with every person & situation & etc

Why do people condemn every single person of a sign due to bad experiences with SOME people of that sign. That’s messy af! If people talk behind other people’s backs, manipulate situations, cheat on people, lead people on etc it’s not because of their sign… IT’S BECAUSE THEY’RE A BAD PERSON FULL STOP. Stop acting as if being a sign means that you are condemned to have those traits and you cannot work on yourself. Astrology is NOT RIGID, it’s fluid, progressed charts even highlight this fact.

If you’re going to judge a person completely based off astrology then you are petty af. Other factors influence a persons over all personality.

I am absolutely DONE with people hating on other signs. I don’t mind pointing out flaws of a sign so people can work on those negative aspects that they relate to… that’s all fine and well. But people are sign hating to the point where they’re literally just like ‘FUCK *INSERT SIGN HERE*’ based off of a few bad experiences and its not positive in any way ie. How are you supposed to work on traits if someone just says FUCK GEMINI’S, when a person asks their opinion on that sign, thats not positve, reflective or productive at all. Grow the fuck up and get better PEOPLE (NOT SIGNS) in your life. #FREETHEGEMINIS2016

Fluff turned smut prompts
  • Person A and Person B play Never Have I Ever with shots on a boring, Saturday night in. After they run out of shots, they decide to continue playing with clothes–taking one piece of clothing off every time one of them has done something the other hasn’t. Person A says “Never have I ever given someone a lap dance” and watch with lust-filled eyes as Person B takes off their last piece of clothing save their underwear. Person B then turns on seductive music (Partition, One Dance, etc.) and situate themselves in Person A’s lap as they get ready to give them a show. 
  • Person A and Person B going to a friend’s party after meeting for the first time in months. On the way to the party, the radio starts playing partition and Person B is having a hard time keeping their hands off of Person A’s thighs no matter how many times Person A’s breath hitches and they murmur something about pulling the car over and giving Person B a piece of their mind. 
  • Person A and Person B are friends. After a tough break up, Person A ends up at a strip club where they see their friend Person A is in charge of giving lap dances for the night. Person A doesn’t really approve of this so they buy all of Person B’s time for the night but instead of asking for a lap dance they scold Person B on their life decisions. The fight escalates and when Person A smashes their lips against Person B’s, the angry tension quickly dissipates into sexual tension. 
  • Person A and Person B are camping. Person A has done this before several times but it’s Person B’s first time and they are cold and scared. Person A knows exactly what will take their mind off from their worries. 

I am a 15 year-old student athlete with very limited access to my medications and financial situations. I am clinically diagnosed with anxiety, depressive and borderline personality disorders. This causes me to experience volatile mood swings, a depressive and manic state, hallucinations, disassociation, etc. Furthermore, I lack certain nutrients in my body which causes me to tire and fatigue easily. I have been sick for a while now, and it is a painful journey. I am in dire need of assistance due to my parents’ hesitancy in helping me and also because of financial issues. Every peso counts in your help for me to get better. It would mean  lot if even half of the goal is reached since not only does the financial support help me get better, also the ones in kind. I hope that you will share your blessings to help me in living a healthy life.

hello everyone! i thought i’d put this up here because this is possibly one of the most kind and supportive communities i know of. shay is a dear friend of mine and is a truly lovely person. as mentioned above, she has limited access to her meds since her parents are iffy on helping her and due to financial problems.

you will not only help her access her medication, but also contribute to helping her experience a happier and healthier life.

any amount would mean so, so much and if you can’t offer monetary support, a simple reblog to spread the word would be absolutely amazing!!

the fundraiser can be found here: https://www.generosity.com/medical-fundraising/mental-and-physical-health-meds

thank you so much everyone and i hope you make the days ahead spectacular.

anonymous asked:

Hello~! ^__^ I have an issue that's somewhat wearing on my self esteem. I'm transgender (ftm) and I'm part of a trans guys kik group. Everyone in this group is an awesome friend, but it seems like everyone else is just getting so much progress (therapy, hormones, funding, etc.) and I'm just stuck with a barely functional binder. It makes me feel like I'm not getting anywhere. Can I ask for some affirmations (maybe about how progress is different from person to person)? Please and thank you! ^__^

YOU CERTAINLY MAY HAVE AFFIRMATIONS, FRIEND!!!

BECAUSE LIKE YOU SAY, PROGRESS IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE!!! WHATEVER STAGE YOUR FRIENDS ARE AT WITH TRANSITION, THAT DOES NOT NEGATE OR DEVALUE YOUR PROGRESS!!! THEY HAVE DIFFERENT LIVES, BODIES, FINANCIAL SITUATIONS, SUPPORT SYSTEMS AND EXPERIENCES THAN YOU!!!

EVERY MOMENT YOU LIVE, YOU ARE MAKING PROGRESS!!! IT IS LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO MOVE BACKWARDS IN LIFE!!! YOU ARE ALWAYS MOVING FORWARD!!! EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE STANDING STILL OR EVEN MOVING BACKWARDS, THAT IS STILL EXPERIENCE!!! IT STILL BECOMES A PART OF THE STORY OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, AND THAT IS EXPERIENCE AND KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU DIDN’T HAVE BEFORE!!!

YOU ARE ALWAYS MOVING FORWARD, JUST BY LIVING!!! IF YOU HAVE PLANS FOR THE FUTURE, THEN YOU ARE MOVING TOWARDS THOSE PLANS EVERY DAY!!! AND IF OTHER PEOPLE ARE MOVING FASTER THAN YOU, THAT’S OKAY!!! THEY’RE MOVING AS FAST AS THEY CAN! AND YOU’RE MOVING FAST AS YOU CAN!!!

YOU ARE GETTING SOMEWHERE, ANON!!! EVERY DAY!!!

AND HAVING FRIENDS WHO SEEM TO BE AHEAD MEANS YOU WILL HAVE THE SUPPORT AND THE UNDERSTANDING OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE ALREADY BEEN WHERE YOU’RE GOING!!! AND THAT’LL MOVE YOU FORWARD EVEN FASTER!!!

I’MMA QUEUE UP SOME AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT HOW EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND MOVES AT THEIR OWN SPEED!!!

BUT IN THE MEANTIME, REMEMBER THAT YOU’RE HELLA FUCKING RAD, AND THAT I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!

- The Slightly Aggressive Affirmer

this whole #savemarinajoyce thing is just more evidence that ppl will ignore the severity of mental illness in favour of sensationalized trauma porn

every person who knows her has been contacted & said she is safe, it’s not their place to reveal the situation, etc. every person contacted that has mental health history or knowledge of symptoms has said that she is expressing textbook symptoms of drug abuse or schizophrenia. clearly she’s suffering from psychosis/possibly a combination of that and addiction. it’s really your first conclusion to believe she’s been kidnapped and held hostage and not that she is suffering from mental illness?

people dont think these issues are as glamorous, as interesting, as gossipy. how much do you want to bet that if the whole world knew 100% that it was mental illness, that this poor girl is experiencing the beginning stages of schizophrenia or ego death from drug abuse or just a genetic tendency, that this hashtag would be trending??

this whole thing is like a hopeful snuff film and it disgusts me

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Hanuman Mantra - 1

Recite this Hanuman Mantra for getting physical strength, stamina and power.

हनुमते नमः |

Om Hanumate Namah !

Hanuman Mantra - 2

हं पवन ननदनाय स्वाहा |

Hang Pawan Nandnaay Swaahaa !

Hanuman Mantra - 3

This Hanuman mantra brings instant results. One becomes exceptionally powerful by chanting this.

हं हनुमते रुद्रात्मकाय हुं फट् |

Hang Hanumate Rudraatmakaay Hung Phatt!

By K. Nagori

fangirlingoversomanyships  asked:

So I'm in a queerplatonic relationship with my partner and she's amazing and I love her. But the thing is, my family might move to a place that is 8 hours away from where I live now, and thus, 8 hours away from my partner. I'm freaking out a little. Do you have any advice?

Well that is quite a lot of distance between you and your partner. Long distant relationships are tough. Here is what I suggest in terms to help.

First off having many forms of contact like texting, calling, skype/facetime, etc.. Sometimes the biggest issues for partners and couples in this situation is finding ways to keep in contact. Once that is set you need to continue to have regular contact with each other. For example every morning I text my partner good morning and we get talking from there. This still isn’t the same as personally seeing each other. Which leads me to another suggestion.

Second do either of you have away to drive the 8 hours for a weekend together. Or even a bus that maybe goes through the areas. I know this may be easier said than done. But look at all ways of transportation for you both so that then you can have time together. If this doesn’t work Skype and FaceTime allow you to have time together. 

If you really want to go to a special way you could do letters between each other. A hand written letter is very much a special piece that you can both give to each other. This was in a book I read called Airstotle and Daunts discovers of the secrets of the universe. It is a great book. 

I am not an expert by any means so if anyone has other pieces of advise please don’t hesitate to share. 

~Melody~

doggygoesrawr  asked:

Hey.. So, there's a lot of drama going on with me and my friends lately. (Online). Two friends of mine know each other in real life and go to the same school and are like sisters to each other. But, her mom said that she told everyone that she cuts, is gay, suicidal, etc. Which she is. She refused to tell the truth, but everyone got pissed at holly (her friend) and now they think it's another person saying holly told. Every is saying mean things to holly other than me. What do I do? Help..

A lot of times people will start assigning blame to people to try and use a single person as the escape for the situation as whole. 

Defend Holly. She is alone in this and doesn’t deserve to be singled out. Defend her and protect her as she deserves, I know you can. Do what’s right, dear one. 

Whenever there’s a complaint about DoA on here, the poster expresses himself as if he is the truthful one–“telling it like it is”.  But the reality is that for every person who can’t seem to, or doesn’t want to, get a toe into the community, and only wants access to the Marketplace, there are obviously many more who enjoy the discussions, games, contests, etc.

You shouldn’t assume that your experience will be everyone’s experience.  

I’m tempted to think that those who find it so difficult to fit in to online communities might simply have problems in social situations in general.

~Anonymous

anonymous asked:

Taylor Swift is a person with flaws like everybody else so obviously she will have people she doesn't get along with. She's not the only person in the world who sings about exes. Everybody can have "enemies" & be shady etc. Why do you care so much? Why is she any different?

I never said she can’t sing about her ex’s. She has every right as a singer to write about her experiences. I’m talking about how she always plays the victim. Her team always spins every situation so that she is seen as the victim. In the media, she is always portrayed as the “relatable American sweetheart”! Now, am I dissing her? Sure. But I also respect her. The reason she is so successful is because she understands the business of being famous, which not a lot of people understand.