it really makes me sick to my stomach to know some of y'all are really out here defending GROWN ASS MEN and their poorly thought out decisions, especially when it comes to hairstyles that belong to MY culture as a means to protect our hair and have a style that’s low maintenance. all y'all do is sit up and argue with us about how “the vikings ___” and reach about how it’s “the same thing as having blonde and straight hair if you’re not white”. i’m so tired of this shit. y'all need to LISTEN to us. stop talking, take in information from BLACK people, understand our frustrations, and keep your mouth shut. we don’t wanna hear it! it affects US. if you wanna be an ally, that’s coo, but stop trying to speak over us and tell us it’s not a big deal when for some of us, it absolutely is!