willow and tara are beautiful for each other

So.. first of all I’m sorry for my English. It is not my first language. 👀

I was thinking about this interview and I was thinking about the hate I’ve got (not only me but many other fan, too) just because I ship fanon couples (SwanQueen, SuperCorp..)

Sometimes it happens that I say that I ship SwanQueen and people replied with “it is incest” or “it is not gonna happened and Emma and Regina are not gay” or “You know, you ship SuperCorp and it’s gross, they are just friends, why they cannot be friends, you just want a gay couple in every tv show you watch” and so on..

Okay look at this. Amber is saying that Willow/Tara relationship was beautiful and it was not about two women, but first of all it was about two people who fell in love and it was just normal. Both happened to identify as female but they were two people in love with each other and perfect for each other. They treated each other well, as Amber said.
This is why I like SwanQueen or SuperCorp. They may not be canon but they are formed by two people who are good for each other and treat each other well (we all know that Regina was Emma’s enemy at the beginning but we also know that Regina is now a better person and cares about Emma). I can feel the chemistry between Emma and Regina and I can feel it between Lena Luthor and Kara/Supergirl. I can feel that it is normal. It could be normal to see them in a romantic relationship and not because they are women (I can tell you about my het ships. I have many and even slash ships), but because of the chemistry and because they have so much in common and they support each other. They saved each other. I can see the potential.

So if you wanna tell me that you don’t like SwanQueen because you prefer Emma and Regina with someone else it’s okay. Same for Lena and Kara. Your choice. If you wanna tell me that you don’t like them because you don’t feel any chemistry it is still okay, you can ship them just as friends. If you wanna tell me that you hate Emma or Regina, that you hate Lena so you are unable to ship them with anyone.. then fine.
But don’t tell me I ship them just because I like watching females making out or because it is incest (many ouat relationships are weird.. look at Rumple who makes out with Cora and then Zelena and then the Evil Queen. Look at Hook who makes out with Milah who was Baelfire’s mother and Bae was Emma’s first love and Henry’s father, while Hook would have loved to be his “adoptive father” and what a mess is this show).
It does not make sense. Sorry.

MTVS Epic Rewatch #109

BTVS 4x19 New Moon Rising

Stray thoughts

1) It’s a wonder that my heart can be simultaneously breaking and swelling with joy because of the same episode, but that’s exactly what happened after I watched New Moon Rising. Feelings, y’all, am I right?

2) “I want my room to be Willow-friendly.” 

How cute are they, though? They are holding hands and making the decision to adopt a pet together. Something that, in my book, pretty much equals marriage, okay? You can’t possibly be more committed to a relationship than that, okay? Cuteness overload.

3) It’s so awesome that Tara is finally at a Scooby meeting, and that Willow is trying to make her feel comfortable as she translates Scooby-speak for her. And Tara is happy to just be there, you know? Like she doesn’t really care if she doesn’t understand a single word they’re saying or about the fact that they’re possibly discussing end-of-the-world super-evil stuff. She’s just overwhelmed by joy because Willow is finally sharing this other part of her life with her, and that’s all she’s ever wanted. 

4) But of course… all good things come to an end. Or at least to a stop. And obviously Oz’s first line had to be monosyllabic. Just… “Hey.”

5) Oh my god, I just noticed this parallel! 

BEGINING OF THE EPISODE:

WILLOW: When, when did you get back?
OZ: Pretty much now.

END OF THE EPISODE:

OZ: I think I better take off.
WILLOW: When?
OZ: Pretty much now.

6) This scene is so hard to watch for me because the awkwardness is palpable and also, in a way, I’m kinda rooting for both Oz and Tara, tbh.

I mean, it’s not like I wanted Willow to get back together with Oz by this point. And it wasn’t just because of Tara. Oz repeats throughout the episode that he has changed. But so had Willow. And again, not just because of Tara, although she had a lot to do with Willow changing. But what happened with Oz also changed her. Both of them had changed. So it was odd that Oz felt they could kind of pick up their relationship where they had left it off. They were still Oz and Willow but at the same time, they weren’t. They could still care for and even love each other, it just wouldn’t be in the same way. But I digress.

What I was talking about is how I feel for both Tara and Oz in this episode. Even if Oz/Willow the way we knew them were in the past, that doesn’t take away from how meaningful and important their relationship was. He was Willow’s first love, and throughout season 2 and 3, even when I know Tara is coming, I ship them. They make sense together. They had a cute and beautiful and at times sad history. And I never hated Oz, not even after the whole Veruca thing. Because even though he cheated on Willow, that whole arc wasn’t really about him and Willow or him and Veruca for that matter. It was about Oz trying to find himself, to make sense of the human and the wolf in him, to reconcile those two identities (because - and I know I’ve mentioned this before - at the core the show is about self-discovery and identity and agency.) And yes, seeing him back gave me a lot of warm fuzzy feelings. 

But Tara, though, my baby!

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