qwertycosmos asked:

So I hate to put you on the spot but I have to know. If drew is short for Andrew (tbh I never knew that was a thing until I followed you) is there actually people named drew that isn't short for Andrew. My distract manager is named drew. So like is his name really Andrew? Has the trust I've built with him all based on a lie?.

The old me would have assumed that all people named Drew are actually named Andrew. However, I have a cousin whose legal name is “Lexi.” Not Alexis, Alexandra, or anything like that. Her birth certificate says “Lexi.” So maybe someone’s legal name is Drew.

some people dont care if your love is a lie, and im not one of them

Ive seen love to many times to take it at face value. i want true love, that’s what i deserve, so i wont love you just because you have money. i wont love you because you care for me, because you are hot. i wont love you because you are nice to me. I’m too smart to make those stupid mistakes. I want real love, so when you say you love me, you better mean it. That goes for my family, my friends and my lovers, don’t love me and then banish me away. IF you say you will always love me, then you better mean it. You best understand what love is and how it works. Because out there some people don’t care if your love is a lie, they take it all, but i dont like watching people get hurt. So if you are going to say you love someone you better understand what that means, and how exactly it works. Because i need something more than you then cheap thrills I need the good stuff.

hope. a message for a failed relationship

i find hope in facts.

and the facts unsavory as they are is that we will love again, life gives you many opportunities to do something until you get it right.

so we will have more relationships, better relationships all in the hope that one day we will get it right.

the right person, the right things to say, thee right everything and fortunately those chances are pretty good.

so i learn from every failed relationship to better the next, i still havent gotten it right but i know one day i will and thats enough.

so cheer up and get back out there analyzing your relationship and bettering from it.

its true; everything hapens for a reason, now all you have to do is beleive it. which is the hardest part.

In the name of good, A cross of change

Religion is such a heated subject, mostly because it involves someones deepest beliefs. Most people need to believe in something to get it through life, so when someone challenges something that has given us everything we are willing to die. there is nothing wrong with willing to die for your beliefs, that is your right to do so. the problem then arises when we are willing to kill and hurt other people for our beliefs. in the name of god people hurt others to make them holy, to make them sacred. Perhaps they do things in the name of god, but in no way are these gods actions. they attempt to create a good deed, with an evil one. the truth is it doesn’t matter what someone is, or what someone does, what matters is what we do to them. Do we help them by bettering them regardless of their beliefs, do we respect there beliefs knowing that’s what they need to get through the day. Or do we hurt them using a cross as a single for change, creating religion an instrument for hate, a way of changing people against there will, instead of loving them for who they are. There is no god who ever tried to change the world in this way.

My religion:

I believe in god, even though some people tell me I am evil and a sinner.

I believe in god even though people tell me he will never love me.

I believe in god even though people tell me it is a lie, and that I am dumb.

I believe in god despite the fact he might not exist.

I believe in god despite the fact some people will hate or love me based on this fact alone, and not on who i am

I believe in god, because if there is something that gives meaning to the world(what ever it may be;man, science, reason, belief,,ect.) that helps people get through the days, that simplifies the chaos, that lets people believe in people, that helps others who would not receive help, then who am i to take that away. who am i to say it is a lie, who am i not to believe.

I believe because i believe in the cause not because i believe in the people who control it, but in the force that creates it.

love is part of the irrational element to the soul

we never end up loving the most rational choice. we always end up with an off choice, someone who on paper we would never see our selves loving. someone who others say we should not be with, and yet we see something in them, something others. we chose with our heart , not with our minds using mathematical equations and precision. we do not love out of utility, because those loves fall away once rationality is found. thus irrational love can be the only one who last for it can not be destroyed in this way, and its foundation was not built similarly. Yet irrational love has a weakness, it is a victim of its own creation, for it can be destroyed by the irrationality of rationality, what we believe is reasonable, and what we believe in the ones who tell us what is reasonable. so this type of love can endure, but will be sacrificed. love is tragedy because love is complicated.

anonymously tell me what you think about my blog

i love my blog, but i think i might want to go in a different direction

my blog is suppose to be a serious helpful/fun blog, but i think its to serious

what direction should i go?

tell me if i should change it thanks, XDinc