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Spirit Working Cycles

[Disclaimer: This is my personal upg of your body’s natural cycle. Some people have reported either not having a hyperactivity period or having them so subdued that it isn’t an issue, so just use my post as a guideline for discovering your own needs. And natural fallow periods aren’t the cause for every downtime out there, some will be caused by blocks such as past trauma, energetic blockages, spirit influence, sickness and more. Some of those do require some sort of intervention and are good to get rid of!]

One of the biggest things I’ve seen you guys distressed over are the times where you are not working with your spirits! You’re not communicating (if you can communicate at all during this time), you aren’t really aware of their presence, you go ages without wearing their vessels, you just don’t have the strength to keep up with the work you want to do!

And then you grow frantic and anxious over what the spirits are thinking about you. You’re afraid of them hating you and leaving for how long you’ve been ignoring them. Or maybe they could be depressed by your sudden lack of interest, like you’re their best friend who suddenly cut contact and is ignoring their texts and calls. You may be worried about all this during your period of inactivity and can’t fix things despite being aware of them. Maybe the stress is even making it worse than before and now you can’t feel them no matter how hard you try!

So when you start to get in a better spirit working state, you’re afraid of speaking to them now, afraid of what they’ll say and if they hate you and if they’ll ever accept you back as a friend…

Guys, this is totally normal. This is a natural body cycle (well, psychic body cycle!) just like menstruation! I haven’t heard nearly as many people talking about it as I would expect, so let me break down your spiritual fallow periods!

(yes, it’s a lazily drawn graph)

The graph is divided into three horizontal sections: Hyperactivity, Normal State, and Fallow Period. The colored vertical sections are parts I want to pay particular attention to. And finally the curving black line represents your spiritual state.

Area 1: Here, you’re in a state of growth. This is fantastic! You’re learning and improving!

Area 2: You are neither growing nor declining, but there is nothing wrong with this. Many people spend the majority of their time in stasis, their growth periods coming in sudden, sharp increases. Others will almost constantly be in a state of growth too gradual to see. Any way is okay as long as it is your way!

Area 3: This is your decline stage. It isn’t quite a fallow period, but you may notice that you are not quite as sharp as usual or have trouble concentrating on spirit activity. This is fine, it is your body preparing itself for a state of growth, recovering from large energy use, or just focusing on other things. You can also enter a period of stasis before your new growth period as your body recharges. If you feel you are in a stasis period after declining, take some time for both spiritual and mundane self care!

Area 4: Here you have peaked into a time of hyperactivity.. Your senses are better than ever before and your spirit working skills are on fire. This is not necessarily a good thing! Many people don’t know how to manage themselves during this time and end up burning out into area 5. When I was in high school and attended band camp (which wasn’t really camp as much as it was all day summer practices), most parents gave their kids twenty dollars for the entire week’s lunch. As one might expect, the kid spent the entire twenty dollars on day one and spent every other day either hungry or bringing whatever scraps they could find at home. This lack of saving is similar to what you might do during your hyperactivity stage! I’ll speak more later on how to manage this stage.

Area 5: This is a sharp decline after the hyperactivity stage due to burning out. It is possible to exit the hyperactivity stage without going into such a decline, but it cannot be avoided every time. This type of decline typically happens in a very short period of time, even overnight.

Area 6: Here is the moment you’ve been waiting for: your fallow period! This is not a bad thing! Essentially this is your body’s way of resting and recharging so that it can stabilize itself to go back into spiritual matters. Your senses may be distant or nonexistent, your communication may be difficult even with the use of tools, and you may feel a disconnect from spirit work in general. Do not panic and push yourself to do spirit work; you will only damage yourself and spend more time in this state! Strive for self care right and grounding right now. It is perfectly fine to separate from spirit work right now and even recommended for some people. Dive back into the mundane world!

Area 7: Finally, you’ve exited your fallow period! Many people go through growth after their fallow periods because their bodies are so fresh from recharging. Don’t burn yourself out, but feel free to have some celebratory communication with your spirit friends!

So you’re saying my fallow periods aren’t abnormal? They’re good?

ABSOLUTELY! Not only are they good, but they are necessary for you to maintain your abilities! Going without fallow periods would be like going without sleeping. You would eventually crash and burn from the lack of rest, and then your fallow period would be more akin to being knocked unconscious than a good night’s sleep. Don’t try to push them away.

And my spirits really don’t care?

Your spirits are more attuned to spiritual needs than humans. Not only are they going to be aware of this cycle, but they may go through it too. Almost everything goes through it. If you’ve been with a spirit for a long time, you may have noticed times where they don’t communicate much or fade into the background. They also go through periods where they have difficulty communicating with physical creatures. Some will hide this very well, while others will be very upfront on the subject.

How often should I be getting these? How long should they be?

This depends entirely on yourself. Everyone has a different natural cycle. Some people will have cycles of sharp increases and decreases, with every stage lasting in bursts. Others will have almost constant growth, but it is so gradual that they feel as if they are in permanent stasis. Your fallow periods are going to be whatever your body needs. If you need longer periods to recharge then it will be longer, and perhaps lessened in intensity. Others will have shorter periods, but they are more intense because your body has to dip so far down to recharge so quickly. It is not always even, either! Most people have fairly even patterns within their cycles, but it is possible to be everchanging. As for your hyperactivity, this is usually a sharp, albeit short-lived, spike.

Now onto how to manage your cycle!

Signs of entering a hyperactivity period:

  • Pressure, vibrations, buzzing, or other unusual sensations in your third eye and other energy centers
  • Psychic senses are suddenly intensified, possibly to the point of discomfort
  • Feeling as if you are not grounded
  • Difficulty grounding
  • Floating sensation
  • Headaches
  • Disconnection from reality; disassociation
  • More attuned to the astral and physical planes than your physical body
  • Others notice that your energy is bold and even chaotic, much louder than usual
  • You attract spirits more than in your normal energy state
  • Seemingly endless energy for spirit work and other related activities
  • Sudden motivation for spirit work, you may feel an exaggeration of your skill level
  • A disregard for discernment

How to manage a hyperactivity period:

  • Ground frequently! While it may feel useless, it will help to stabilize you in the long run
  • Discharge your energy into crystals and other storage units. It will give an outlet for excess energy and give you boosts when in need
  • Attempt meditations focused around peace, calm, and stability
  • Spend time in a garden or otherwise surrounded by nature, and ground by extending your energy like roots into the earth. Doing this will help to connect yourself to the energy system around you, the plants aiding in keeping you stable
  • This is a good time to look at the big pictures of vast energy systems. Try looking at the energetic connections within a forest, or between houses in a neighborhood.
  • Do not go overboard with spirit work, energy work, magic, etc! You will not start to feel the effects of burning out until it has happened. Work on grounding and stabilizing and try to not overwork yourself.
  • Consistency is the key! Instead of spending your energy all at once, try to use this time to be consistent with your spirit senses and communication. Consistency takes much more energy than you may realize!
  • Although you shouldn’t do everything all at once, that doesn’t mean you can’t get things done right now! Feel free to work on that big project, just pay extra attention to your spiritual health and go easy.
  • Don’t get arrogant or stupid! While confidence is good and important, don’t let your abundance of energy convince you to summon a nuclear doom spirit of death without protection. You will regret power trips.
  • Practice discernment! You may feel concrete in your senses right now but it is just as important as ever
  • PROTECTION!! Some people become larger beacons for spirits during this time, so up your protection and be wary of strange spirits. Even if you do not become more attractive than normal, energy siphoning spirits will still be drawn to the excess of food in you
  • Be extra polite to local spirits. Perhaps put up a ward to quiet your energy to others or if possible avoid going into particularly active locations. Even if they have no wish to snack on you, the loud energy can be obnoxious.

Signs of entering a fallow period:

  • Disinterest and lack of motivation for spirit work, energy work, and magic
  • Psychic senses are distant or nonexistent
  • Tools seem to fail or are difficult to understand
  • You do not naturally notice telepathic speech from spirits
  • Discernment is difficult, or you may feel that nothing is real
  • Attempting spirit work, energy work, or magic exhausts you
  • You are constantly distracted when attempting to meditate or astral travel
  • You think less of your spirits throughout the day
  • You are more drawn to mundane activities, such as watching tv, and feel the need to skip or pay less attention to daily exercises
  • If you feel guilt over ignoring your spirits, you are still unable to communicate well
  • Sudden frustration with your lack of ability and progress, feeling as if you have retrograded
  • Sadness or other negative emotions at the sudden sense of disconnect from your spirits, as if your bonds have disappeared

How to manage a fallow period:

  • Focus on the mundane world! Your body is not meant to be overworking itself on the nonphysical right now
  • Work on gentle physical self care
  • As you breathe in, visualize energy in your body like liquid streams of light collecting and brightening in your third eye and any other places you use as psychic energy organs. As you breathe out, it gently diffuses outwards back throughout your body, dimming as it is once again returned to its regular density. This helps to keep your psychic energy points in shape.
  • Visualize your energy like before, but when you breathe in it flows in a steady, circular cycle upwards from the tip of your toes through your chest. Let it pass through your third eye, and as you breathe out it completes the second half of the cycle by curving downwards, flowing through and cleansing that side’s energy centers as it does so. Rather than being in a single ball, the energy is in a constant, equal flow like the blood in your veins. This helps to keep your energy clean and flowing and cuts down the risk of stagnation during your fallow period.
  • If you must do any sort of spirit or energy work, make sure it is very slow and gentle like the two exercises above. It must not conflict with your body’s rest. If you wish to practice meditation, don’t do anything requiring long periods of focus or that demands energy. Try doing meditations for sleep or calm which do not involve any spirit contact, but only focus on relaxing your body.
  • Spiritual protection based in the physical plane is very good to have for when your fallow periods occur! These are things such as witch jars and large scale crystal grids. It is easier to keep these clean and working, since you may not be able to sense purely nonphysical protection like wards at all.
  • If you wish to remind your spirits that you have them in your thoughts, include them in a daily meal by offering its energy as you eat. Simply thinking this will most likely be enough for them to hear, but if you want to be certain, say it aloud or whisper it if with company!
  • Before you go to bed, invite your spirits to sit with you as you tell them about your day, no matter how mundane. Even if you can’t sense them around you, this will show them that you are still keeping them in your thoughts and taking the time to include them in your day!
  • However, it’s also okay to simply push spirit work to the back of your mind and focus on pressing mundane matters. They will understand.
  • Above all, remember that your spiritual self is resting and recharging. Do what your own body needs to encourage this rest. Don’t try to rush past it or forcibly stuff energy into yourself, most likely you’ll end up hurt and elongating this period.

So hopefully this guide will help on the stress everyone seems to get during their fallow periods! It’s always important for us to understand the natural workings of our bodies, whether physical or nonphysical. Start including your daily thoughts on your current location in your body’s cycle to start recognizing your patterns, and maybe to even predict when your natural downtimes will occur!

BTS reacting to their Girlfriend initiating a Makeout session but leaving halfway through.

(that’s so me though,lmao)

Namjoon:
He’d get ahold of your wrist before you’re able to leave and pull you back towards him, throwing you onto the bed and climbing on top of you, smiling down at you seductively~

“Did you really think you could leave that easy, babygirl?”

Seokjin:
When you suddenly get off his lap and exit the room like nothing happened, he’d just stare after you in silence, trying to sort out what just happened before getting really frustrated and yelling after you to come back~

“Jagiya! You better come back before I make you!”

Yoongi:
A smirk would play on his lips when he sees you running out of the room and immediately know your intend. He’d lay back down on the bed, not bothered to chase after you and would wait until you come back while teasing you~

“I know other ways to please myself babygirl but my second option leaves you completely unsatisfied.”

Hoseok:
He’d just watch you leave the room and would know how to react at first since he’d still be kinda confused by the sudden lost of affection. He’d pout and yell after you in attempt to get you to come back~

“Is that what I get for loving you?”

Jimin:
He’d quickly get your attention and tighten his grip around your waist before you’re able to run away in the first place. When you try to wiggle out of his grip, he’d pout at you teasingly and wink at you once~

“I don’t think it’s nice to tease people babygirl. I know you hate it too.”

Taehyung:
His jaw would drop when you jump off his lap and run out of the room before he’s able to stop you and get’s really annoyed by your actions. He’d start throwing a fit and drop down on the couch, pouting and screaming through the apartment.

“Babe! You can’t just leave me like that. I’m a desperate man.”

Jungkook:
A smile would appear on his lips when you get up and leave and he’d immediately jump up from his spot and start chasing you around the apartment. He’d trap you in a corner and wrap his arms around your body so you can’t resist his love and give you a peck on the cheek~

“Come back and give me love, princess.”


~Youngmi~

Imagine working with Jason on a film. He keeps trying to get your attention, but you pretend not to notice. He’s persistent, you’ll give him that - he shows off his muscles every chance he gets. You’re more than willing to go out with him, but at this point, you just want to see what else he’s got up his sleeve.

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How to take care Plushie Shu (Home & Outdoor)

Hi hi!!! (。・ω・。)ノ Just like I mentioned I saw many professional instructions of how to take care pocket!vampire and diabat~ so I decided to write down the instructions of how to take care diaplushie as well!!! ∠( ᐛ 」∠)_ If I have more time, I will make the instructions more professional with photos and samples~~( ´▽`)

Home Care:

1. Just like real Shu, plush Shu is the laziest plush you can ever find in the world. Therefore, if you are looking for an active friend, he is not a good choice.

2. Peaceful and quiet place! If not he will get irritating and resulting you to get harsh biting.

3. Sadly plush Shu does not come with his MP3, so is best to have highest quality of speaker or radio at your home! If you cannot afford it, MP3 will work as well.

4. If you do not want your plush Shu turn to Laito plush, weekly check plush Shu’s MP3 or his CDs!! Somehow he records woman’s moan. Please mention to him first before you delete it. Remember, communication is essential even he doesn’t reply.

5. Plush Shu spends 8/10 of his life time sleeping, so please have a clean pillow for him. The best way to keep clean pillow is to change the pillow case every three days. A warm normal blanket is good, but your pantie is better as a blanket.

6. Do you realize your panties and bras are missing for some reasons? No there is no ghost at your home, it’s just plush Shu. There are two reasons for him to steal them: first reason, he loves to see your reaction. Your confusing facial expression makes his dull day more interesting. Second reason: telling the truth, he just a lil perv. He likes to snuggle them and smell your scent, specially when you are not at home.

7. Plush Shu prefer no roommates. But he accept them. But be carful he might insult or roast the roommates.

8. Plush Shu is still a vampire, and he prefers owner’s blood, no animal blood tho, he hates it. Prepare yourself to get bitten.

9. He is a picky eater, not as picky as Reiji and Ruki. When talking about steak, we are talking about rare. It’s automatically related. Even he is not a big fan of sweets, but sometimes he does eat some.

10. Secretly staring and spying you with ocean blue eyes. It’s how he shows his love and care, or maybe he just bored.

11. Just finish your shower or bath? It’s recommended you change your clothes in the bathroom. Plush Shu tend to pretend sleep, but he is actually watching you change.

12. Snuggle, cuddle and kiss? He is fine with them, but you take first move.

13. He pretends cute to get your attention or sympathy. So don’t get fool by the cute watery eyes he makes!!!

14. Enjoys shower. Be carful don’t let him drown. Holding him is carefully, specially his Big Head.

Outdoor Care:

1. Taking out plush Shu with you for a walk? No, he doesn’t sit on your shoulder like plush Subaru, no no he doesn’t climb on your head like plush Ayato. You have to bring a bag and place plush Shu inside it. Make sure the bag is opened for him to breath.

2. Shu doesn’t care or interest about the world, so he never gets excited when you take him out.

3. There are two places he might like, one is Victoria’s Secret and CD stores. But in the other hand he be like “well wear noting is most suitable for you” and “I can go to online to buy the CDs”

4. No sports. No movement. Nope. Even breathing is troublesome for him.

5. He does get jealous when a boy flirts with you. He hates and regrets he cannot do anything about it since he just a plush.

6. When going out in the day time, pick a day that is not too hot. This aristocrat cannot handle the heat.

Short Attention Span

Request: Prefs of the boys dating a girl with a short attention span please?

Ponyboy: Pony’s exactly the same way in many aspects as you, including your short attention span. You’d take turns snapping each other back into reality, and nine times out of ten you’d chuckle at each other just knowing that this quality was just another thing you loved about each other.

Two-Bit: Two-Bit is a lot like how Pony is, but sometimes when you’d zone out during one of his stories he’d see how many funny faces he could make at you or how many weird things he could say to you before you realized/noticed.

Darry: He’d just chuckle and change the subject to get your attention again.

Sodapop: Soda would pull you in close and tell you that you’re zoning out again, while chuckling at you.

Johnny: He does things like holding your hand or play with your hair to keep you stimulated in conversation.

Dallas: He’d wave his hand in your face while saying, “Earth to y/n.” Or joke around by saying, “Am I really that boring Doll?”

Steve: Sometimes he gets annoyed, but just offers you a warm smile when you sheepishly admit that you hadn’t heard a thing he’d said.

Exo Reaction-Girlfriend has tattoos.

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Xiumin:  He would tell you not to listen to all the haters.  He would spend most of the time making faces at you and trying to make you smile so you don’t listen to the haters anymore.

Luhan:  Puts a flower in his own hair even though it makes him look girly just so that those guys make fun of him instead of you.  He also does it to make you laugh.

Kris:  gives evil and underminding stares to the ones that are hating on you until they are uncomfortable and walk away.

Suho:  Sees you getting hated on from a far and yells at you to get your attention.  When you see him, he is making funny gestures and faces in order to get you to laugh, which he does.

Lay:  One he sees people making fun of you, he turns all angry and tries to defend you and tells the other guys where they can go to.

Baekhyun:  After being bullied you immeditly call your man and once he hears what happened to you, his mind starts to have a millions different thoughts on how he can help you out.

Chen:  You had told him what happened and while he doesn’t know how to help you right now, he would just give those girls dissapointing looks letting them know that he is upset with them.

Chanyeol:  Would be sad with you once you told him that you had been bullied.  He would lend you his shoulder while you told him everything.  Once you started crying he would let you until you feel better.

D.O.:  He would get all protective of you and once he heard you were getting bullied he would turn into evil DO and spring to protect you.

Tao:  Uses his fighting skills to help defend you once he saw some guys bullying you for your tattoos.  Once he started to go all weird on them they would run away leaving him as your hero.

Kai:  Once you saw him later in the day you would tell him what happened and he would do his best to cheer you up making cute little faces at you until you smiled as well.

Sehun:  He wouldn’t really know what to do when you told him that you were being bullied.  He would just let you talk to him while he listened.  When you were done he would tell you everything will be all right.

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Reaction to BTS member being friends with s/o -Pentagon Reaction

Prompt: Member jealous over your close relationship to BTS members. 

 Jinho

He can get jealous just more worried about losing your attention though. “Jagi, why do you always text J-hope? Like I think you text him too much and that’s not necessary.” Jinho said as he tried to snatch your phone away. “You got one of the best kpop vocalist as a boyfriend! Please just stop talking to him less..” Jinho said as sat on the couch and tried to cuddle with you.

Originally posted by ptg

Hui

He’s a show off. Confident in what he does and what belongs to him. “(Y/n), aren’t you going to introduce me to your friend?” Hui asked with hints of jealousy as he spoke. Hui had walked toward you as you were talking to Rap Monster and laughing, basically just enjoying yourself. “Hui this is Rap Monster, Namjoon this is Hui.” (y/n) said as you pointed at Hui. “Hello, I’M HER BOYFRIEND AND ANYONE WHO TRIES TO TAKE HER FROM ME WON’T SEE THE DAYLIGHT ANY LONGER.” Hui said as he hugged you in front of Rap Monster. “I’m sorry Namjoon, He’s just acting like a clingy baby.” (Y/n) said immediately after her boyfriend basically threatened her friend.

Originally posted by justhuiling

Hongseok

Jelly. Jelly. Jelly. DIS KID IS JUST JELLY. “Sweet Suga? (Y/n) who is this on your phone?” Hongseok asked since you were getting a call from BTS’s Suga. “Hello? (Y/n) I was wondering if you wanted to go see a new movie that just came out today?” Suga asked as Hongseok answered the phone. “Yeah, no. This is her boyfriend, her sweet Hongseok. I’ll tell her you called ‘Sweet Suga’.” Hongseok said and hung up the phone. “Hongseok, did Suga just call?” (Y/n) asked. “No, but ‘Sweet Suga’ called.” Hongseok said and walked away.

Originally posted by yeo1

E’Dawn

He’s a baby. E’Dawn wouldn’t be as jealous as Hongseok but show PDA towards (y/n) to make her best friend Jungkook uncomfortable. “Jagi?! My beautiful girlfriend, can you serve me some food from your plate.” E’Dawn said as he opened his mouth. “You have your own plate. Babe, stop interrupting me while I’m talking to Kookie, it’s very rude.” (Y/n) said as she keeps talking with Jungkook. “JAGI! FEED ME MY QUEEN! PLEASE!” E’Dawn shouted and blew a kiss your way. “I’m sorry Jungkook..” (Y/n) said as she stuffed food in his mouth so he wouldn’t talk.

Originally posted by edawnn

Shinwon

THIS GUY WUVS YOU WAY TOO MUCH, HE’S CLINGY. “Honey, I’m going out with Taehyung today, I won’t be long.” (Y/n) said as she grabbed her purse. “Excuse me?!  BTS’s V?” Shinwon asked asked obviously jealous. “Yeah, we’re going to go get ice cream.” (y/n) said. “You can’t go out (Y/n).” Shinwon said as he pulled her away from the door. “Why not?” (Y/n) asked. “Look at you! You are revealing too much skin jagiya. If you go put on a sweater, I’ll let you go.” Shinwon said as he handed (Y/n) a sweater with a photo of his own face on it. “I don’t want to wear that one! It doesn’t match my outfit!” (Y/n) said. “Then you can’t go dummy.” Shinwon said as he dragged you up stairs.

Originally posted by pentagon-kingdom

Yeo One

Poor Yeo One would not be jealous but scared of losing the love of his life to a member of the most kpop dominating group, BTS. “(Y/n)…I’m sorry to ask you this but do you like BTS’s Jin? I’m sorry jagi, I just really want to know.” Yeo One asked (Y/n). “Oh honey, Jin is only a friend, trust me. I only have my eyes set on you my little ball of sunshine!” (y/n) said as she kissed Yeo One’s cheek. “Really?” Yeo One asked. “Of course honey.” (y/n) said.

Originally posted by woozeok

Yan An

Yan An would be also similar to Yeo One and get scared of losing you to BTS’s Jimin. “Bǎobèi, please tell me you’re not going out today.” Yan an said in a sad tone. “Sweetie, what’s wrong? I was but I’ll tell my friend, Jimin, not today because something urgent just happened and I need to take care of this.” (Y/n) said as she texted Jimin about canceling their plans to go to the park. “What’s wrong sweetie?” (Y/n) said as she gave a hug to her boyfriend. “I don’t want you to leave me for him. I don’t want to lose  you (Y/n), I love you so much!” Yan an said as he cuddled in your arms. “You won’t loose me, I’ll stay with you forever.” (Y/n) said as he hugged Yan an.

Originally posted by yeo1

Yuto

This beautiful Japanese angel would trust you. NOT RAP MONSTER. But that doesn’t mean he’s going to be a jealous freak and upset you. “Beibī. If you’re going out with him later, be back 7:00. No exceptions. Just remember, I trust you. Not him.” Yuto said as he kissed (y/n)’s forehead. “I know. I’ll be back later my love. Thank you for letting me hang out with him.” (y/n) said and smiled.

Originally posted by adachisyuto

Kino

Confident. That’s all and fully honest. “Jimin, I’m a dancer too. I’m also a really good vocalist. And if there’s one thing that I have and you don’t is this beautiful girl called (y/n). I love her so don’t attempt to make a move on this girl you call a friend or you’ll regret it.”

Originally posted by yeo1

Wooseok

This giant maknae is an attention hog and is not about to let any other idol take your attention away. “Hahaha, oh j-hope you’re so funny.” (y/n) said as she laughed. “Yeah and I’m talented too!” J-hope said. “Let’s put that too the test then.” (y/n) said as she put music on. “Rap for me.” (y/n) said. “Sure jagi, I’ll rap for you.” Wooseok said as he took the mic away from J-hope. “Oh Wooseokie..aigoo, you’re such a child.” (y/n) said. “Only for you my lady.” Wooseok said as he rapped and took the spotlight away from J-hope.

Originally posted by jungwooseok-ptg

anonymous asked:

Idk if you're into dudes, but if I was your boyfriend I'd love the shit outa you every single day. You're so chill & down to earth. That's my favorite thing about you. Like I mean I really like that about you. You don't act like you're "too good" to do certain things or interact with certain people. You don't try to be something you're not or act out of character to get attention and it really shows how mature and free your soul is. You just an overall real individual. I fuckin like your ass

This made me smile tbh, I appreciate this and you so much. Thank you for noticing these things about me. I needed to read something like this cause I haven’t been feeling well physically or mentally so thank you again. You’re a really fucking genuine person. Never change.

IMO, Alison is not going to be A.D.- maybe she’s going to be revealed to be Evil or did something Evil such as killing Charlotte, but she’s not going to be A. On the other hand, though, I feel like her being A/AD is the only shot we have of having the show follow through on all the clues they just forgot about wrt “what happened that night,” like Spencer being there and Emily at least hearing the confrontation, Alison telling the girls “the four of you combined know more about that night than you remember,” Cece wearing a yellow top and talking to Melissa, Melissa on the phone saying something like ‘do I have to call 911 just to get your attention?!’ Etc etc

paperflwer  asked:

i just saw your latest post about your fanfic and i just want to read it so badly but it's to late!!!!!!!!! unfortunately i'll have to give up on the least important task. bye sleep.

no one sleeps when they read fanfics

Hahaha I’m happy to hear it caught your attention. I hope you’re able to get some beauty sleep at least *says the person that reads fics until 4am

as a white™ to other whites™ in the omgcp fandom i feel like a lot of y'all are afraid to write poc because you dont want to get shit wrong but like fr. its not hard. just dont talk about being black or asian or latino if you dont know what its like. thats it. you can still write them, and have them be your main character, and allow them to be complex. you can be white and write a black character!!! all you have to do is not write about the black experience because you dont personally know about it. that means that you can still have them be black, like things that are typically associated with black culture (if thats what the character is like), and still have human emotions!! it can be done well, like if you take a gander at @geniusorinsanity who writes an amazing nursey!! and if you REALLY don’t feel comfortable making content like that, you can always reblog it!! support those creators, like @hoenursey and @omgcphee and @duanlarissa and @oluranurse and like a billion others!! follow accounts like @omgpocplease !! dont be afraid to show interest in those characters because even if you get called out, its a learning opportunity man. if someone calls you out then you just learn about what you did wrong like nobody is perfect but if you recognize your mistakes, own up to them, and strive to be better itll be okay!!! like the characters you want to, but dont be deterred from the ones you do because you dont want to make people angry!! its just a process of life my friends, we are all on a learning curve. (make content for non-white characters broski. it will enrich your life.)

Dating Zach Dempsey Would Include
  • always telling him no to something and him pouting like a child
  • him doing it anyway and you getting upset
  • Zach apologizing and trying to be romantic about it
  • emphasis on the word ‘trying’
  • him throwing rocks at your window to get your attention
  • until he ends up throwing a particularly heavy one and breaking your window
  • never being able to stay mad at him because he’s just too cute
  • stealing all his Nike sweaters and hoodies
  • wearing his letterman jacket at school
  • walking in the halls with his arm around your shoulder
  • fully supporting him when he told you he wanted to be a marine biologist
  • going to all his games
  • wearing his Jersey
  • almost losing your voice from cheering him on so much
  • “WOOOOO, GO ZACH. THATS MY BOYFRIEND!”
  • being proud of him
  • him giving you private basketball lessons
  • sweaty hugs
  • the guys taking a liking to you immediately
  • always being over at Bryces house
  • only really going there to make sure Zach doesn’t do anything stupid
  • you’re actually the mother of the group
  • “Come on, babe, just one more beer-”
  • “No, you’ve had enough!”
  • “I only had one!”
  • “And that’s enough!”
  • being the victim of Bryces catcalls once
  • Zach threatening to cut up all his body parts
  • starting with his dick
  • “It’s just a joke, Dempsey-”
  • “Shut the fuck up, Walker.”
  • hanging around Alex because he’s pretty funny
  • being disappointed in Alex when he does something dumb with the boys
  • frowning upon the list and ripping it up when it was passed to you
  • you being too late because several pictures were already taken of it
  • being upset with Zach when you found out about the tapes and Hannah
  • making him go to her grave to properly apologize to her
  • being there with him
  • trying not to be dragged in all the drama going on with the tapes
  • taking pictures of him when he does something cute
  • which is all the time in your opinion
  • having play dates with his little sister
  • being scared of his mom but never telling him that
  • he finds out eventually though
  • “you’re scared of her too?”
  • sweet, fluffy first time
  • you coming up with the most ridiculous pet names for him
  • “Hey, babe, can you hand me my shirt.”
  • “Sure thing, Bunny Farts.”
  • him calling you at midnight just to hear your voice
  • “you’re an idiot but you’re my idiot”
  • hugging him from behind and peppering kisses along his face when he’s spacing out to remind him that he’s not alone

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She loves to tell jokes that she could only understand. She likes to wear a dress and sway around in her heels. Unfortunately, she can’t dance at all, but she’s trying her best to learn. She loves to observe people whenever she’s traveling and make funny stories out of them. It’s her favorite past time so don’t be shocked when she silently giggle out of nowhere.
She loves to cook, but most of the time, it tastes bad. Compliment it through eating them with her. She loves to sing while washing the dishes. Enjoy the moment because you will see her in her most real form.
She loves to listen to stories, stare and smile without any reasons. She loves to play her curly hair and when she randomly push you, don’t get mad at her because she wants to get your attention. Sometimes, she becomes crazy when she saw someone staring at you. She will hold you closer and make them feel you are hers. That’s how she is, accept her.
She loves to wiggle her feet at the bed and tell stories that she experienced throughout her life until she gets tired. She loves to trace spine and put someone’s arms around her because it gives her solace. Your arms will become her home; she will fall in love with the idea of sleep inside of them. Let her. And wait, she snores, and I could tell you, it’s cute.
She has flaws, but it differentiates her from the crowd. It makes her complete. You may not understand her every time but try your best to because she needs you. She’s maybe crazy and weird, but she’s secretly hoping to end up with you.
She’s a unique kind of star, and you could never find someone like her in this world or in another. She may not be perfect, but she’s perfectly fit for you.
She chose you over anyone else.
Love her, be grateful.
—  E.J. Cenita

OC STRUGGLES IN THE RPC

honestly writing an OC in this community is another set of issues.

  • the soul crushing feeling when you see “no OCs” in someones rules
  • constantly having to dumb down your canon
  • adjusting to adapted canons
  • the amount of your own canon and lore you have to sacrifice to do that
  • when you mention wanting to write a canon, people that have never shown any real interest in your OC jump out of the woodwork to encourage you to do it
  • when you do it, and that canon gets more attention than your OC ever did
  • the alternative of that: when your first character was canon and you transition to writing an OC, people suddenly disappear
  • fandom OCs that outgrow their fandoms and muns that feel they have nowhere to put them
  • endlessly worrying if your character is too sue-ish, even after x-amount of years
  • TRIPLE THAT IF YOU’RE PLAYING A FEMALE OC
  • oh my god female OCs need their own post
  • female OCs constantly being underestimated and dismissed; being held to a different set of standards than other OCs
  • honestly i know people that are straight up afraid to write a female OC for these reasons. they’re discouraged before they even start because they know they will never get the same acknowledgement
  • people assuming simple, stupid things about your muse (can we all agree to stop guessing whose muse is taller and just look from now on?)
  • feeling like you have to jump through hoops to keep up with everyone else and keep your character fresh and interesting so people don’t lose interest
  • canon blogs that shit on OCs you realize you were OCs too right? what would the original writer of your canon think?
  • no seriously, it can be so discouraging writing an OC. how many ideas are you killing by snubbing OCs? the future of creative media is in our hands!
  • has someone stolen my canon?
  • is my canon too similar to someone else’s?
  • do they think i stole their canon?
  • and what do you do when somebody does steal your canon? it can be so hard to prove and it’s so easy for it to be dismissed
  • having your OC written off because of the face claim choice– that face is constantly typecast, nobody can take it seriously, they’ve been overplayed and ruined. (we love you, nina dobrev and 1D OCs, you’re doing gods work)

honestly, i’m sure i could keep going. if you ask your local OC muns, they’ll be able to tack a few of their own struggles onto this list. hell, i encourage you to!

  • richard: francis is so intriguing to me, a prince of a boy, an unexplainable miracle
  • richard: everything henry does is worthy of worship. henry winter, actual God, a creature above this earth
  • richard: i am fascinated by charles. i stare at him all the time, literally 24/7
  • richard: i, a hetero,
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*Jungkook* Faster, faster! [18+]
[Listen on headphones, includes moaning!!]

I hope we last. I hope we do.

But if we don’t, this is how I want you to remember me:

I want you to remember me curled up, listening to the sound of your heartbeat and tracing maps across your skin. Remember me laughing at your jokes, even the stupid ones. Remember me in hysterics for absolutely no reason and in tears because one time you made me so sad neither of us thought I’d recover. Remember me brave, that time you held my hand and I thought I was going to die; remember me scared and gentle and delicate and breakable - only for you though, only for you.

Remember me happy, and all the ridiculous ways I tried to get your attention. Remember the way I was too stubborn to talk to you and how absolutely insane it drove the both of us. Remember all the firsts and how they were so delightful we went back for seconds and thirds and fourths. Remember the songs you couldn’t stop listening to and the childish dreams you allowed yourself about the future. If it’s any consolation I allowed myself to have them too.

If it comes to it I don’t want you to remember the ending.

Remember the beginning. Remember the first time you knew.