!Sans: He never really thought he’d get this lucky. Sans is NOT a romantic skeleton. Its always been kind of iffy that he would get into a relationship in the first place. He’s just uncomfortable with all that “flowers in hand play guitar under your window” stuff, and he kind of likes what you’ve got going. Makes the transition into the relationship easier too. Sans is almost always a “friends to lovers” kind of guy and this makes that hurdle between close friend and partner that much easier to cross.

UT!Papyrus: You may not be the best match for him. Papyrus is a big fan of classic, courtly romance, with big gestures and flowery words and giant promises. While he’s happy to take up some slack, he’s generally happier with a partner that reciprocates to some extent. He sympathizes with your lack of examples., but chances are this relationship isn’t really going anywhere. He understands love in a different way than you do, and that’s a pretty big roadblock. 

UT!Grillby: He kind of splits the difference on the bros. Sure, he could go for being wooed a little more often, but with how often you two are in public and how private a person he is, its probably for the best. If he wants more romance he’s willing to model it a bit for you. But hey, he’s not really a fan of his, er….flames being stoked at work anyways (that’s sounds more NSFW than I meant it), so its a bit convenient.

UF!Sans: YES. YES. THANK YOU. Sorry if this sounds like more of my self-shipping bullshit (”oh look my favorite skele just HAPPENS  to have similar relational preferences”), but honestly, Red is deeply uncomfortable with either giving or receiving major romancey stuff. He just doesn’t get it, its embarrassing, awkward, and he feels completely out of his depth. And not in a cute “oh my s/o is making me blush!!!!” way but in like “I just want to go home and lock myself in my room” kind of way. Maybe he could go for a few more clear symbols that you’re involved (mostly because of his own territorial issues), but chances are physical stuff is enough for him to feel secure in that. Or if you’re not into physical stuff, then he can just live with it. But you will never hear complaints from him about the lack of mushy shit. Honestly, its kind of a relief.

UF!Papyrus: Okay, don’t roast him too often if you don’t want him to yell at you, but he’s fine if you’re not good for romance. He’ll provide a few gestures of his own when he’s in the mood, but in general he prefers relationships understood through mutual support and loyalty. As long as he knows that you love him, that’s more than enough. Besides, he wouldn’t like sharing that side of you with others anyways.

UF!Grillby: This isn’t what he would probably list as his ideal but it may be one of the healthiest kinds for him. Grillbz is just a bit of an ass. Haha, just kidding, he’s a major dick from start to finish. And he needs someone who’ll push back against him. Who won’t be afraid to drag him for fear of ruining the mood. He wants to take this to a physical place, to a somewhat dramatic and slightly dysfunctional place, but keep it up. In the end, he’ll trust you more than he ever has anyone, except maybe his daughter. Because the way you treat him makes it clear that you are his equal, not his toy or a soft dream to disard when he gets bored.

US!Sans: Like Tale Papyrus, you may not be the best match for him. But he doesn’t stop the relationship. He keeps trying, keeps going bigger and bigger, hoping you’ll pick up on it and respond in kind. And in the end, this isn’t sustainable for him. He can’t keep pouring in all this energy and receiving….well, not nothing, but he isn’t receivng love in the way that he understands it, and that’s kind of draining for him. Okay, a lot draining. The two of you are going to have to sit down for a long talk about the direction of this. You may break up, but if you don’t, you’re going to have to learn how to stretch yourself a bit in this direction. He will appreciate any attempts on your part, even if they aren’t always home runs. 

US!Papyrus: Stretch is just a bit of a secret romantic, but he’s embarrassed to admit it even if you are into that kind of thing. In this case he’s more than happy to stuff those desires down. In fact, you’re likely the kind of partner he’ll seek out, because he doesn’t really want to acknowledge that part of him. He’s the lowkey brother, right? Not particularly needy or poetic. But the truth is, eventually those needs are going to come up. And he’s happy to talk it through with you. But it’ll be a long road for both of you. 

US!Grillby: Well, he’s happy to model for you! He’s a pretty classic guy, and happy to sweep you off your feet. Unlike Tale Papyrus, he doesn’t really need to have his gestures reciprocated that often. In fact, given how work oriented he is, its kind of nice to know he won’t be ambushed by it when he needs to focus. He’d rather have a friend than a lover, honestly, given that he doesn’t have a lot, and its nice that he can combine both in one. 

SF!Sans: He’s happy to model too, but he’s a bit more….forceful. Like, going WAAAAAY overboard because obviously the Magnificent and Terrible Sans is the best teacher of seduction! You may have to get him to tone it down just a bit. But he wants to make damn sure there’s no doubt in anyone’s mind that you two are an item. And given that he’s not a fan of PDA, this is what he’s got. 

SF!Papyrus: He doesn’t have a lot of romantic needs, so he’s chill with it. If you want to go more, cool. If not, that’s fine. He’ll pull out a gesture or two of his own on special occasions, but in general he’s extremely private about your relationship. He’s too used to stuff being taken from him. But in general he’s okay with whatever you’re comfortable with. He’s flattered by anything you can put together but it doesn’t really ever register with him that that’s the kind of thing he should be expecting.

SF!Grillby: In terms of possessiveness issues this guy makes Rasp look like a quick hook-up kind of guy. For better or for worse he wants every single person that sees you to know you are his. And this means he’s bizarrely intense about the romantic aspect. He’s not about being treated like a best friend, he’s your lover and the two of you are going to act like it. If you don’t know how, you’re sure as hell going to learn now He won’t break up with you. Once he’s determined someone matters enough to him to enter that intimate of a relationship there is no going back. This’ll go until you either figure out how to romance as well as him or you break up with him. 

anonymous asked:

Wow you have been a big idol of mine for a long time. I am wondering where I can start. I do art but its is not coming out well. Do you have any advice?

My best advice for someone just starting out is to keep pushing through and nurture your love for art. Study hard, yes, but most importantly cultivate a positive relationship with the process of creating. And don’t worry about art that isn’t coming out well. I like to think of it this way… every person has a certain amount of crappy art you gotta get through before the good stuff starts coming, and the only way to get through it is to draw it out. So draw often and you’ll be on to the good stuff before you know it.

Lemon's Mag Interview : GOT7 (Fiction) Part 2
  • <p> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b>LM:</b> Since no one is eager to answer this one [When was your first kiss?], let's start with the leader. JB?<p/><b>JB:</b> Uh, I think it would be better to start with the magnae.<p/><b>LM:</b> We started with the magnae last time. How about you take this one to make everyone braver.<p/><b>YJ:</b> Oh ho ho, Im Jaebuummm! She wants you to be the leader. Im leader.<p/><b>JB:</b> Wait, wait, wait. I don't want to answer.<p/><b>BB:</b> Come on, man!<p/><b>M:</b> JB, if you don't want to do it, I'll go first then you do it. Okay?<p/><b>JB:</b> Y-Yeah, let Mark go first.<p/><p/><b>LM:</b> That's sweet of you, Mark. Go ahead.<p/><b>M:</b> Mine was before I was a trainee back home in the US. I was...15? No, 14?<p/><b>YJ:</b> 헐! (trans: OMG!)<p/><b>J:</b> So young! He's American style. (laughs)</p><p/><b>JY:</b> Wait, how old was the girl?<p/><b>M:</b> Same.<p/><b>LM:</b> Wow. Is that typical of Americans, Mark?<p/><b>M:</b> I don't know. It's JB's turn now.<p/><b>LM:</b> Right. JB?<p/><b>JB:</b> I'm glad Mark went first. He makes me look pure. It was when I was 20.</p><p/><b>BB:</b> Eeeeeeyyy!!!<p/><b>JY:</b> Jaebum, that's not what you told me.<p/><b>JB:</b> I'll see you at the dorm later...<p/><b>LM:</b> Was that not the truth, JB?<p/><b>JB:</b> No, it was the truth. Jinyoung was just joking. Right, Jinyoung?<p/><b>JY:</b> I never lie.<p/><b>GOT7:</b> (laughs)<p/><b>YJ:</b> (sings Never Ever)</p><b>YG:</b> 'Life is acting.' (imitates Jinyoung's laugh)<p/><b>LM:</b> And you, Yugyeom? When was your first kiss, if you've had it yet?<p/><b>GOT7:</b> OOOOHH!<p/><b><b></b> YG:</b> WAAAH! (blushes) OK OK OK... when I was 15.<p/><b>LM:</b> Can you give us some details?<p/><p/><b>YG:</b> AAAH!<p/><b>M:</b> Oooh, Yugyeom... He was supposed to be pure and innocent!<p/><b>YG:</b> Shut up, Mark.<p/><b>JY:</b> Hey, focus. Yugyeom-ah, finish telling us about your kiss.<p/><p/><b>YG:</b> Why don't you tell us about yours?<p/><b>LM:</b> Excellent idea, Yugyeom. We need to move on and I'm curious about this one myself...<p/><b>JY:</b> I belong to our fans and I've kept myself pure for them.<p/><b>LM:</b> So you've never kissed anyone?<p/><b>JY:</b> I've kissed my members. BamBam used to kiss me on the cheek all the time when we were trainees.<p/><b>BB:</b> Jinyoung, why you always bring this up? Why are you like this?<p/><b>JY:</b> Why? Am I lying?<p/><b>LM:</b> Though I'm dying to hear that story, we have to give the other members a chance to tell theirs. How about you, Youngjae?<p/><b>YJ:</b> Me?<p/><b>LM:</b> Yes. First kiss?<p/><b>YJ:</b> Isn't this too personal?<p/><b>LM:</b> Everyone must answer. Just think of it as getting closer to your fans. They really want to know these things*.<p/><b>JB:</b> This is good. I don't even know this.<p/><b>YJ:</b> AH! My girlfriend in my first year of high school.<p/><b>YG:</b> Reeeally?! Wow.<p/><b>J:</b> 심쿵! [trans: heart attack (clutches chest and slides to the floor)]<p/><b>JY:</b> Teacher... (bows deeply to Youngjae)<p/><p/><b>JB:</b> He never talks about stuff like this.</p><b>YJ:</b> OK OK, someone else!<p/><b>LM:</b> Jackson, how about you? What's your story?<p/><b>J:</b> Me? Oh... It's painful because she broke my heart. She was my first love and I was faithful only to her but she cheated on me. I don't know if she'll read this. Anyway, I was 16.<p/><b>YG and BB:</b> Too serious...<p/></p><p/></p><p/><b>YJ:</b> All of a sudden...<p/><b>LM:</b> Wow, Jackson. It sounds like she left you with quite the impression.<p/><b>J:</b> Yes. She taught me a lot about love. It's okay because I learned and I've got all my baby birds, my members and my family. I'm always loved.<p/><b>LM:</b> That's beautiful. Since I can't find a segue from that, I'll just come right out and ask you about your first kiss BamBam. When was it?<p/></p><p/><b>BB:</b> A gentlemen never tells.<p/><b>J:</b> What does that make us? You're turning us into trash.<p/><b>BB:</b> No, it's not like that. (laughs)<p/><b>LM:</b> Then what is it like?<p/><b>BB:</b> To kiss me?<p/><b>GOT7:</b> (indistinct comments while hitting/pushing BamBam)<p/><b>LM:</b> Let's save that for another interview, shall we? We'll settle for when your first kiss was.<p/><b>BB:</b> When I was a trainee.<p/><b>GOT7:</b> WHAT?! WITH WHO?!<p/><b>BB:</b> She just said when. I don't have to tell you who.<p/><b>JB:</b> I'll see you at the dorm later too.<p/><b>LM:</b> I wish I could be there for that and I'm sure your fans wish they could too. Thank you anyway for answering guys. That wasn't so bad, right?<p/><b>GOT7:</b> (indistinct chattering and laughter)<p/><b>LM:</b> Well, believe it or not, there's a couple more questions. Are you ready?<p/><b>BB:</b> No. (laughs)<p/></p><p/><b></b> * Winning question selected from a poll in previous issue announcing impending GOT7 interview.<p/></p>

anonymous asked:

h-hi i am a-also agender and i have a problem you might relate to(i-if where allowed t-to do th-that) when you have to explain to your teachers that it`s OK to use you when talking directly to ya. (sorry if the stutter seems mocking, im just a nervous person)

Do you mean explaining to your teacher about pronouns? If that’s the case then you can try my approach since I’m also nervous! I’ve never actually gotten the chance to tell my teachers about me and my pronouns because of anXIETY, but I do write my preferred name on all the things I turn in and have a BUNCH of pins all over my backpack with my pronouns and trans related stuff. My teachers and classmates get the message most of the time and that’s all I need since I don’t talk to them personally. I have a lot of anxiety so I hope this approach helps you! If you can you can also just go to your teacher outside of class and bring a notecard with information so you’re not so nervous. And yes its okay to come to me for advice any time my friend~

anonymous asked:

Aaaa it's perfectly okay to change you sexuality or gender, I personally went from lesbian, to Bisexual, to Panromantic and I've just been figuring out my gender so don't worry about all that stuff

Yes sexuality and gender are very much fluid^^^

Thank You.

Thank you. I am trying my best to start my One Piece ask blog and my art/doodle blog. I learned when I was making it, that I have been inspired by so many people and friends on here it’s ridiculous. These people gave me the courage to be myself and so that my mind and heart could tell me that I can do it. Im not a quitter, you got this. Believe in you. So I’m going to give thanks to the people who have seriously helped me even though I’ve barely started. Because I feel like Me and Tay haven’t said it enough. Because seriously, I wouldn’t have done anything or created these blogs, of it wasn’t because of them. (Plus P.S tis my birthday! Woo!)


@ask-zoro-1996
Now this dude behind it, literally went out of his way to check if I was okay, because 2 weeks ago I was having a anxiety attack and couldn’t breathe. He went to my page and messaged me very worried for my well being. Holy crap, no one in my life has done that before. Surprising? I know. Axel bro, so much thank you my dude I would say it all day if I could and help you when you need it. Ill always be there you know that? I will return the favor one day somehow. I promise.

@ask-nerd-law
Now, this Mun, is *laughs* one of my greatest friends on here. She is so kind, very perky and basically has my back and I have hers. They are a little stubborn when it comes to taking a rest and sleeping though XD
Kuwa, you are so special to me in real life and you deserves everything that you do and worked hard for like your 100+ followers ma dude, you are incredible. Don’t ever doubt yourself for a second that you cant do it! Because you’re family, your followers believe in you….and I do too. (P.S You draw Law very well as a cute nerd! I always manage to almost die from fangirling too much.❤️💖❤️)

@ask-chiefsabo or @esttian
Mai…I have no words for you. You’re great. Great in all sorts of ways. You mean so much to me, for when I need to vent or just sit down and talk to you. Im so happy that I have someone is talented, charismatic, fun-loving girl like you. You inspired me from great lengths with your colorful yet wonderful pictures of that Revolutionary boy. I wish you deeply the best, and I pray greatness in the future for you.

@ask-the-vinsmokes or @snajey
Holy hell, you my friend Cesi, *backs up* I gotta say thank you too. You have changed my perspective of writing and thinking forever. When you started up your Brotherhood AU and showed people that you don’t have to be canon to be liked, that’s when it hit me. You showed me that I can do and be whatever the hell I want and do so. You showed me that when you had the writing contest that I can stretch my imagination and gave you one of the best and longest things I’ve EVER wrote in my life. I literally cant thank you enough, don’t stop being you, because there no one like you. And I hope everything goes your way in the future. Plus, I can’t wait for the picture!

@malcolm6
Where the hell to start. YOU CHANGED ALMOST EVERYTHING FOR MEYOU WONDERFUL CINNAMON ROLL. I cant believe it! You! Yes you! You have showed me enough things in the world that if I didn’t send one message to you, I would have missed out on. You are a great person in general and you have showed me that, you can be great no matter what you draw. Love ya!

@ask-the-hopeful-ones
Odette and her crew are awesome! They are so creative and the mun and muse deserve a round of applause! She was so great at rp’ing and just to talk to! I just want to thank you for even just conversating with me. Thank you! You are so wonderful! Moths are great!

@ask-trafalgar
Okay Blake-san *ahem!* BOI! WHYAREYOUSOGREATATDRAWINGEVERYTHINGLIKEOMFGIMDONE! Anyway, I really hope you gets caught up with our classes and your life gets back together. Im praying for you because your such an amazing person and you know I’d try and help you anyway I can! XOXOXOXO
P.S [Lawcest Rules!]

@askcorazon
This Mun, has 900 followers! They ate awesome that drawing Cora and it makes me so happy! They have a great personality and I want to hug them everyday of I could! As Corazon saids: “I Love you!” 💕

@ask-sanji and @asksabo
The Mun of these two blogs are just a freakin sketch genius. I feel like when I look at their content is like I’m waiting and looking at the next DBZ episode (which is super good.) They try and say that their art isn’t worth it but I believe ITS REALLY FREAKIN GREAT DON’T DOUBT YOURSELF OR ILL SHAKE YOU! *ahem!* but other-words, there just really great.


@ask-surgeon-of-death
OHMYFUKIN- im good. Okay this mun she draw Law really well and unique like damn! Anyway, I hope your paypal thing goes well! You are awesome and I love what ya do! You’re great! Hahahahaha…yessss.

@ask-trafalgardwaterlamy
Ok she is just so adorable. Both the Mun and the Muse like there so sweet I might get diabetes. I live the way she draws Lamy, its so cutting-edge and just slick. Every color goes together so well its like- im looking at a amazing picture ever time… oh wait, I am! You are really cool to talk to and I love rp’ing with you! Hopefully we get to talk soon!

@askfuturepiratequeenluffyko
She is just a nice wonderful woman and she deserves hugs and kisses everyday XD I love how she draws Luffyko and how its just so cute, I mean it cant get over that! I am your friend if you need me always, because you’re never alone!

@ask-the-cook
Ohmygosh there drawing of Sanji is soo good and you don’t know how times I’ve said to myself wow I shipSanji and Crocodile Oh woowwwwwww! XD You are so talented and I wish the best for you in everything. Their really nice to talk to and somehow I feel kinda calm around them.

@askrosetto
This mun for this blog is one of the first One Piece Oc blogs I ever saw. Rosetto is such a beautiful Oc and I personality live her orange fluffy hairrrr. :3 I want to hug her and the muse all the time. I hope I can talk to them in the future, but they really inspired me to do my best in drawing and colors. They are all so palleted and calm its like going to Las Vegas. That’s how pretty her artwork his. Its great! You’re great! Thank you.

@shxgaretto
The person beyond this rp blog is actually one of my greatest friends. I usually talk to them on Discord, and I love her. She’s hardworking, nice, and just an awesome person and I hope everything and anything will be alright with her. She one of my favorite people to talk to and to chill with. I cant think her enough..


@ask-the-hopeful-ones
I met this blog during the Water World Event and learned about and experimented with Odette! It was so much fun! Then I learned that she had a crew! She also liked moths and she’s really fun and deserves a lot of followers and hugs! Love ya! You’re awesome!

@unlucky-marine
Omfg Davy is fuckin little- idefk! Still! Your artwork is great! Like its so clean and hes such a freakin baby about stuff but he’s more of a mom somethings than everything. Another great marine Oc blogs just like YE- their muse is really nice! Great personality and just really kind.

@ask-thosetwoguys
Okay okay, they are so so great at drawing Penguin and Shachi! It blows my mind every time I see it honestly. There both such cute idiots. Anyway, this mun I absolutely adore them, I got to draw some of their Heart Pirates Oc’s and that was super freakin fun! And shipped some stuff on a Discord chat. Still I hope your anxiety stuff will go down and you feel better soon!

@ask-lieutenant-wendy
Wendy is just askdhaickwhsknzb so greattt. I mean the mun who draws her, is just so fucking amazing I cant- she one of the best Oc marine blogs out there in my opinion! I hope I get to talk to you in the future!! GAHHH! Youre so great in so many ways, don’t let people tell you otherwiseeeee!

@ask-fire-fist
This Mun is really nice in my opinion! They really have made their blog very interesting! Matter of fact, I’ve only met him in the WaterWorldEvent but they seemed awesome! Plus, I hope everything goes okay soon! Im praying! Love ya!

All of these people and more have made me want a ask blog and do one. I just hope I can be okay in this timeline, theres always a chance for anything. Plus my brother is living with me bow and its my birthday so I’m deciding to sleep and binge on Sherlock Holmes movies before I want to kick it into high gear. Trust me I will!
Thank you guys so so much!

anonymous asked:

Why do scorpios(maybe undeveloped ones) think its ok to just rage at every single person all the fucking time just because a simple little thing doesn't go their way???!?@? There is never a day of peace with some of my scorp friends omg. SO annoying

YES I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN, underdeveloped Scorpios (especially with tons of Fixed influence in their chart) could often lash out at others when things aren’t to their liking or their satisfaction. It’s probably because Scorpio is ruled by Mars though; Mars suggests aggression, anger, fighting, and stuff of that nature. I remember Cherry once said that it is the Scorpio’s life mission to defeat their own ego. When they finally accomplish that, it’s a whole lot easier for them to chill out and realize that not everything has to be their way.