So! I don’t know why Christians (who aren’t going to convert and/or don’t have Jewish family they’re supporting) want to attend high holidays but I’m uncomfortable. I don’t want y'all here. I especially don’t want y'all when you think it’s okay to wear crosses and Jesus shirts and be aggressively clear you’re not Jewish, you’re Christian and this is just a curiousity for you.
so I know that loads of the gay cafe discourse comes from a really gross, homophobic place, which is a real shame bc there is an important conversation to be had about creating a variety of more accessible lgbt spaces. A lot of disabled people like me find bars in general quite difficult or totally inaccessible, but still really want to feel like part of the lgbt community