You are still a woman. You are not bad for not coming out. I love you so much and making sure you are safe, comfortable, and ready to come out is the most important thing for you to do. You don’t owe anyone but yourself anything.
I JUST SAW THIS RED ROSE TEA COMMERCIAL ON TV, AND I AM SOOO HAPPY. IT FEATURES A GIRL COMING OUT TO HER DAD AND EVERYTHING IS WONDERFUL. EVERYONE GO WATCH THIS AND GO DRINK A CUP OR TWO OF CANADIAN TEA.
I met the coolest woman the other day. This is Melissa. A woman who took over 50 years to be true to herself. I happen to crave a mimosa the other day and I happen to live right near a bar so I walked on in. Sat by myself, so did she. People were giving odd looks. She matched head to toe. Pink earrings, nails, shoes, dress, the whole nine yards. I complimented her dress and you wouldn’t believe the conversations we had after. About the gay bars in my city, political views, my past, her past, family, what made us, us. She waited until her fifties to come out as a woman. She was in the military, had a wife, kids, the macho man. She explained how over compensation was a huge thing in her life. She explain how she had lost a lot. A wife, her father, three of her kids wouldn’t talk to her. I explained how people’s initial reaction isn’t always their true feelings so give it time. She explained to me that it all just felt right. She has known for years. Her life came to a point where it was “come out or end it”. It truly saddened me. Someone who was a stranger to me but was so kind. Honestly we both just kept saying how happy we were to run into each other’s lives. I want you to all know sometimes kindness is all it takes. This woman felt out of place she said for years and me saying I liked her dress made her realize that she was more herself now than she had ever been. Please be supportive.