yeah u girl

someone: oh my god were you CRYING???

me, not even 4 minutes after a full on breakdown: 

seriously why people always wanna talk about how patriarchy affects men

like how do you hear something like “you throw like a girl!” and not realize that while one boy is being teased, literally the entire female sex is being told they suck at physical activity.

how can you look at that and just want to say “see! patriarchy hurts boys!!” No it doesn’t, not systemically. It tries to train them into actually being stronger than women, meaner to women. It teaches them that weak, and stupid are Girl things, and therefore all things girls do are stupid, inferior to things Boys do. How you want to look at that and say “yes, and look how that can hurt boys’ feelings!!” ???

Like no. i don’t wanna talk about boys. I don’t want to hear how their feelings got hurt when they got called a girl, as if their feelings getting hurt somehow overshadows the fact that being female is a shame, an insult, a curse. And I don’t understand why someone would want to make a boy’s feelings a priority in feminism. It’s a side effect, one that can be easily fixed if men wanted to fix it. They could start standing up for women, the women and girls in their life, they could teach their sons that women are not inferior, that the people who use ‘girl’ as an insult are in the wrong. 

But for some reason it has become feminism’s job, women’s job, to take care of boys’ and men’s feelings and comfort them. Just like always. Color me shocked.

Me: *is attracted to female idol*
Me: yea shes definitely gay.,,100%.I can feel it ⚠️⚠️beep beep gaydar is beeping…its a gift…i just know.she is a gay….superlesbo….

tbh i really dont get why we need legitimate canon ‘evidence’ to say a character is trans?? u can headcanon all u want but as soon as ur like ‘idk i think this character is trans’ theres this whole army of cis people ready to rise up like yES BUT WHAT ABOUT IN EPISODE 7 AT 26.3456654 MINUTES THAT PROVES THEYRE CIS damn son maybe i just like the idea of josh washington being a trans dude step off


queer aesthetics: harley and ivy

anonymous asked:

Any time two guys do anything friendly in media, people assume it's gay or wish it is. Even between brothers, like in supernatural, etc. This kind of thinking may contribute to men feeling unable to express intimacy with other men, for fear of being assumed gay themselves, don't You think? No-one wants to have their sexuality presumed wrong by anyone, so isn't this kind of a problem?

lmao i’m guessing my h/a/lbarry posts promoted this or whatever and honestly i don’t feel like arguing today but idk why you brought up supernatural i haven’t been in that fandom for years and i never shipped sam/dean it’s incest and it’s gross but two guys being shipped together tends to either be 1) fangirls fetishizing gay relationships which is bad and gross or 2) lgbt+ fans wanting to see more representation and reading into a relationship that probably exists as subtext or even worse queerbait. 

i’m not responsible for men feeling unable to express intimacy with other men. it’s sad men feel that way but at the end of the day that’s something they need to work out with a therapist if they truly feel that way. 

quieted now, thunder rumbles across your lips,
it tingles down your summer skin,
electric, dynamic,
how a girl with an endless sky for eyes, 
with vespers of cloud for hair 
(whip-tight, the CRACK of a stallion’s tail)
with lips sealed shut, screwed tight, locked up,
could scream, could shatter the ground
without speaking a single
—  GOD HELP THE GIRL // d.s. 

anonymous asked:

heyo!! I love your art to death ahhh it's so pretty. you're a great writer too!! I kinda want some cheezy but cute Janstar or starkie fanfiction, if you don't mind!

i’m so sorry my dude, this could’ve been cheesier amd better written but i haven’t written in like MONTHS and also i had to look up a prompt lmao but i looked it up on pinterest so ye, gotta find the link laterrrr

decided to go with starkie bc TRYING NEW THINGS SMALLY and also there’s like no starkie fanfiction?? wtf guys this ship is really good i swear

(also tysm for all the kind words!! u silly sweetheart ;3)

Jackie hadn’t been ‘lazer-tagging,’ - as she had called it as a child - in years. And oh boy did she miss it. It was the first week of summer holidays and after the horror that was finals, she decided to organise an outing between herself and her friends.

She had beamed as she’d slipped the glowing vest over her head, and ran in cackling out loud – despite the employee asking them not to run. Pfft, as if. She quickly hid and had somehow avoided being hit so far, snickering as she hid behind structures – shooting her friends when they least expected it, while remaining hidden.

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