without even showing too much skin

BTS reaction when their gf have a habit to putting her hands under their shirt/sleeves

anon: Hi I got a request for you, how would they react to gf have a habit of putting her hand up his shirt/sleeves in a non-sexual manner but as an act of intimacy and closeness

I hope you enjoy your request! ♥


Originally posted by eatkookiie

please ignore this cute fan which is 1000% right

Jin would be okay with that but only when you two are alone. He’s confident abt his look and your habit assurance him in this mind (beacause if I’m not handsome she doesn’t want to touch me, right?). But it take him some time to inure with this. Still when he starts to feeling your cold hand on his chest he can get surprised.

“Maybe I will warm up your hands and then you will back to touching your perfect boy?”


Originally posted by yoonmin

Yoongi have the most soft looking skin in Bangtan so touching him can give you two times more joy. He doesn’t mind it. He would enjoy it but secretly without telling you about that. Maybe sometimes he can tease you but not too much. Yoongi can tell you to touch his arm not a belly around others or even when you two were alone. But if he was working in studio he can tell you to stop doing this. He would love this look on your face of happines when you get to touch his skin.

“If this make you happy just go on but it tickles. You’re such a wierdo Y/N”


Originally posted by hobisu

Fanboing. It’s what he would do when you show your habit for the first time. Touching him is a sign of affection and it makes him happy. He thinks that it’s really cute habit. When you and the boys were watching movie and -without knowing abt this- you started to reaching for his abs, he would smile and kiss your forehead thinking how lucky he is to have you.

“Y/N, you’re cute. I love you and all your strange habits”


Originally posted by rapfluff

Loving it. Enjoying even more then loving. I feel like he isn’t confident abt his look and your habit can make him more self-confident. Namjoon thought it is cute. When you can’t put up his sleeve he would help you with a smile on his face and lauging abt how desperate you look to touch him.

“Let me help you. You could'vesaid what you wanted to doo~”


Originally posted by itschiminie

Mochi can get shy when you touch his abs around boys and maybe ask you to start touching his arm or wrist. He doesn’t want to boys tease you two abt your habit. But after few times he wouldn’t mind it (but still of boys’re around better don’t do this). It can be really realxing habit of yours for him after busy schedule and tiring practice.

“You don’t even know how your touch effect on me. Like you make me realxed and healthy and give me feeling that someone really loves me”


Originally posted by jeonthegreat

There he is. One and only one Tae which will tease you and laugh pretending that your touch tickles him. Gets shy but not acting like this too much. If you touch him around boys, he can say something like “Look. My lovely girl can’t hold back her hands to touch me” and starts to make some fun of you with others. But the feeling of your hand on his skin~~ When he is sad or just wanted to do this- he can take your hand and put it under his shirt or sleeves.

“I think that your habit is cute. And it was too long ago when you last time touching me. Soo now you can,Y/N” - and this representative smile


Originally posted by hohbi

Second one which can tease you. Like “I know that I’m golden maknae and every one want to touch me”. He is international playboy, you know. But it was only to blind you mind. In his head was so many minds. What should I do? Push her away? Maybe start teasing her? FUCK! NAMJOON HYUNG HELP ME! He would act like he doesn’t see this habit but he really enjoy this and always waiting for this habit to show.

“I think that your habit is some kind of serious illness. What should I do with you, Y/N?” -smile and hug because he know you love it and doesn’t be angry at him after this.

7thsinner-deactivated20170515  asked:

May I have headcanons for the Main 4 + Asgore and Mettaton about having an S/O who's generally reserved and struggles to show affection?

same!!!! - M.M.


S’fine with him. If you’re not the touchy type, then he’s not the touching type. Not like it’s too much skin off his back. He doesn’t really need (or want) physical validation in your relationship–just being near you, being able to talk with you, that sort of thing, is fine for him.


He doesn’t really? Get it?? But then again, this is Papyrus “No Personal Bubble” the Skeleton. He usually just ends up dragging you into physically affectionate scenarios without even realizing it, though he does immediately let you go & apologize for it. He knows he’s probably not going to get any “showers of kisses” from you any time soon, but. At the very least, though…could you maybe…hold his hand…? Just for a little while??


She’s okay with it, at first. But after a while, she gets fed up. Listen punk!! She likes you a lot & she wants to hold your hand & kiss you & hug you & all that sappy, dumb stuff so you’ve gotta!! Just!!! Get over it!!!! It’s more or less a spur of the moment, “all of this was bottled up for a long time” type spiel she gives you, but after she finally cools down she really tries to find a middle ground with you. She doesn’t want to push your boundaries, but she does want to show some physical affection towards you.


O-Oh! That’s okay!! She…she kinda gets it?? Not that she’s really reserved herself, she’s just kind of anxious when it comes to that sort of thing. But now & then, despite the fact that she tells herself it’s okay that you don’t like touching or being touched, she’ll find herself really, really wanting to hold your hand.


Ah. That’s…a bit of a relief, really. He’s still so shy about actually touching others, that having someone who prefers their space gives him the time he needs to warm up to the idea, & when he does, he seriously talks it over with you. He wants to find a ground where you can both be comfortable with how far you can take things, little by little.


He’s a little dissapointed, really. He loves to touch you, throw his arm around your waist, wind his fingers in your hair, all sorts of stuff. He’s kind of similar to Papyrus in that he’ll just do it without realizing, but he usually won’t let you go until you ask him to. He kind of sees it like “getting you out of your comfort zone” but he knows what limits you have, & makes sure not to push them too far.

HyunA shares how people reacted when she tried to be sexy without showing skin

HyunA says she tried to be sexy without revealing too much skin.

During a recent interview with Biz Enter, HyunA was asked if she ever thought about appealing her sexiness without showing any skin.

She responded, “I already tried. But people were saying that they didn’t understand why I’m dressed so hot.”

HyunA explained, “During promotions for ’Volume Up’, I went for a female warrior concept so wore a long sleeve top, pants, and even a skirt over that. The reactions were that I looked too hot. So I realized then that not everyone can have the same perspectives. And that’s also when I wanted to have a generous mind that can accept different opinions.”

Lastly, she stated that wanting to change perspectives and trying to prove that she can be sexy without showing too much skin felt like she’s starting a fight with the public.

cr: allkpop

late night thoughts

pull her in close, kiss her, hug her, tell her you love her. even if she says it’s too hot to cuddle at that moment and later falls asleep during a show, wrap your arms around her pull her in and feel her skin pressed against yours. tell her you love her, kiss her and hold her, even if she fast asleep doesn’t do it back, still do it every single night. because you don’t know when you’ll no longer be able to touch her, hold her, kiss her, and tell her goodnight and you love her. don’t allow a second to past by without letting her know how much you love her asleep or not, you are still the most beautiful sight I have ever seen and I have loved you since the moment I laid eyes on you and I will continue to love you unconditionally until the day I die.

We Used To Be

Fandom: Legends of Tomorrow

Pairing: Len x Reader

Word Count: 1231

Warnings:  Suggested sex, some threatening, minor abusive boyfriend

Summary: Len sees you in a hotel bar and you give him a flashback to high school, then your rather asshole boyfriend comes and Len can’t let him have you

Originally posted by captaincanarylegendsoftomorrow

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Supercorp-Marriage Marks

Tattoos and Kryptonians-Supercorp

Okay imagine that Lena and Kara have been dating for a few months now and Kara only recently told Lena that she’s Supergirl. Of course, Lena already knew about it because Kara is just too obvious about it and Lena is just too much of a genius not to know. Lena gets a small Supergirl tattoo one day(because LOVE AND DEDICATION AND some OTHER REASONS) and Kara notices it when she stops by L-Corp with some food for their usual lunch date. Lena’s just being so casual and showing off but Kara is a fumbling mess because traditionally, Kryptonians use markings to solidify a marriage bond between bondmates. Also even without a formal ceremony, having one’s house crest marked on the skin of a significant other is already binding enough to be considered a legal sort of elopement. Basically, Lena just ignorantly married them and Kara is internally freaking out on how to tell this to Lena.

He Feels Bad in the A.M. - CTH

Hell yes. I can most definitely do this.

So basically, as of right now, I don’t have a “set up” for my imagines.. so this may look like I’m all over the place but I swear to Calum’s Indian tattoo, I am very organized.

Request: Yes! [Requests are also open!]
-Okay I just lost the request for it, but it had to do with having rough sex with Calum and he hurts her in some sort of way that she is in too much pain to go to school to following day and he feels bad.


As any other night, Y/N was expecting Calum to come home -shut the door softly as he always did in case Y/N was sleeping- kick his shoes off, throw his jacket on one of the chairs, grab a beer and go straight to the couch. She expected to hear the TV turn on, as he would always turn it, just waiting for Y/N to come downstairs to join him. Last night was a little different. Instead, he came in, the door slamming behind him, causing Y/N to jump a little but realizing he was probably in a grumpy mood and just needed to be alone for a little bit. However, instead, Calum was on his way upstairs; Not only was his shoes kicked off his feet, and his jacket thrown on the couch, but his shirt was peeled off, now laying on the hallways floor, and he was starting to unzip his pants. As she heard him come for the room she tried to ignore him as she put her nose back in her notes. Y/N was surprised when she felt his warm lips on her neck, sucking on the skin harshly as he noticed she wasn’t giving in. “Baby, please, I need you so bad.” He whined in her ear, moving the chair she was sitting in  so he could pick her up. He wrapped her legs around his body and brought her towards the bed, his pleading voice not matching the lust, mixed with anger in his eyes. Y/N knew that look, and she knew she was in for it. 


Don’t get Y/N wrong, sex with Calum was great. Hell, she loved it when he was rough. If anything, she had to admit that rough sex with his was the best. However, last night, he was rougher than ever and the marks on her skin, and her inability to walk comfortably showed it. Y/N woke up much earlier than Calum, expecting to go to her morning classes but realizing she was in too much pain to even walk. Slipping on his shirt that thankfully covered the bruises he unintentionally left on her hips and sides from gripping them too hard. As she walked downstairs she barely took a step without wincing, but tried to suck it up. Giving up, Y/N, went to lay down on the couch, hearing Calum slowly make his way down the stairs.

“Good morning, baby girl. Aren’t you supposed to be at you class or something?” He asked tiredly, making his way over to her. He bent down, kissing her forehead.

“I didn’t feel too good.” She told him, not a lie but not the entire truth. For a split second, she forgot about the bruises on her hips and sides as she allowed him to rub her stomach, causing her to wince slightly.

“Baby, let me see.” He insisted, starting to push the shirt up. Before she could push it back down, he had already saw some of the bruising. He pulled up the shirt to about mid stomach, staring at the bruises he left. “Why didn’t you tell me I was hurting you?” He asked, his voice barely above a whisper. You stayed quiet. “Damn it, Y/N! I hurt you and you let me!” He yelled, causing you to jump a little.

“Calum, last night didn’t hurt, if anything it was pleasurable. It didn’t feel like you were hurting me.” She tried to make him feel better. “It just hurts now.” She sighed.

“I hurt you. One of the first things I ever told you was I would never hurt you.” Calum said, his eyes still fixed on the black and blues. “I’m so sorry, baby girl. God, I’m sorry.” He kept repeating, leaning down to kiss over them. “Baby, I’m sorry. I love you, and please tell me if I hurt you.” He whispers.


so this probably highkey sucked ass but I also haven’t written anything in months so pls don’t judge!



T.O.P for Arena Homme+ Magazine Interview Translations.

*Thank you so much Dana for the full translations! @bigbanggisvip & scans by Jacly, @shrimpljy! The two translators of Bigbang! ^^

Boom. One man stands in front of the camera. He’s chatting as he is touching the back of his hair that grew out behind his ears. It’s Choi Seung Hyun. Now that name is as familiar as the name TOP. He has already filmed 3 movies. He poses with his hands and feet towards the camera. He relaxes his shoulders and takes over the space. The yellow sunglasses look like it is a part of his body. He was not like this in the editor’s memory. It was when he was shooting for the cover of a movie magazine with his movie, . He looked a bit stiff. His piercing eyes were as sharp as an arrowhead, but his body was hardened like a stick. It was understandable. Since it was his first movie and he had to be shoulder-to-shoulder with some big actors. However, he existed in his own way, apart from them. TOP, who came down from the stage, looked like that. Like an awkward fish that just got out of the water. Of course, this is about his past. Now, he has gotten used to the environment to the point he can freely move out of the water. At least it looked like it. In an evolutionary point of view, he is very successful. Because he has survived the sudden environmental change called .

Q: You were very worried about looking too cheesy while shooting. Why is that so…
TOP: We decided to make the retro concept photoshoot more fun by putting long hair extensions on me. I always usually wore a suit during photoshoots. Since I’m trying to show my new side with this long hair, retro-style clothes, and manly faces, it’s very easy to look cheesy. So I was worried.

Q: Looking at the results, do you think they came out okay?
TOP: I think it contains various new sides of me. I don’t try new concepts very often because I want to save them. If I show too much, I could run out of it. I always save some concepts to increase the freshness of them. But I tried to unleash those concepts through . The character in this movie is very different from the characters that I have acted out before, so I was more eager to show the new sides of me. And I also thought that I should show some new stuff since I’m having a photoshoot
for the first time in a while.

Q: Watching you during the photoshoot was something new. You looked a lot more relaxed than you looked when you were promoting a while ago.
TOP: I’ve become too relaxed now that it’s becoming a problem, haha. I fundamentally like doing photoshoots and I enjoy them. The pictures come out better when I enjoy it. I follow the given concept, but I learned how to show a more sophisticated side of me in that given concept. You have to be greedy to get good results. I actually keep my guard up to avoid getting lazy. Because if I get lazy, new things won’t be made. I always hide my cards and stay ready.

Q: Your new movie is exactly like that. It’s like you’re showing us the cards that you’ve been hiding!
TOP: When I was getting interviewed about , I said that this will be the last movie to show my character and that I will be choosing a shocking, unexpected character for the next movie. While looking for it, I encountered but, I hesitated at first. Because I could be harshly criticized by the manias(fans) of the original comic series. But now, I don’t gravitate towards things that don’t stimulate something in me. Even though I knew that it’ll be hard, I still wanted to challenge myself. I continuously tried to draw out the sides of me that I didn’t have while filming.

Q: Daily life, delicate emotions between sexes, fights in the gambling world, humanity, etc. You had to show a wide range of things while acting. It’s completely different from your previous roles that were just mostly emotional.
TOP: Even from the moment I saw the scenario of the movie, I thought that I wouldn’t be able to do this movie without taking off a few layers of me. And because of that, I had to fight with myself a lot. If I try too hard to draw something out that I don’t have in me, the audiences will think, ‘Uh? Why is that person doing that?’ and think that I’m trying too hard, so it’ll be hard for them to focus on the movie. You must never let the audience see that. The night before we started filming, I was very troubled, thinking about that. How could I express my character more exclusively without making it banal? I thought about that a lot. I didn’t really want to draw a line to indicate how far to go, but I just wanted to take off all the layers of me.

Q: Do you like gambling?
TOP: I just don’t play games at all, including cards. I’ve never even played any electronic games since I was little. I have a serious desire to win, so I feel like I’ll see the end of it once I start. I always keep that in mind, and never play games. I practiced Hwatu very hard this time, but I have decided that I will only like it for acting purposes. I promised myself that no matter how good I get at it, I will not play Hwatu. Haha.

Q: So you don’t want to do it at all cause you get furious when you lose, right? I understand what you mean.
TOP: That’s right. I will even bet my life over it. Haha.

Q: Actually, your movie this time is like a gamble as well.
TOP: I thought that this movie will definitely be a nice growing period for me. Since I had to act out the sides of me that I’ve never shown before or didn’t exist at all, I knew that I was taking a huge risk. But because I knew that it was risky, I gravitated more towards it. Now I don’t gravitate towards things that aren’t risky.

Q: Now that you’ve finished filming the movie, in what way did you grow?
TOP: Honestly, I’m not sure about the appropriateness level here. Haha. As I was filming, I tried to catch all the unique features of each actors, and I was sure that I could show what I learned in the next movie. I gained a little more confidence in a good way. They say that when you work with someone, you can see the spectrum of the life they’ve lived. Through this experience, I could see their spectrum to a certain degree, and I received a lot of good energy.

Q: Since so many famous senior actors were in the movie, were you intimidated at first?
TOP: I actually gained more confidence. Through this movie, I met some deft, amazing people and that stimulated a desire to win inside of me, so I received good vibes from them. They say that there’s a war of nerves between actors during filming, and singers on the stage. But I’m not good at doing something like that. In contrast, I try to feel the good vibe of other people. I try to receive good, powerful vibes and return it to them. I did that a lot while filming this movie.

Q: is a movie for Korean Thanksgiving. When they say “A movie for Korean Thanksgiving”, that means that it’s highly anticipated. It must be a different feeling being in a movie like this.
TOP: I never actually thought about that. It still doesn’t feel real to hear things like “A movie for Korean Thanksgiving” or “Highly-anticipated film”. The movie itself was a burden to me, so I did not have the energy to think about that. Because I already knew that it was highly risky. Ham Daegil was a character from Mr. Heo Young Man’s series that was read and loved by many of the senior generations. I thought and thought about how I could make the character more interesting. I still feel like I was a “substitute” of Daegil that was created by Director Kang Hyung Cheol and Mr. Heo Young Man.

Q: Despite all those burden, you must feel a lot more relaxed now that you’re done filming.
TOP: Not really. My face is breaking out pretty bad right now. I usually don’t really get pimples. I was shocked when I looked at my face in the photo taken during the photoshoot. The moment before a movie’s release or an album’s release is when my skin is at its worst state. Finishing something and waiting to present it to people is the most anxious moment in the world. It’s very nerve-wrecking, and I become more sensitive. I get nervous, and I can’t sleep. So I drink a lot by myself. Right now is the most anxious time for me. Because it’s a movie that I poured out all my energy and emotions into, plus a year of my life.

Q: There’s some ‘sexuality’ in the original comics. You probably had to act that out too, and weren’t you worried as an idol?

TOP: There was never a time when I said, “I can’t do this.” The director also doesn’t really like to show things explicitly. I think he thought that since the story is already very explicit, it would make the original series ‘not-so-classy’ if we were to film it explicitly. But there are some intense scenes too. I filmed a scene where all the actors were naked, I filmed a bed scene, and I also filmed only in my underwear for the first time since I was born. Even though I’m someone that doesn’t even wear short sleeve shirts…

Q: Did you feel a sense of freedom after doing that?

TOP: No, I was so nervous. But I couldn’t even let it show. If I tense up, all the other staffs and seniors would feel that negative vibe too and feel nervous. On the outside, I acted like I was fine, but I was actually very nervous. Just like what I said, I really hate showing skin. I don’t even wear short sleeve T-shirts in the summer. But when I filmed (without clothes on), there weren’t that many thoughts in my head. Haha. Maybe this will be my first and last movie with such exposing scenes.

Q: Why are you talking so conclusively like that
TOP: There is a reason why I decided to show skin in the movie. For example, in an action movie like , it would have been too much if there was a scene where they showed muscles to look cool. People might say, ‘Is he taking his clothes off to look cool in the movie?’ But in the movie, , they didn’t control the lighting to make my body look cool, it wasn’t that type of a scene. As I read the scenario, I thought that ‘the more clothes I take off, the more fun it adds
to the story’. I thought that taking the clothes off makes the movie’s plot more interesting.

Q: True. The scene where you guys play Hwatu naked symbolizes the theme of greed and doubt.
TOP: Because I felt that would be important, I gained the courage to willingly take my clothes off. Hmm.. Looking back at what I said, I feel like I talked like an actress. Haha.

Q: Haha. So you’re more focused on the character rather than the scene?
TOP: I don’t think I’ll take my clothes off if it doesn’t seem essential to the narrative of the movie. I felt that even more through this movie. I think I hate it(exposing skin) psychotically. I always wear long sleeves at home. I hate it when my skin touches objects. It’s been over 10 years since the last time I wore shorts. I wouldn’t say that I’m sensitive; I’m just very shy. To me, “showing skin” is a very embarrassing/shy act. When I was filming (the bed scene), I asked the director, “Do you want to take my underwear off too?” Haha. I thought there would be no difference in wearing underwear and not wearing underwear since I already showed my skin. Haha. It was fun though. Experiencing something like this in my life time.

Q: There are a lot of worries about the movie … Like some comments.
TOP: I read them but I don’t get hurt by them. Even when Bigbang released albums, there has always been hateful comments. But afterwards, I learned that people’s thoughts change over time. It’s also pretty interesting to watch that change. And I feel like I don’t have that many ‘anti’ fans up to now. Haha. Ah, this time, (while I was reading the comments) I did see that people were criticizing me for something that I’ve never been criticized for before. Haha.

Q: Musician and Actor. I think you have a good balance between the two. You’re not leaning towards one, and you’re not doing too much either.
TOP: My main profession is a musician, but I try to find a balance
between the two. I think it’s been about 8 years since I first appeared in a drama. I think I’m someone who carefully goes ‘all-in’ in one specific thing. Not someone who tries a lot of things and finds one thing. I’m the type to put a lot of effort into something and prepare heartily and sincerely one by one. So I think that I am capable of achieving that balance.

Q: The circumstances that allow you to do that must be very nice.
TOP: Well, not necessarily. I know that I should be working more at this time, but I’m the type that can’t easily put something into action. I feel like I’m always saving things. Even when I’m acting, I still sometimes watch music shows. And I watch what people these days do. I don’t really like to jump in, and I really hate showing weaknesses, so I don’t try to get involved in or jump into something that I don’t feel the need to.

Q: Because there’s a risk of losing even though you’re skilled?
TOP: I meant the exact opposite of that. I don’t really want to do things when there aren’t any “strong” ones in the field. Hmm.. Am I being too honest here? Haha. It’s my first time doing an interview in a while… So yeah, I’m someone who makes a move when I feel something stimulating inside me. I slowly became more like that. The fact that there’s a lot of risk in the movie, stimulated me even more. That made me gravitate towards the movie more.

Q: Because it’s a “High-risk, High-return” movie.
TOP: I’m still not sure about what I can get in return from the movie. Compared to the risk I’m taking, I actually don’t think that I’ll be gaining something big from it. If I don’t do well enough to deserve an applause from everyone, this is certainly a risky movie. I know well that the original series was a piece loved by a lot of people. But I still wanted to challenge myself.

Q: As I was listening to you, I noticed that you work very hard.
TOP: I try not to get lazy. Since I’m still young, I try to work while looking at the future. If I don’t take risks and try new things now, I feel like I’ll be an old-fashioned person in 10, 20, 30 years. Even if you fail, if you always look for something new, wouldn’t you be someone who can set the trend even when time passes? If one always takes the safe road without any risks, he will have no change in his life. People will certainly get sick of that person.

Q: Because it’s easy to run out of ‘change’. In that aspect, it seems like your strategy to not show yourself often because of that is not that bad.
TOP: But it’s not a very practical strategy for these days. I don’t show myself a lot also because there’s nothing to show off about me. If I was a highly confident person, I would take ‘selcas’ and post them. But I’m too strict to myself to do that. My problem is that I’m too thoughtful.

Q: You have to be thoughtful to avoid encountering external dangers. If you show/expose too much, it could make risks.
TOP: I never do anything that would lead to dangerous situations. When I rest, I seriously just stay at home. If I could have 2 weeks off to rest, I will not come outside of my house for 2 weeks. Even when I meet with my friends, I bring them to my house and drink wine together. I try not to make mistakes any where. I know that I’m like a loose cannon that is unpredictable, so I try to restrain myself even more. Haha.

Q: It must be difficult to wait.
TOP: There’s an expression, “showed all the cards one had” (meaning that one showed everything about oneself). I always have conviction that I have some cards left unused. I always try to save them. As a public artist, I can picture what I should do at this time. Because of that, I’m not anxious or anything. There are still so many things that I can show. Even with music. That’s also the reason why I have never released a solo album, even though the group, Bigbang, has been around for almost 10 years. But of course, that wasn’t the only reason - I did miss the timing to
release it since I had to promote as an actor and as Bigbang. So I am gradually collecting more cards now. And I’m also saving some songs that I have worked on.

Q: So you’re calculatingly planning to release the cards when you need them?
TOP: I’m not calculative. I’m actually a very emotional person. Honestly, I think I’m more of a coward. Since I am an emotional coward that can’t live a calculative/premeditated life, I always try to hide. I also feel like I lack some confidence inside me. Gradually, I will wait and show more things to people when I get stronger. If I were to calculate my talents and skills in percents, what I showed up to now is merely 5% of what I have in me. I know that for sure.

Q: Are you waiting for the moment of explosion after boiling up?
TOP: I like being patient. I’m actually a very enthusiastic person. But as I suppress that enthusiasm, I feel a sense of catharsis. Sometimes when I look at some people, I feel that they don’t have anything left in them because they showed too much. You can tell if you work in the same field. But I’ve always resisted those things. Even when people around me tell me to do more and try to stimulate me, I restrain myself even more. I want to show more of myself when I become more “full”.

anonymous asked:

is there a reason why people want unknowns route so bad though?? i just finished yoosung good end and i wanna beat him tf up with a stick after what he said to seven Plus he doesnt even know how to correctly wear a jacket

Idk about others but i’m a slut for characters like Saeran. Even if he’s someone ppl wanna beat tf up 8^D

WELL he gotta show his stupid ass mint eye tattoo somehow without exposing too much skin and freezing y’know? Bad Boi dressing code #34

Nexus Modder Spotlight - CaffeinePainter

As you know, the Word of Mod prefers to reblog rather than post links to mods, because the modder deserves all the loves and reblogs. However, there are those modders who either 1) do not have a Tumblr or 2) we don’t know about their Tumblr. Several of these modders have released mods that show up in the various Compendiums, but haven’t otherwise been highlighted.

Thus, a new series is born!

The first Spotlight will be for Nexus modder CaffeinePainter, who at this moment has ten mods currently available on the DAI Nexus. The Word of Mod highly recommends you check out their excellent work!

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anonymous asked:

whenever I get close a guy who I really like & it's going great suddenly it's like "nope I'm ignoring you" or "I'm just never gonna speak to you again" what am I supposed to do? Id happily admit I'm a hopeless romantic. Relationships make me happier. But it's all well and good saying "you don't need a man. Be happy in yourself before being with a guy" I'm sorry but that's bullshit. What can I do to seem more confident/attractive/fun/wanted around guys? Please help. I feel so lost & unwanted😔

Very well, I’ll give you the skeleton key to get into any man’s heart (single or relationship). Get your hair done, get your nails done, and remember you are the sexiest human living. You don’t have to be but you have to believe you are. Eventually others will believe it by how you begin to carry yourself. There can be no day where you don’t try to look your best. The tighter the clothing the better. It’s showing without showing. Don’t wear clothing that shows too much skin. Because if you show to much skin you look like a try hard. 75/25. 75 percent must be covered 25 percent must be skin. When you assert yourself onto a man shower him with compliments. Tell him how he’s different from all the other guys. Praise him about his talents. Let him know that he’s sexy as hell. Guys are weak against being praised. They senselessly equate praise with love. Thus even if he’s in a committed relationship he will favor you if she’s not doing the same. Call him “babe or hun” right off the back. This is to get him used to the idea of you and him. As soon as you say these words he will think about being with you. Why? Those are intimate words you’re throwing around. Basically if you do all these things just about any guy will sleep with you. If you’re striving for a relationship you must focus on his personality and making him your “hero”. Take interest in his hobbies (this will be painfully boring most likely). Ask him questions pertaining to his hobby–this shows you’re interested in him. Ask him about his past. Tell him to tell you situations in which he struggled. Once he does praise him for his strength and tell him that you wish you had his strength. Tell him you look at him differently–you see him as a strong man. No matter how many girls he’s talking to he will focus on you because nobody will take the time to focus on him and his hobbies (because it’s probably boring). Another girl may look better than you but she is not his fan and number one admirer like you are. If you are these two things you will take any man’s heart–REGARDLESS OF HIS RELATIONSHIP STATUS. The bottom line is a man wants to be seen as his girl’s hero and he wants to be appreciated. When you’re with him tease him sexually but never give up the pussy. “TELL HIM” when is he going to make you his girlfriend. When talking about this jokingly say, “you’d be crazy to not make me your girlfriend. I always give bj’s and I’m nasty as hell. But I’m only nasty for the right one.” He would be a fool not to make you his girlfriend at this point. If he doesn’t he will revert back to being Clark Kent after you made him a Superman. He will find you because he will want to feel like Superman again. This is how you can fuck and cuff virtually any man.

anonymous asked:

I'm looking for a prom dress too, but I have to find one that's quite modest. Is it possible to find one that's still quirky and interesting? Thank you!

i can sure try! what do you think of these options?

lemonweddingdress: all KINDS of prom wear, including these modest ones

  • long lace cap-sleeved gown, shown in black but available in many colors
  • this purple lace one has a covered neck and chest but a slightly open back on top, so it’s pretty and elegant but not trashy
  • sweetheart floor-length colorblocked dress (custom colors available) - strapless but still fun and young
  • short yet covered-up ruched cocktail dress
  • and i can’t get over this reem acra-inspired cap-sleeved chiffon stunner

michyloudotcom: retro-style clothing and accessories

  • 50s rockabilly-style frock - available with a ton of customization - this would be flattering on a lot of body types, too
  • they also have a FAB hepburn-inspired cut dress - check it out

leelach: specializes in modest fashions

  • sleeved black dress with a funky gold print & attractive pleating
  • greek-inspired party dress with amazing glimmery shoulder accents

fitdesign: another formalwear behemoth

  • this short option features intricate lace overlays in front and back, plus a higher neckline and a cutout rear view
  • another shortie, but with FULL sleeves
  • elegant and feminine, the black lace on this one still adds some sexiness without looking too edgy and showing too much skin
  • this deep eggplant dress has a slight v in front and back, making it perfect for a statement necklace – or backlace!

and some more one-off options:

  • covered-up navy sequin dress with circle cut-out back
  • long-sleeved, draped & clingy wine-red gown
  • classy long evening gown with sheer covered v in front
  • long custom prom dress with sequined tee top and tulle skirt
  • hot yet demure lacy gown - maybe a color other than red would look sweeter and more modest?

are these kind of the style you were hoping for? if not, let me know so i can keep looking around for you!



I’ve tried literally fucking e v e r y t h i n g and now my last resort is accutane so a) wish me luck getting it because it’s really hard to find a derm I can see with my insurance during the week when I don’t have classes and b) wish me luck being on it if I can start taking it (hopefully asap)

I’m so insecure about my acne. It’s been cystic before and was worse and then got a little bit better after I started the pill but it never got totally better. Now it’s starting to get bad again and I’m afraid it’s going to start getting cystic again. Everyone around me has beautiful, clear skin and can wear makeup and such and even go to bed without washing their faces…Here I am taking excellent care of my body in terms of my skin, cleaning it enough but not too much, keeping in moisturized, watching the products I use…I take such good care of my skin but it doesn’t reflect that at all. It doesn’t feel fair at all but it’s all hormonal (you can see that too definitely in the location near the chin/cheeks where it shows up, telltale sign it’s only hormonal), and I have such wonderful soft, hydrated, clear skin e v e r y w h e r e else on my body except my face. 

Also, not to mention: if not to make my insecurities worse…ALL my relatives say to me is how bad my skin is. Without me asking for their fucking opinion or anything. They just assume it’s okay to comment on my acne. My half-sister even edited my face in her holiday pictures this year so that my acne wouldn’t show up in her pictures!! (And didn’t ask me first or afterwards about it just posted them and I found out myself). How rude and mean!! Like I fucking know my skin is bad and makes me ugly as fuck I’m not blind so go fuck yourself!!

Anyways…TLDR, if you have nice skin, please be thankful and take good care of it!! Also wish me luck please, send me good vibes, I honestly have prayed for clear skin. It’s been years now and I am so done. I just want to be comfortable with the face I have, both physically and psychologically (if acne wasn’t bad enough on the mind and for the self-image, imagine how fucking BAD it actually HURTS too on your face if you’ve never had bad acne!!) 

And if you tend to avoid people because of their acne or acne scars then please be more conscious of it. I really do believe having acne has really shot down any chance of me being asked out/flirted with tbh lol. People with acne or acne scars are just as beautiful and healthy if not even MORE healthy than people with absolutely perfect clear skin! Acne =/= bad health, bad hygiene, bad diet, unattractiveness, laziness, ugliness, apathy about one’s appearance, uncleanliness, etc in any way! 

Thank you for reading this rant, spread the love for body positivity in people who have acne problems! xx


Exo reaction when the see you binding with ace bandages

Thank you so much for the request I hope you like it <3

Xiumin: *He’d try to stop you using them and would tell you to embrace who you are and to not resort to ace bands to make you feel better about yourself*

Lay: *He’d be a little hurt that you felt this way and he’d help you to feel better and would encourage you to be yourself and to not used your ace bands*

Kai: *He’d snatch the band out of your hands and would continuously tell you that you’re beautiful and you didn’t need any of this and you should just feel beautiful as you are*

Suho:*He’d be a little worried as he knows the dangers that could come with binding and so he’d try his hardest to make you see sense and stop using them*

Kyungsoo: *He’d feel like you were getting a little worked up from having to put on an ace band all the time so he’d sit you down and tell you seriously that you didn’t need them and you were so much happier before you found out about them*

Tao: *He’d show you that you can get your ‘ideal body’ without the use of ace bands and would always cheer you on when you used natural ways to your ‘ideal body’*

Chen: *He’d boost your confidence in yourself by saying that he has been trying to look better himself as he feels you’re too beautiful for him and that you’re a natural beauty who doesn’t need ace bands*

Kris: *His soft side would start to show which would show how sincere he was being when he told you that you looked amazing without the bands and that you should feel comfortable in your own skin*

Chanyeol: *He’d understand why you thought you needed your ace bands but he’d dedicate so much of his time to telling you that you seriously didn’t need them and he’d spread his happy virus onto you*

Baekhyun: *He’d explain to you that even though binding will give you your so called ‘ideal body’ for a while there will be not benefit to it what so ever*

Luhan: *He’d try to distract you from the ace bands and would try to get you into the habit of not using them*

Sehun: *After finding out you were using them he’d plan to hide them or burn them so you could never use them again and he’d make sure that you ended up feeling comfortable with yourself*


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Boundaries: what does it mean to be, ‘involved’?  And why, ‘we can’t both stare’.

In TSoT Mycroft disscuses with Sherlock the issue that he’s, ‘involved’, in John’s life.  The simplest reading of this is that he cares.  He’s allowed himself to care.  Allowing yourself to care isn’t just about the feeling that you love someone or that you wish them well, it’s also about intimacy: the intimacy of dropping your boundaries around them.

During the pregnancy deduction on the dance floor, we see Sherlock at his most intimate and vulnerable.  This is when John and himself look at each other, ironically, in the most intimate and meaningful way that we’ve ever seen.  Amongst the flashing lights, it’s all laid bare: Sherlock has him deep in his heart, so deep that he’s happy for him that he’s with someone else.  So deep that his love has become entirely selfless, in that moment, he only cares about John.  About his happiness, about his future.  

As this moment draws to a close we see Sherlock look pensive and realise that’s what Mycroft meant when he said, ‘involved’.  It wasn’t just about feelings, it wasn’t just about being in John’s life, it was about vulnerability, it was about having no walls up around someone.  Immediately after this realisation we see Sherlock, ‘pull himself together’, and say, ‘dance!’, separating himself from John and Mary.  They have all just shared a very intimate moment and for the first time, ever, Sherlock has realised, truly realised his place in that triangle.  

It may seem odd that Mary says, ‘what about you?’, right then, but really it’s not.  They are three friends, on a happy occasion, who’ve just shared an intimate moment together, what’s the reason for John and Mary to suddenly saunter off and dance without him?  If we observe the dance floor, the ratio of couples dancing together to groups of friends dancing together is pretty even; there are even some guests doing a conga line.  In fact, the first people on the dance floor are three girls all holding hands.  Three friends, dancing.  Why does John and Mary’s, ‘coupledom’, mean so much, all of a sudden?  Because Sherlock has realised what he’s been doing since he met John: he’s let him into to his heart and enjoyed being close to him, without ever really considering what they are to each other.

John, feeling the melancholy of this final intimacy, responds to Sherlock’s cue seamlessly: ‘we can’t all three dance’.  Ironically, even at this time of departure, they are on the same page.  John needs this boundary, right then, as much as Sherlock does.  He cannot dance casually in a group with his wife and best friend, simply because he’s just truly been hit with the weight of how much Sherlock’s not really his, ‘mate’, after all.  In both senses of the word.  He’s not his friend and he’s not his boyfriend.  And for the first time ever, that really hurts.  That ambiguity, in which they’ve lived since the beginning, is no longer tenable.

This is why in HLV Sherlock is so different, because he’s trying to put up a boundary where there never was one.  

During Sherlock’s vow, his face has never looked more open (up until this point).

This face that has shown so much tension, so much guardedness, makes this gesture of complete romantic surrender, right there, in front of everyone.  On the dance floor, this will all hit Sherlock.  It’s like he will realise that he’s not wearing any trousers and he hasn’t been, for a long time.  He got carried away with sentiment.  He failed to realise that he was not one of the people getting married.  He was a central player in their Wedding Dance, but now, suddenly, he can’t be part of some casual dancing?  This is why he must leave: he’s already said enough, shown enough, he must now put up some boundary; for himself, for John and for Mary.  

Remember at Angelo’s when Sherlock says, ‘we can’t both stare’?  I think this is, in a way, one of the themes of their relationship.  You know how they frustrate us by always looking lovingly at the other, when the other can’t see?  Well, if they take turns looking at the other, then they can deny their connection and continue with their dropped boundaries.  As we saw so didactically illustrated with the Sheriarty kiss, if you both stare and there’s something between you, what comes next is, inevitably, a kiss.  At least on tv.  But, often, in real life, too.  (Not that this would happen to Sherlock with Moriarty, of course.  Just that we see this theme, there.  The act of looking, leads to kissing when there’s something romantic there for each to see in the other.)  

In every episode they share at least one moment that’s like a kiss: they face each other, rather closely, and it seems that either of them could close that gap and kiss the other.  But, these mockups sometimes have mutual intimacy, like during the drugs bust, but oftentimes have a kind of one-sided quality about them.  If only one of you is really being intimate then it’s safer and the inevitable kiss can be put off one more day.

One the dance floor, at John’s wedding, they finally, ‘both stare’.  

They finally look at each other in a total mutual intimacy and the context burns them both.  This is why John must waltz away with Mary even though the song is not a waltz.  This is why Sherlock can’t dance with them.  Because he’s just realised that he’s danced with them this whole time and this whole time he was not part of the couple.  

This is Sherlock, basically, kicking himself out of his own wedding.  He has insinuated himself, woven himself into, every aspect of the wedding and suddenly he realises that he must stop.  In part because he realises just how deeply involved he really is.  As his role as third wheel becomes crystal clear, he immediately retreats and attempts to reestablish his independence.

But, it’s much too late for that: without him John falls apart.  Without John, he falls apart.  But, the haughtiness that Sherlock shows with John and Janine at Baker Street and at Magnussen’s, before getting shot, is his version of, ‘just friends’.  This is Sherlock trying to insulate himself from their crushing intimacy.  He pushes John away even as he, ‘recruits’, him to go on an adventure.  This is the way we see that Sherlock is kidding himself and failing miserably at his new boundaries.  Everything he is doing is a thinly veiled attempt at getting even further under John’s skin.  Attempting to put a boundary only stops him from being kind and all his negative feelings come pouring out.  All the jealousy and despondency he’s had to repress for John, for John to have his ideal wedding, and his ideal future, ‘with Mary’, now come pouring out.      

anonymous asked:

How to be irresistible to men?

Now understand irresistible doesn’t equate to being appreciated. Be assertive. Get your hair done, get your nails done, and remember you are the sexiest human living. You don’t have to be but you have to be believe you are. Eventually others will believe it by how you begin to carry yourself. There can be no day where you don’t try to look your best. The tighter the clothing the better. It’s showing without showing. Don’t wear clothing that shows too much skin. Because if you show to much skin you look like a try hard. 75/25. 75 percent must be covered 25 percent must be skin. When you assert yourself onto a man shower him with compliments. Tell him how he’s different from all the other guys. Praise him about his talents. Let him know that he’s sexy as hell. Guys are weak against being praised. They senselessly equate praise with love. Thus even if he’s in a committed relationship he will favor you if she’s not doing the same. Call him “babe or hun” right off the back. This is to get him used to the idea of you and him. As soon as you say these words he will think about being with you. Why? Those are intimate words you’re throwing around. Basically if you do all these things just about any guy will sleep with you. But remember this won’t mean you’re valued. The very instant you make contact the clock is ticking. Meaning it’s only a matter of time before they realize you are more of an idea than a actual person. They won’t understand but their mind will tell them yes but their heart will be a resounding no. Thus all affairs you make will be short lived. But yes you will be sociologically irresistible both visually and verbally.

Finding Home || Closed RP @ glitch-generation

ZZAZZ – or Zazzles, as he had started asking people to refer to him as, thinking it sounded more like a normal name – stood by the edge of the pool at Cal’s apartment complex, staring down at the water doubtfully. He felt awkward in his swim trunks and formfitting swim shirt; he’d refused to go outside without something to cover his upper body, and even then, he was showing a lot more skin than he was comfortable with. He hated his skin. It was too white and patched with pixellated blotches of yellow and red, and one look at it was enough to confirm to anyone that he was a glitch, not a person. Not normal.

He was really starting to hate what he was.

The past couple of months had been filled with lessons about how to act normal, and Zazzles had been blown away by how much he didn’t know. The human world was so big, and there was so much stuff in it, and everything looked different and did different things…and it always felt like everyone knew what they were doing except for him. Well, besides Jacred. Jacred helped him feel a little bit less alone, but once he’d seen just how many humans there were in the world, the effect was negligible.

Mister No never could have succeeded in his quest to replace the humans – not when there were this many of them. Not in a million years…

At first, Zazzles had participated in his lessons with gusto, certain that he could get the knack of this human kind of life. But by now, he was starting to realize that no matter how much he learned, he’d always be too far behind. He couldn’t learn to be normal when every fiber of his being was so odd. Odd enough that, even after all this time, Cal’s superiors still hadn’t found anyone willing to take the boys in. Odd enough that he was seriously getting discouraged about it…

But the lessons continued. So there he was, on one of the first days when it was hot enough to swim, staring at too much water and thinking that if he stepped into that pool, it would close right over his head and suffocate him. Which, come to think about it, was how he felt about most things lately.

anonymous asked:

I know objectification of women is still a big issue, but to me it seems like men are objectified more in bollywood these days? Like i can think of tons of recent movies that have really gratuitous shots of the male lead's abs (Anjaana Anjaani, Student of the Year, Ram Leela, Bang Bang) without any really equivalent shots of the female leads, and its like a requirement now that every actor has to be jacked as shit and has at least one ab shot, idk do you think men are now objectified too much?

Okay so in my opinion, men are almost never truly objectified. Objectification is about more than just skin show, it’s about defining the person onscreen by only the sum of their body parts. Take SOTY. Yes, you saw Varun and Sid shirtless. And yes, you saw Alia in a bikini. You might even say they were shot more voyeuristically than she was. But ultimately, she was only an object to be won, her character had no flesh to her (pun unintended).

The difference is that men are ogled at in one scene and get to go back to being people in the rest of the movie, while women never rise above being babes in bikinis. Salman Khan takes off his shirt in every movie and he’s a hero, Malaika Arora does item songs in skimpy outfits and she’s a slut. No one judges Ranveer Singh for showing up at events with his pecs hanging out, but they shove cameras down Deepika’s cleavage and then say she deserved it because of how she dresses onscreen. And a lot of heroes may be ripped today, but you can look like Madhavan and still play the hero in a movie, whereas Sonakshi is a “fat” actress.

I do not feel sorry for men. I would love it if more of them were truly objectified but as it stands, it is not even close to being an even playing field. Women are still not given the luxury of being seen as fully realized people onscreen. When that happens in the majority of films, then I’ll concede that both women and men can be equally objectified.