wow this took me forever and it looks like crap

Guys guys guys

I went to dinner with my mom last night (at a bar) where she wanted to meet up with some friends. I’m a social person and I like meeting others, but I always have to prepare myself to be misgendered and either suck it up because I’ll never see them again or go forward with trying to correct people and risking putting myself in danger.

So my mom introduced me to her friend and I shook his hand. He got all surprised and said “wow! You shake hands like a man!” And I just kinda…. “That’s because I am one”. He looked at me and I didn’t see any doubt or judgement in his face- I didn’t even see understanding. He just said “holy crap, dude, you’ve got a serious case of baby face. I bet you’re going to be carded forever.”

And that moment literally elated my soul. He legitimately took me as a cisgendered man1 a baby-faced cisgendered man. I’m so fucking happy and it totally made my night.

Ok hello wow so this took me so long and this graphic is crap. I tried really hard not to miss anybody but I may have so please check out my blogroll and look at my updates tab to see my networks as well. Anyways I think these are a great way to find new blogs so I tried to sort blogs into the fandoms they reblog as best I could, otherwise they were put in multifandom. Don’t be shy to tell me if you think I put you in the the wrong category. I’m also tagging this as a follow forever but it is more like a blogs I love. Mutuals are italicized, faves (aka ones that you should really check out) are bolded. But seriously I love you all thank you for a great year and hope the next one is even better!

Harry Potter
pranksterprongs; siriusblacklupin; malfoyficents; ronahld; wheasleys; prongsandpadfoot; maraudersmainlady; grangerbread; mxlfoy; snatchersunite; dearpadfoot; remusjohnslupin; merrygrangers; mintyprongs; darlinghogwarts; mandrakescry; spookydelacour; herhmione; dearsirius; padfhoot; hogwartschristmas; ronaldweasl-y; triwizard; purebluds; weasleychrstmas; gxnnyweasley; merrylongbottem; elderwand; malfoygrangers; merryriddle; thehorcrux; quibblrs; horcrexes; lilypottar; buckbeakisback; tomfleton; merrymarauding; catchthesnitch; hlghwarlock; hagridspumpkin

The Hunger Games
braverdeen; brookenlawrence; hijackedmockingjay; gingerbreadpeeta; controlthespark; frostyfinnck; katnisstarsjabberjais; madgesgoldpin; cinnasownmockingjay

Sherlock
thewomvn; fallforsherlock; mindpalace; sherlysinstruments; mindpalace221; mrsexhimself; sebvstianmoran; lockwatson; bbcshezza; vowofsherlock; frostyjohn; lostinsherlock; 221bsherlock; willamholmes; baskerveilles; lordcvmberbatch; getlestrade; sholtoe; vowofsherlock

Game of Thrones
sansarstarks; jonsonw; cerseylannistter; khaleesisaysdracarys

Once Upon a Time
storybrookemirror; colinodonorgasm; storybrooke; enchantedforrestt

Multifandom/Other
patronuscharm; arkenstons; gobbry; rosebelikova; perksofbeingafanboy; consultingbagginses; finnicksjingleballs; amyskhaleesi; stilinskih; ewdobby; prrims; tributesarmy; deductely; finniqe; wintrsfells; odairfrost; deadparker; halfsblood; faramihr; why-fred; thewintersoldiersbutt; qvicsilver; knargles; moriartys; hazlegrace; minigrooter; lycnnastark; thdoctordances; jingleblakes; themonsterblogofmonsters; barachiki; bellblake; bellcrkes; lovegoods; nehville