To all those who think Tony lives in a mess, I’m telling you he has the most organized mess you’ll ever see. He knows where his things are and that’s all that matters to the need. I know that fandom has this opinion that he would be hopeless or helpless without people reminding him to eat, reminding him of his schedule and such but again, remember that this man has an almost eidetic memory. He remembered quotes, comments, faces, tattoos - he remembers probably more than necessary at times. He just chooses what he wants to remember. And he has snacks everywhere, he makes his own smoothies, he eats when he’s hungry. He’s not helpless or unable to exist without people helping him.
i'm trans male. when i made a tumblr, i didn't tell anyone i was trans male, i was just male. i don't want people to find out i'm trans male, i want them to think of me as cis. i'm very lucky to pass very well, but i'm bothered. i have a pretty popular blog, and i worry what would happen if i'm outed as trans if i say i'm cis. is it wrong not to think of yourself or want to label yourself as a "trans boy"? is it internalized transphobia? my friends and s/o have been very understanding. (1/2)