yes by your genitals

[on ao3]

Or, you know, this: Stiles has pretty much always known he wasn’t a girl. It’s why he started going by Stiles in elementary school: Zofia isn’t actually that hard to pronounce, but it isn’t him. Stiles, though, yeah: the first time Scott says it, Stiles is sold. That’s his name. He knows who he is.

No one will cut his tits off until he turns eighteen but he’s pretty small-breasted anyway, lanky and lean, so under a sports bra and a couple of layers, no one knows the difference. His mom buzzes his hair with clippers up until she dies and then he starts doing it himself; it’s cheap and easy. Jackson and Matt call him a lesbian all through middle school but freshman year Stiles starts insisting on male pronouns and actually everyone at school just kind of goes with it. They don’t all remember all the time and he’s still not allowed to play lacrosse on the boys’ team, and he’s still a total loser, but it’s not that big a deal. It’s not like he’s the only openly LGBTIQA student at Beacon Hills High, anyway: there’s Danny, of course, and a genderqueer person who calls themselves Tugs and makes out with a girl who wears cat ears in the hallway outside Stiles’s history class every morning, as notable examples.

Not long after Derek and Stiles meet, Stiles goes on his period. As soon as his scent hits Derek in the doorway of the loft, Derek jerks back, blinking rapidly at him.

“That’s kind of embarrassing,” Stiles says, laughing at least half-heartedly. “You can smell it?”

“Oh,” Derek says. “I didn’t know you were – um. I didn’t realize.”

It’s Stiles’s turn to blink incredulously, looking down at himself. “This shirt has the trans pride flag on it. You’ve seen me wear this a million times. You – last week you asked me if I ever washed it.”

“I didn’t know there was a trans pride flag,” Derek says.

Stiles rolls his eyes. “There’s a pride flag for everything. So, can I come in? Or is my stench too offensive?”

“It’s not offensive,” Derek grumbles, stepping back to let Stiles through the door. “I was just surprised.”

Derek doesn’t seem to like Stiles much, but Stiles is pretty sure it has a lot more to do with his ever-rambling mouth than the trans thing – after all, Derek likes Scott even less, and Scott is as unfortunately cishet as they come.


Stiles comes back from his first year of college, and he knows he looks a lot better than he used to. He took up running and weightlifting and between the gym and the T, he’s filled out. His skin is golden from (too many) days skipping class to lay on the beach. He let his hair grow back shaggy enough for boys to wrap their fingers in while he sucks their cocks and, yes, he lost his virginity and was even mostly sober when it happened.

Derek stares at him really intently without any expression for a long time. Finally, he says, “You look different.”

Stiles rolls his eyes. “You know I had surgery over winter break.”

Derek’s eyes travel down Stiles’s body, all the way to his feet, and then slowly back up. “It’s not that,” he says.

“Wanna see my scars? Hey, would a werewolf scar from surgery like that, do you think?”

“I’m not sure. No, I don’t need to see them.”

Stiles throws himself on the couch. “You’re being really weird. Weird even for you.”

“You smell different, too,” Derek says, frowning. “You smell like…”

When Derek trails off, Stiles raises his eyebrows. “Like what?”

“Like someone’s been touching you.”

Stiles blushes. “Well, so what? Someone has been touching me.”

Derek looks away, turning his whole face from Stiles like he’s in pain. “Is he good to you?”

“Um, sure? It’s not a big deal. It’s just a hookup.”

“He knows that you’re trans?”

Stiles rolls his eyes. “Yes, Simon is intimately familiar with the state of my genitals. Not that it’s any of your business.”

“I know. I just – worry sometimes.”

“Little Trans Human does not require a Big Scary Werewolf to take care of him. It’s awesome, dude. Simon thinks I’m hot.”

It’s Derek’s turn to roll his eyes. “You are hot.”

Stiles laughs, but Derek isn’t cracking a smile, just back to staring at him intently, like he can erase the mole on Stiles’s cheek with his laser eyes. It’s unnerving. “Uhh,” Stiles stammers a little, “you think I’m hot?”

“You know you’re attractive.”

“But I don’t? I’m ok, I guess, and let’s be real, T is helping, but it’s not like – I’m not running around looking like you.”

Derek looks down at himself, the cloth of a henley clinging to his stomach, his too-tight jeans. Stiles realizes that Derek is dressed a little nicer than usual, and his hair is overly-styled, too. “Wait a second,” Stiles says, all too aware – as usual – that Derek can hear his heart pounding. “You’re – are you into me?”

Derek sighs deeply, deflating, eyes still cast downwards. “I had this stupid idea,” he says, voice low and resigned, “that I could be your first.”

“Whoa,” Stiles says. “Holy shit.”

“I’m sorry,” Derek says.

“Back up, nothing to be sorry for, I just need a second to kind of filter this through my brain, because, like – wow, I mean – ok, there’s a lot of stuff I still haven’t done, though, you know. Like anal. You could totally be my first at that. Or, um. I haven’t tried the strap on thing yet. If you’re into that. Honestly mostly I just blow him and he fingers me.”

Derek growls and stalks up to Stiles on the couch and leans over him. He rakes his fingers through Stiles’s hair – yes, definitely a good idea on growing it out – and tugs Stiles’s head back to kiss him.

It’s gentler than Stiles would’ve expected, if he had ever let himself entertain the idea of kissing Derek before, which he has mostly avoided for his own sanity, because up until about two minutes ago he was one hundred percent certain that Derek was one hundred percent unattainable. Now that all seems a little short-sighted, as Stiles’s lips part to welcome Derek’s tongue into his mouth.

It’s a long kiss, and Stiles gasps a little when they part. Derek’s eyes are dark, flaring red at the edges. Ridiculously, it turns Stiles on – he can feel it tingling from his groin to his stomach to the tips of his fingers.

“So, uh, you want to become intimately familiar with my genital situation, too?”

Derek sighs, long-suffering, but Stiles is pretty sure the edge of his mouth tips upwards, too. “Yes, Stiles. I would like to become intimately familiar with your genital situation.”

All About Me....I Answered Them

1:When did you lose your virginity? 13
2: Rough sex or soft sex? Prefer soft, but have had rough
3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes? No
4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex? Stairs
5: Favourite sex position? Doggy
6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive? I guess submissive
7: Have you ever had any one night stands? Yes
8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor? Any
9: Have you ever had sex in a public place? Staircase, the landing
10: Have you ever been caught masturbating? No
11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like? Any Thong
12: How often do you have sex? 3 times a week
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with? Jason Aldean
14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? Both, but love receiving it.
15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? Farted
16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex? None
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex? None
18: Are you into dressing up for sex? Yes I have, Thong/Thigh Highs
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower? Shower
20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be? Jason Aldean
21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you? Yes
22: Do you/would you use sex toys? Yes, I have
23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture? Yes
24: Would you have sex with your best friend? No, I’m not Bi
25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink) lol Pee
26: Something that will never fail to get you horny? Kissing my ear/rubbing inner thigh
27: Early morning sex or late night sex? late night
28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex? lol, there penus
29: Favourite body part on the same sex? N/A
30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: Dildo
31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: Used a cucumber on me as a dildo
32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] No, I don’t know
33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: Yes
34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: whipped cream
35: Worst possible time to get horny: monthly period
36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans? Only if it’s real
37: How much fapping is too much fapping:l  lol, have to please yourself
38: Best sexual complement you ever got: I have a nice ass. pussy is good for having three kids
39: Favorite foreplay activities: Kissing/touching
40: What do you wear to bed? shorts, underwear, T-shirt
41: When was the first time you masturbated: years ago
42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? Yes, Pictures
43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? No, I want to
44: Have/would you ever have sex in public? Yes
45: Have/would you ever had a threesome? Yes
46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? Cucumber
47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not? No, not my thing
48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not) yes, feels good
49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? No problem I have one
50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? OK
51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? Molasses
52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute? Prostitute…more money
53: Do you watch porn? I have
54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? No
55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”? Yes
56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair? No, but prefer shaved
57: If you could give yourself head, would you? I;m a woman
58: Booty or Boobs? lol, Boobs?
59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) Boyfriend, I wanted him gone
60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do? Lol…not sure really
61: have you ever watched someone masturbate? Yes
62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate? No
63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed? i’m a woman…lol
64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate) Toys
65. What is your bra/penis size? 40DD
66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus? Cucumber
67. When was the last time you masturbated? Years ago
68. When was the last time you had sex? Last night
69. When was the last time you watched porn? I was 14
70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do? Yes, Life -like Dildo.
71. Guys:Circumsized? Yes
72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched? Inner Thigh
73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched? Pussy
74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation? Yes
75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr? Yes
76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream? Years ago…teens
77. Which wet dream was your favorite? don’t remember
78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with? yes
79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with? yes
80. Favorite sexual position? doggy, or on my back legs pinned up 
81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed? No
82. Are you into any BDSM? No
83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why? Yes…..were married
84. Do you like dirty talk? some
85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation? not too loud
86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what? Yes, kids walked in…years ago
87. What kind of porn do you like to watch? I don’t anymore
88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them? lol no, again. I’m a woman
89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them? No
90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them? Yes, Yes only when i see him
91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial? Yes, once…he has a live in girlfriend now

It is completely fucking okay for people (yes including men) to wonder about your genitals if you are a trans woman/trans man. Honestly some people are NOT comfortable with penises and some people are not comfortable with vaginas. Now because people are working to extend the definitions of trans women to include men who have not undergone surgery, but still call themselves ‘lesbians’ or trans men who are pre op calling themselves ‘gay men’, things get complicated. If a man doesn’t want to fuck someone who has a dick, that’s okay. If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with someone with a dick, that’s okay. She’s a lesbian. Don’t try to force lesbians to include penis in their sexual activity. The definition of a lesbian is a woman who is only interested in women. That does not include penises. A gay man is not attracted to vaginae, that’s how sexuality works. Just because you think YOUR sexuality is “fluid” (note: you’re probably bi), it doesn’t mean that sexuality in general is “fluid”. People are strictly heterosexual, homosexual, asexual or bisexual. STOP trying to get them to include your dick in their sex lives or making them feel guilty for NOT wanting to include dick in their sex lives. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE ATTRACTED TO PENIS, IT’S NOT OFFENSIVE, NOBODY IS ENTITLED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. You do not have to be a trauma survivor to be repulsed/not attracted to penises or male genitalia in general. STOP trying to say genitals “shouldn’t matter” or they “don’t matter” because PEOPLE’S SEXUALITIES ARE VALID, THEIR FEELINGS MATTER. 

anonymous asked:

I actually can't believe people are arguing with you about how it's completely acceptable to rape children. Seriously, what goes through people's minds to think "hmm yes, this is perfectly acceptable". I don't care about how your genitals feel - your are literally causing a life times worth of trauma for children, please go move far away from society. Blimey, how you deal with this I do not know, but I highly respect you for it.

It’s better to handle it now than have to handle it on our site! I hope this discourages enough of them from joining.

anonymous asked:

NSFW 1-91 sorry

1:When did you lose your virginity?
-18
2: Rough sex or soft sex?
-Rough
3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?
-Not unusual
4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?
Park bench
5: Favourite sex position?
-Any one involving Faith pretty much
6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?
-Dominant
7: Have you ever had any one night stands?
-Nope
8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?
-All please
9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?
-Yes lmao
10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?
-Almost
11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?
-Maroon and lacey
12: How often do you have sex?
-When we’re together, just about every day 😂
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?
-My gf
14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
-Both
15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?
-It was like the middle of the day and things were getting hot and heavy with Faith and my friends knocked on the door and knew we were in there so we had to find all of our clothes and shit and it was just awkward
16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?
-Bad Intentions
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?
-Ride
18: Are you into dressing up for sex?
-Not opposed
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
-Shower
20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?
-Faith
21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?
-No
22: Do you/would you use sex toys?
-Yes
23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?
-Absolutely 😂
24: Would you have sex with your best friend?
-Well I currently do on a regular so
25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)
-usually eat or just chill
26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?
-when she just randomly shows me her boobs honestly
27: Early morning sex or late night sex?
-Why not both?
28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex?
-It’s not a body part but when guys have good hair, that’s pretty swell
29: Favourite body part on the same sex?
-I’m usually an ass girl but Faith has just great everything so
30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:
-Yikes 😅😂 my friends already know about it so it’s not hidden 😂
31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:
-Never had any really out of the ordinary sex tbh
32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]
-Yes
33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:
-If you’re trying to get pregnant
34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:
-Ummm idk 😂
35: Worst possible time to get horny:
-When your gf is 2,000 miles away
36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?
-ABSOLUTELY 😍
37: How much fapping is too much fapping:
-When it hurts? 😂
38: Best sexual complement you ever got:
-“You’re so good” and “you taste so good”
39: Favorite foreplay activities:
-all of them
40: What do you wear to bed?
-Usually a sports bra and boxers or one of Faiths shirts
41: When was the first time you masturbated:
-Ummmmm idk honestly
42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?
-i usually delete them after I’ve sent them 😂
43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?
-I have but I don’t remember when the last time was
44: Have/would you ever have sex in public?
-I have
45: Have/would you ever had a threesome?
-Nope
46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?
-Never used random objects lmao
47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?
-Lesbian porn is so extra honestly. Like I feel like it’s always so weirdly aggressive and loud
48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not)
-YES
49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?
-OMG YES I LOVE IT
50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?
-It wouldn’t bother me, I’d feel honored I guess
51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?
-Idk stuff that’s too sticky? I’ve never used food yet so idk 😂
52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?
-Pornstar
53: Do you watch porn?
-If it pops up on my dash 😂
54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?
-Nope
55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?
-No I feel weird about it 😂
56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?
-I have a hair phobia so I wouldn’t go down but like a couple days without shaving doesn’t bother me
57: If you could give yourself head, would you?
-No
58: Booty or Boobs?
-Both
59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)
-I have not
60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do?
-Masturbate, Fuck, get a really good job, buy a really nice suit for no reason and wear it everywhere, and idk what else
61: have you ever watched someone masturbate?
-Yessss
62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate?
-Mhmmm
63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed?
-Oh all the time
64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate)
-clitoral
65. What is your bra/penis size?
-idk honestly 😂 it’s been a minute since I’ve paid any attention
66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus?
-A finger is as weird as it gets, sorry
67. When was the last time you masturbated?
-2 days ago
68. When was the last time you had sex?
-February
69. When was the last time you watched porn?
-This morning on my dash
70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do?
-I have not bought one and idk which one when I do
71. Guys:Circumsized?
-Yes
72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched?
-My shoulders and neck
73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched?
-All of them
74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation?
-No
75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr?
-Nah fam
76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream?
-I don’t remember
77. Which wet dream was your favorite?
-I don’t know
78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with?
-Nah
79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with?
-Who wouldn’t
80. Favorite sexual position?
-Usually involves her underneath me
81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?
-No
82. Are you into any BDSM?
-Lil bit
83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why?
-Hasn’t everyone?
84. Do you like dirty talk?
-Yeahhhh
85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation?
-Quiet cuz I’ve mostly had sex/masturbated in a dorm sooooo
86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what?
-Yes by my friends 🙃
87. What kind of porn do you like to watch?
-I don’t have a preference
88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them?
-Yeah. I tell Faith I get erections for her all the time
89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them?
-Yes lmao
90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them?
-I have not
91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial?
-Nope never have

anonymous asked:

Hello yes could you maybe please tag your genital piercing posts as such? I'm fine with a lot of things but I'm not so fond of close-up shots of peoples' junk all in my face. Thanks.

All genital piercing posts are tagged as #nsfw. So its very easy to block all nsfw content from this blog.

They are also all tagged with the name of the piercing; i.e. #pa, vch, triangle, frenum, etc

anonymous asked:

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but gender fluid isn't a real thing :/ you can't 'feel' boy one day and then girl on another. Though you can be feminine on a day and masculine on another. If you have female sex characteristics and no dysphoria, you are a girl. The same thing goes for guys. Yes your gender is based on your genitals, because that's science. You need dysphoria to be trans or non-binary.

I’m sorry but excuse me?
I appreciate what you’re trying to say, but I don’t know what you want me to say. I identify as what I identify as, you have no right to belittle that. How can you possibly know what I feel from day to day?