yes it is who you think it is

Yes hello, Vetra’s backstory actually breaks my heart thinking about the stuff these poor girls had to go through. I gave you the cute, now you have to cry with me

I don’t normally offer advice, dating or otherwise, at least not prompted or without a whole bunch of qualifiers. I’ll start by saying I have no credentials beyond that I used to not believe in healthy human relationships, but 20 years into actual Happily Ever After have given me hope.  

So here you go:

Talk. 

Talk your little heads off. Talk about everything. How you feel about sports, kids, trees, bees, pollution, politics, religion. Say stupid things. Say the things you think about worry about wonder about. Say the things you fear will chase someone off. Say the things you hope one day to share with someone who finds you charming, hilarious, valuable, valid. Say the things. Say all the things. None of this third date, fifth date, middle of the night drunken text stuff after one month or two or six or some arbitrarily set milestone.

Because yes, absolutely, someone will leave you. 

Someone will find you not to their liking. And you’ll find folks not to yours. And wouldn’t you rather find that out now? Wouldn’t you rather know early enough that you can cut your losses and go? Rather than spend decades in a relationship with a stranger, rather than spend a lifetime with someone you feel is judging you, laughing at you, disapproving of you?

Because someone else is going to love you.

Someone else is going to laugh at your stupidest jokes if for no reason other than that you said them, eyes crinkling at the corners, lips stretching wide over your own audacity. They’re going to want to know about your dullest day at work and how you got toner on your favorite slacks. They’re going love your quoting song lyrics or movies. Or misremembering the lines of your favorites children’s book. They’re going to love your sleepy wonderings and your pre-coffee grumblings and your ramblings. My goodness they’re going to love your ramblings. They’re going to text/email/call you in the middle of the day just to see how your morning’s gone, even if it’s just like every other morning, and they’re going to tell you they love you because you should know. You’re going to go to bed like every night is a sleepover still talking and laughing about the same ridiculous thing you did last year or the year before. 

Because you’re going to love all of that about them too. 

One of the most wonderful things about loving someone is wanting to share the world with them and wanting to see the world through their eyes. 

SO TALK. 

Talk on those first dates, those first texts or whatever you kids are using for first contacts these days. Be yourself. Make real connections or don’t. Cut your losses. Keep looking. Because the last thing you want is a UnHappily Ever After with a stranger who doesn’t care what’s going on between your ears. The last thing any of us should want is an UnHappily Ever After with someone whose mind we don’t know and love.

anonymous asked:

Is JG's new show Close Enough the project you said you were working that you couldnt speak of after infinity train was released? I think sean szeles is working on it too, so im wondering who JG brought with him from regular show.

Yes. Close Enough started at the tail end of Regular Show last summer. Basically, if you were done working on Regular Show, you moved on over to Close Enough. I took a two month break to go traveling and visit China again, but then started on Close Enough at the end of last… August I think? I would say about 70% of the crew is old Regular Show crew.

anonymous asked:

hey, i just wanted to let you know that your attitude towards people using ur works for inspiratio/drawing practice is absolutely amazing and really refreshing. im not trying to shit on artists who are against it, they are entitled to their opinions and views but you are just so kind and djfh this is giving me warm and fuzzy feelings. you are absolutely right in saying that taking from other people's works things you like and then incorporating in your works is a vital part of discovering onesef

Yes! I think the default reaction in the art community is to…get mad about it? But when you think about it, what are you getting mad about? You’re influencing other people! That’s amazing! If I can help other people find their voices or get better, I want to!

As long as nothing is being exploited or stolen for monetary gain, I am ALL FOR IT.

sovietspaceprincess  asked:

This weekend a friend of mine is coming over and we're doing makeovers for the first time. I'm really excited. I'm thinking about going out after but it'll be the first time I present female in public. I'm kind of scared. Do you have any tips or suggestions?

HELL YES!! Ah what an experience! I highly support going out with someone for the first time but I think it’s important to know your limits and dysphoria! I recommend having small hangouts in a few places, like.. go get coffee or tea! Go to.. a bookstore! or a movie! things like that. The last thing you want to do is.. go to a mall or something where you are swarmed with people who are always looking at everyone.

Also you’re going to notice “Wow people are looking at me more?…” They are but it’s not a bad thing. Girls generally get noticed more, it’s a weird lesson to learn but… idk.. guys look at you, girls look at you, some people smile some don’t. Don’t take it personally if someone gives you a sour look. it happens. In my opinion you can lesson the looks by wearing something pretty neutral/casual. Being with someone also helps divide those looks by half but idk.. those are just my first thoughts :) hope it helps.

Oh and heels may not be the best idea your first outing, but I’ll leave that up to you. LEMME KNOW HOW IT GOES!! Goodluck!

anonymous asked:

have you ever dealt with people who hate christianity? Not just people who don't believe/are indifferent but people who out right hate and sneer at the Church/Christianity. I have a coworker who is like this and it upsets me a lot, but I don't want to get into an argument about it because I think his hatefulness might have come from actual trauma and I don't want to push him even further away from Christ :(

I’ve seen it a couple times in real life, and I see it a  l o t online.

Just remember this:

1) Yes, he may have had trauma from a religious figure or bogus religious belief. That does not mean he has the right to mock you or your faith without you retaliating. You don’t have to put up with it.

2) If he does anything like that again, just ask him to stop. Or, if he is trying to get you to argue with him or is trying to mock you some more or belittle you for defending yourself, walk out of the situation. It’s clear that he is not up for respectful dialogue or being respectful at all.

3) If you have to, record the incidents when they occur and what he did. For example: “May 4th 2017, 1:22pm: Bob made fun of me for praying before I ate my lunch”. Even if he does the same thing everyday, record it and add in whatever details you can. After some time, if the situation does not improve, you can present this evidence to human resources and ask them to have this resolved. You deserve to have a safe work environment.

There was a guy who made a series on workplace bullying and how to handle it…I will have to see if I can find him again.

I interrupt your dash to tell you

    that you matter.

you are important, you are precious, you are loved, and some day, whenever the heck it may be, you’re going to be who you want to be and you’re going to achieve great things ok.

I don’t know this, I am sadly no teller of the future (thank god can u imagine the pressure goddamn) but I believe in you. So if you think you’re alone, or that no one cares ?? Or that no one believes in you ???????

I do. I am here and I care. And that’s someone ok. you’re achieving no matter what. You’re still breathing ?? Hell yeah man nice one. You got out of bed ?? YES. You showered after a week ?? Thank you. Whatever you do you’re making someone proud ok. Now get out there and make me proud (I’ll be proud no matter what but sh). I hope u have a wonderful day, week, month, year, life, WHATEVER. Just take care of yourself ok. You matter.

anonymous asked:

You know, I felt that Ishim was sort of a way for DEAN to confront some controlling douchebag behaviour in himself. Like, he was nowhere near Ishim's level angry, demeaning, jealous and controlling but he was no prince either. So he has to check himself and does so at the end of the episode (at least working on it). Also, Cas needs to learn to stand up for himself and his own boundaries, no matter who is trying to walk over him. Lots of good stuff in this episode.

Ooh yes. Because although you could say the regular old conflict at the end was more than enough to make Dean reconsider his behaviour and be a bit kinder to Cas because he’d realised blah blah blah, Dean and Ishim went right into each other’s faces at the diner, over Cas and mutual distrust of each other’s species (you know, except the one exception they loved :P)… They definitely were two sides of the same thing in that way. I think Ishim was a worst case scenario Cas with the whole messed up in love with a human thing to horrify him, like, more in a Cas confronts his social values as an angel through Ishim. And Dean gets to see him being controlling and horrible about the people he “loves” and especially the fact he started the episode sulking furiously at Cas so he WAS in an exaggerated mood with him, which also makes Ishim a worse case scenario of being too pushy or whatever with Cas, just on the principle that if Dean even feels a momentary pang of guilt when seeing how Ishim treats him, that’s enough to trip the whole thing at the end where he apologises and explains his behaviour. And honestly, learning from that and seeing himself in Ishim is a whole lot healthier and going deeper to root causes than just apologising because Cas nearly died. (Which is what happened with Mary in 12x14, and definitely didn’t REMOTELY address the root causes that all came out in 12x22)

anonymous asked:

Don't you think of all characters h00k is the only one without a development, like he ended up not forgiving Rumple and still wanting a revenge on him ,when even Regina got a happy closure with Snow and the town

Hey Anon,

I think the only truly dynamic multidimensional characters are Emma & Regina. The big difference between them and the others is that they change gradually. Other characters may display temporarily changed behavior, but they always snap back to who they were. They go back to serving their function, and yes, I agree our attention was drawn to the fact Hook is still being driven by revenge this season. If you look at who is going to be there next season… and who isn’t, then guess what the consequences of his pursuit could be?

Emma: “Killian… Your revenge is not your happy ending. I am. You told me that. If you destroy this heart, you will destroy your happy ending along with it.”

anonymous asked:

Imagine teasing harry and misbehaving and after a while he drags you upstairs 'think you can be a little brat all day and get away with it?' He strips off all your clothes, binds your hands behind your back and lays you over his lap 'you're gonna count out every spank I land on your pretty ass and you're gonna thank me for every single one ok?' You'd whine out a yes and harry would yank you up by the hair 'yes who?' And you'd cry out a yes daddy! He'd smirk and let go of your hair 'much better'

“Louder” every time he strikes your skin, his cock getting harder and harder, until he can’t take it anymore and gets you to your knees. “Suck daddy’s cock…”

anonymous asked:

You don't have to answer this until after tonight's episode buuuuut I'm rewatching season 3 and I know how you feel about grounder culture so how do you feel about Pikes arc? He was a dictator, yes, but he's thoughts on how savage the grounders are was kinda right?? What do you think??

I’ve always liked Pike. He was a scared man who was trying to do what he thought was right for his people. Diplomacy obviously hadn’t worked for them n the past so it makes sense that he would be willing to do whatever it takes to save them all. 

He had no idea that not all Grounders were the way he envisioned them to be, because unfortunately MOST Grounders were.

anonymous asked:

have you noticed how the beginning of how do you sleep and sgt. pepper's lonely hearts club band sound similar? (the bit right at the beginning when they're tuning up?? if that's what it's called) do you think john did that deliberately?

yes, it’s similar, and since the first words are ‘sgt pepper’ he probably did it intentionally. Also, maybe it’s an unpopular opinion but who cares? I don’t like the song at all, not because it’s against Paul but I really don’t like the melody, it’s so… awful? i don’t like the rhythm either, for me it’s the proof that when john was angry with paul he could only make ugly songs about it. I also hate the fact that this song is the frist thing that comes up on google when look for john and paul stuff.

anonymous asked:

Mom I was the one who drew the 4 cats in a trench coat thing so just call me trench coat anon but anyways the voltron Twitter have just announced that Lances b-day is next and im so happy oml hold me

OMFG WHAT MY CHILD IS GONNA HAVE A BIRTHDAY NOW?????? I’M YELLIN OMG LANCE MCCLAINNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

@deceaseddemi-god YES OF COURSE UR NAME IS GOGOBAP. (also of course there will be more fluffy klance who do you think i am lmao 😂💜)

@little-tiny-peridot aaaAWW THIS IS CUTE OMG THANK YOU FOR THIS. also please don’t apologize because that’s what i’m here for! so it’s okay if you need to vent or whatever, i’m ur spacemom, i can handle it lmao! 💪💜

@scarletsaphire oh no lmao i’m so sorry child!!! pretty sure this came in late last night so i hope the spooks didn’t get you……. 😬😬

@ klance anon - HOOOOLYYYY SHIT YALL ARE PRECIOUS I’M DYIN I’M SO GLAD YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING SO WELL HOLY SHIT ❤️💙💜❤️💙💜

@hihereami THIS IS SO SWEET AND GREAT ILYSM THANK YOU FOR THE LOVELY MESSAGE!!!! ✨⭐️💜 

@minqtee omG YOU DON’T SOUND CREEPY AT ALL?? THANK YOU SO MUCH? i’m so glad this blog can make you smile, that’s exactly why i’m still doing this stuff. i love you guys so much and if i can make even one person’s day brighter with my silly lil posts, then i’m so happy!!! i hope your day/night was awesome! 💜💜💜

@ anon - I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOU PRECIOUS ANGEL OMG THANK YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT AS WELL!!!! 💜💜💜

@rorzeebubbles oh man i’m seriously horrible when it comes to procrastination hahah…. the only tips i can give are like: start with the most difficult project and work your way up to the easiest, that way you’re less stressed near the end! also, something i’m super guilty of is putting things off way too long (which makes even the simplest task seem crazy and hard and unmanageable!) so stop just thinking about it and do it, ya know? don’t let your dreams be dreams, my dude. (i’m so sorry this is the worst advice but i procrastinate all the time omg haha) best of luck to you, my dear!! i believe in you! ✨⭐️💜

 @ace-wiz OMG YOU ARE SO SWEET THANK YOU SO MUCH, OF COURSE YOU CAN JOIN THE FAM. ILYSM YOU PRECIOUS SQUISH 💜💜💜

welp, random anon from yesterday: there ya go 😂💜

@ anon - don’t we ALL 👌👌😂

@quichekolgate I MESSAGED THEM ABOUT THIS EARLIER AND THEIR GRADUATION WENT WELL AND I’M SO PROUD MY LIL CHILDREN ARE GROWIN UP SO FAST LKJAFWEJOFAJWEOFJLJ 🎉🎉🎉

@animelover460 OMFG GOOD LUCK MY CHILD YOU CAN DO THIS I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!! YOUR SPACEFAM IS BEHIND YOU 100% YOU ARE GONNA ROCK THIS!!!!!!!!!!! 💜💜💜💪💪💪

@puggleprincess OF COURSE!!!!!!!! ✨⭐️💜

@rayven-so-gay THAT SO CUTE????? I’M HYPE FOR YOU OMG??? 👍💜

cogairealta  asked:

Hi. I put some comments into my tags of your recent snippet of 'Hello Again', just letting you know as don't think you get notification of tags. Its so cute and poor Ani uncertain when he gets the chance to meet his Obi-wan. who unfortunately also happens to be the person whos entire world he destroyed and killed in another life. I really hope Anakin's memories are a lot more vague than Obi-wan's as it seemed like. Yes Satine's not letting her Ben suffer and its also for a good cause

I always read the tags when people reblog my stuff, so tag away! And in thanks, have a Hello Again snippet!

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

Your Woc gurl stop lying😂your like that child that goes my mums died after someone says a 'yo mama'joke. If your an actual person of colour(why didn't you say what colour you are...if your really a poc🤔🤔🤔) what in your right mind would make you ship TWo WHItE boys,when one is straight with a gay man.who constantly says their BROTHERs.So you would rather ship incest instead of a interracial couple who have great commutation and both have mental health and DOnT HaVe A toxic relationship.

i knew one of you idiots would prove my point by showing up in my inbox. i’m black and yes, i ship two white boys together you vile imbecile. i didn’t know i had to disregard actual chemistry in order to support the interracial couple that your dumbass thinks i should ship. why do you even ship malec at all? you must think alec is gross for having feelings for his “brother” all these years. and jace is his parabatai and half of his soul and the person who is the most important to him. so watch me ship the shit out of that until my dying breath

anonymous asked:

Ahhhh, but what about the actor who portrays Charles Grey in the Kuro musicals, Yata Yusuke? He's so handsome (bishounen style) and charismatic. Could it be that he is a huuuuuge plus to the character in Japan too, yes/yes?? 😊 😊

Mmm, idk, I’m not really familiar with the actors (I recommend you to ask @vvlin91 when it comes to this topic xD), but I don’t think Yata Yusuke playing Grey in the musical had any influence on Grey’s success in the popularity poll, simply because Yata played Grey in Lycoris in the fall/winter of 2015 (iirc) and the popularity poll in which Grey ranked 6th was held between December 2014 and January 2015, i.e. long before it was even announced that Yata was cast for Grey^^; But yes, Yata!Grey was very handsome, I agree on that! :D

anonymous asked:

Hey, I saw an old post about Danneel being into Steve. Who's Steve? Steve Carlson? Just curious, thanks :)

Yes. When I say Steve, I mean Steve Carlson, singer/songwriter.

lanajoliecarlson “They call her “the queen”… the queen Danneel got into my lovesac :)”

Now I don’t necessarily have a problem with the photo above. It just confuses me a bit. Her husband, who she doesn’t get to see much of, is across the room. I suppose sitting like that is normal for “regular joe” type couples. But these two (Jensen and D) are rarely together and you would think they’d want to be around each other every chance they got. But Jensen hardly makes an effort to actually be in the same vicinity as her. Makes ya wonder. Say nothing of the “queen Danneel“ thing.🙄

Every time she’s around Steve, we get a real genuine smile. (Regardless of how scary or frightening.)

She goes out of her way to support Steve and his music, as well as other people, but does she ever publically support Jensen? No. She only shows up when she’s pregnant so she can get attention for her baby bump.

anonymous asked:

Hi ! So, if I remember correctly, you're the one who pointed out the fact that Yoongi always hide behind Jin when he feels shy or a bit lost. You got it damn right because Yoongi was hidding behind Jin's shoulder the entire time during the BBMAs. And it was. So. Cute !! He was also trying really hard not to smile like crazy all the time and failed. I'm a proud BTS stan and a satiated Yoonjin stan :)

Yes!!! My god after all these years of standing in formation, yoongis found comfort in being all nice and tucked away behind jins humungo shoulders!!! It makes him feel safe i think (and brings me to tears). Yoonjin in vegas was such a blessing!!!! I MEAN THE NUMBER OF TIMES HE HAD HIS ARM AROUND JIN I JUST –

to some complaints about my historical report formatting by people who shall remain nameless because we dont want to throw @imin-loveanon under the bus, i pitch you:

HISTORY ISNT HISTORICALLY ACCURATE ANYWAYS. YOU THINK OF MEDIEVAL EUROPE AND YOU THINK “HMM YES WHITE PEOPLE” WELL DING DONG YOU ARE WRONG

AS A LARGELY UNEDUCATED “HISTORIAN”, MY CLAIMS WERE BACKED UP BY THE SOLID PROOF I HAD, WHICH IS MORE THAN I CAN SAY ABOUT THOSE ACTUAL PROFESSIONAL HISTORIANS WITH DEGREES AND EVERYTHING THAT STILL INSIST ALL THE PEOPLE OF THE PAST WERE STRAIGHT.

yoshifics  asked:

27, 40 and 73 for that ask thing?

27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh?

- Definitely not, a sense of humor is a must

40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?

- I don’t know why but I really can’t think of an honest answer for this

73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?

- Yes, recently I cried because I was holding a kitten