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To those of you with big hearts: you are soft and kind, and that is beautiful, but please remember that you can’t save everybody. Sometimes saving yourself is hard enough.

it’s hard to believe i’m a caregiver and i make minimum wage but people can go across the street and get paid starting at $12 an hour making fast food. like, i’m taking care of other human beings. i help them do things they can’t do anymore. i make sure they practice personal hygiene and that they eat. i comfort someone after a bad dream and hold their hand when they’re afraid of dying and their closest family is two states away. it’s discouraging sometimes.

anonymous asked:

hey what is this show with the lady and the sword?? looks really cool? Would you be willing to give a brief primer on it and should I watch it?

if you come to my blog to ask me that… you gotta be more specific  

me: hey! i struggle to open up to people a lot of the time but here’s a post about how i’m struggling to cope with trauma that i still haven’t fully uncovered and the ways it’s making my life absolutely fucking miserable

some fuck: *searches “anxiety” and skims this one post* wow i really know what this random person’s dealing with and definitely understand enough to figure it’s worth reblogging like some cheap relatable text post

reblog if u ARE the new librarian, u SUPPORT the new librarian, or u want OLD PEOPLE to get OFF FACEBOOK

All I can say is THANK YOU YOI STAFF AND KUBO SENSEI. It was a magnificent anime, a MASTERPIECE. We’ll wait for the next level ‘cause we know it’s worth it.
Like and reblog if you agree.

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Just hadn’t posted much and wanted you guys to know I was actually still drawing.
Four of these I’m planning to finish and a few are gifts. Also threw in some western AU stuff I’ve been avoiding posting because I can’t imagine anyone is interested but me and maybe Nicole.
Also, have you guys seen that dress meme? Because that’s where that Hondo came from.
Also, Sillah makes a guest appearance and she’s @nmallenart oc! The rest are Star Wars characters I’m bastardizing I’m sure but at least I’m having fun, even if it’s just mostly by myself XD

This Valentine’s Day I’d like to share a few things with you. I’m 19 years old and:

I have never had sex in my life
I have never dated anyone in real life (so not on the Internet)
I have never kissed anyone
I have never been on a date
I have never even held hands with someone romantically
I literally have never even been close to dating anyone in real life

Not because I don’t want to or because I’m picky. Because no one has ever asked me out or showed affection for me or even flirted with me. I don’t think anyone irl has ever fancied me, or if they did they never let me know in any way.

And you know what? I don’t care. I moved on from feeling abnormal and broken and not whole. I refuse to connect my value as a person to those things. I will not allow myself to think of myself as less because I have never done any of those things. Yes maybe my self-esteem still relies on my uni grades or good reviews of my works but I finally stopped thinking that there is something wrong with me for not experiencing those things.

I feel happy and whole anyway. I survived every crush who didn’t return my feelings and every instance of being attracted to someone and knowing they do not like me back. I survived and moved on.

And today I’d like you to turn to things you really value in your life. Your jobs and talents and hobbies and passions. Your family and friends and pets and even house plants. Your favorite books and bands and TV-shows and video games. Your favorite ice-cream and favorite pair of jeans and favorite plush toys.

There are so many people and things you love. There are, I hope, things that make you happy. Focus on them. And screw the society that tells you that you need relationships to know that you are loved. You are already loved. Don’t let society ever persuade you otherwise.

Old WIP of a Demmy picture. I actually finished the entire piece, but my old computer broke and it had a bunch of my psd files :/ Having trouble getting it fixed and not sure if it can be done… I’ll post my finished stuff if it works out though ; _ ; Sorry for the lack of decent art posts lately

T h a n k s ! 
for the reblogs to :
@luxlit
@vellene
@imiging
@rivermusic
@biutifulpics
@ca-admires
@ponderation
@sqn-reblogs
@renamonkalou
@gallinagomedia
@theoriginalplant
@greenreblooming 
@mistymorningme
@beautifullyframed
@mostlycatsmostly​
@photosworthseeing​
@tomsphotocollection

And all the others blogs…
(sorry if I’ve forgotten someone) 
Thanks all of you for your kind messages, 
flying hearts and comments :)