Can I have a hug? There's this guy I like and he says he likes me too but won't start a relationship with me- yet. He's so kind and helps me with problems and he makes me feel so happy but then there's moments like today when I feel like I'm an embarassment to him. I feel like some days he's stringing me a long because he says he might start someting with me one day. He doesn't always see me as a man either, like he just says 'I don't mind you in boys clothes'. Urgh, I'm all mixed up inside.
Oh wow. Ugh that’s a tough situation, and I hate to be the person who takes away the guy who makes you happy, but wow I think you deserve someone better than that.
I mean, he specifically said he won’t be in a relationship with you /yet/? That’s kinda awful and invalidates your gender.
If he wanted to try with you, he’d see you as the person you are now.
“I don’t mind you in boys clothes”- like what shit is that. If he liked you, he’d like you in anything because it’s not all about looks. It’s about who you are as a person.
I’m sorry, this got really ranty but this really annoyed me. You deserve so much better than someone who only sees you as trans and not as a guy.
Please, please feel free to message me anytime. I’m sending you all my hugs and I hope you find someone who cares for you as you are 💙💙💙